Gf is losing her mind and wants time

The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

Sometimes women really do just need space. I’m at the nail salon for the first time in months because I’ve been with my boyfriend for the last 5-6 days straight. My question to you is did you just recently move in together? Or something major that might be making her feel overwhelmed? I had been with my ex husband for 12 years so the next boyfriend I had, when he decided to move in, it really freaked me out. I mean to the point I wanted to break up. My boyfriend now, I would bet money he’s my soulmate (precious post determines he’s my twin flame but saying soulmate for thread purposes) but I still need time away from him. I only just recently visited his home and I love it and him but it’s a lot.

I havent done anything to set her off. It started with everyone always asking her for favors, her mom feeling alone because she doesnt see her like she use to because shes been with me. Shes a single mother of 2 young girls doing it by herself. She just wants a break

We've been together 2 months. We would spend the weekend together at eachothers house and every Wednesday i would stay at her house. She is the clingy type and wanted to spend every chance with me she could. Both would say we felt like we would marry eachother.

Her sun and moon are cancers. I would give her reassurance and constantly tell her my feelings towards her.

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Posted by Breeze
I havent done anything to set her off. It started with everyone always asking her for favors, her mom feeling alone because she doesnt see her like she use to because shes been with me. Shes a single mother of 2 young girls doing it by herself. She just wants a break

We've been together 2 months. We would spend the weekend together at eachothers house and every Wednesday i would stay at her house. She is the clingy type and wanted to spend every chance with me she could. Both would say we felt like we would marry eachother.

Her sun and moon are cancers. I would give her reassurance and constantly tell her my feelings towards her.

Hmm, Yeah, then I can reassure you that I don't think there's another guy here at all.

I do think she's overwhelmed and needs space to just... relax. Does she do anything like get massages or get her nails done? If she does, pay for something like that for her alone or with her mom to unwind. I'm sure if she's a mother and has all of this going on she's barely got her head above the water. If she needs someone to watch the kids, volunteer for her if she's comfortable with that and you are too.

She needs time and space to recharge. That's it. click to expand

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Her nails are always done but being i live just over a hour away thats kinda hard. Someone else watching her kids.. shes veey protective over who watches them. If its not the weekend her kids go to theyre father they stay home. 1 will be going away for the summer when school gets out tho. I know shes barely above water and needs to recharge too, shes just so independent.

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here.

Posted by capitalism
She needs time because her feelings all out of wack because she met someone else.

Not looking good for you because she will talk to her friends and they will encourage her to move on because she's on the fence and you will be left with your dick in your hand. The sooner you realize this the better you'll be.

Nah i doubt she met someone else because shes either at work, home with her kids or with me. Her friends know how happy i make her and will tell her how stupid she sounds to lose a great man because how she always talks about me

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

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Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine.

Posted by Arielle83
It’s been 2 months. She’s given you attention and now she’s drained from you and everyone else.

She needs to be alone to find balance again.

You keep pushing and you’ll get nothing

Funny thing since she is clingy she wanted to spend every moment with me possible

I haven't really been pushing, ive given space like she asked. Guess i need to just fall back and let her find some inner peace. Thing is how much space do i give and still show support.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expand

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Cancers are sponges, if so many people are using her as their free psychologist and she’s absorbing all their negativity energy that takes so much toll on a persons spirit. Give her space to process and she really needs to tell people to stop using her for venting bullshit. She needs to stand up for her damn self and say “leave me the fuck alone, I have my own shit to deal with.”

I’m down to listen to an upset friend but all the time? No thanks, its draining as hell.

Give her time..

Check in but be light and don't ask her how she's doing all the time.. be random but not annoying.

cute or funny memes may work sometimes.

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Posted by Breeze

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expand

Cancers are sponges, if so many people are using her as their free psychologist and she’s absorbing all their negativity energy that takes so much toll on a persons spirit. Give her space to process and she really needs to tell people to stop using her for venting bullshit. She needs to stand up for her damn self and say “leave me the fuck alone, I have my own shit to deal with.”

