Cancer man left me... (Page 8)

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Ok, this deserves an award, not only to the one doing the investigative work, but the pattern identified. Just.....wow..

Posted by nikkistar

We had sex more than a year ago.

He ignored me

I initiated conversation with him again & we agreed on having sex again.

I found out he has liked some pages ... Last year... However, I always appreciate the hard slaps from everyone.

I don't feel that he has disrespected me except that he refused to keep in touch or show any indication of romantic interest ... he is still very much a respectful gentleman. He actually allows me the decision whether I'm sure to sleep with him.

Now let's go to a year ago...

*This came after almost 2 weeks of absolutely no contact, my last message wishing him the best as he goes back to where he needs to further studies. Almost 1 month after I wished him a happy birthday. He hasn't replied to any of these messages anymore.*

I feel bad if I hadn't been able to leave him alone too. I'm resolving to let go, move on & not contact him anymore...same circle during college 10 years ago but drifted apart & lost touch but rekindled about 2 years ago when I initiated contact with him again.

I have added his mobile phone number (that I got from his Facebook profile) into my address book that I could see his WhatsApp profile photo. When we got to talking over Facebook Messenger, we exchanged our mobile numbers formally

I have obsessively visited his Facebook page daily anyway & there are still some information I could view. 1 of it is his friend list.

Nothing new. He had not replied my messages since the last messages on the day after we met.

Even after a few sporadic long confrontational messages from me & my promise to move on from him since there isn't any interest shown from his part.

As if avoiding me on WhatsAp...I also very often caught him going offline as soon as I go online

Since our last meeting which was the first meeting after 10 years, except for some small talk on that same day after our meeting, Cancer man has not replied to any of my messages since then.

You are delusional. You have stalked this dude. And I even doubt you actually slept with him. Because from your past posts, you don't ever talk about it. He ghosted you the day after you met.

For the last year, you have been doing stupid shit over and over, and you can't even see that your actions are completely asinine at this point.

Something is wrong with you.

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Posted by taupixie
LOL. Where do I claim the award?

Posted by taupixie
I'll find you to claim my award... wait for me ?

Posted by taupixie
Okay, I have a question...

He told me he's flying away this weekend. I asked him if he needs transport to the airport (me driving him), he answered that he'll take the train. So I asked again if he's sure & I could sensed the hesitation on his end, so I just continued & said okay you take care... & he replied...

I really don't mind to send him & I actually really wish to. What does his hesitation mean? Should I just show up at his door hoping to catch him there & force him into my car? LOL

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I'll find you to claim my award... wait for me ?

Posted by Unlucky-in-love
Can I please get some advice from you lovely people? I'm struggling to decide what to do with my situation. Many thanks.

Four months ago I met this 47 yr old guy on a 4-day bushwalk. He was quiet but did chat a bit. I didn't pay much notice and thought he's just another new person I met on a bush trip.

Once month after the trip, out of the blue, he friended me on Facebook and asked if I wanted to do something on the weekend. I suggested going indoor climbing, so we did. He lives only 10 mins from where I live, so it's very convenient for us to get together. Anyway, I still thought I was only going rock-climbing with a friend. He took me on a walk at a nearby river after climbing and we watched the sunset. Then all of a sudden he kissed me on my lips. That was totally unexpected! And he progressed to put his hand down my pants. I was shocked but couldn't resist. But nothing more happened as we were in the public (in a park by the river).

From then on, we've been seeing each other once or twice a week. We spent most of the time at each other's place. Just over a month later I suspected I fell pregnant and told him. He was very excited and insisted that we should keep the baby. I was feeling miserable as I never wanted to have children, let alone having one with a man I hardly know. Anyway, a few days later, he came and told me he is actually married! But his wife has been coming and going in his life because she likes to live with her family by the beach, whereas he lives two hours away in the mountains. No wonder I never suspected he was married, there was not a single sign of a female occupant in his home (She's been away again for 4 months) He told me he is sick and tired of the situation with his wife and feeling lonely. She would call him every night but refused to move back to live with him permanently. I asked if he still loves her, and he said that he still cares for her and they had a lot of history together (they've been married for 11 years).

