Cancer man left me... (Page 7)

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Posted by JBG
Why did he break up with you?

He has a very different life style than me. He has tons of friends and goes out all the time and wanted me to go out with him all the time even though he would never pressure me but it was there underneath. I'm was always studying for my MBA plus working and when i had free time i wanted to watch a movie or sleep.

Plus he's got some emotional issues. I think he always felt that he's not good enough for me. Actually also he's very negative and seems to think that all realtioships fail eventually. Does that make sense?

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Posted by Secret
Dear users,

This thread will be very busy in January. Usually that's when Cancers leave people at a high speed. We might have a backlog... so bare with us please if your post is not here 24 hours after.

Thank you.

Dear Secret,

Are you secretly Housecleaning?

Sincerely,

Growing Suspicious 😛

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Dear users,

This thread will be very busy in January. Usually that's when Cancers leave people at a high speed. We might have a backlog... so bare with us please if your post is not here 24 hours after.

Thank you.

Dear Secret,

Are you secretly Housecleaning?

Sincerely,

Growing Suspicious 😛

Dear Pisco,

I regret to inform you that I'm not the user you mentioned. Though your suspicious are impressive and interesting, your suspicious result was highly incorrect and I have decided to move forward with a user whose suspicious qualifications better meet my needs at this time. I thank you for your interest in being a growing suspicious person.

Sincerely,

Secret

You're letting me down, Secret. Like all of the cancer men around this time of the year.

😉

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Posted by Secret
Dear users,

This thread will be very busy in January. Usually that's when Cancers leave people at a high speed. We might have a backlog... so bare with us please if your post is not here 24 hours after.

Thank you.

Dear Secret,

Are you secretly Housecleaning?

Sincerely,

Growing Suspicious 😛

Dear Pisco,

I regret to inform you that I'm not the user you mentioned. Though your suspicious are impressive and interesting, your suspicious result was highly incorrect and I have decided to move forward with a user whose suspicious qualifications better meet my needs at this time. I thank you for your interest in being a growing suspicious person.

Sincerely,

Secret

You're letting me down, Secret. Like all of the cancer men around this time of the year.

😉

But I let you down politely 😢

Cancers don't let people down only at this time of the year, usually it's every month. Cancers are very strange creatures. Be very alert when talking to a Cancer. They cannot be trusted.

Be very careful Pisco...

This is why I avoid Cancer men... can't be trusted with my heart strings. They'll disappear faster than a fish!

Good, sound advice, Secret.

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Posted by ConfusedVirgo
~ HIM ~

Cancer

July 21, 1993

He has bad childhood with his mother.

* Sun: I don't know 😢

* Ascendant: I don't know 😢

* Moon: I don't know 😢

* Mercury: I don't know 😢

* Venus: I don't know 😢

* Mars: I don't know 😢



~ ME ~

Virgo

September 11, 1989

Grew up with a small happy family.

* Sun: I don't know 😢

* Ascendant: I don't know 😢

* Moon: I don't know 😢

* Mercury: I don't know 😢

* Venus: I don't know 😢

* Mars: I don't know 😢



Base on his zodiac, does he have GEMINI in his VENUS?

I'm new to this astrology zodiac thinggy but I really wanna know more.

Because I'm in kind of trouble.

We're together for 7 years.

2010 = LDR he's residing on other country

2011 - 2013 = Together (not living together)

2014 = Living together on an apartment

2015 = LDR he has to work on other country

2016 = Living Together @ home with my parents and sister

He cheated on me few times almost every year, 1x a year lol

but it all ended and he never fail to give me assurance

that lead me to trusting him and continue loving him ofc.

He's the one who's always leaving and breaking up with me

but we always manage to come back together not for a long time

just few days, the longest break up time was no communication for

2weeks @ 2015, he's having a hard time with his mom, job.

I wasn't completely aware that he's in deep pain cos he's not talking

about it and thought he's stong enough that time to manage it but

I scold him unintentionally then boom! He exploded, instantly withdrawn

then send a break up text message with no specific reason but later on

when he gets in touch with me he hold me he's having a depression

and can't understand himself lately, he said he loves me but we can't

be together again cos I'm just going to get hurt and wanna solve his

problem alone but I help him in own little way via communicating

then suddenly he decided to come back home here and then we got

back together unexpectedly or magically? Whatever.



Then we managed to build a small business like we have planned it last 2015.

