Posted by aquarius09i guess it wasn't making you happy since you're not with him of course.Posted by lisabethur8I only dated one, the rest were dated by my friends.
maybe it was just the types you attracted, aqua09.click to expand
Posted by rakac😆Posted by lisabethur8never knew he's a cancer!now i'm proud of my zodiac,tyson,diesel,fav actors and dudes born under cancer sign 😄
and his wife is skinny. Not aneroxic skinny but shapely slender. exactly what fire dominants like.
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Posted by lisabethur8No. His other placements were good like libra sun (not stingy. Quite the opposite actually), Aries moon (once again, not stingy). Mars and Venus were in Virgo. When you start to see a pattern, you wonder what's going on here.Posted by aquarius09i guess it wasn't making you happy since you're not with him of course.Posted by lisabethur8I only dated one, the rest were dated by my friends.
maybe it was just the types you attracted, aqua09.
i'm sure it was other placements, like his mars and moon ect.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09i see what you mean, the libra/aries axis for your ex.Posted by lisabethur8No. His other placements were good like libra sun (not stingy. Quite the opposite actually), Aries moon (once again, not stingy). Mars and Venus were in Virgo. When you start to see a pattern, you wonder what's going on here.Posted by aquarius09i guess it wasn't making you happy since you're not with him of course.Posted by lisabethur8I only dated one, the rest were dated by my friends.
maybe it was just the types you attracted, aqua09.
i'm sure it was other placements, like his mars and moon ect.click to expand
Posted by MiZLeoThey are weird little creatures! But aren't they just the cutest EVER!!!
My cancer husband said he fell in love with my smile. I am a curvy woman as well. He also said he liked that I was a challenge. He would cry over things I'd say or do to him but then when I was sweet to him he would say that I didn't really mean it.....so I think maybe they secretly like it when a woman is mean to them. I dunno. They are weird little creatures.
Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, he needed women that were paying for the dates and pretty much okay with his selfish non-contributing ways. Obviously, I didn't and wouldn't put up with that, but he told me how all his previous gfs did that and the current one does that too. Sometimes women can be too desperate for a relationship that they don't mind footing the bill all the time. It's called "buying a boyfriend/husband". Good for them.Posted by aquarius09i see what you mean, the libra/aries axis for your ex.Posted by lisabethur8No. His other placements were good like libra sun (not stingy. Quite the opposite actually), Aries moon (once again, not stingy). Mars and Venus were in Virgo. When you start to see a pattern, you wonder what's going on here.Posted by aquarius09i guess it wasn't making you happy since you're not with him of course.Posted by lisabethur8I only dated one, the rest were dated by my friends.
maybe it was just the types you attracted, aqua09.
i'm sure it was other placements, like his mars and moon ect.
well a man is only stingy if he can't make good money or has enough.
men who are generous usually have enough money.
unless they are the type that overspend (like having a beer budget with champagne taste)
EDIT so personally i believe this has to do with his financial (men need to be confident in their career) and otherwise, it's really hard on them. Or they find a woman who will be OK with what they have. and will help support them, help them along financially too.
it all depends on the type of woman he needs.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09lol sounds like he wants a cougar woman with a vice president seat in microsoft. basically a woman who has alot of money to help him splurge.Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, he needed women that were paying for the dates and pretty much okay with his selfish non-contributing ways. Obviously, I didn't and wouldn't put up with that, but he told me how all his previous gfs did that and the current one does that too. Sometimes women can be too desperate for a relationship that they don't mind footing the bill all the time. It's called "buying a boyfriend/husband". Good for them.Posted by aquarius09i see what you mean, the libra/aries axis for your ex.Posted by lisabethur8No. His other placements were good like libra sun (not stingy. Quite the opposite actually), Aries moon (once again, not stingy). Mars and Venus were in Virgo. When you start to see a pattern, you wonder what's going on here.Posted by aquarius09i guess it wasn't making you happy since you're not with him of course.Posted by lisabethur8I only dated one, the rest were dated by my friends.
maybe it was just the types you attracted, aqua09.
i'm sure it was other placements, like his mars and moon ect.
well a man is only stingy if he can't make good money or has enough.
men who are generous usually have enough money.
unless they are the type that overspend (like having a beer budget with champagne taste)
EDIT so personally i believe this has to do with his financial (men need to be confident in their career) and otherwise, it's really hard on them. Or they find a woman who will be OK with what they have. and will help support them, help them along financially too.
it all depends on the type of woman he needs.
