He didn't last very long - Literally (Page 2)

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Posted by blvckphvse

Just WOW... Some of the most entitled bs I ever read.

How is this self-entitled? I simply expected to have a good time. It takes both people to have sex.

I had a number of fun dates with him, I obviously wanted out the first time to be more special and last longer than 5 seconds.

I'm simply confused and asking for feedback, not shaming him. I would have stopped talking to him if it was that bull shit to me about what happened but clearly I don't understand why it happened.

Fair, maybe he deserves better. But we all have needs and rights to express what we feel. If you don't like it, get out of my forum/topic. You don't see me spreading hate on your page!

How is it entitled? Everyone's idea of a good time is different.. Maybe you should have told him of your expectations before he drove all the way there to see you. People get tired, they fall asleep, everyone's energy level is different.. You aren't the one who just travelled to see him are you?

I've never been put off if a guy came too quick, shit happens. But I surely wouldn't come here to voice my disgust in the matter. The issue lies with you because you had expectations that it would be special and it didn't stack up. It's not his fault that he didn't live up to your expectation. You're right, everyone has needs, but if sex matters that much then maybe you should relay that to people before they take time out of their life only to disappoint you.

I agree with most of your logic blvckphvse, but to my fellow libs credit in any instance 2min is a waste of even doing the deed. He should have made her wait or do other stimulating activities.

Maybe she should take it as a compliment.. Maybe she was too hot, he couldn't hold it in any longer.

Sometimes it can't be helped.. But wouldn't it make you feel crappy if you came too quick and some girl had second thoughts about you over it? Like clearly you felt shitty about it and now she's judging you for it.. Like nothing else about you as a person mattered, just how long you could hold on for sex.. If that is the determining factor for whether or not to proceed with someone, it just seems like a bad call. The best dude in the world could go in two seconds cause he was nervous, but an abusive prick could last for hours.. So I wouldn't let how long someone lasts be a determining factor.

My understanding is any mature adult would be well versed at handling the union as selfish on his part. Factors do play a role, but if I got on a job interview I dress and act accordingly, and me driving that far of a distance for a mate I would prepare and hopefully be equipped for the occasion. No round two or any reciprocation just seems selfish for any blossoming relationship. Libras are givers and expect it for it to work both ways. She being a lib is giving him a second chance btw.

Oh honey, I know how you Libras operate. Haha. But it's not like he came in two seconds on purpose.. He probably felt like shit about it.. I don't think he was being selfish. He was likely too embarrassed to even try for a round two.. If she acted toward him the way she is on here, he definitely felt too ashamed.

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Posted by saggurl88

Why did you guys not have multiple rounds? This could've been an easy fix instead of being so irritated.

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Posted by blvckphvse

Just WOW... Some of the most entitled bs I ever read.

How is this self-entitled? I simply expected to have a good time. It takes both people to have sex.

I had a number of fun dates with him, I obviously wanted out the first time to be more special and last longer than 5 seconds.

I'm simply confused and asking for feedback, not shaming him. I would have stopped talking to him if it was that bull shit to me about what happened but clearly I don't understand why it happened.

Fair, maybe he deserves better. But we all have needs and rights to express what we feel. If you don't like it, get out of my forum/topic. You don't see me spreading hate on your page!

How is it entitled? Everyone's idea of a good time is different.. Maybe you should have told him of your expectations before he drove all the way there to see you. People get tired, they fall asleep, everyone's energy level is different.. You aren't the one who just travelled to see him are you?

I've never been put off if a guy came too quick, shit happens. But I surely wouldn't come here to voice my disgust in the matter. The issue lies with you because you had expectations that it would be special and it didn't stack up. It's not his fault that he didn't live up to your expectation. You're right, everyone has needs, but if sex matters that much then maybe you should relay that to people before they take time out of their life only to disappoint you.

I agree with most of your logic blvckphvse, but to my fellow libs credit in any instance 2min is a waste of even doing the deed. He should have made her wait or do other stimulating activities.

Maybe she should take it as a compliment.. Maybe she was too hot, he couldn't hold it in any longer.

Sometimes it can't be helped.. But wouldn't it make you feel crappy if you came too quick and some girl had second thoughts about you over it? Like clearly you felt shitty about it and now she's judging you for it.. Like nothing else about you as a person mattered, just how long you could hold on for sex.. If that is the determining factor for whether or not to proceed with someone, it just seems like a bad call. The best dude in the world could go in two seconds cause he was nervous, but an abusive prick could last for hours.. So I wouldn't let how long someone lasts be a determining factor.

My understanding is any mature adult would be well versed at handling the union as selfish on his part. Factors do play a role, but if I got on a job interview I dress and act accordingly, and me driving that far of a distance for a mate I would prepare and hopefully be equipped for the occasion. No round two or any reciprocation just seems selfish for any blossoming relationship. Libras are givers and expect it for it to work both ways. She being a lib is giving him a second chance btw.