I indicated that I had crossed the line unknowingly (I've never let myself hook up with a married man), and suggested that he and his wife have a good talk, and we'll just remain friends until he and his wife have sort things out. Few days later at my birthday party, he told me that he had "ended things" with his wife and told her not to come back. I said I don't want people calling me "husband stealer" and I certainly don't want to be someone's mistress and never be acknowledged. He then sort of unpleasantly said 'what do you want me to do? divorce her?'. But then, he pulled me back with a big kiss and I fell for him again.

The problem with this cancerian guy is not just that he's married, but also his uncommunicative nature. The past 2.5 months, our interaction are only bushwalks and sex. There is hardly any communication when we are apart. I would text him maybe a few time a week, with words like sweetheart and honey. He would only reply short text a day or two later, flicker between calling my first name and darling. He likes to drop by at my place one night during the week, chat a little bit then have sex, and then quickly disappear, without a word or a text for a few days until he wants to "get together" again. I sure do feel being exploited. But he also does sweet things to please me. When I said I don't feel right about what's happening between us, he revealed that he had packed his wife's stuff and asked her to collect them two weeks ago. (He said she was very sad and wanted to come back, but he doesn't want her back) I feel totally miserable by his inconsistent behavior towards me. And certainly don't think I should have a child with this man at the moment. I still haven't confirmed him my pregnancy, so he's still guessing. But I did promise him (before I knew about his marital status) I would tell him before "doing anything to this baby". I would hate to secretly terminate the pregnancy and lie about it, in case one day if things do work out between us it will come back to bite me.

But at the moment I have absolutely no idea what he is thinking. Is he just using me for temporary affection and sex when he feels lonely? Is he recovering from his trouble marriage and doesn't want another relationship so soon? Is he not sure about things with me (I've been showing him affection, care and support, but not overdoing it. No, I haven't said the "L" word yet). Or is he sussing/testing me out to see if I'm committed? The thing is, a couple of times I tried to break it off with him, he always pull me back with those sad sad eyes. What shall I do?

P.S. I'm also a Cancerian myself (double in Sun and Moon!)

Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Posted by Neo825
I've read pretty much everywhere that cancer guys tend to do this 'testing' and 'manipulating' thing once they start dating you but I am having a pretty hard time with this guy. He is cancer sun Scorpio moon. We met six months ago online and hit it off immediately and for the first part it was amazing he would message me from 5am when he woke up to night time every day. Then he started pretending to see another girl (and I know with 100% certainty it was false) eventually he told me he was 'seeing her' but then came back to me once I distanced myself and he came back without a word about what Happened. But now he's done it again! He's been using a new friendship with this girl to pretend he is seeing her for six months! I spoke to him recently and he told me out of the blue that he's in a relationship (I know he's not) he has flaunted her in front of me in his snapchats and tags her in everything on Facebook but the ridiculous thing is that he is not and never was seeing her. They're not even true friends she is being used by him. When he told me he was in a relationship I just didn't reply and he has kept me on all social media and he has stopped with the pretending with her but we still havent spoken (it's been a few weeks). This is the most manipulate situation I have every been in. I k ow he has his issues but I've proved to him he can trust me and that I care I just don't understand why he keeps pretending. He knows I'm not stupid either I don't know why he thinks I would ever believe the lies. I do know he is insecure I learnt very early on he was worried about attention I may get from other guys. I really care for him but I just don't know what more I can do. Can any cancer men give me any insight?

Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

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Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

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Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

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Posted by nikkistar

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Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

No, nor have I been intimate or been in a relationship with one. However, the games that they play are real. And the way they think they own someone is off the hook. They are supposedly loyal, but while in a relationship with someone will try to sabotage any relationship the single woman they are interested in tries to have. Been through it twice. Cancer men? Run, run run! As fast as your feet can take you!

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Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

No, nor have I been intimate or been in a relationship with one. However, the games that they play are real. And the way they think they own someone is off the hook. They are supposedly loyal, but while in a relationship with someone will try to sabotage any relationship the single woman they are interested in tries to have. Been through it twice. Cancer men? Run, run run! As fast as your feet can take you!

Uh huh, sure.

@Canceronthecusp - You're take?

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Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

No, nor have I been intimate or been in a relationship with one. However, the games that they play are real. And the way they think they own someone is off the hook. They are supposedly loyal, but while in a relationship with someone will try to sabotage any relationship the single woman they are interested in tries to have. Been through it twice. Cancer men? Run, run run! As fast as your feet can take you!

Uh huh, sure.

@Canceronthecusp - You're take?

I refuse to play games with anyone. I drop the ball and walk away. It's as simple as that. Too many people want an ego boost. Why are you so interested anyway?