I’m down to listen to an upset friend but all the time? No thanks, its draining as hell. click to expand

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Thats what basically happened. She feels like shes superwoman helping folks with they're issues and makes her feel better. Like you say her.listening she takes on the negative energy and doesnt release it and it just builds. Now im the one to take the hit because of other peoples issues.

Posted by Yodi
Give her time..
Check in but be light and don't ask her how she's doing all the time.. be random but not annoying.
cute or funny memes may work sometimes.

I usually just send a good morning text to break the ice. Im good with GIFs on Facebook so i can make her laugh there.

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Posted by Yodi
Give her time..
Check in but be light and don't ask her how she's doing all the time.. be random but not annoying.
cute or funny memes may work sometimes.

I usually just send a good morning text to break the ice. Im good with GIFs on Facebook so i can make her laugh there.

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Every morning? 🤔

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Posted by Breeze

Posted by Yodi
Give her time..
Check in but be light and don't ask her how she's doing all the time.. be random but not annoying.
cute or funny memes may work sometimes.

I usually just send a good morning text to break the ice. Im good with GIFs on Facebook so i can make her laugh there.

Every morning? 🤔 click to expand

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Every morning yup. Let me miss a day and she gives me the side eye like wheres my morning text at

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Posted by Breeze

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expand

Cancers are sponges, if so many people are using her as their free psychologist and she’s absorbing all their negativity energy that takes so much toll on a persons spirit. Give her space to process and she really needs to tell people to stop using her for venting bullshit. She needs to stand up for her damn self and say “leave me the fuck alone, I have my own shit to deal with.”

I’m down to listen to an upset friend but all the time? No thanks, its draining as hell. click to expand

Thats what basically happened. She feels like shes superwoman helping folks with they're issues and makes her feel better. Like you say her.listening she takes on the negative energy and doesnt release it and it just builds. Now im the one to take the hit because of other peoples issues. click to expand

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She needs to speak her mind, I get it.. listening to people makes me happy too but she needs to realize when enough is enough. Sometimes you need to be selfish to give your mind some peace.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expand

Cancers are sponges, if so many people are using her as their free psychologist and she’s absorbing all their negativity energy that takes so much toll on a persons spirit. Give her space to process and she really needs to tell people to stop using her for venting bullshit. She needs to stand up for her damn self and say “leave me the fuck alone, I have my own shit to deal with.”

I’m down to listen to an upset friend but all the time? No thanks, its draining as hell. click to expand

Thats what basically happened. She feels like shes superwoman helping folks with they're issues and makes her feel better. Like you say her.listening she takes on the negative energy and doesnt release it and it just builds. Now im the one to take the hit because of other peoples issues. click to expand

She needs to speak her mind, I get it.. listening to people makes me happy too but she needs to realize when enough is enough. Sometimes you need to be selfish to give your mind some peace. click to expand

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Shes too nice of a person to say no. She gets off on helping people even if it hurts her. Yesterday she was still letting people vent to her. She half ass listened but still let them speak.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expand

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Lack of communication can be fatal for any relationship. It's one thing if your partner has issues that she needs to tackle, it's another if she can't open up emotionally. Granted some people aren't effusive with their emotions, but without honest communication, the relationship can't survive. Think about it. Whenever life gets difficult, is she going to clam up each and every time?

The one thing to watch out for is that your girlfriend has mentioned that she has a pattern of pushing people away due to issues in her own childhood. That's a fairly solid red flag. Unless she works through those issues, you can expect this kind of thing will continue in the future

Another thing I noticed is that you mentioned that she doesn't have the time/energy to tend to your "needs". What "needs" are you referring to in that statment? I suggest letting her know that you're there for her and giving her the space she needs.

Cancer and libra... will, is not good idea :/

Posted by LadyLuna19
As a cancer, if I've spent a lot of my extra time with you and start asking for space either

- feel underappreciated or taken for granted
- didn't receive the same amount of affection back
- something personal that I'm not ready to share with you came up
- lost of interest, sorry...

Everything, except the last one, is fixable but just requires some time.