It's not necessarily about a man having money or being well off to want to pay for a woman. Sometimes men have adequate money which they would rather spend on themselves than the other person. Generosity is a winning trait. Nobody is telling you to splurge, but a gift here and there is nice. Nobody likes a miser. It's not a good personality trait.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8I don't know which woman in her right mind and healthy self-esteem would want that.Posted by aquarius09lol sounds like he wants a cougar woman with a vice president seat in microsoft. basically a woman who has alot of money to help him splurge.Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, he needed women that were paying for the dates and pretty much okay with his selfish non-contributing ways. Obviously, I didn't and wouldn't put up with that, but he told me how all his previous gfs did that and the current one does that too. Sometimes women can be too desperate for a relationship that they don't mind footing the bill all the time. It's called "buying a boyfriend/husband". Good for them.Posted by aquarius09i see what you mean, the libra/aries axis for your ex.Posted by lisabethur8No. His other placements were good like libra sun (not stingy. Quite the opposite actually), Aries moon (once again, not stingy). Mars and Venus were in Virgo. When you start to see a pattern, you wonder what's going on here.Posted by aquarius09i guess it wasn't making you happy since you're not with him of course.Posted by lisabethur8I only dated one, the rest were dated by my friends.
maybe it was just the types you attracted, aqua09.
i'm sure it was other placements, like his mars and moon ect.
well a man is only stingy if he can't make good money or has enough.
men who are generous usually have enough money.
unless they are the type that overspend (like having a beer budget with champagne taste)
EDIT so personally i believe this has to do with his financial (men need to be confident in their career) and otherwise, it's really hard on them. Or they find a woman who will be OK with what they have. and will help support them, help them along financially too.
it all depends on the type of woman he needs.
It's not necessarily about a man having money or being well off to want to pay for a woman. Sometimes men have adequate money which they would rather spend on themselves than the other person. Generosity is a winning trait. Nobody is telling you to splurge, but a gift here and there is nice. Nobody likes a miser. It's not a good personality trait.click to expand
Posted by wecarealot*shrug* tom cruise had that too. whatever.Posted by rakacLOL. I love Vin, but he is GAY and that woman is his beard. He has had gay rumors going all the way back to his Pitch Black days. There are even photos floating around on the Internet of him striking some very questionable poses in NYC gay bars.Posted by lisabethur8never knew he's a cancer!now i'm proud of my zodiac,tyson,diesel,fav actors and dudes born under cancer sign 😄
and his wife is skinny. Not aneroxic skinny but shapely slender. exactly what fire dominants like.
click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Posted by lisabethur8Posted by aquarius09lol sounds like he wants a cougar woman with a vice president seat in microsoft. basically a woman who has alot of money to help him splurge.Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, he needed women that were paying for the dates and pretty much okay with his selfish non-contributing ways. Obviously, I didn't and wouldn't put up with that, but he told me how all his previous gfs did that and the current one does that too. Sometimes women can be too desperate for a relationship that they don't mind footing the bill all the time. It's called "buying a boyfriend/husband". Good for them.Posted by aquarius09i see what you mean, the libra/aries axis for your ex.Posted by lisabethur8No. His other placements were good like libra sun (not stingy. Quite the opposite actually), Aries moon (once again, not stingy). Mars and Venus were in Virgo. When you start to see a pattern, you wonder what's going on here.Posted by aquarius09i guess it wasn't making you happy since you're not with him of course.Posted by lisabethur8I only dated one, the rest were dated by my friends.
maybe it was just the types you attracted, aqua09.
i'm sure it was other placements, like his mars and moon ect.
well a man is only stingy if he can't make good money or has enough.
men who are generous usually have enough money.
unless they are the type that overspend (like having a beer budget with champagne taste)
EDIT so personally i believe this has to do with his financial (men need to be confident in their career) and otherwise, it's really hard on them. Or they find a woman who will be OK with what they have. and will help support them, help them along financially too.
it all depends on the type of woman he needs.
