He didn't last very long - Literally

So I have been on 5 dates with this Cancer guy, not going to lie at first he gave me the cute vibes and all I wanted was his attention and I felt like all of our dates, we had so much fun until now. On Friday last week, he went out with his friends and got too drunk and was a bit hungover on Saturday. He then came over to my house in the evening time.

I made him dinner, we watched movies, drank Tea. He FELL ASLEEP on me at 10.30 pm, I was like WTF is this. I was expecting a frisky business. I was so confused, he travelled like an hour and a half to be with me and fell asleep!!! In fairness, he was very affectionate and cuddly.

Anyway, I was extremely annoyed and I stayed up drinking wine with my housemate instead. The next day we went out for lunch together. To make a long story short, before he went home. We started kissing and then we had sex, the kissing was good but he lasted 4 seconds ... FOUR SECONDS! I was extremely annoyed. He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

After he left, I was debating whether or not should I see him again. Girls got needs too! My friends said I should give him another chance but I'm not sure.

He then texted me saying he was home and then eventually I told him I was annoyed, he was apologizing but It didn't feel sincere to me. He concluded his apologies saying these things happen.

So at the moment, I'm just going to distance myself away from him. If he wants me he can start showing it to me.

Honestly, I'm so confused by it all, never had a guy falling asleep on me on our first time in bed together.

What do you think it's up with this Cancer guy?

He’s right. Those things do happen.

I think it’s nice he’s not looking just for sex. He’s a relationship guy.

I’m worried you made him feel insecure with your conversation. But if you don’t want him anymore, it doesn’t matter.

I’m not sure what’s worse, the 4 second wonder or falling asleep at 10.30

Lol 😂

Also. He showed you he wants to be with you by driving an hour and a half to see you. He was cuddling too. That shows a lot of interest.

He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

Yes! Those things happen. Especially when the sexual tension has been building up for a while.

See him again,....

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

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....which makes them incompatible

Posted by PiscesGal76

Yes! Those things happen. Especially when the sexual tension has been building up for a while.

See him again,....

Why...so he can fall asleep in her company?

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Posted by MyStarsShine

He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

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How many perspectives are there to falling asleep before the night has begun and not being sorry for lasting 4 secs ?

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Posted by MyStarsShine

He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

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How many perspectives are there to falling asleep before the night has begun and not being sorry for lasting 4 secs ?

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

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Yes. Agreed. My best friend is a male libra and he lovessssss crazy wild sex and date nights. Just the other day I was complaining I was tired and the Pisces I am seeing was taking too long. Libra was like relax! It’s only 7. I shower at 7pm. Date night begins at 9. And I replied this is why I could never date you 😂

Soooo I see the problems she’s facing right now and the incompatibilities between the two.

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Totally incompatible and felt much more sorry of that cancer guy once he discovered of her very high expectation with plenty ridiculous turn off.

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Yes, No guy likes a girl who argues or starts drama on the fifth date...

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

How many perspectives are there to falling asleep before the night has begun and not being sorry for lasting 4 secs ?

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Maybe he had to work all day and he’s exhausted but still made the effort to spend time with her.

Guys cum fast sometimes after a first with a new girl or the sex was amazing and he’s not used to it.

Really could be anything. These are random guesses

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Yes. Agreed. My best friend is a male libra and he lovessssss crazy wild sex and date nights. Just the other day I was complaining I was tired and the Pisces I am seeing was taking too long. Libra was like relax! It’s only 7. I shower at 7pm. Date night begins at 9. And I replied this is why I could never date you 😂

Soooo I see the problems she’s facing right now and the incompatibilities between the two.

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We go out at 10 or later here...one gig I went to i left at 11 lol

None of my friends can hack it so meet me in the day

Lightweights 😆

What grown adult can't last long enough for frisky business. I would definitely drop him librajackson because he certainly seems lackluster in certain areas. Why waste time on a selfish partner, remember your a libra with needs.

can you get a guy who is not an hour and half away? 🙂

he was maybe nervous its going to be the "sex date" (if you invited him into your home) so he get drunk the night before being happy and bragging to his friends beforehand 🙂

if he has a big d*ck, I would give him another chance. If not, keep him as casual texting buddy

imho

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Totally incompatible and felt much more sorry of that cancer guy once he discovered of her very high expectation with plenty ridiculous turn off.