Mentioned needed to get things organized. Cancer group on fb says she lost interest and to get space or move on

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expand

Lack of communication can be fatal for any relationship. It's one thing if your partner has issues that she needs to tackle, it's another if she can't open up emotionally. Granted some people aren't effusive with their emotions, but without honest communication, the relationship can't survive. Think about it. Whenever life gets difficult, is she going to clam up each and every time?

The one thing to watch out for is that your girlfriend has mentioned that she has a pattern of pushing people away due to issues in her own childhood. That's a fairly solid red flag. Unless she works through those issues, you can expect this kind of thing will continue in the future

Another thing I noticed is that you mentioned that she doesn't have the time/energy to tend to your "needs". What "needs" are you referring to in that statment? I suggest letting her know that you're there for her and giving her the space she needs. click to expand

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not sure of what she ment by needs but guessing needs in general in any relationship.

Yea the pushing thing shes done it to other bfs in past. I asked how they went about she said they just layed low, checked on her and sent flowers. It is a red flag because how do you resolve the issue ig being pushed away and in the dark.

Posted by LadyLuna19

Posted by Breeze

Posted by LadyLuna19
As a cancer, if I've spent a lot of my extra time with you and start asking for space either

- feel underappreciated or taken for granted
- didn't receive the same amount of affection back
- something personal that I'm not ready to share with you came up
- lost of interest, sorry...

Everything, except the last one, is fixable but just requires some time.

Mentioned needed to get things organized. Cancer group on fb says she lost interest and to get space or move on click to expand

Is she prone to depression? Not to be rude but I know I spiral down if I back away from interests click to expand

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She sent me a video over fb about depression before she told me she wanted space. This girl on the outside looks so happy but on the inside is dying inside

Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

Posted by Echo
Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me"

Posted by Breeze

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Posted by Breeze

Posted by Yodi
Give her time..
Check in but be light and don't ask her how she's doing all the time.. be random but not annoying.
cute or funny memes may work sometimes.

I usually just send a good morning text to break the ice. Im good with GIFs on Facebook so i can make her laugh there.

Every morning? 🤔 click to expand

Every morning yup. Let me miss a day and she gives me the side eye like wheres my morning text at

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😏

Posted by Superman77

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

100% bro. People run to their safety zone when hurt. That’s normally their SO. click to expand

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she dont it before, deleted her fb a few times. Her friends and fam felt her do it. Even when someone on fb said they hate cancers because they disappear and later reappear like nothing happened she tagged me in like see this how we do. This was before she felt this way but things were building up by then

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Superman77

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

100% bro. People run to their safety zone when hurt. That’s normally their SO. click to expand

she dont it before, deleted her fb a few times. Her friends and fam felt her do it. Even when someone on fb said they hate cancers because they disappear and later reappear like nothing happened

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😂😂😂😂😂 this is so me with social media..

" I'm here for a good time not for a longtime" we need a fresh start sometimes to remove all the bad vibes..

This is how we are you have to get used to it if you want to date a crab

Best advice I can ever give you is to.. learn your girl.

Posted by Yodi

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Superman77

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

100% bro. People run to their safety zone when hurt. That’s normally their SO. click to expand

she dont it before, deleted her fb a few times. Her friends and fam felt her do it. Even when someone on fb said they hate cancers because they disappear and later reappear like nothing happened

😂😂😂😂😂 this is so me with social media..
" I'm here for a good time not for a longtime" we need a fresh start sometimes to remove all the bad vibes..

This is how we are you have to get used to it if you want to date a crab

Best advice I can ever give you is to.. learn your girl. click to expand

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Lol im trying. This is my first crab so its allll so new to me. Im use to lets talk it out so i we can fix it or how can we fix it. Im just hoping she'll snap out of it soon so i can learn from it so know how to stop it from happening again or not get as bad

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Yodi

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Superman77

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

100% bro. People run to their safety zone when hurt. That’s normally their SO. click to expand

she dont it before, deleted her fb a few times. Her friends and fam felt her do it. Even when someone on fb said they hate cancers because they disappear and later reappear like nothing happened

😂😂😂😂😂 this is so me with social media..
" I'm here for a good time not for a longtime" we need a fresh start sometimes to remove all the bad vibes..