It's not necessarily about a man having money or being well off to want to pay for a woman. Sometimes men have adequate money which they would rather spend on themselves than the other person. Generosity is a winning trait. Nobody is telling you to splurge, but a gift here and there is nice. Nobody likes a miser. It's not a good personality trait.click to expand
Posted by GemiGirl78Could start another thread to address it, but I will do so here.Posted by Rambunctious76I've noticed, expand on this topic ... Please & Thank you! 🙂
Cancer men love titties.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Wait?!? So how does the Moon placement play out? I know the Sun and Venus but how does the Moon placement work in the mix?Posted by lisabethur8Yep, moon for long term. I'd consider both and I think they like someone that's a medium between their moon and venus.Posted by aquarius09venus and moon apparantly, long term.Posted by GemiGirl78This is why I asked him about his venus because that placement dictates what kind of woman they are attracted to.Posted by rabidtalkerI thought Csncer men liked curvy girls with a little meat on their bony sticks lol
When you get past the looks and stuff, I like stability and consistency.
But for looks, I like them thin and smart. Opinionated is unattractive on both men and women though at one point I thought it was a sign of a strong personality, it was not until later that I realized that it is a sign of a weak character.
My ex was a venus in Virgo and moon in Aries. My personality catered to both these placements and that is why our connection was so strong.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83What's a verbal brawl? Mine is always a little bossy and I give him the whole you aren't the boss of me attitude, but then I do what he says. It always pleases him that I ended up doing what he told me; then I always tell him that I did it cause in the end I realized he was right. This puts him over the moon - it's so cute. Sadly enough, he is right about 99.9% of the time! I find it super sexy, annoying, infuriating and just the best! LolPosted by aquarius09We like a verbal brawl.Posted by GemiGirl78They say they want that, but choose women who will kick their ass verbally or physically. It's almost as if they have to fear their woman to love them.
Seriously... I thought it was the opposite, I thought they were super sensitive and needed a girl that would be sweet and caring; a real doormat type...
Disclaimer: MY observation in my circle of cancers.
And then we submit.click to expand
Posted by rakacPosted by GemiGirl78I hope one day that someone will love me the same way you describe 🙂 The sadest thing is,she left me for a guy who uses woman for sex only,gets the passion out of them,and then leaves iPosted by rakacSorry to hear, that girl is bat-skunk-crazy! Cancer boys are the cutest ever... Like these big babies that love to cuddle, be sweet and just adore the ones they love in the most demonstrative and unexpected ways. I'd never trade my cancer for anyone else in the whole wide world, I'm just dying to keep him for good and forever...Posted by GoldigoldI'm a cancer guy born on june 22,inlove with pisces,but she changed me for a libra guy,meeting her on march 4 and hoping to work things out,but don't have to much hope,she broke my trust anyways.. we will see how it goes 🙂Posted by rakacI like what you have to say, my boyfriend I put through the trust ringer for one year...he never gave up on me. We are so in love now. What is your birthday you sound the same as him.Posted by GemiGirl78Hmm...all women attract by different things realy....but the values would go like kindness,empathy,humility,humble people who show more than they talk,because ussualy people who talk to much never do that much,i'm impressed with people's actions,tho nice words and compliments rly boost my ego ....ofc trust,respect for us is rly important,i need a person to respect me and trust me,if i see a person doesn't trust me,i get angry or sad,because i'm loyal and i need to know those around me trust me,thats why i don't rly have that many friends,but the one's i call friend is considered my family 🙂 just be yourself,you can't fool cancer,get to knowyouself and know how do you seduce,eveyone has their own special quoality,for example aries,confidence and sexual looks,pisces mistery and shy or her pretending not giving a fuck attitude,aquarius by his amazing looking for new things and adventures,cancers for i don't even know,probably because they are just simple and loving,the thing is,everyone has their own seduction tactic without even knowing about it,if you want to find out about it,read robert greene art of seduction,great book for boosting your awareness and knowing yourself beter🙂
So, I'm trying to figure out what cancer men find attractive in a partner. Looks, height, skinny, curvy, smart, sweet, opinionated, etc Give me the sweet juicy info!!!click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Seriously? How so?Posted by GemiGirl78With these fools - treat them mean keeps them keen!!!