I'm now 6mos preggo, unexpectedly. He seems happy and excited at first

but then withdrawn and unease, I was so sick and have low sex drive in my

first trimester of pregnancy but I never rejected him every time he needs it,

I'm also enjoying though I have very low libido. Then maybe because of me being

a boring partner for few weeks he went out with friends and then met someone

then soon they have a sexual affair, he goes out 2-3x a week for a month,

then got back on track and take care of me instantly (I don't know what happened),

give me everything I want and need.

Now, this December it's like he's having another sexual issue (urge, desire) or a

continuation I guess? Something that has to do with his changing body he's just 23y/o.

The girl I mentioned above is always available for him every time he wants

to hook up. They have a no string attached sexual affair, and she knows I'm

pregnant. They just drink and have sex then that's it.

Recently, he sneak out one night while I was sleeping, we didn't argue that day or what.

I actually got no clue that he'll do that. When he went home he checked if I'm still

asleep, he showered downstairs and then go back to our room and hug me while

I was pretending that I'm sleeping. He didn't check anything, haven't chat the girl until

now again, he's not feeling well.

From what I observe his having a high sex drive he's not like this before, now he seems to

have itchy nuts every few days, fantasizing different girls with good boobies and booty.

I don't have big boobies, I only have average size (haha!) petite body but preggo so yea..

We still have active sex life but it's just.. I think his body is wanting to fulfill his sexual desire.

His fantasizing something illegal.

Like sister in law, mistress, and prostitutes fantasy.

My question is, what the hell is happening to him? I am doomed?

We're about to have our first baby.. I am so confused cos I'm getting mix signals.

I also wanna know if our zodiac/astrology is really compatible in the long run

despite of it all.

Hope you'll help me.

Posted by br_3993
Hello,

So I don't know if this is the right place to go but I might be able to get some help here. I was in a very loving, intense, and devoted relationship with a cancer man from May-November, but recently we hit a really rough patch.

A little back-story: He is 24, didn't finish his education, and works at a restaurant. I am 19 and in the middle of college. We had been together for ~6 months and spent nearly every day together during the summer. I go to university in a town an hour away, so once school picked up again he would take the bus down to see me and I would drive up to see him and we would spend 3-4 nights per week together. Prior to this happening, our communication was always great and we were both very long-term oriented. And there was no giver or taker in the relationship, it felt pretty even.

This situation is very complicated and has played out over the course of a month or so, so I will try my best to condense it but there are many bits and pieces to it.

While he was over at my place at the beginning of November, we had smoked weed and so I made myself paranoid and I looked through his phone hoping that I would find nothing and it would give me peace of mind. I found a conversation on there where he had mentioned to someone that he had always wanted to sleep with them. The next day he took the bus home (he lives an hour away), and I messaged him about it after I had dropped him off. He denied sending the messages and said he didn't know how they got there.

The day after that he was unresponsive all day and finally only responded when I called him saying I was in town that night. He agreed to meet and talk, and that night he basically cried to me for two hours saying how much he loved me and wanted to build a life with me, and reiterated that he did not send the messages. I took him to work the next morning and that was when he began acting very, very distant. He would be active on other social media and not replying to my texts for hours.

He remained like this until I got into town the following Friday, and when we got together he expressed that he knew I was the one he wanted to be with, but that he wanted to take a year and focus on himself and not date around at all. I was resistant to this and wrote out a long message that he was very receptive to basically saying that we needed to learn how to grow together, and that this was our first chance to face a challenge as a couple, etc. - he didn't respond to my points in the message but after I read it to him he told me he loved me and we spent the night and next day together like normal. However, once I left he resumed the distant behavior. This was the week of Thanksgiving, and he stayed like that the whole week. Throughout the week he had mentioned that he needed space, so I tried my best to remain distant. But he was also sending mixed messages - for example, I told him I was going to go home early but then he asked me to stay. Before I went home, he had expressed that he needed more space to figure things out and that he just kept thinking about all he needed to get done for himself.

I gave him space as best I could but when I needed something, he was not touching base or being communicative with me at all, even when I expressed that I didn't know where he was at and that I was hurting and that all I needed was a conversation so that I knew where he was at. He continued being distant and not replying to any heart-felt messages of mine, but ignoring them and then sending a message 8+ hours or 1-2 days later like "Just wanted to say good night and I love you". So I decided to step back, put the ball entirely in his court, and see what happened. I didn't hear from him for about a week, and then he changed his relationship status on Facebook. I called him that night to ask what was going on, but again - no response. He deleted pictures of ours on social media, changed his relationship status, and said absolutely nothing to me. There was no fight, no communication, or any semblance of a break up. It's like he just dropped off the face of the earth. I have texted him and left him voicemails asking for some kind of clarification or explanation and have received nothing.