This is how we are you have to get used to it if you want to date a crab

Best advice I can ever give you is to.. learn your girl. click to expand

Lol im trying. This is my first crab so its allll so new to me. Im use to lets talk it out so i we can fix it or how can we fix it. Im just hoping she'll snap out of it soon so i can learn from it so know how to stop it from happening again or not get as bad

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Good for you 💪🏿

Hopefully she'll let you figure her out and doesn't chase you away.

Posted by C69
it could be anything really. I doubt there’s someone else tho.

don’t make a big deal of it. also, don’t smother her with ‘is this bc of me’ questions. that will only make it worse. she might feel guilty for being emotional... then get even more emotional and disappear altogether. at least that’s how I would feel.

that’s hell of a pain if someone makes you feel bad about feeling bad, even if unintentionally which is usually the case.

also, it does sound like she’s insecure about the relationship. but I don’t think this needs to be solved urgently. especially if it’s just the beginning.

I personally believe there are people who will never feel secure in any relationship, including myself. but that’s not even that big of a deal. life is too short to bother.

I never made it about me issue. I watched as time go by people around her get her this way. I was there to always hold her and be there for her as time went on.

When she would throw out the insecure talk i would say dont put that stuff on me as in no reason to because im doing nothing wrong as she knew.

She does, i know she feels bad about putting me through this. Just let her know she needs to get better, not worry bout me so we can get back together

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Posted by Echo
Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

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You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change.

Posted by Echo

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Echo
Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change. click to expand

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She thinks im going to find someone else. I told her in invested so much of me for a reason. I also said she is who i want and she answered with😭😭😭😭😭. After this im staying to myself for awhile. This hurt me honestly

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Echo

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Echo
Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change. click to expand

She thinks im going to find someone else. I told her in invested so much of me for a reason. I also said she is who i want and she answered with😭😭😭😭😭. After this im staying to myself for awhile. This hurt me honestly click to expand

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What's her placement if you dont mind me asking

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Posted by capitalism
She needs time because her feelings all out of wack because she met someone else.

Not looking good for you because she will talk to her friends and they will encourage her to move on because she's on the fence and you will be left with your dick in your hand. The sooner you realize this the better you'll be.

Nah i doubt she met someone else because shes either at work, home with her kids or with me. Her friends know how happy i make her and will tell her how stupid she sounds to lose a great man because how she always talks about me click to expand

You really believe friends will say this? No, they won't. No matter how great you are, friends never say this to each other. Plus, she probably have told them reasons behind her reactions if she even seeks advises of that kind. And I'm speaking of reasons you don't know about that she left unsaid. And there's always such reasons click to expand

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I know what your saying, she'd only take advice really from her brother and mom (who are libras too) and her father maybe. She knows she came across something good. Think she just doesnt want me around when shes down and out because she never wants people to see her sweat or down and out

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Posted by Echo

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Posted by Echo
Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change. click to expand

She thinks im going to find someone else. I told her in invested so much of me for a reason. I also said she is who i want and she answered with😭😭😭😭😭. After this im staying to myself for awhile. This hurt me honestly click to expand

What's her placement if you dont mind me asking click to expand

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June 22 1990 Hawaii USA time unknown

Sun. Cancer

Moon. Cancer

Merc. Gem

Venus. Taurus

Mars. Aries

Jup. Cancer

Saturn. Capi

Uranus. Capi

Nep. Capi

Pluto. Scorp

Lilth. Scorp

Asc node. Aqua

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Posted by Echo
Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change. click to expand

She thinks im going to find someone else. I told her in invested so much of me for a reason. I also said she is who i want and she answered with😭😭😭😭😭. After this im staying to myself for awhile. This hurt me honestly click to expand