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Posted by nikkistar

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Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

No, nor have I been intimate or been in a relationship with one. However, the games that they play are real. And the way they think they own someone is off the hook. They are supposedly loyal, but while in a relationship with someone will try to sabotage any relationship the single woman they are interested in tries to have. Been through it twice. Cancer men? Run, run run! As fast as your feet can take you!

Uh huh, sure.

@Canceronthecusp - You're take?

I refuse to play games with anyone. I drop the ball and walk away. It's as simple as that. Too many people want an ego boost. Why are you so interested anyway?

You doth protest too much.

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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by outofdarkness

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

Got burned by 3 (mother/ father/ old bro gf)

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Posted by nikkistar

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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

No, nor have I been intimate or been in a relationship with one. However, the games that they play are real. And the way they think they own someone is off the hook. They are supposedly loyal, but while in a relationship with someone will try to sabotage any relationship the single woman they are interested in tries to have. Been through it twice. Cancer men? Run, run run! As fast as your feet can take you!

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Posted by nikkistar

Posted by outofdarkness

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

No, nor have I been intimate or been in a relationship with one. However, the games that they play are real. And the way they think they own someone is off the hook. They are supposedly loyal, but while in a relationship with someone will try to sabotage any relationship the single woman they are interested in tries to have. Been through it twice. Cancer men? Run, run run! As fast as your feet can take you!

Where do you come up with this if you can't speak from your own personal experience?

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Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

No, nor have I been intimate or been in a relationship with one. However, the games that they play are real. And the way they think they own someone is off the hook. They are supposedly loyal, but while in a relationship with someone will try to sabotage any relationship the single woman they are interested in tries to have. Been through it twice. Cancer men? Run, run run! As fast as your feet can take you!

Uh huh, sure.

@Canceronthecusp - You're take?

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Posted by nikkistar

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Posted by outofdarkness
Enough already! The cancer people I've encountered are players, one and all, men and women. They are emotional, needy, whining fuckers. They will play games until the end of time because they're in love with love and not with you (a lot of them have Leo placements, so they're attention seekers as well). If anyone was in love with you, you wouldn't even question it. If you question it, then you have to leave it alone. Stop deluding yourselves and save what is left of your dignity. No contact, forever and ever, amen. You people need therapy!

Sounds like a personal problem.

If a man is interested, you'll know about it. Life is too short for broody bullshit. Men shovel that shit out because it's cheap and women fall for it. I want someone who can match me.

You sound like someone that got burnt by a Cancer. lol

No, nor have I been intimate or been in a relationship with one. However, the games that they play are real. And the way they think they own someone is off the hook. They are supposedly loyal, but while in a relationship with someone will try to sabotage any relationship the single woman they are interested in tries to have. Been through it twice. Cancer men? Run, run run! As fast as your feet can take you!

Uh huh, sure.

@Canceronthecusp - You're take?

I would like this opportunity to comment on the moon.

I've never been there, but I know it's made of cheese, is the real home of Santa's elves, and NASA is full of crap because if one has a tall enough step ladder, they can touch it.

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Where are the new ones? 😄

Posted by Taurusgirlsparkles
So I was dating this cancer man born in July for a couple of months. We would talk everyday and see each other every other day. He always went out of his way to spend time with me. Recently we got into our first fight and he got annoyed that I was texting to much and said I’d i couldn’t be patient to move on. I said fine I would out of anger. He then blocked me from my cell number. That rejection upset me so I called from my home phone to apologize and he just said he wanted nothing to do with me and to move on and said some other embarrassing hurtful things. I know he was stressed with work and his father was ill but I don’t think it’s a good enough excuse to intentionally try to break someone’s spirit/heart. How could someone be so cold after just one disagreement that was so petty to begin with. Can anyone help me to understand. Now I feel like I did something wrong but deep down I know I didn’t....

wo-fer in this one. One would almost like to hear the story behind each. Then again, maybe not.

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Posted by queenaries_
Their existence

Shut it! Really? Why?

Manipulative, crazy, pathological liars, whiny cry babies, always victim. Just terrible all around... shouldn't exist just like the disease.