A little more background on him - He has had a hard life and has a history of running from relationships when they get hard. Substances have a big presence in his life. Him & his coworkers party a lot (go out and drink most nights). He smokes weed nearly every day, and has even told me that sometimes he feels the need to smoke in order to be himself. He did acid on Thanksgiving with his coworkers.

I guess I'm just confused how a relationship that was so loving, caring, respectful and devoted one moment could turn into a situation where he's basically emotionally neglecting me and being very cold and distant, then decides on his end to end the relationship without saying a word to me. When just a couple weeks before he was saying how he wanted to build a life, how he knew I was the one he wanted to be with, etc.

Is anyone able to shed some light on the situation here? An outside perspective would be very appreciated.

Posted by Porcerpe
I've recently made a male cancer friend who's such a breath of fresh air, he's super fun to be around and we'd always go on long hang outs and we ended up being really fond of one another on a seemingly platonic level. I'm aware that cancerians sometimes stay away from situations where they might end up rejected or risk feeling vulnerable and he even warned me he didn't want me to get "attached", but we both ended up doing just that. I have a partner whom I'm very happy with and he's never once felt jealous of my new friendship but as of a few days ago my cancer friend literally bailed on me and told me he didn't want to be around anymore because being friends with me would just cause drama he didn't want. I couldn't let go so quickly so I have been messaging him here and there and I know I might seem a tad clingy but i can't just let go of a friendship like that. My best friend of 8 years is a cancer and she's such a bundle of warmth, I thought he'd be the same. He seemed so kind. Tonight he implied his replies to me were pity replies so I told him I wouldn't bother anymore but I'm feeling really confused as to what to do and how to feel. I don't want to speak to him at all and my pride has completely set in. He told me he would hate not speaking to me but told me it was the best thing for him. I dont want to assume he has some romantic interest for me but maybe he does. Will he come around? Why is he feeling this way at all? He's given me absolutely nothing to work with and it makes me feel so alienated, the gut feelings I get from him are all telling me he wants to be around but he tells me he just doesn't care. It hurts me so much. Please help 😢(

Posted by Sagaussi
Hi,I've been looking at this forum now for weeks and finally posting hoping for some solid advice.

I'm a Sagittarian girl and met a Cancer guy while travelling mid last year. We exchanged contact details and texted for about two months before I thought I'd try going back to his city and seeing if anything comes of it (up to that point nothing other than friendship had happened between us but I was very attracted to him and figured since he wrote to me almost every day he might be feeling the same way).

