Cancer Wtf

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Cancer guy broke up with me five months ago. I’ll admit I begged (a tiny bit) for him back. Our connection was everything and something I didn’t want to let go of. When I begged he got an ego boost and humiliated me over the phone to his friends. After that I just backed off and did my own thing. He told me to leave him alone so I did. I started focusing more on my savings, got back in the gym, back in church. Just started doing things to help me feel better about myself. Few months later, he reaches out. I play it cool but I’m a nice person so I still had a cheery side about me. He basically shitted on me again. First saying how we are compatible now to saying he only wants me for sex and how he can get plenty of p $ $ $ $ else where. It’s like he takes my kindness, wipes his ass with it and then throws it in my face. Well.... I reached a breaking point. I didn’t yell at him exactly but I roasted his ass paragraph after paragraph just going in. He treats me like he’s superior and he’s arrogant so I knocked him down a few pegs with joans about flaws I’ve noticed but never once checked him about. After I ripped his soul out with my words I put him and we had behind me. I was good, I felt better. Next thing you know, he’s calling me and texting “yo”. I told him to f $ $ $ off. And he replied “love me”..... wtf!!!!!
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I’m not one to hold grudges. And since we weren’t together I figured he wouldn’t have a reason to do it again. I took the humiliation as him being pissed in that moment because we both had an argument before the split. But lesson learned. He’s been blocked. He contacted me through my messenger from a different account. Strangely I still get weird numbers calling me from his home town (never happen before we dated). The insults were because I felt that’s what he deserved and it really did make me feel good cuz I kept it bottled for so long to spare his feelings
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I’m not one to hold grudges. And since we weren’t together I figured he wouldn’t have a reason to do it again. I took the humiliation as him being pissed in that moment because we both had an argument before the split. But lesson learned. He’s been blocked. He contacted me through my messenger from a different account. Strangely I still get weird numbers calling me from his home town (never happen before we dated). The insults were because I felt that’s what he deserved and it really did make me feel good cuz I kept it bottled for so long to spare his feelings

If you are bottling up negative feelings, that is, in fact, a grudge.

You can block someone that has disrespected and humiliated you, just to remove toxic people from your life. It has nothing to do with holding grudges or keeping negative thoughts/feelings/ill will towards that person.

In fact, negative feelings within yourself or towards the “bully” will go away faster because you have protected your own well being and reinforced healthy boundaries on how you expect to be treated.
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In agreement!
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Cancer guy broke up with me five months ago. I’ll admit I begged (a tiny bit) for him back. Our connection was everything and something I didn’t want to let go of. When I begged he got an ego boost and humiliated me over the phone to his friends. After that I just backed off and did my own thing. He told me to leave him alone so I did. I started focusing more on my savings, got back in the gym, back in church. Just started doing things to help me feel better about myself. Few months later, he reaches out. I play it cool but I’m a nice person so I still had a cheery side about me. He basically shitted on me again. First saying how we are compatible now to saying he only wants me for sex and how he can get plenty of p $ $ $ $ else where. It’s like he takes my kindness, wipes his ass with it and then throws it in my face. Well.... I reached a breaking point. I didn’t yell at him exactly but I roasted his ass paragraph after paragraph just going in. He treats me like he’s superior and he’s arrogant so I knocked him down a few pegs with joans about flaws I’ve noticed but never once checked him about. After I ripped his soul out with my words I put him and we had behind me. I was good, I felt better. Next thing you know, he’s calling me and texting “yo”. I told him to f $ $ $ off. And he replied “love me”..... wtf!!!!!


Hahahahaaa I guess you got yourself a Cancer boyfriend now!