Yes, No guy likes a girl who argues or starts drama on the fifth date...

Of him falling asleep and 4 second kiss?? Petty argument though.

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Would hate to see how she reacted to something actually important.

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Yes. Agreed. My best friend is a male libra and he lovessssss crazy wild sex and date nights. Just the other day I was complaining I was tired and the Pisces I am seeing was taking too long. Libra was like relax! It’s only 7. I shower at 7pm. Date night begins at 9. And I replied this is why I could never date you 😂

Soooo I see the problems she’s facing right now and the incompatibilities between the two.

We go out at 10 or later here...one gig I went to i left at 11 lol

None of my friends can hack it so meet me in the day

Lightweights 😆

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Lol yep I’m like ur friends. Day drinking is my favorite. When I need to, 5 hour energy is my best friend. Then I can do 24 hours. Lol

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Totally incompatible and felt much more sorry of that cancer guy once he discovered of her very high expectation with plenty ridiculous turn off.

Yes, No guy likes a girl who argues or starts drama on the fifth date...

Of him falling asleep and 4 second kiss?? Petty argument though.

Would hate to see how she reacted to something actually important.

Plus it's been only like 5 dates and barely knowing this guy well with already high expectation.

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Exactly. It’s not a serious relationship yet. Both people are trying out for that gf/bf role.

Uh..i would give him one more chance....but really if the shoe was on the other foot and you got your rocks off and didnt care if he did, do you think he'd stick around? No. Hes prolly embarrassed but whatever he owes you an orgasm. Bottom line.

I don't see a problem w him falling asleep at 10:30. Not everyone is a night owl 🙄 He drove to you WHILE HAVING A HANGOVER. That SPEAKS volumes to me and he's affectionate. It's possible the drinking the night before effected his performance. Possibly?

I don't think you should be so hard on him.

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Yes. Agreed. My best friend is a male libra and he lovessssss crazy wild sex and date nights. Just the other day I was complaining I was tired and the Pisces I am seeing was taking too long. Libra was like relax! It’s only 7. I shower at 7pm. Date night begins at 9. And I replied this is why I could never date you 😂

Soooo I see the problems she’s facing right now and the incompatibilities between the two.

We go out at 10 or later here...one gig I went to i left at 11 lol

None of my friends can hack it so meet me in the day

Lightweights 😆

Lol yep I’m like ur friends. Day drinking is my favorite. When I need to, 5 hour energy is my best friend. Then I can do 24 hours. Lol

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Maybe it's because I don't drink booze, so have more energy 💥⚡️

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Totally incompatible and felt much more sorry of that cancer guy once he discovered of her very high expectation with plenty ridiculous turn off.

Yes, No guy likes a girl who argues or starts drama on the fifth date...

Of him falling asleep and 4 second kiss?? Petty argument though.

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Orgasm

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Totally incompatible and felt much more sorry of that cancer guy once he discovered of her very high expectation with plenty ridiculous turn off.

Yes, No guy likes a girl who argues or starts drama on the fifth date...

Of him falling asleep and 4 second kiss?? Petty argument though.

Would hate to see how she reacted to something actually important.

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Sex is very important to some people

Yikes....I don't think you have to worry about him anymore cause he's probably gonna go hide in his shell after being shamed for cumming too fast....which happens usually to guys the first time sleeping with a new chick and if it's been a while for them. Yeah maybe he should have helped you get off but maybe he felt embarrassed about cumming quick. Who knows...but I think it was super harsh. Him falling asleep is also not that big of a deal...he still came and seen you and took you to lunch the next day.

I'm confused about one thing tho...did he fall asleep during sex too because you said he did the night before but then later said you've never had someone fall asleep on you while in bed together? Which is it?