What's her placement if you dont mind me asking click to expand

June 22 1990 Hawaii USA time unknown
Sun. Cancer
Moon. Cancer
Merc. Gem
Venus. Taurus
Mars. Aries
Jup. Cancer
Saturn. Capi
Uranus. Capi
Nep. Capi
Pluto. Scorp
Lilth. Scorp
Asc node. Aqua
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Ah ah I see, just give her space for the time being 🙂

I am sure she will come back. Just be patience for her

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Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change. click to expand

She thinks im going to find someone else. I told her in invested so much of me for a reason. I also said she is who i want and she answered with😭😭😭😭😭. After this im staying to myself for awhile. This hurt me honestly click to expand

What's her placement if you dont mind me asking click to expand

June 22 1990 Hawaii USA time unknown
Sun. Cancer
Moon. Cancer
Merc. Gem
Venus. Taurus
Mars. Aries
Jup. Cancer
Saturn. Capi
Uranus. Capi
Nep. Capi
Pluto. Scorp
Lilth. Scorp
Asc node. Aqua
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Ah ah I see, just give her space for the time being

I am sure she will come back. Just be patience for her click to expand

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Will give space but can i send good morning/good night text just to let her know im still here and thinking of her??

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Posted by Echo
Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change. click to expand

She thinks im going to find someone else. I told her in invested so much of me for a reason. I also said she is who i want and she answered with😭😭😭😭😭. After this im staying to myself for awhile. This hurt me honestly click to expand

What's her placement if you dont mind me asking click to expand

June 22 1990 Hawaii USA time unknown
Sun. Cancer
Moon. Cancer
Merc. Gem
Venus. Taurus
Mars. Aries
Jup. Cancer
Saturn. Capi
Uranus. Capi
Nep. Capi
Pluto. Scorp
Lilth. Scorp
Asc node. Aqua
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Ah ah I see, just give her space for the time being

I am sure she will come back. Just be patience for her click to expand

Will give space but can i send good morning/good night text just to let her know im still here and thinking of her?? click to expand

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Every other week. That wouldn't be giving her space to think you know?

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Posted by Echo
Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change. click to expand

She thinks im going to find someone else. I told her in invested so much of me for a reason. I also said she is who i want and she answered with😭😭😭😭😭. After this im staying to myself for awhile. This hurt me honestly click to expand

What's her placement if you dont mind me asking click to expand

June 22 1990 Hawaii USA time unknown
Sun. Cancer
Moon. Cancer
Merc. Gem
Venus. Taurus
Mars. Aries
Jup. Cancer
Saturn. Capi
Uranus. Capi
Nep. Capi
Pluto. Scorp
Lilth. Scorp
Asc node. Aqua
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Ah ah I see, just give her space for the time being

I am sure she will come back. Just be patience for her click to expand

Will give space but can i send good morning/good night text just to let her know im still here and thinking of her?? click to expand

Every other week. That wouldn't be giving her space to think you know? click to expand

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How often would you say then?

Its just when i care I CARE! The silence is killing me not being able to communicate until i relax my feelings. Then i hope she wont go back to her ex shes been on and off with over 14yrs and i lose interest by then. Im sure they can resurface again tho.

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The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expand

Lack of communication can be fatal for any relationship. It's one thing if your partner has issues that she needs to tackle, it's another if she can't open up emotionally. Granted some people aren't effusive with their emotions, but without honest communication, the relationship can't survive. Think about it. Whenever life gets difficult, is she going to clam up each and every time?

The one thing to watch out for is that your girlfriend has mentioned that she has a pattern of pushing people away due to issues in her own childhood. That's a fairly solid red flag. Unless she works through those issues, you can expect this kind of thing will continue in the future

Another thing I noticed is that you mentioned that she doesn't have the time/energy to tend to your "needs". What "needs" are you referring to in that statment? I suggest letting her know that you're there for her and giving her the space she needs. click to expand

not sure of what she ment by needs but guessing needs in general in any relationship.