Seriously... I thought it was the opposite, I thought they were super sensitive and needed a girl that would be sweet and caring; a real doormat type...click to expand
Posted by CrabraI like checked off ALL of those, it's basically me! My Cancer laughs at me so cute when I tell him that my idea of perfect is being a 1950's girl, wearing an apron in the kitchen with my high heels, cherry lipstick, ponytail and taking a freshly baked apple pie out of the oven - he's like "is that all, you sure?"... And I'm like, no - a girl needs to feed and help her man properly relax, just not on a full stomach... He just chuckles and calls me crazy.... I tell him all the time that there isn't a thing a girl can't get in life if she has applied the right amount of mascara and knows how to bat her lashes...lol... You should lookup the Barbie Thanksgiving collectible doll on eBay, she's my life inspiration hahaha... And you are right about the boobs! Wear a low cut top and your Cancer man will be in the rarest of form that you have never seen before... It's hilarious! They start acting possessive, domineering and just crazy! I love it to death lol
Ok, on to the subject at hand:
Um.... I can't mention it enough how drawn I am to femininity. Those ultra feminine girls who love hair, makeup, nails, dresses, heels, shopping, lavender smelling soaps and lotions, submissive, likes to wear lace, and strappy garments and shoes; loves for a knight to rescue her from the monstrosities of wall crawlers, thunderstorms, losing her keys, and scary movies.
I have a lot of feminine energy and it needs to be balance out. And the more of a girl she IS, the more of a man I FEEL.
On a side note, it helps tons if she is in shape, has enough in the boob department to play with, she has been hurt in the past (VERY IMPORTANT), and has a soothing, infectious laugh.
Posted by Arielle83I do that daily! I hardly ever win, cause you crabby little cancers are unrelenting! He'll do research, call a life line - you name it! I always throw my arms up and give up! I don't have the energy to keep challenging the view point once the issue is a dead and beaten horse!Posted by GemiGirl78We want our point of view challenged.Posted by Arielle83What's a verbal brawl? Mine is always a little bossy and I give him the whole you aren't the boss of me attitude, but then I do what he says. It always pleases him that I ended up doing what he told me; then I always tell him that I did it cause in the end I realized he was right. This puts him over the moon - it's so cute. Sadly enough, he is right about 99.9% of the time! I find it super sexy, annoying, infuriating and just the best! LolPosted by aquarius09We like a verbal brawl.Posted by GemiGirl78They say they want that, but choose women who will kick their ass verbally or physically. It's almost as if they have to fear their woman to love them.
Seriously... I thought it was the opposite, I thought they were super sensitive and needed a girl that would be sweet and caring; a real doormat type...
Disclaimer: MY observation in my circle of cancers.
And then we submit.click to expand
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspI'm so glad you wrote! Prior to coming on here I have read so many of the posts that you've all made! I can only imagine all the skirts on the man cave - I hope they fetch you all cold drinks routinely! Lol... I really need a Crab's eyes in this situation.
I'm laughing at this thread.
*Some* answers by Cancer males, and a whole lot from females, many of them NOT Crabs.
Typical for DXP though. The Man Cave is a disaster at times, LOL.
Putting looks aside, probably the most attractive quality for me in the long term sense is one who has genuine interest (as opposed to forced or faked) in who I am -- that means liking my quirks and calling me out when I am being an asshole (note, calling out does NOT mean belittling me or acting like a harpy).