Kudos to him for not letting you shame him

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Yes! Those things happen. Especially when the sexual tension has been building up for a while.

See him again,....

Why...so he can fall asleep in her company?

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Was referring to the 4 seconds thingy lol

Posted by LibraJackson

So at the moment, I'm just going to distance myself away from him. If he wants me he can start showing it to me.

Lol wtf..

Is this your way of having him fade out of your life without making the decision yourself? He's seeing you so obviously he wants you as much as you can want anyone from a couple of dates.. you're the one with needs not met, so the ball is really in your court.

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Yes! Those things happen. Especially when the sexual tension has been building up for a while.

See him again,....

Why...so he can fall asleep in her company?

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Yep! Apparently after he was drinking and drove to her hanged over...falling asleep is a sin that punishable by break up!

Well...maybe she has another one waiting for the call or text? She seems lovey-dovey one isn’t she?

🤦‍♀️

Posted by pinkbird03

He’s right. Those things do happen.

I think it’s nice he’s not looking just for sex. He’s a relationship guy.

I’m worried you made him feel insecure with your conversation. But if you don’t want him anymore, it doesn’t matter.

I sensed that off him as well, I would give him another chance but fear that I'm not his type really

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I’m not sure what’s worse, the 4 second wonder or falling asleep at 10.30

Lol 😂

Tell me about it, I was so annoyed at the situation. I feel bad and confused but hey I'm still debating what's worse too 😂

Posted by PiscesGal76

Yes! Those things happen. Especially when the sexual tension has been building up for a while.

See him again,....

Yeah, I'm going to give him another chance too

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

....which makes them incompatible

Yes. Agreed. My best friend is a male libra and he lovessssss crazy wild sex and date nights. Just the other day I was complaining I was tired and the Pisces I am seeing was taking too long. Libra was like relax! It’s only 7. I shower at 7pm. Date night begins at 9. And I replied this is why I could never date you 😂

Soooo I see the problems she’s facing right now and the incompatibilities between the two.

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I'm your friend, I do have serious cravings! 😂

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Posted by MyStarsShine

I’m not sure what’s worse, the 4 second wonder or falling asleep at 10.30

Lol 😂

Tell me about it, I was so annoyed at the situation. I feel bad and confused but hey I'm still debating what's worse too 😂

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Meet him again and see how it goes .... maybe it will be different?

Posted by LibraSupreme

What grown adult can't last long enough for frisky business. I would definitely drop him librajackson because he certainly seems lackluster in certain areas. Why waste time on a selfish partner, remember your a libra with needs.

I couldn't agree with you more, going to give him another chance, he seems nice but yes we do have needs!

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Uh..i would give him one more chance....but really if the shoe was on the other foot and you got your rocks off and didnt care if he did, do you think he'd stick around? No. Hes prolly embarrassed but whatever he owes you an orgasm. Bottom line.

Yes he owes me one! love this

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Yikes....I don't think you have to worry about him anymore cause he's probably gonna go hide in his shell after being shamed for cumming too fast....which happens usually to guys the first time sleeping with a new chick and if it's been a while for them. Yeah maybe he should have helped you get off but maybe he felt embarrassed about cumming quick. Who knows...but I think it was super harsh. Him falling asleep is also not that big of a deal...he still came and seen you and took you to lunch the next day.

I'm confused about one thing tho...did he fall asleep during sex too because you said he did the night before but then later said you've never had someone fall asleep on you while in bed together? Which is it?

On Friday night, we didn't even get to play around. He was so tired, he fell asleep, which I can understand but the next day he didn't last very long. I guess I'm not shaming him just really disappointed, I really liked him and expected a good time.

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So I have been on 5 dates with this Cancer guy, not going to lie at first he gave me the cute vibes and all I wanted was his attention and I felt like all of our dates, we had so much fun until now. On Friday last week, he went out with his friends and got too drunk and was a bit hungover on Saturday. He then came over to my house in the evening time.

I made him dinner, we watched movies, drank Tea. He FELL ASLEEP on me at 10.30 pm, I was like WTF is this. I was expecting a frisky business. I was so confused, he travelled like an hour and a half to be with me and fell asleep!!! In fairness, he was very affectionate and cuddly.