I had 5 weeks with him before I had to leave to go back to my country. We got together on the third day and had the most beautiful weeks together and I was full of hope for the future. I had to leave for two months to visit home but I booked flights to come right back to him. Our problems began only two days after I left. I was searching to understand him and us better and knew he was a cancer so I looked up his star sign and then ended up checking our compatibility. ... All I saw was disaster and warning bells. I ignored it though as I believe with enough work and understanding everything is possible. But the more time passed the more we followed nearly textbook cancer/sag combo. Everything I saw written about this combination was happening. I tried so hard to resist and NOT to behave like a Sag but it was so hard because he never saw any of the efforts I made and constantly accused me of being cold and heartless, of putting him last, of not caring about him. I kept thinking it was just the distance making it worse and if I could hold on until I saw him again it would all be fine. But we kept fighting and finally one day after I'd stupidly let loose another of my sag arrows he decided we would take a break for however long it would take until I realise that I needed him by my side. The thing is, I'm a Sag! I don't need anyone, I resent that kind of thinking, I know whatever happens that I'll be OK and can make it on my own, there's always a rainbow somewhere. ... well I at least had the sense not to say that but the break turned into weeks during which time he became increasingly nasty. At first I kept trying to understand his thinking and excused his behaviour by thinking he is just acting as a typical hurt crab,hiding in his shell and snapping at me. But when he kept getting uncontrollably angry on our calls, would threaten me that he'd leave forever and block me and I'd never hear from him again, would insult me many times and call me names, and would BLAME me for his behaviour even when he deliberately tried to hurt me by saying he had a new gf and after then saying no that wasn't true he by his own admission told me he'd said that in order to "f#** with you"...then when I told him the beautiful gentleman I'd fallen in love with when i met him would never have been so cruel, he told me "you pushed me,you made me like this", blaming me entirely for his behaviour. Eventually I fell out of love with him.not the boy i had met,because in my memories he was still the gorgeous sensitive caring gentleman, but it was like two different people and this person who kept phoning me and insulting me and shouting at me and being nasty to me was someone totally different who I could not love. For a long time I kept thinking just hold on and once you see him in person it will all be OK,but it just started to go to far. Then on my last week at home I saw an old lover of mine who I was still very much attracted to and the more the cancer became nasty the more drawn i felt to my old lover. We slept together twice. I do not consider it cheating as the crab and I were no longer together since he'd decided we were on a break a month prior and had said we could both do what we wanted. I had resisted for so long as I had seen my old lover a few times but was still hoping to resolve things with the crab but finally it had become too much and i was too hurt and broken from numerous nights of crying myself to sleep because of his behaviour toward me. I wanted to feel respected again and while I knew it would only ever be a causal thing with my old lover as he has told me before he does not want a gf, he always treated me well when we were together and he would never hurt me,we will always be good friends despite him not wanting to commit. Well somehow the crab guessed at what happened (I've read about their incredible intuition) and the day before my flight out from my country he phoned me and ironically started out by being very sweet and exactly like the old times. I instantly felt some hope that maybe after all we could work things out,then he told me of his fears that I'd done something and he asked me straight out. I'm a very typical sag- i will not lie.so i told him yes. He went crazy and abused me for 4 hours calling me a sl*t and demanding i tell him exactly what happened leaving out no details. I felt so awful that I'd hurt him as i truly didn't want to hurt him so i just meekly listened and answered all his questions. I felt sick. It didn't even matter that i hadn't actually cheated as we were on our break- he says that he'd decided to try again with me even though he had not clearly communicated this to me. Either way i think he still would have reacted the same. His anger terrified me and he even told me not to dare show up in his city as planned 5 days later and that if he saw me there he'd kill me.that sent me cold. For ages i have been trying to ignore the thoughts that kept flashing through my head at each bout of anger from him that if i was actually in his presence at those moments he might hit me. When he said that it reinforced my fears and i could no longer ignore them. Worse was later that day when i told close friends what had happened, leaving out that part, two had said to me separately that they feared for my safety. The strangest thing (which I've since read and appears to also be typically crab) is that after 4 hours of shouting and abusing me he said he wants to forget it all and try again with me because he loves me and he doesn't want to lose me. It struck me as so bipolar i didn't know how to react. I told him that I'm actually scared for my safety with him because of what he said and how he gets so angry and he apologised and said he'd never do anything to hurt me. His voice had totally changed.he was the same soft gentle sensitive boy I'd first seen. Since then he's been so gentle and keeps assuring me he wants to forget everything and try.but i don't think i should. I've been reading so much since then. I've read that cancers can be prone to crimes of passion which i can certainly imagine him to be capable of. I have also noticed him being manipulative. He's started sending me my own messages I'd written him back when i was trying to tell him that yes we are different but we could compliment each other. Last night i arrived in his city but i haven't seen him yet and today i might be too tired due to jetlag. But he has sent me photos of letters i sent him and he wrote "if these words are true,if they are not lies, then come to see me tonight". I think that is manipulative right? Today i actually looked up 'am i in an abusive relationship' and so much of what is said about emotional abusive rings true with me... and my logic thinks that the very fact i have to ask myself that question is surely an indicator? The thing is i truly do not want to hurt him. I saw something so beautiful in him, so sensitive and helpless and i don't want to cause him any pain. But i don't think our relationship is healthy and i don't think we are right for each other. I asked him if he ever got so angry with any of his past gf's and he said never. So i even said to him that maybe we are just not meant for each other, we bring out the worst in each other. A couple should be about building each other up not tearing each other down. I truly think that i never did anything deliberately to hurt him. Yes i hurt him many times with my stupid sag bluntness and also my independence as i just could not give him the amount of constant attention he wanted,but never deliberately. And as for sleeping with my ex well we were on a break at that point but also i really only did it because I'd already decided i had no future with the crab and i just didn't want to break it off over the phone as i feel he deserved the respect of me going in person to do that. I didn't ever think he would guess what I'd done and i feel so awful for hurting him. On the other hand he has deliberately hurt me numerous times and even by his own admission however he always blames me for everything saying that i pushed him to do it (emotional abuse? ). Also he decided that we needed to be 50/50 so he told me that he was going to sleep with a friend of his to get even with me.... To me that thinking is just so wrong! Besides now i feel awful that he's potentially hurt that poor girl as she was hoping to date him and i just hope that he really explained clearly to her that it was just sex.