Oh honey, I know how you Libras operate. Haha. But it's not like he came in two seconds on purpose.. He probably felt like shit about it.. I don't think he was being selfish. He was likely too embarrassed to even try for a round two.. If she acted toward him the way she is on here, he definitely felt too ashamed.

So no oral or heavy petting. Just saying

Hes getting another chance

Heavy petting is just a tease unless they gon take me all the way.. Lol

Damn, why is everything about getting off with you folks!? 😆 j/k

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

How many perspectives are there to falling asleep before the night has begun and not being sorry for lasting 4 secs ?

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He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

Maybe he wasn’t?

I was thinking that too. Not interested in her enough to want sex.

But remember this story is only one perspective. This cancer guy seems sweet overall. Just not craving sex as much as she is.

How many perspectives are there to falling asleep before the night has begun and not being sorry for lasting 4 secs ?

I could forgive the falling asleep thing in light of him being hung over + making an hour plus drive out to see her. Its impressive he made it to 10:30pm just based on the fact he was hung over.

But the 4 second sesh is a little cringe. Do people no longer believe in foreplay?

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Posted by MissKrabs

i don't envy men at all.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Yikes....I don't think you have to worry about him anymore cause he's probably gonna go hide in his shell after being shamed for cumming too fast....which happens usually to guys the first time sleeping with a new chick and if it's been a while for them. Yeah maybe he should have helped you get off but maybe he felt embarrassed about cumming quick. Who knows...but I think it was super harsh. Him falling asleep is also not that big of a deal...he still came and seen you and took you to lunch the next day.

I'm confused about one thing tho...did he fall asleep during sex too because you said he did the night before but then later said you've never had someone fall asleep on you while in bed together? Which is it?

On Friday night, we didn't even get to play around. He was so tired, he fell asleep, which I can understand but the next day he didn't last very long. I guess I'm not shaming him just really disappointed, I really liked him and expected a good time.

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Yikes....I don't think you have to worry about him anymore cause he's probably gonna go hide in his shell after being shamed for cumming too fast....which happens usually to guys the first time sleeping with a new chick and if it's been a while for them. Yeah maybe he should have helped you get off but maybe he felt embarrassed about cumming quick. Who knows...but I think it was super harsh. Him falling asleep is also not that big of a deal...he still came and seen you and took you to lunch the next day.

I'm confused about one thing tho...did he fall asleep during sex too because you said he did the night before but then later said you've never had someone fall asleep on you while in bed together? Which is it?

On Friday night, we didn't even get to play around. He was so tired, he fell asleep, which I can understand but the next day he didn't last very long. I guess I'm not shaming him just really disappointed, I really liked him and expected a good time.

I can understand that but you gotta give the guy a chance. If the second time is a flop then cut your losses. First time is always nerve racking...I'm a sexual person myself and even I get rocked by nerves the first time.

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Posted by MissKrabs

i don't envy men at all.

Me neither

i mean in these situations. shouldn't left her hanging, but the dude was probably feeling awful.

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i don't envy men at all.

Me neither

i mean in these situations. shouldn't left her hanging, but the dude was probably feeling awful.

I cant stand the way some women go on. about penis size,, that makes me cringe, they can’t help that for fecks sake . I have seen some women here doing that ... gross 👎🏻

judging and trashing about irrelevant stuff comes from both sides so i'm not really worried.

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Posted by stillstillwater

I actually expect it if it is the first time... and it's like a compliment to me. So I don't see the big deal here at all...

Posted by Timon

Tbh I don't think you really like him because then you would make an effort to try again. You still have feelings for your ex right?

It's not like he fell asleep the first thing when he arrived. He drove a long way to see you and you watched a movie and had dinner so maybe he was just tired after all that.

If you really like someone you make an effort. He didn't fall asleep and came to quickly on purpose. Maybe you should have made the effort to try to not make him feel bad over it.

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Posted by LibraJackson

So I have been on 5 dates with this Cancer guy, not going to lie at first he gave me the cute vibes and all I wanted was his attention and I felt like all of our dates, we had so much fun until now. On Friday last week, he went out with his friends and got too drunk and was a bit hungover on Saturday. He then came over to my house in the evening time.

I made him dinner, we watched movies, drank Tea. He FELL ASLEEP on me at 10.30 pm, I was like WTF is this. I was expecting a frisky business. I was so confused, he travelled like an hour and a half to be with me and fell asleep!!! In fairness, he was very affectionate and cuddly.