Anyway, I was extremely annoyed and I stayed up drinking wine with my housemate instead. The next day we went out for lunch together. To make a long story short, before he went home. We started kissing and then we had sex, the kissing was good but he lasted 4 seconds ... FOUR SECONDS! I was extremely annoyed. He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

After he left, I was debating whether or not should I see him again. Girls got needs too! My friends said I should give him another chance but I'm not sure.

He then texted me saying he was home and then eventually I told him I was annoyed, he was apologizing but It didn't feel sincere to me. He concluded his apologies saying these things happen.

So at the moment, I'm just going to distance myself away from him. If he wants me he can start showing it to me.

Honestly, I'm so confused by it all, never had a guy falling asleep on me on our first time in bed together.

What do you think it's up with this Cancer guy?

Yeah distance himself and after a while post in a Cancer left me forum how he got you into bed and then left you when you distanced yourself from him, lol. Jfc how about having an actual talk with a person and find out why this problem came up, why he has fallen asleep instead of judging a person, also so indecisive... One of the reasons why i can't get along with most of the libra people. Maybe you should voice your option instead of waiting for him to leave then message him and distancing yourself from him? Sounds just like a libra thing to do, distancing yourself when reality goes bad. Your should have told him what you want from him, i mean he should have pleased you, but if he didn't you could just simply voiced that, things come from talking to each other. 4secs is nothing, but you should stop judging instead maybe try talk and understand . I've heard guys cumming even without having sex, like girls sitting on their laps just because they get 2 excited. Anyways you might be sexually incompatible but if you don't talk to him, you'll never know, you'll just end up making up stories in your head like you're doing right now, best of luck .^^

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This is very true and mature of you. I would definitely take this advice, I just didn't want him to feel more embarrassed. I do like him so It is worthwhile to have a discussion with him.

Posted by blvckphvse

Just WOW... Some of the most entitled bs I ever read.

How is this self-entitled? I simply expected to have a good time. It takes both people to have sex.

I had a number of fun dates with him, I obviously wanted out the first time to be more special and last longer than 5 seconds.

I'm simply confused and asking for feedback, not shaming him. I would have stopped talking to him if it was that bull shit to me about what happened but clearly I don't understand why it happened.

Fair, maybe he deserves better. But we all have needs and rights to express what we feel. If you don't like it, get out of my forum/topic. You don't see me spreading hate on your page!

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Yes! Those things happen. Especially when the sexual tension has been building up for a while.

See him again,....

Why...so he can fall asleep in her company?

Yep! Apparently after he was drinking and drove to her hanged over...falling asleep is a sin that punishable by break up!

Well...maybe she has another one waiting for the call or text? She seems lovey-dovey one isn’t she?

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Ah not going to break this off, I will give him another chance. Just simply confused. I guess I'm not adjusting to this single life well.

My gemini Ex was more satisfying, I guess you can't compare and have to be more open-minded.

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Just WOW... Some of the most entitled bs I ever read.

How is this self-entitled? I simply expected to have a good time. It takes both people to have sex.

I had a number of fun dates with him, I obviously wanted out the first time to be more special and last longer than 5 seconds.

I'm simply confused and asking for feedback, not shaming him. I would have stopped talking to him if it was that bull shit to me about what happened but clearly I don't understand why it happened.

Fair, maybe he deserves better. But we all have needs and rights to express what we feel. If you don't like it, get out of my forum/topic. You don't see me spreading hate on your page!

How is it entitled? Everyone's idea of a good time is different.. Maybe you should have told him of your expectations before he drove all the way there to see you. People get tired, they fall asleep, everyone's energy level is different.. You aren't the one who just travelled to see him are you?

I've never been put off if a guy came too quick, shit happens. But I surely wouldn't come here to voice my disgust in the matter. The issue lies with you because you had expectations that it would be special and it didn't stack up. It's not his fault that he didn't live up to your expectation. You're right, everyone has needs, but if sex matters that much then maybe you should relay that to people before they take time out of their life only to disappoint you.