I'm really hoping for advice here from people who know more about astrology than me. I think i really have to end things with him but i still have that small feeling inside that tempts me to try again and maybe things will be OK, but then. ...is that just classic sign of an abusive relationship? Is he being abusive or is this just typical of cancer? I'm so confused and feel miserable and sad and sick constantly and nervous to talk to him... which is not how a sag should normally feel. I want to be my positive happy optimistic self again. The worst part is that i am here in his city for 9 days then i leave to go on a holiday and he has a flight booked to meet me there after one week and stay 3.5 weeks with me. If we break up now i don't knew what he'll do. I don't want him to waste his money and i don't want him to go there being sad and miserable. I jus

Posted by coumari
I once posted here asking if cancer comes back after he deleted me from facebook and MSN. He had all the signs of love for me.but bcs he was younger than i am,8 yrs backwards,i nvr rejected him ..
First 2 months when he came back to facebook,he was almost stucking me all time.Logging 3 times to fb.
any pic i posted,he liked it and made cumments with adding heats and :*(kisses)
There was a day i didnt logged,he sent me inbox asking why and if am ok !
Later,he didnt log for 4 days.when i asked him,he said he was busy.

Recently,he is logging only once at night for an hr. Thou he knows i miss him lots ..And i loaded a new pic for myself in fb,he didnt even liked it or told me is nice.whn i asked him,for the first time u didnt noticed i uploaded a new pic.he replied i saw it is beautiful but i forgot to tell u :/

Why is he doing so ? whts up ?what should i do ? Never wait him all day for him to log ? and never inbox him why he didnt log ??

Posted by ultragsm
Cancer bf broke up with me friday night...

The first 8 months were great but we started fighting, i started all the fights because i'm just a jealous scorp. This time, he got really upset as he's been very stressed out with job searching thing. We met at bar and i tried to explain myself..he kept shaking his head, the thing i remember most clear he said was, "sorry i can't trust you anymore".

I know i've lost his trust because i kept on fighting for similar things, but this time, i honestly i want to change, for this relationship, and i'm someone i can change when i realise it's the right thing to do.

I really need this chance to prove how much i love him and want this to work, i dare not to talk to him because im scared he will brush me off. i love him and he feels like one of the most amazing thing ever happened to me ( i stopped dating for two yrs after broke up with ex bf of 6 yrs).

Any advice how to gain trust back from cancer man? I feel like cancer put trust in you from the start of the relationship, and once it's gone, it's hard to get back.

Thank you.

L

Posted by Skooterz
I am a Libra (Oct 2nd) and my Cancer Ex (July 7th), broke up with me yesterday, in a way that was...really...dramatic I guess I would say to describe it. Here's the story:

When we met it was a instant connection. I never felt such a strong connection, attraction (in his own way), understanding between another person like when I met him/started talking to him. He was really insecure though. His ex had cheated on him.I was so open about everything, b/c he had no reason to worry. I was his. Yet, if I left out a single detail, all of a sudden he'd accuse me of lieing or truly still trying to talk to a ex or like someone bcause they liked me. I was sooooo open about my texts, my fb messages, all of that. Cuz I wasn't doing anything. I wanted him, I wanted to prove to him. Yet, it was never good enough, he STILL made false accusation and belived em. It was really draining having to answer to all of that and prove my innocence DAILY. His mood would change constantly. He'd test me a lot. Try to catch me in a lie or something.