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Posted by Taurusallthewaytothebad
First cancer I dated briefly last year I knew was not interested in being serious with me after a couple of dates - in my gut I could tell but in communication he said everything but that and it was as if he wanted to keep me on a string but then just sent more polite non flirty messages before never getting in touch again. All he avoided was not messaging me directly and telling me he didnt want to waste my time - which i would respect! Instead he made me more mad because he didnt seem to mind confusing me and making me think "all i need to do is be patient' when actually no my gut was right. This feels like disrespect because I was very direct with him and gave him the chance to walk away and still he feed me a story about how he just moves slow.

Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.

These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?

No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!

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Posted by Taurusallthewaytothebad
First cancer I dated briefly last year I knew was not interested in being serious with me after a couple of dates - in my gut I could tell but in communication he said everything but that and it was as if he wanted to keep me on a string but then just sent more polite non flirty messages before never getting in touch again. All he avoided was not messaging me directly and telling me he didnt want to waste my time - which i would respect! Instead he made me more mad because he didnt seem to mind confusing me and making me think "all i need to do is be patient' when actually no my gut was right. This feels like disrespect because I was very direct with him and gave him the chance to walk away and still he feed me a story about how he just moves slow.

Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.

These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?

No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!

@Canceronthecusp - Enjoy

Posted by TaurusFlower22
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdh

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Posted by Taurusallthewaytothebad
First cancer I dated briefly last year I knew was not interested in being serious with me after a couple of dates - in my gut I could tell but in communication he said everything but that and it was as if he wanted to keep me on a string but then just sent more polite non flirty messages before never getting in touch again. All he avoided was not messaging me directly and telling me he didnt want to waste my time - which i would respect! Instead he made me more mad because he didnt seem to mind confusing me and making me think "all i need to do is be patient' when actually no my gut was right. This feels like disrespect because I was very direct with him and gave him the chance to walk away and still he feed me a story about how he just moves slow.

Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.

These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?

No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!

@Canceronthecusp - Enjoy

You missed this one:

Posted by TaurusFlower22
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdh

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Posted by Taurusallthewaytothebad
First cancer I dated briefly last year I knew was not interested in being serious with me after a couple of dates - in my gut I could tell but in communication he said everything but that and it was as if he wanted to keep me on a string but then just sent more polite non flirty messages before never getting in touch again. All he avoided was not messaging me directly and telling me he didnt want to waste my time - which i would respect! Instead he made me more mad because he didnt seem to mind confusing me and making me think "all i need to do is be patient' when actually no my gut was right. This feels like disrespect because I was very direct with him and gave him the chance to walk away and still he feed me a story about how he just moves slow.

Three days ago I went on a date with another cancer who admittedly is bad with texting etc anyway... so even before we met I was unsure of his interest. However, in person, really nice and we had loads in common. Seemed like it definitely wouldn't be a once off date so the next day I let him know about this show that was on that we half discussed on date. I threw the rope and left it casual - he could reply either way but at least reply. He seen the message and didnt reply at all. He's a bad texter but not responding at all!!! Isn't that just rude? So the next day I sent him a message saying 'did i miss my cue to read between the lines'. I am annoyed why cant he just have the decency to respond that he isn't interested.I would never do this to someone who asked me on a second date ESPECIALLY if I wasnt interested I would release them from thinking about me asap. I wouldn't want to do that to someone.

These post are full of advice saying that this is just these guys and you have to be patient - really what cancer men out there can say 'im glad my girl was patient while I treated her dismissively know i can be proud of the strong woman I have in my arm'. Really do people really believe this?

No other men have treated me this immature way so it does stand out that these two guys are cancers. I also have male cancer friends who are yes men - say yes to everything and completely neglect the commitment they made to you - leaving it to the point where you are sitting alone in the restaurant waiting in them for them to cancel on you - and again my gut probably knew they were a no show but you could not have told that by their words - its ridiculous!

@Canceronthecusp - Enjoy

You missed this one:

Posted by TaurusFlower22
I like Cancer women...but Cancer men are EVIL. They play hella games. I was dealing with one. Recently deleted him from my life. And the very same day, he called me to ask me if I was ok. I'm convinced all they want is an ego stroke. And they'll get that however they can from whomever they can. I'm never dealing with another one. Compatible where? How? Smdh

No, she actually didn't. Thanks though. Lol

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Where does one sign up

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Where does one sign up

@xkraft can help you

Nikki I gave up on mine weeks ago, forgot to update u.

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Posted by OCJack
Cancers make such a complete joke out of deep emotional sentiment.