Yea the pushing thing shes done it to other bfs in past. I asked how they went about she said they just layed low, checked on her and sent flowers. It is a red flag because how do you resolve the issue ig being pushed away and in the dark. click to expand

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If she's the one bringing up your needs, that means that she may think that you're needy. However your girlfriend clearly has emotional baggage, so it could just be that she can't handle a relationship like this. My concern is that there is a serious pattern with her. She pushes men away just to have them dote on her from afar. I wouldn't be shocked if she was the type that pushes men away to see how much they "fight" for her. Be very careful with a partner like this. In reality it just means that she is insecure and doesn't know how to handle a serious relationship (more than likely due to unresolved issues in her childhood).

Your best option is to give her the space she has requested. If she gets upset that you gave her space, then you'll know something is off with her. One thing any woman should know is that if she pushes her man too far, he is actually capable of leaving. If she is willing to open up and speak with you honestly, then you'll know she's capable of being in a relationship.

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Posted by Breeze

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Breeze
The past 1.5 weeks my gf has just been going through alot. So much emotions and thoughts running through her mind. I gave her space, barely contacted her and she even said it was just enough check in. Today she says she doesnt know anymore about us. She feels she needs time to herself and maybe seek help. Also Mentioned its no one else or relationship she desires she just wants ME! I agreed to let her have her time and that i still love her and here for her.

My question is when we do give eachother space is she going to run off to the next man when she feels fine or am i the one she TRUELY desires to be with??

I never felt this way with another woman and invested so much of myself to one person. Her the same way. The typical cancer things you do when you love someone i got it all

What do you mean she has so many emotions and thoughts? What were the events that led to this moment? Basically if a woman is asking for space, give it to her. If a woman says she is unsure about your relationship, it's because her attraction for you is going in the wrong direction. If that's the case, more than likely there's something you are doing (or not doing) that is turning her off. If that's not the case, then you'll want to find out what's going on with her.

When a woman is happy and in love, the last thing she's going to do is push you away and risk losing you. Barring something traumatic happening, a woman who is in love will seek the emotional support of her partner. By pushing you away your lady is letting you know that she doesn't feel entirely emotionally secure in the relationship.

While there may not be another guy in the picture in the moment, you'll need to correct whatever behavior you've been exhibiting that has been turning off your girlfriend. It's possible that it's something that seems small or innocuous to you, but is subconsciously making her question you in her mind/heart.

If you are 100% sure that you haven't done anything to push your girlfriend away, then you'll need to have an honest conversation with her when she starts communicating again. It's possible that something is going on with her and you'll need to gently coerce her to opening up to you. Also know that Cancer women can be passive aggressive when upset. This means that she may "punish" you when she's upset. This is obviously unfair to you and should be addressed if that's the case.

Again without the details of you situation, it's hard to say what's going on here. click to expand

Well everyone goes to her for advice and theyre problems but no one ask how she is doing. She doesnt trust alot of people or.open up to many so she holds it in. One weekend i was over her house her mom felt all alone because i got all her time and her mom wasnt. She felt horrible about it. Raising 2 girls by herself and barely getting time to herself drives her crazy. Her job doesn't pay her enough and wants to make more money. Where she lives people get on her nerves and wants to get out the area but afraid to take that leap and fail. She mentioned her childhood messed her up mentally and does this every relationship. I know her and her dads realtionship isnt the best also. May look to seek help.

I mentioned id give her her space and will be there for her. She understands and says she only wants ME, no one else or relationship. Its just taking too much of a toll on her with everything else going on and cant get her mind straight having to tend to my needs also. Shes always been very open and honest (too honest) about her every moves. I doubt she is seeing someone else.

Only thing that did make her upset was that its hard for me to express certain emotions in front of people. Kinda shy. I didnt say I love her back around my family. Other then that i always reassured her how i felt and actions always backed it up.

She wont let go of her feelings like cry on my shoulder or just vent to me because she doesnt let people see her down or vulnerable. I tried to let her know shes safe with me and she said she just cant allow herself to.

Lately shes gotten her space but will still check-in as in call me to just see whats up because we barely talk or text like we did before this. She would always call me, we had like a routine. click to expand

Lack of communication can be fatal for any relationship. It's one thing if your partner has issues that she needs to tackle, it's another if she can't open up emotionally. Granted some people aren't effusive with their emotions, but without honest communication, the relationship can't survive. Think about it. Whenever life gets difficult, is she going to clam up each and every time?