Contrary to some of what was said here, being a bitch is going close the door faster than she can say "wait, I didn't mean it".
Other non-looks qualities:
Has my back, although if I made the wrong call, will discuss it privately with me
Sense of humor
Doesn't have to be a brainiac, but is curious about things
Willing to admit their flaws and willing to admit when they don't know something--trust me, you try and cover things up or play pretend, the Crab intuition is going to ferret things out pretty quickly, and then you're going to have trust issues.
Posted by GemiGirl78Have you talked to him about it (the bolded part)?Posted by CancerOnTheCuspI'm so glad you wrote! Prior to coming on here I have read so many of the posts that you've all made! I can only imagine all the skirts on the man cave - I hope they fetch you all cold drinks routinely! Lol... I really need a Crab's eyes in this situation.
I'm laughing at this thread.
*Some* answers by Cancer males, and a whole lot from females, many of them NOT Crabs.
Typical for DXP though. The Man Cave is a disaster at times, LOL.
Putting looks aside, probably the most attractive quality for me in the long term sense is one who has genuine interest (as opposed to forced or faked) in who I am -- that means liking my quirks and calling me out when I am being an asshole (note, calling out does NOT mean belittling me or acting like a harpy).
Contrary to some of what was said here, being a bitch is going close the door faster than she can say "wait, I didn't mean it".
Other non-looks qualities:
Has my back, although if I made the wrong call, will discuss it privately with me
Sense of humor
Doesn't have to be a brainiac, but is curious about things
Willing to admit their flaws and willing to admit when they don't know something--trust me, you try and cover things up or play pretend, the Crab intuition is going to ferret things out pretty quickly, and then you're going to have trust issues.
A lot of your prior posts helped me get through tough stages that my little crabby put me through. The highs, the lows, the silent treatment, the little tantrum fits for attention - we have surpassed them all! He knows I love him dearly, even when that means that I might end up in the insane asylum or incarcerated for having to kill him over all the butter he puts me through!
I will say he's the best: caring, sweet, supportive, I could go on - I know I've never met anyone like him in all my life. But now we are at the part where he needs to close his eyes and just jump into it... I won't lie, I could keep things as they are for as long as a year and be the happiest girl ever but I really need him to venture over to committed relationship land. I want to know that we are it for one another.
And you're right, a crab can smell anything fishy; so never be anything but genuine and true around one! Otherwise you're a goner for good!click to expand
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by GemiGirl78Have you talked to him about it (the bolded part)?Posted by CancerOnTheCuspI'm so glad you wrote! Prior to coming on here I have read so many of the posts that you've all made! I can only imagine all the skirts on the man cave - I hope they fetch you all cold drinks routinely! Lol... I really need a Crab's eyes in this situation.
I'm laughing at this thread.
*Some* answers by Cancer males, and a whole lot from females, many of them NOT Crabs.
Typical for DXP though. The Man Cave is a disaster at times, LOL.
Putting looks aside, probably the most attractive quality for me in the long term sense is one who has genuine interest (as opposed to forced or faked) in who I am -- that means liking my quirks and calling me out when I am being an asshole (note, calling out does NOT mean belittling me or acting like a harpy).
Contrary to some of what was said here, being a bitch is going close the door faster than she can say "wait, I didn't mean it".
Other non-looks qualities:
Has my back, although if I made the wrong call, will discuss it privately with me
Sense of humor
Doesn't have to be a brainiac, but is curious about things
Willing to admit their flaws and willing to admit when they don't know something--trust me, you try and cover things up or play pretend, the Crab intuition is going to ferret things out pretty quickly, and then you're going to have trust issues.
A lot of your prior posts helped me get through tough stages that my little crabby put me through. The highs, the lows, the silent treatment, the little tantrum fits for attention - we have surpassed them all! He knows I love him dearly, even when that means that I might end up in the insane asylum or incarcerated for having to kill him over all the butter he puts me through!