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I agree with most of your logic blvckphvse, but to my fellow libs credit in any instance 2min is a waste of even doing the deed. He should have made her wait or do other stimulating activities.

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Posted by blvckphvse

Just WOW... Some of the most entitled bs I ever read.

How is this self-entitled? I simply expected to have a good time. It takes both people to have sex.

I had a number of fun dates with him, I obviously wanted out the first time to be more special and last longer than 5 seconds.

I'm simply confused and asking for feedback, not shaming him. I would have stopped talking to him if it was that bull shit to me about what happened but clearly I don't understand why it happened.

Fair, maybe he deserves better. But we all have needs and rights to express what we feel. If you don't like it, get out of my forum/topic. You don't see me spreading hate on your page!

How is it entitled? Everyone's idea of a good time is different.. Maybe you should have told him of your expectations before he drove all the way there to see you. People get tired, they fall asleep, everyone's energy level is different.. You aren't the one who just travelled to see him are you?

I've never been put off if a guy came too quick, shit happens. But I surely wouldn't come here to voice my disgust in the matter. The issue lies with you because you had expectations that it would be special and it didn't stack up. It's not his fault that he didn't live up to your expectation. You're right, everyone has needs, but if sex matters that much then maybe you should relay that to people before they take time out of their life only to disappoint you.

I agree with most of your logic blvckphvse, but to my fellow libs credit in any instance 2min is a waste of even doing the deed. He should have made her wait or do other stimulating activities.

Maybe she should take it as a compliment.. Maybe she was too hot, he couldn't hold it in any longer.

Sometimes it can't be helped.. But wouldn't it make you feel crappy if you came too quick and some girl had second thoughts about you over it? Like clearly you felt shitty about it and now she's judging you for it.. Like nothing else about you as a person mattered, just how long you could hold on for sex.. If that is the determining factor for whether or not to proceed with someone, it just seems like a bad call. The best dude in the world could go in two seconds cause he was nervous, but an abusive prick could last for hours.. So I wouldn't let how long someone lasts be a determining factor.

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Very fair! there's more to him

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Posted by PiscesGal76

Yes! Those things happen. Especially when the sexual tension has been building up for a while.

See him again,....

Yeah, I'm going to give him another chance too

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Another chance to what? Not like he's gonna live up to your standards, why bother?

Posted by Pandora101

if he has a big d*ck, I would give him another chance. If not, keep him as casual texting buddy

imho

Wtf is a "casual texting buddy"? What do you do with those? This truly is Libra country I've entered

I’ve spent half my life with someone who simply doesn’t last very long. He knows it and we joke about it all the time. He even has a nickname for it - like his alter ego. He just makes sure he gets me off first because he knows once it’s in we have about 10-15 min at most 😂

On one hand I feel this guy is a total fuckin savage for leaving you hanging like that but it was also your first time and he was pressed to get home. I’d definitely give him another chance or two and see if it improves...but if he proves himself to be selfish and only worried about his then I’d say yeah he’s not worth it because that’s just bad behavior...you’re not some glove put on this earth to please him 😒

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Posted by Pandora101

if he has a big d*ck, I would give him another chance. If not, keep him as casual texting buddy

imho

Wtf is a "casual texting buddy"? What do you do with those? This truly is Libra country I've entered

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😆 I read that too and thought is there anything more Libra ?

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Posted by blvckphvse

Just WOW... Some of the most entitled bs I ever read.

How is this self-entitled? I simply expected to have a good time. It takes both people to have sex.

I had a number of fun dates with him, I obviously wanted out the first time to be more special and last longer than 5 seconds.

I'm simply confused and asking for feedback, not shaming him. I would have stopped talking to him if it was that bull shit to me about what happened but clearly I don't understand why it happened.

Fair, maybe he deserves better. But we all have needs and rights to express what we feel. If you don't like it, get out of my forum/topic. You don't see me spreading hate on your page!