Every Cancer Moon I know... My brother, my sister, and Mena. Have all been highly prone to cheating, abandoning previous lovers, or just straight up acting with disregard for the person they are with like they don't really matter at all.

Something about the Cancer Sun I lost my virginity to, threw me off and I needed to pull back and reorient myself. Just asking for the space to do that she flipped out on me like she was so bothered, like she cared so much. But we had literally just met and spent a total of 2 days together at best, and she also blocked me which is the penultimate of "you don't matter". Don't get me wrong, it's not the part where she actually ended up acting like I didn't matter that is an issue. That makes sense. But how /fake/ did her initial reaction have to be? She tossed around deep and intense emotional reactions like shit mattered to her sooo much... But at a time when it couldn't, and actually didn't? You see what I'm saying?

Melody only further cemented this idea that Cancer makes light of the deepest depths like it's nothing 10 ways to sunday. Which is actually infinitely worse than any non-water sign's reaction to water. At least they just straight up don't care and don't even pretend. But cancer goes all the way, just to turn around and act like it was nothing in the blink of an eye.

This same thing is underlying why Cancers are prone to cheating. They get " emotionally bored", like emotion is nothing more than an entertainment. They are completely unapologetic for cheating, with absolutely no regard for the other persons feelings. They claim its because you hurt them soooo hella bad, but that is a complete lie because to them. They are so emotionally insatiable that even just, rubbing them the wrong way or being insensitive, justifies them cheating on you lmao. It'd be one thing if they meant you cheated on them, but nope. You don't have to do anything all that bad, and even the worst non-cheating offense is just as bad according to them when actually it's nowhere close.

Going back to Melody. How could she create the world wind of emotional drama, even to the point of manipulating me into quitting my job. All in the span of 2 months. Only to walk away like none of it mattered AT ALL, like she probably doesn't even remember I exist... I'm 100% serious.

@nikkistar posted a photo on the front page making a joke about signs that /happily/ ruin people's lives. The problem is at least 2 of the signs, Scorpio and Virgo, only "ruin a life" through either Revenge or by having high standards and thus simply standing up for what is healthy and right? The other 2 signs "ruin lives" because it's justified. Within a Chaotic Good morality, it is fully vindicated.

But Cancer? Nope. They just ruin your life, or at least do significant damage to it, for no good reason at all. They just do, regardless of morality. They still have that smug smile like what they did was somehow good. Or are smiling and happy because /they/ "moved on" from what they caused with no regard for consequences/karma, or any care for the person they fuck up. Like a goddamn psychopath.

You know, it's one of the most hated signs. But I think I just captured exactly why. Do the Cancer signs of DXP have anything to say for themselves? Are you gonna explain this atrocious behavior? Or will you at least admit that nobody should take you seriously?

Posted by Sashvmerr

So I have been casually seeing a cancer guy for a couple of months now. We are not serious or dating we just basically hang out ever now and then or I’ll give him a ride to his friends or to work stuff like that. We didn’t really have sexual intercourse many times either so we’re more on the friends side than benefits side. Anyway a couple weeks ago I was under the influence and i was with him, he went to get a drink from the store and initially I said I didn’t want anything but when he went inside I messaged him and realized his phone was in my car and that he hadn’t saved my name in his contacts which I thought by now he would have. So I started scrolling through his notifications and I looked up and saw him. He said “you’re going through my phone” and I told him I was just looking cause I messaged him and he went back to get his stuff from the store and then when I drove him home he told me he didn’t like it so I apologied and tried to explain to him but he just walked away and told me to have a good night. When I got home I tried to message him and it appeared he blocked me from his iPhones cause my messages and calls didn’t go through. When I woke up I messaged him and all the old messages I sent were still not delivered but the new messages were going through. Throughout the day I kept messaging him telling him that I was sorry and I wanted to be good friends with him and then I stopped after I got no responses. 24 hours later he said were cool and then he proceeds to ask me to drop him to work... I know what you’re all thinking and I agree too, he is using me for rides and the convenience of my car. But that’s another topic to discuss anyway. We’ve seen each other non sexually a couple times since it happens and last night we were hanging out and we were talking about trust with family and friends and I said people generally trust me and he kind of blurted out that I wasn’t trust worthy and I felt bad that he said that because I feel like it has to do with the incident with his phone. Are cancers typically the type of people to hold a grudge forever and never trust a person or is it possible that over time he will trust me and we could actually be friends?

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Because someone has to keep score.