I will say he's the best: caring, sweet, supportive, I could go on - I know I've never met anyone like him in all my life. But now we are at the part where he needs to close his eyes and just jump into it... I won't lie, I could keep things as they are for as long as a year and be the happiest girl ever but I really need him to venture over to committed relationship land. I want to know that we are it for one another.
And you're right, a crab can smell anything fishy; so never be anything but genuine and true around one! Otherwise you're a goner for good!click to expand
Despite some of what you read on the Cat Lady sites, Cancer men can be commitment phobes.
And that gets tricky with Gemini gals from a Cancer man's point of view, in terms of "you want me to commit to you
Posted by GemiGirl78Awww! That is so sweet! I bet you are a magnet to Cancer men 🙂 A Barbie girl with a great rack is gonna attract a lot of crab men, and probably women too xDPosted by CrabraI like checked off ALL of those, it's basically me! My Cancer laughs at me so cute when I tell him that my idea of perfect is being a 1950's girl, wearing an apron in the kitchen with my high heels, cherry lipstick, ponytail and taking a freshly baked apple pie out of the oven - he's like "is that all, you sure?"... And I'm like, no - a girl needs to feed and help her man properly relax, just not on a full stomach... He just chuckles and calls me crazy.... I tell him all the time that there isn't a thing a girl can't get in life if she has applied the right amount of mascara and knows how to bat her lashes...lol... You should lookup the Barbie Thanksgiving collectible doll on eBay, she's my life inspiration hahaha... And you are right about the boobs! Wear a low cut top and your Cancer man will be in the rarest of form that you have never seen before... It's hilarious! They start acting possessive, domineering and just crazy! I love it to death lol
Ok, on to the subject at hand:
Um.... I can't mention it enough how drawn I am to femininity. Those ultra feminine girls who love hair, makeup, nails, dresses, heels, shopping, lavender smelling soaps and lotions, submissive, likes to wear lace, and strappy garments and shoes; loves for a knight to rescue her from the monstrosities of wall crawlers, thunderstorms, losing her keys, and scary movies.
I have a lot of feminine energy and it needs to be balance out. And the more of a girl she IS, the more of a man I FEEL.
On a side note, it helps tons if she is in shape, has enough in the boob department to play with, she has been hurt in the past (VERY IMPORTANT), and has a soothing, infectious laugh.click to expand
Posted by CrabraYup my little Cancer is on cloud 9!Posted by GemiGirl78Awww! That is so sweet! I bet you are a magnet to Cancer men 🙂 A Barbie girl with a great rack is gonna attract a lot of crab men, and probably women too xDPosted by CrabraI like checked off ALL of those, it's basically me! My Cancer laughs at me so cute when I tell him that my idea of perfect is being a 1950's girl, wearing an apron in the kitchen with my high heels, cherry lipstick, ponytail and taking a freshly baked apple pie out of the oven - he's like "is that all, you sure?"... And I'm like, no - a girl needs to feed and help her man properly relax, just not on a full stomach... He just chuckles and calls me crazy.... I tell him all the time that there isn't a thing a girl can't get in life if she has applied the right amount of mascara and knows how to bat her lashes...lol... You should lookup the Barbie Thanksgiving collectible doll on eBay, she's my life inspiration hahaha... And you are right about the boobs! Wear a low cut top and your Cancer man will be in the rarest of form that you have never seen before... It's hilarious! They start acting possessive, domineering and just crazy! I love it to death lol
Ok, on to the subject at hand:
Um.... I can't mention it enough how drawn I am to femininity. Those ultra feminine girls who love hair, makeup, nails, dresses, heels, shopping, lavender smelling soaps and lotions, submissive, likes to wear lace, and strappy garments and shoes; loves for a knight to rescue her from the monstrosities of wall crawlers, thunderstorms, losing her keys, and scary movies.
I have a lot of feminine energy and it needs to be balance out. And the more of a girl she IS, the more of a man I FEEL.
On a side note, it helps tons if she is in shape, has enough in the boob department to play with, she has been hurt in the past (VERY IMPORTANT), and has a soothing, infectious laugh.click to expand
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