Cancer guy broke up with me five months ago. I’ll admit I begged (a tiny bit) for him back. Our connection was everything and something I didn’t want to let go of. When I begged he got an ego boost and humiliated me over the phone to his friends. After that I just backed off and did my own thing. He told me to leave him alone so I did. I started focusing more on my savings, got back in the gym, back in church. Just started doing things to help me feel better about myself. Few months later, he reaches out. I play it cool but I’m a nice person so I still had a cheery side about me. He basically shitted on me again. First saying how we are compatible now to saying he only wants me for sex and how he can get plenty of p $ $ $ $ else where. It’s like he takes my kindness, wipes his ass with it and then throws it in my face. Well.... I reached a breaking point. I didn’t yell at him exactly but I roasted his ass paragraph after paragraph just going in. He treats me like he’s superior and he’s arrogant so I knocked him down a few pegs with joans about flaws I’ve noticed but never once checked him about. After I ripped his soul out with my words I put him and we had behind me. I was good, I felt better. Next thing you know, he’s calling me and texting “yo”. I told him to f $ $ $ off. And he replied “love me”..... wtf!!!!!
Cancer Wtf
Wooooowww...I’m done lol

He was looking for a reaction and you gave it.
He gets an ego boost knowing he can get under your skin.
He gets an ego boost knowing he can get under your skin.

Lol.
After he texted that I never replied and just left him on read

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
After he texted that I never replied and just left him on read
I don’t understand why you would allow someone who has humiliated you repeatedly to have access to you?
Block his number.
Pointless to exchange insults with some dude you claim to have moved on from.
I’m not one to hold grudges. And since we weren’t together I figured he wouldn’t have a reason to do it again. I took the humiliation as him being pissed in that moment because we both had an argument before the split. But lesson learned. He’s been blocked. He contacted me through my messenger from a different account. Strangely I still get weird numbers calling me from his home town (never happen before we dated). The insults were because I felt that’s what he deserved and it really did make me feel good cuz I kept it bottled for so long to spare his feelings

Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
Tbh...this is kinda true 😆

damn cancer men scare me

I know what it feels like to finally stand up for yourself.
Good for you
He's a joke.
Good for you
He's a joke.

Posted by virgoOPPP
damn cancer men scare me
I read the horror stories on dxp and when I met one, he had one chance to show me crazy and I left.

Cancers want what they can’t have and don’t want what they can have.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by TheStubbornTaurus
I’m not one to hold grudges. And since we weren’t together I figured he wouldn’t have a reason to do it again. I took the humiliation as him being pissed in that moment because we both had an argument before the split. But lesson learned. He’s been blocked. He contacted me through my messenger from a different account. Strangely I still get weird numbers calling me from his home town (never happen before we dated). The insults were because I felt that’s what he deserved and it really did make me feel good cuz I kept it bottled for so long to spare his feelings
If you are bottling up negative feelings, that is, in fact, a grudge.
You can block someone that has disrespected and humiliated you, just to remove toxic people from your life. It has nothing to do with holding grudges or keeping negative thoughts/feelings/ill will towards that person.
In fact, negative feelings within yourself or towards the “bully” will go away faster because you have protected your own well being and reinforced healthy boundaries on how you expect to be treated.click to expand
In agreement!


Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Cancer guy broke up with me five months ago. I’ll admit I begged (a tiny bit) for him back. Our connection was everything and something I didn’t want to let go of. When I begged he got an ego boost and humiliated me over the phone to his friends. After that I just backed off and did my own thing. He told me to leave him alone so I did. I started focusing more on my savings, got back in the gym, back in church. Just started doing things to help me feel better about myself. Few months later, he reaches out. I play it cool but I’m a nice person so I still had a cheery side about me. He basically shitted on me again. First saying how we are compatible now to saying he only wants me for sex and how he can get plenty of p $ $ $ $ else where. It’s like he takes my kindness, wipes his ass with it and then throws it in my face. Well.... I reached a breaking point. I didn’t yell at him exactly but I roasted his ass paragraph after paragraph just going in. He treats me like he’s superior and he’s arrogant so I knocked him down a few pegs with joans about flaws I’ve noticed but never once checked him about. After I ripped his soul out with my words I put him and we had behind me. I was good, I felt better. Next thing you know, he’s calling me and texting “yo”. I told him to f $ $ $ off. And he replied “love me”..... wtf!!!!!
Hahahahaaa I guess you got yourself a Cancer boyfriend now!
This is exactly why I refuse to date Cancer men. If you're nice to them, they get all high n mighty... start ignoring them and treating them mean, they follow you like a lost puppy. They are extremely clingy aswell, more so than Pisces ever will be. Their ignore game is strong but when you ignore them, they cant take it. They are bordering narcisism.
Those dinosaurs got me 💀😂😂😂😂

Posted by HearttofTopazz
I got rid of a cancer man by sending him the same Dinosaur emoji over and over again. U could try that.
Imma try that one day

They always send me running for the hills or watching in wide eye amusement like is he for real lol
Just wait until he starts the love bombing campaign lmao
Just wait until he starts the love bombing campaign lmao

Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Wooooowww...I’m done lol
You put him in his place. Don't let him draw you back into put you down again to give himself a ego boost. What you described sounds honestly like real evil.
Silence is the best weapon against people like that. If he gets to you and causes you to lash out he wins and will feed off of it.

Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Cancer guy broke up with me five months ago. I’ll admit I begged (a tiny bit) for him back. Our connection was everything and something I didn’t want to let go of. When I begged he got an ego boost and humiliated me over the phone to his friends. After that I just backed off and did my own thing. He told me to leave him alone so I did. I started focusing more on my savings, got back in the gym, back in church. Just started doing things to help me feel better about myself. Few months later, he reaches out. I play it cool but I’m a nice person so I still had a cheery side about me. He basically shitted on me again. First saying how we are compatible now to saying he only wants me for sex and how he can get plenty of p $ $ $ $ else where. It’s like he takes my kindness, wipes his ass with it and then throws it in my face. Well.... I reached a breaking point. I didn’t yell at him exactly but I roasted his ass paragraph after paragraph just going in. He treats me like he’s superior and he’s arrogant so I knocked him down a few pegs with joans about flaws I’ve noticed but never once checked him about. After I ripped his soul out with my words I put him and we had behind me. I was good, I felt better. Next thing you know, he’s calling me and texting “yo”. I told him to f $ $ $ off. And he replied “love me”..... wtf!!!!!
Hahahahaaa I guess you got yourself a Cancer boyfriend now!
This is exactly why I refuse to date Cancer men. If you're nice to them, they get all high n mighty... start ignoring them and treating them mean, they follow you like a lost puppy. They are extremely clingy aswell, more so than Pisces ever will be. Their ignore game is strong but when you ignore them, they cant take it. They are bordering narcisism.click to expand
Narcissism is universal. Expressed with a cancer sun the goal and triggers revolve around emotions. Both Validation from others and triggers(what sets them off). I would imagine this man would be vindictive is hell.
Why the hell are you attracting these kinds of men in the first place?
Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.
Posted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.
Cancers don’t want push overs and they like to put effort in to win people over. They like projects. 😂click to expand
I finally replied and told him that I tried to love him but he was an asshole. I told him to move tf on and that he sucked as a person. He said , “say less” and I hit him with the thumbs up but I still feel like my page is being watched lmao
He also called me from a burner number
Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.click to expand
He’s 23.... I’m 27 lol
Posted by DevilPosted by TheStubbornTaurus
He also called me from a burner number
Ffs is that an excuse? As soon as you hear his voice and see that he's doing the same old just say boring with emphasis and hang up. Otherwise block him unless ofc you are into this type of thing.click to expand
What are you talking about— An excuse for what— I didn’t even answer the phone lmao
Posted by DevilPosted by TheStubbornTaurus
He also called me from a burner number
Ffs is that an excuse? As soon as you hear his voice and see that he's doing the same old just say boring with emphasis and hang up. Otherwise block him unless ofc you are into this type of thing.click to expand
And no matter if I block, ignore, disappear it don’t matter... he comes back lmao somehow/some way even though he was the one that told me to move on to begin with. It’s not me... it’s him lol

Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
Best comment ever! Had to read this one to my sister who has always attracted Cancer men.

Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
Lol 😂
Posted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.
He’s 23.... I’m 27 lolclick to expand
What’re the birth dates?
Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.
He’s 23.... I’m 27 lol
What’re the birth dates?click to expand
He is July 7 I’m April 20

Posted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.
Cancers don’t want push overs and they like to put effort in to win people over. They like projects. 😂
I finally replied and told him that I tried to love him but he was an asshole. I told him to move tf on and that he sucked as a person. He said , “say less” and I hit him with the thumbs up but I still feel like my page is being watched lmaoclick to expand
Stop responding to him.
That's what he wants. To keep you stuck.
Posted by DMVPosted by TheStubbornTaurusPosted by LaPetiteEtoilePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by LaPetiteEtoile
The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!
Have a great marriage!
This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.
Cancers don’t want push overs and they like to put effort in to win people over. They like projects. 😂
I finally replied and told him that I tried to love him but he was an asshole. I told him to move tf on and that he sucked as a person. He said , “say less” and I hit him with the thumbs up but I still feel like my page is being watched lmao
Stop responding to him.
That's what he wants. To keep you stuck.click to expand
But why though? He was the one who initiated the break up and told me to go on with my life... I did that. What’s the point of getting me stuck if that’s not what he wanted?
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