Cancer Venus... do you know instantly if you will fall for someone?

...or is it something over time? Like if you are seeing someone exclusively how long does it take typically until you fall for them? Are there certain signs like a Cancr Sun would you emotionally connect better? How does one know if you are really feeling them? Do you like cuddling, hand holding, a lot when you are into someone or just in general?

Posted by Cheeseburger
Cancer Venus... do you know instantly if you will fall for someone?

Wil... no! But I know instantly if I can love this person.

...or is it something over time?

Can, is instant. Will, takes time.

Like if you are seeing someone exclusively how long does it take typically until you fall for them?

Long before being exclusive.

Are there certain signs like a Cancr Sun would you emotionally connect better?

Personally, no.

How does one know if you are really feeling them

Cancer Venus folks are the type that If you have to ask if they love you, then they're not really into you. Its obvious.

Do you like cuddling, hand holding, a lot when you are into someone or just in general?

Fuck yes.

Haha thanks for replies 🙂 I guess I know he's into me I just analyze a lot... especially now Venus Retrograde really fucking me up lol. But aren't you guys kinda reserved with verbal validation for awhile like it takes you time to fall for someone? Also, will you be affectionate and hold hands if you are not into someone?

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But aren't you guys kinda reserved with verbal validation for awhile

Yes. But we, or at least I, always said "I Love you" first. And we tend to be your personal cheerleader from an early stage, I think.

like it takes you time to fall for someone?

I think we tend to fall first in a relationship.

Also, will you be affectionate and hold hands if you are not into someone?

If NOT into someone, then no. (Ps: especially if your love interest is a Gemini Sun. Hands are a big deal for them).

Ok yeah... he's a Gemini. He's always trying to hold or touch my hand.

I have venus and mercury and cancer and i instantly know if i want to pursue someone. Its just like a gut feeling idk how to describe it. And i get veryyy affectionate but almost shy when im really into someone.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
I have venus and mercury and cancer and i instantly know if i want to pursue someone. Its just like a gut feeling idk how to describe it. And i get veryyy affectionate but almost shy when im really into someone.

Interesting... shy like how? This guy it's almost like he's being cautious but still shows he's interested ??‍♀️

@MoonshineLeo also what I noticed is often if he acts too affectionate almost in a clingy manner then he'll take 2 steps back and seem colder...is that normal?

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@MoonshineLeo also what I noticed is often if he acts too affectionate almost in a clingy manner then he'll take 2 steps back and seem colder...is that normal?

guilty of doing this! i try to not be clingy but somehow ti shows anyways lol

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@MoonshineLeo also what I noticed is often if he acts too affectionate almost in a clingy manner then he'll take 2 steps back and seem colder...is that normal?

guilty of doing this! i try to not be clingy but somehow ti shows anyways lol

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Haha well I like clingy if I like the person but do u find that you overcompensate for that feeling and then distance so as to not be too clingy?

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@MoonshineLeo also what I noticed is often if he acts too affectionate almost in a clingy manner then he'll take 2 steps back and seem colder...is that normal?

guilty of doing this! i try to not be clingy but somehow ti shows anyways lol

Haha well I like clingy if I like the person but do u find that you overcompensate for that feeling and then distance so as to not be too clingy?

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yea i distance myself to not appear clingy and because i dont want to suffocate the person im with and just because im clingy sometimes doesn't mean im always like this, but i do have leo sun so i do need my freedom once i get clingy like that so i guess it depends on the Sun of the person and if its a gemini then i would assume they also need space once the clingy part has came out.

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@MoonshineLeo also what I noticed is often if he acts too affectionate almost in a clingy manner then he'll take 2 steps back and seem colder...is that normal?

guilty of doing this! i try to not be clingy but somehow ti shows anyways lol

Haha well I like clingy if I like the person but do u find that you overcompensate for that feeling and then distance so as to not be too clingy?

yea i distance myself to not appear clingy and because i dont want to suffocate the person im with and just because im clingy sometimes doesn't mean im always like this, but i do have leo sun so i do need my freedom once i get clingy like that so i guess it depends on the Sun of the person and if its a gemini then i would assume they also need space once the clingy part has came out.

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Thank u! That makes a lot of sense ?