Then one night, we had been drinking and we got into a argument. He was mad and...he just tried attacking my character in relationships. It hurt. So I said stuff too then I said we were done, not serious. He said he takes that stuff serious, then said I should msg my ex-ex and tell him take me back because who ever could handle me for 4 yrs should get a medal. Said a lot more too. I was so hurt. Crying even. So I msged my ex-ex. Said I always think about him and wonder why we broke up? Though I didnt mean it. I sobered up a little and tried deleting it cuz I felt bad and he saw and we literally wrestled over my phone. He finally took it and read msgs b/w me and another guy, (because he wanted me to prove we never talked or did anything) so I did. He got mad that I told the guy some stuff about his insecurities. Then he read the msg to my ex-ex. He grabbed my purse and everything and kicked me out at 4 am. Literally THREW my stuff and pushed me out. Obviously I was wrong for that, but only did it because he hurt me with what he said and I was tired of being accused. How can I prove it wasn't true...and can I gain his trust back? He knows I didnt mean it (I think). How can I get him back? He obviously cares cuz he let me back in and let me lay with him and sober up. But in the morning he kicked me out in a cold way. What do I do I can't be without him. I love him so much. He wont answer my calls or txts. What do I do?

Posted by liamee
Hi i am an aries and in love with a cancer man(ex)we had a close relationship for 7 months and he was totally in love with me(hope he still does). He wanted me to meet his parents by this month and was planning to get married. He is 5 years older than me,i thought he was taking it too fast which i was honest about it. I am girl with bad experience in past relationship (very very bad)so this time i was careful with this man because the pain i went through in each relation was exhausting.. however i found him the best in all and everything...very sweet and caring like no other man. for the first time i felt like being in a real relationship.Was ready to compromise that come to my way,however we had this argument one night,he was soooo!angry like never before. I don't know the reason still which kills me,feeling guilty day and night. The reason i somehow assume that was regarding his family which i would never do!!(swear to god!!!)and yes even he knows that. Also he has the habit of using some logic and all which i still don't get. He interrupts me whenever i speak and never let me explain or talk. I knew he was going through some problems,yes also i wont deny it i made many mistakes too but i didn't know how to handle it, his emotions in proper way.He even blamed me for his failure ( to which i don't agree >😢 ) He said so many harsh things to me which still rings in my ear and makes me unhappy...he said about my personality and ambition in a negative way which totally made me feel like a selfish person who is worthless and lives in alice in wonderland.It has dampen my confidence and spirit,what i see now in front of me is blank!! The truth is i really felt we were something together,i am trying to move on,its been like a month we are not in contact.This is our first bad fight, trust me i read all the posts in yahoo and dxp to some how comfort myself and to reach the answers. i also got some great advises from few people that i posted in somebody's thread. I am sorry i am new here and just wanted to share it.All i wanted from him was to spend some time outside his office not inside 😢.I also like other couples, wanted to hang out,late night dinner and movie which we did only at the begining.i wanted some excitement. He thought i was being selfish and needy. If we ever talk in future i just wanted to say to him every couple fight! we are not the only one here. p.s he doesn't even know what all i have compromised for him all this while.

Posted by SupremeHrH
My Cancer ex, I guess he is an ex now, had a huge fight last Saturday. It was something petty. But he called me a really offensive term. I got so offended and I blew up. I was so mad. He tried to apologize but it was not sincere so I was not accepting. I was so frustrated. We have been fighting more than usual the last few months and I said that it's probably ok if we separated. He initially said no. But eventually he got mad and said he agrees with my decision.

The following day he sent me a link to a song via sms. I did not reply. He tried calling me. On the fourth call I answered. He said oh I forgot you left me. Then he reiterated that He agreed with my decision. He told me that no one would marry me, he's sorry for my future husband etc because I have an anger issue. I told him that my anger was a reaction to what he said. And he went off again on what an awful person I was. Then he had to go and he said he'll call me later.

I went home to my mom because I was so hurt. Then later in the day he sent me a picture of his basketball team. I did not reply. Then he tried calling me. I was not able to answer because I fell asleep and my phone was silent.

When I woke up, he unfriended me on fb. I tried calling him and he cancels my calls. He blocked me temporarily. He's still in my insta and snapchat though. Social media is a big deal for us because we are long distance.

I left him alone. But I was missing him so bad i sent him a text on the third day saying hey, i miss you. His reply was you left me and now you miss me—? With a bunch of sarcastic emoticons. I explained to hime that I said what I said because I was very emotional. And that i was sorry for how I handled things. His reply was wow. I told him that he has the capacity to make me very happy and sad because I value the things he say. And when he says something hurtful to me, it hurts a lot and I lash out. He never replied.

After 12 hours I sent him a voicemail telling him that I miss him and I want to fix things. And that I'm sorry for my part of the hurt. And that I hope he feels the same.



He hasn't replied. This is the fourth day that he refused to call me. And I don't want to push anymore because I already feel that I've been pushy.