The one thing to watch out for is that your girlfriend has mentioned that she has a pattern of pushing people away due to issues in her own childhood. That's a fairly solid red flag. Unless she works through those issues, you can expect this kind of thing will continue in the future

Another thing I noticed is that you mentioned that she doesn't have the time/energy to tend to your "needs". What "needs" are you referring to in that statment? I suggest letting her know that you're there for her and giving her the space she needs. click to expand

not sure of what she ment by needs but guessing needs in general in any relationship.

Yea the pushing thing shes done it to other bfs in past. I asked how they went about she said they just layed low, checked on her and sent flowers. It is a red flag because how do you resolve the issue ig being pushed away and in the dark. click to expand

If she's the one bringing up your needs, that means that she may think that you're needy. However your girlfriend clearly has emotional baggage, so it could just be that she can't handle a relationship like this. My concern is that there is a serious pattern with her. She pushes men away just to have them dote on her from afar. I wouldn't be shocked if she was the type that pushes men away to see how much they "fight" for her. Be very careful with a partner like this. In reality it just means that she is insecure and doesn't know how to handle a serious relationship (more than likely due to unresolved issues in her childhood).

Your best option is to give her the space she has requested. If she gets upset that you gave her space, then you'll know something is off with her. One thing any woman should know is that if she pushes her man too far, he is actually capable of leaving. If she is willing to open up and speak with you honestly, then you'll know she's capable of being in a relationship. click to expand

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I put out the same energy she was giving out. Time and attention, mental, physical sexual etc.

I agree it is a pattern. She even said around her bday june 22 she always ends up breaking up with whomever shes with. The end is near im seeing. I'll just fall back and not gonna fight for a person that pushes me away

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Yes. When they love you, they love only you. The only time they feel like they dont want you anymore is telling you straight to the face.

And she had no problem telling me straight up how she felt, if it was really that bad i think she would have called me. Was easier over text to get it all out tho. In the message saying she wanted space i let her know i loved her, id be here for her and let her have her space. She replied "i understand and want YOU! But dont want you feeling like you have to wait on me" click to expand

You're Libra sun and Leo moon, the same placement as my Libra boyfriend.

I would do the same thing to my boyfriend and say the same thing, cause the relationship gets stressful along with other responsibilities.

Those words meant that she doesnt want you to keep waiting on her if there might be a chance that things may change. click to expand

She thinks im going to find someone else. I told her in invested so much of me for a reason. I also said she is who i want and she answered with😭😭😭😭😭. After this im staying to myself for awhile. This hurt me honestly click to expand

What's her placement if you dont mind me asking click to expand

June 22 1990 Hawaii USA time unknown
Sun. Cancer
Moon. Cancer
Merc. Gem
Venus. Taurus
Mars. Aries
Jup. Cancer
Saturn. Capi
Uranus. Capi
Nep. Capi
Pluto. Scorp
Lilth. Scorp
Asc node. Aqua
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Ah ah I see, just give her space for the time being

I am sure she will come back. Just be patience for her click to expand

Will give space but can i send good morning/good night text just to let her know im still here and thinking of her?? click to expand

Every other week. That wouldn't be giving her space to think you know? click to expand

How often would you say then?

Its just when i care I CARE! The silence is killing me not being able to communicate until i relax my feelings. Then i hope she wont go back to her ex shes been on and off with over 14yrs and i lose interest by then. Im sure they can resurface again tho. click to expand

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Like I tell my Libra boyfriend, you shouldn't force a person to talk to you until they feel like they are ready to communicate.

I hate the fact when he sometimes doesnt give me the space it's pretty annoying.

Just leave cheesy quotes and maybe that would do, saying that you're still thinking about them makes you sound obsessed.

The on and off past with her ex is something you shouldn't worry about, if you're with her.... YOU ARE WITH HER. You just focus on your part in the relationship and maintain your stability where she knows you wouldnt be off balance once shes ready to come back