This is exactly why I refuse to date Cancer men. If you're nice to them, they get all high n mighty... start ignoring them and treating them mean, they follow you like a lost puppy. They are extremely clingy aswell, more so than Pisces ever will be. Their ignore game is strong but when you ignore them, they cant take it. They are bordering narcisism.
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Cancer guy broke up with me five months ago. I’ll admit I begged (a tiny bit) for him back. Our connection was everything and something I didn’t want to let go of. When I begged he got an ego boost and humiliated me over the phone to his friends. After that I just backed off and did my own thing. He told me to leave him alone so I did. I started focusing more on my savings, got back in the gym, back in church. Just started doing things to help me feel better about myself. Few months later, he reaches out. I play it cool but I’m a nice person so I still had a cheery side about me. He basically shitted on me again. First saying how we are compatible now to saying he only wants me for sex and how he can get plenty of p $ $ $ $ else where. It’s like he takes my kindness, wipes his ass with it and then throws it in my face. Well.... I reached a breaking point. I didn’t yell at him exactly but I roasted his ass paragraph after paragraph just going in. He treats me like he’s superior and he’s arrogant so I knocked him down a few pegs with joans about flaws I’ve noticed but never once checked him about. After I ripped his soul out with my words I put him and we had behind me. I was good, I felt better. Next thing you know, he’s calling me and texting “yo”. I told him to f $ $ $ off. And he replied “love me”..... wtf!!!!!

Hahahahaaa I guess you got yourself a Cancer boyfriend now!

This is exactly why I refuse to date Cancer men. If you're nice to them, they get all high n mighty... start ignoring them and treating them mean, they follow you like a lost puppy. They are extremely clingy aswell, more so than Pisces ever will be. Their ignore game is strong but when you ignore them, they cant take it. They are bordering narcisism.
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Narcissism is universal. Expressed with a cancer sun the goal and triggers revolve around emotions. Both Validation from others and triggers(what sets them off). I would imagine this man would be vindictive is hell.

Why the hell are you attracting these kinds of men in the first place?



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The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!

Have a great marriage!

This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.

Cancers don’t want push overs and they like to put effort in to win people over. They like projects. 😂
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I finally replied and told him that I tried to love him but he was an asshole. I told him to move tf on and that he sucked as a person. He said , “say less” and I hit him with the thumbs up but I still feel like my page is being watched lmao
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He also called me from a burner number

Ffs is that an excuse? As soon as you hear his voice and see that he's doing the same old just say boring with emphasis and hang up. Otherwise block him unless ofc you are into this type of thing.
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What are you talking about— An excuse for what— I didn’t even answer the phone lmao
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He also called me from a burner number

Ffs is that an excuse? As soon as you hear his voice and see that he's doing the same old just say boring with emphasis and hang up. Otherwise block him unless ofc you are into this type of thing.
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And no matter if I block, ignore, disappear it don’t matter... he comes back lmao somehow/some way even though he was the one that told me to move on to begin with. It’s not me... it’s him lol
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Posted by LaPetiteEtoile

The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!

Have a great marriage!

This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.

He’s 23.... I’m 27 lol

What’re the birth dates?
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He is July 7 I’m April 20
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Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
Posted by MikeNYNYC
Posted by LaPetiteEtoile

The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!

Have a great marriage!

This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.

Cancers don’t want push overs and they like to put effort in to win people over. They like projects. 😂

I finally replied and told him that I tried to love him but he was an asshole. I told him to move tf on and that he sucked as a person. He said , “say less” and I hit him with the thumbs up but I still feel like my page is being watched lmao
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Stop responding to him.

That's what he wants. To keep you stuck.
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Posted by TheStubbornTaurus
Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
Posted by MikeNYNYC
Posted by LaPetiteEtoile

The fastest way into a Cancer man’s heart is insulting them. Congratulations!

Have a great marriage!

This is kind of true. Cancers have a masochistic side, but your's sounds really un-evolved.

Cancers don’t want push overs and they like to put effort in to win people over. They like projects. 😂

I finally replied and told him that I tried to love him but he was an asshole. I told him to move tf on and that he sucked as a person. He said , “say less” and I hit him with the thumbs up but I still feel like my page is being watched lmao

Stop responding to him.

That's what he wants. To keep you stuck.
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But why though? He was the one who initiated the break up and told me to go on with my life... I did that. What’s the point of getting me stuck if that’s not what he wanted?