Anyway. I need to get that off my chest. Any insight will be appreciated.

Posted by HouseCleaning

Posted by Tubabye89
He did break up with me because he said he wasn't happy. I no longer have hope because he did unfriend me and block me. I can't stand him so freaking petty. Funny thing is that he has another girl already lol
The relationship was all a joke. I hate cancer guys.

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Posted by Tubabye89
He did break up with me because he said he wasn't happy. I no longer have hope because he did unfriend me and block me. I can't stand him so freaking petty. Funny thing is that he has another girl already lol
The relationship was all a joke. I hate cancer guys.

I am a cancer woman and this just happens to me by a scorpio... feeling exactly like you are feeling. Hang in there...

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Posted by tvljvh
IM AN ARIES WOMAN!! So initially, my cancer man broke up with me. He insisted that I was jealous and crazy. He said we argued too much. Usually about petty things, and that I also hurt him repeatedly, with things that I have said unknowingly. He wanted space to figure stuff out, but I lashed out and sent many heartfelt messages begging for him back. He said he wanted to be friends, and that he stilled loved me and that he will always love me. He also stated that he would not be looking for another female anytime soon and that he is not looking for a relationship. Us being "friends" Was no different that our relationship, he treated me the same. We both attended a party a couple days later and before the party he texted me "Do you. Don't let me get in your way. We are friends." So I did. He saw me with another guy and did not say anything, and acted totally normal. His friend had called him and told him that he should get back with me. MY cancer man agreed, but seemed to have changed his mind. He texted me again, told me he only wanted to be friends. He said that I was making up excuses and that he did not care about what I want. He later then brought up the party and said "You have other guys. I don't care. don't worry about me." Since then we talk everyday, and he usually tries to keep the conversation going for the most part. He throws little jabs at me, and I try to control my temper and not be rude back. Is this a test? He also told his friend that "We are just not close right now." Instead of telling him we broke up. Also, told one of my friends that I was "Special and different from other girls. We'll most likely get back together." Should I cut off all contact with him and move on, or do you think he will come back? THANKS SO MUCH FOR READING THIS PLEASE HELP!!!

Posted by Diondra1908
Hello. So I'm a cancer female dating a cancer male. He's 27 and I'm 22. We met in June and started dating in July. He was the perfect gentleman taking me on dates and even out of town. He never disrespected me. He took his time to get to know me. We didn't even kiss until about a month of talking. In July while we were out of town he basically just told me we were in a relationship now he didn't ask but I thought it was cute. Everything was great. We got along just fine with only a few small arguments for the first four months. We even seriously talked about marriage. Now let me give a little back ground information on him. He got married at the age of 19 and stayed married for 4 years. He had one serious relationship after that were he proposed to his ex but soon after called it off. Then there's me. He told me he loves me first and says I can read him so well. We often talk about marriage and starting a family. He's currently working in London for a few short months. He flew me to London to visit him for Thanksgiving. It was nothing short of perfect and this is where I feel I fell in love with him. He came back home for Christmas and things were a little shakey. He was extremely stressed not knowing whether he was going back to London for his job or a more hostile country. He broke up with me twice for no longer than a day and we charged it to stress. We talked about it and I told him this was unacceptable. Things went right back to normal and we enjoyed his last few days in the states. Once he got back to London he was extremely busy and communication wasn't the same but he still text and called me telling me how much he missed and loved me and hated we hadn't talked as much due to his phone messing up. After a few days of him being in London communication was much less. He told me he had been really sick and irritated bcuz things weren't going his way but still managed to tell me he loved me and that he would call that evening but never got around to calling. By the second week of him being in London he's only texting me once in the morning but never calling. So we really haven't talked much. He told me a lot had happened since he's been there and we needed to talk about our future. I told him we just needed to work on our communication and not to be so quick to jump off the ship. He started to become even more distant. I questioned his actions and he apologized and told me he loves me. This was the last I heard for him. Yesterday was our 6 month anniversary and he didn't contact me at all. He didn't even open the message I sent him. I noticed he changed his relationship status to single on facebook. His mom called and told me he asked her to come pick up his car and I'm just confused. She was confused also saying he didn't state why. Again today he hasn't opened my messaged called or any kind of contact. I guess we are broken up but He didn't even tell me. I don't know what to do. I know he's under a lot of stress. He comes back home in a month. What should I do? Do I just let him be and wait it out? Will he come back to me?