How is it entitled? Everyone's idea of a good time is different.. Maybe you should have told him of your expectations before he drove all the way there to see you. People get tired, they fall asleep, everyone's energy level is different.. You aren't the one who just travelled to see him are you?

I've never been put off if a guy came too quick, shit happens. But I surely wouldn't come here to voice my disgust in the matter. The issue lies with you because you had expectations that it would be special and it didn't stack up. It's not his fault that he didn't live up to your expectation. You're right, everyone has needs, but if sex matters that much then maybe you should relay that to people before they take time out of their life only to disappoint you.

I agree with most of your logic blvckphvse, but to my fellow libs credit in any instance 2min is a waste of even doing the deed. He should have made her wait or do other stimulating activities.

Maybe she should take it as a compliment.. Maybe she was too hot, he couldn't hold it in any longer.

Sometimes it can't be helped.. But wouldn't it make you feel crappy if you came too quick and some girl had second thoughts about you over it? Like clearly you felt shitty about it and now she's judging you for it.. Like nothing else about you as a person mattered, just how long you could hold on for sex.. If that is the determining factor for whether or not to proceed with someone, it just seems like a bad call. The best dude in the world could go in two seconds cause he was nervous, but an abusive prick could last for hours.. So I wouldn't let how long someone lasts be a determining factor.

Very fair! there's more to him

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Omfg you libras are soo annoying. No personality, always swing any way the wind blows. How would you manage life without constant input from other people? You have a shallow and shitty personality, why change perspective bc someone gives you theirs? You are still that person

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Just WOW... Some of the most entitled bs I ever read.

How is this self-entitled? I simply expected to have a good time. It takes both people to have sex.

I had a number of fun dates with him, I obviously wanted out the first time to be more special and last longer than 5 seconds.

I'm simply confused and asking for feedback, not shaming him. I would have stopped talking to him if it was that bull shit to me about what happened but clearly I don't understand why it happened.

Fair, maybe he deserves better. But we all have needs and rights to express what we feel. If you don't like it, get out of my forum/topic. You don't see me spreading hate on your page!

How is it entitled? Everyone's idea of a good time is different.. Maybe you should have told him of your expectations before he drove all the way there to see you. People get tired, they fall asleep, everyone's energy level is different.. You aren't the one who just travelled to see him are you?

I've never been put off if a guy came too quick, shit happens. But I surely wouldn't come here to voice my disgust in the matter. The issue lies with you because you had expectations that it would be special and it didn't stack up. It's not his fault that he didn't live up to your expectation. You're right, everyone has needs, but if sex matters that much then maybe you should relay that to people before they take time out of their life only to disappoint you.

I agree with most of your logic blvckphvse, but to my fellow libs credit in any instance 2min is a waste of even doing the deed. He should have made her wait or do other stimulating activities.

Maybe she should take it as a compliment.. Maybe she was too hot, he couldn't hold it in any longer.

Sometimes it can't be helped.. But wouldn't it make you feel crappy if you came too quick and some girl had second thoughts about you over it? Like clearly you felt shitty about it and now she's judging you for it.. Like nothing else about you as a person mattered, just how long you could hold on for sex.. If that is the determining factor for whether or not to proceed with someone, it just seems like a bad call. The best dude in the world could go in two seconds cause he was nervous, but an abusive prick could last for hours.. So I wouldn't let how long someone lasts be a determining factor.

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My understanding is any mature adult would be well versed at handling the union as selfish on his part. Factors do play a role, but if I got on a job interview I dress and act accordingly, and me driving that far of a distance for a mate I would prepare and hopefully be equipped for the occasion. No round two or any reciprocation just seems selfish for any blossoming relationship. Libras are givers and expect it for it to work both ways. She being a lib is giving him a second chance btw.

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if he has a big d*ck, I would give him another chance. If not, keep him as casual texting buddy

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Wtf is a "casual texting buddy"? What do you do with those? This truly is Libra country I've entered

😆 I read that too and thought is there anything more Libra ?

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Yep.. then enter the hoards of feminists not getting why 'friendzone' is such a charged word. Means leftovers