Disneygirl
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Cancer man stonewalling behavior
He likes to be in control and dictate the emotions around him.
You’re doing good telling him what you don’t like:
Now, you have to mean it.
He acts like this because your energy causes him to feel out of control of his own emotions. He feels rejected and he didn’t get want he wanted.
Take him extremely literal.
He don’t want you texting him. Cool, erase his number and keep it moving. Never ever text him again.
He tells you to relax and dismisses you…Cool, remove him (the cause of your non-relaxation) from your energy. Stay dismissed. Dismiss yourself so literally that he has to identify himself when he comes back. Cause it’s a game to him.
Emotionally detach and move on.
He wants to to grovel and chase after him and for you to feel the pain of missing him and regret. For you to wait on his beck and call.
You shall do no such thing.
You’ll move on with your life so hard and so genuine, all his little manipulations will backfire and he’ll be the one hesitating to send a text like the scared lol bitch that he is
You’re doing good telling him what you don’t like:
Now, you have to mean it.
He acts like this because your energy causes him to feel out of control of his own emotions. He feels rejected and he didn’t get want he wanted.
Take him extremely literal.
He don’t want you texting him. Cool, erase his number and keep it moving. Never ever text him again.
He tells you to relax and dismisses you…Cool, remove him (the cause of your non-relaxation) from your energy. Stay dismissed. Dismiss yourself so literally that he has to identify himself when he comes back. Cause it’s a game to him.
Emotionally detach and move on.
He wants to to grovel and chase after him and for you to feel the pain of missing him and regret. For you to wait on his beck and call.
You shall do no such thing.
You’ll move on with your life so hard and so genuine, all his little manipulations will backfire and he’ll be the one hesitating to send a text like the scared lol bitch that he is
^^ Like seriously woman you’re freaking 31, not 14 anymore. I assure you there are plenty of others out there…. PLENTY
Thank you everyone for your responses especially @DMV
It’s not about finding someone else I care about ppl that have been in my life a long time and cherish bonds he’s not some random guy I knew for a few months I’ve literally known him since I was a kid we grew up together I think it’s fine to care that he would switch up and act this way towards me and be frustrated/confused as to why since he refused to open up and give clarity. But like one user here mentioned I will take him literally, and proceed how he demanded I do
It’s not about finding someone else I care about ppl that have been in my life a long time and cherish bonds he’s not some random guy I knew for a few months I’ve literally known him since I was a kid we grew up together I think it’s fine to care that he would switch up and act this way towards me and be frustrated/confused as to why since he refused to open up and give clarity. But like one user here mentioned I will take him literally, and proceed how he demanded I do
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