Posted by nikkistar
Bumping this shit

Some of you assholes need a reminder.

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Posted by KitsuneRae
We had a falling out which resulted in him breaking up with me over because he thought I didnt trust him. First, we didnt see each other for a month, both our pasts collided, hes dealing with alot of stress at work to, and after he broke up with me I didnt talk to him for 4 or 5 days then when I went to message him asking if I could talk to him. He blocked me on facebook and a few of my friends. So in return I blocked his facebook, blocked his number and deleted him his number. What does this mean—? Is this even worth my time because its driving me crazy?? Why is he overreacting to this?

Posted by ConfusedinLove
Cancer man broke up with me. If he does have feelings in his

Heart how long will it be before he comes back? He has asked for space to assess our relationship. I really miss him.

Posted by vesper
It's not out of jealousy it's about the kind of anxious uncertain things i had this cancer guy.

He has sent me a message to hear how i'm doing etc. i told him 'i'm ok and cannot sleep' on that evening he asked 'why'. I hesitate because it feels wronged to just type an essays to let him know what was going on when it's better to talked about it in person so he insisted to just tell him. Then 1-2 days he check up on me again but that day i still feel the same so i asked how his doing etc his not at work he mentioned 'his not well and at home' so i didn't say much as i am very curious when normally he doesn't txt around 3am wondering how I'm doing and then telling me later on that day his not feeling well. i replied: I see....take care etc.

That day i just couldn't hold it that long. I gave him a hints 'That i felt anxious whenever i spend time with him' that 'something was off about him my consciousness is telling me to stop seeing him''.

He kindly replied to me to talk about it next time we meet again which is fine with me but i replied to him ''i don't know and just get well soon'' he thanks me then the next evening he says 'goodnight' i replied to him to sleep well but he never mentioned about his well being etc. meeting up and talked things through NOTHING?



but the main question here is why do I feel anxious/unsure/uncertain when i'm with him?

I just had this bad feeling that his well/already well, he might be just playing; he had another woman etc but why didn't he took the issues I had given it to him and sort it out together.

Posted by nikkistar
Bumping this for fun

Posted by TemporaryKodak
"cancer man left me but we were never really together to begin with"

here's our charts, aspects, hopes and dreams, promises and arguments.

Andddd go."

"Why is everyone so rude to me—? Can't they see i'm in pain from not getting what I want when I want it?"

"dxpnet fucking blows"

"Hey guys. I met a virgo and he's super sweet...."

"I won't do the goofy shit I always do in my past 27 relationships because our charts.... look mang they align"

Posted by taupixie
We had sex more than a year ago.

He ignored me & went overseas.

I initiated conversation with him again & we agreed on having sex again.

He said the last time he had sex was with me.

Did I somehow gain an exclusive fuck buddy unknowingly?

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Posted by taupixie
We had sex more than a year ago.

He ignored me & went overseas.

I initiated conversation with him again & we agreed on having sex again.

He said the last time he had sex was with me.

Did I somehow gain an exclusive fuck buddy unknowingly?

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by taupixie
We had sex more than a year ago.

He ignored me & went overseas.

I initiated conversation with him again & we agreed on having sex again.

He said the last time he had sex was with me.

Did I somehow gain an exclusive fuck buddy unknowingly?

I'm proud to have made it here... TWICE! With the same guy! Do you count this as 1 or 2?

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

Posted by taupixie
We had sex more than a year ago.

He ignored me & went overseas.

I initiated conversation with him again & we agreed on having sex again.

He said the last time he had sex was with me.

Did I somehow gain an exclusive fuck buddy unknowingly?

I'm proud to have made it here... TWICE! With the same guy! Do you count this as 1 or 2?

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
2. Ate going to go for 3?

Posted by nikkistar
This is not something to be proud about....

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
2. Ate going to go for 3?

You may have to wait another year for me to get to 3. Will keep you posted I hope!

Posted by nikkistar
This is not something to be proud about....

Why so serious?

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Posted by taupixie
We had sex more than a year ago.

He ignored me & went overseas.

I initiated conversation with him again & we agreed on having sex again.

He said the last time he had sex was with me.

Did I somehow gain an exclusive fuck buddy unknowingly?

Posted by taupixie
Buddy cancelled our rendezvous... and he's leaving overseas soon.

I feel like he's always somehow afraid of me... hmmm 😢

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