Anyway, I was extremely annoyed and I stayed up drinking wine with my housemate instead. The next day we went out for lunch together. To make a long story short, before he went home. We started kissing and then we had sex, the kissing was good but he lasted 4 seconds ... FOUR SECONDS! I was extremely annoyed. He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

After he left, I was debating whether or not should I see him again. Girls got needs too! My friends said I should give him another chance but I'm not sure.

He then texted me saying he was home and then eventually I told him I was annoyed, he was apologizing but It didn't feel sincere to me. He concluded his apologies saying these things happen.

So at the moment, I'm just going to distance myself away from him. If he wants me he can start showing it to me.

Honestly, I'm so confused by it all, never had a guy falling asleep on me on our first time in bed together.

What do you think it's up with this Cancer guy?

Well done for shaming someone suffering from PE. Imagine if a man did the same because a woman spot bled or had a baggy vagina.

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Posted by blvckphvse

Just WOW... Some of the most entitled bs I ever read.

How is this self-entitled? I simply expected to have a good time. It takes both people to have sex.

I had a number of fun dates with him, I obviously wanted out the first time to be more special and last longer than 5 seconds.

I'm simply confused and asking for feedback, not shaming him. I would have stopped talking to him if it was that bull shit to me about what happened but clearly I don't understand why it happened.

Fair, maybe he deserves better. But we all have needs and rights to express what we feel. If you don't like it, get out of my forum/topic. You don't see me spreading hate on your page!

How is it entitled? Everyone's idea of a good time is different.. Maybe you should have told him of your expectations before he drove all the way there to see you. People get tired, they fall asleep, everyone's energy level is different.. You aren't the one who just travelled to see him are you?

I've never been put off if a guy came too quick, shit happens. But I surely wouldn't come here to voice my disgust in the matter. The issue lies with you because you had expectations that it would be special and it didn't stack up. It's not his fault that he didn't live up to your expectation. You're right, everyone has needs, but if sex matters that much then maybe you should relay that to people before they take time out of their life only to disappoint you.

I agree with most of your logic blvckphvse, but to my fellow libs credit in any instance 2min is a waste of even doing the deed. He should have made her wait or do other stimulating activities.

Maybe she should take it as a compliment.. Maybe she was too hot, he couldn't hold it in any longer.

Sometimes it can't be helped.. But wouldn't it make you feel crappy if you came too quick and some girl had second thoughts about you over it? Like clearly you felt shitty about it and now she's judging you for it.. Like nothing else about you as a person mattered, just how long you could hold on for sex.. If that is the determining factor for whether or not to proceed with someone, it just seems like a bad call. The best dude in the world could go in two seconds cause he was nervous, but an abusive prick could last for hours.. So I wouldn't let how long someone lasts be a determining factor.

My understanding is any mature adult would be well versed at handling the union as selfish on his part. Factors do play a role, but if I got on a job interview I dress and act accordingly, and me driving that far of a distance for a mate I would prepare and hopefully be equipped for the occasion. No round two or any reciprocation just seems selfish for any blossoming relationship. Libras are givers and expect it for it to work both ways. She being a lib is giving him a second chance btw.

Oh honey, I know how you Libras operate. Haha. But it's not like he came in two seconds on purpose.. He probably felt like shit about it.. I don't think he was being selfish. He was likely too embarrassed to even try for a round two.. If she acted toward him the way she is on here, he definitely felt too ashamed.

So no oral or heavy petting. Just saying

Hes getting another chance

Heavy petting is just a tease unless they gon take me all the way.. Lol

Damn, why is everything about getting off with you folks!? 😆 j/k

There's a song by a great poet that said " You cum for me and I cum again".

Libra logic. You got to pay to play.

Were known for our pleasuring in which your familiar it seems.

Last post on this subject

That's considered great poetry? Sounds like it was written by Chief Keef 😆

Yes, you guys aim to please in the bedroom, I'll give ya'll that.

Last post, pfttt, till next time.. hahaha

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Posted by LibraJackson

So I have been on 5 dates with this Cancer guy, not going to lie at first he gave me the cute vibes and all I wanted was his attention and I felt like all of our dates, we had so much fun until now. On Friday last week, he went out with his friends and got too drunk and was a bit hungover on Saturday. He then came over to my house in the evening time.

I made him dinner, we watched movies, drank Tea. He FELL ASLEEP on me at 10.30 pm, I was like WTF is this. I was expecting a frisky business. I was so confused, he travelled like an hour and a half to be with me and fell asleep!!! In fairness, he was very affectionate and cuddly.

Anyway, I was extremely annoyed and I stayed up drinking wine with my housemate instead. The next day we went out for lunch together. To make a long story short, before he went home. We started kissing and then we had sex, the kissing was good but he lasted 4 seconds ... FOUR SECONDS! I was extremely annoyed. He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

After he left, I was debating whether or not should I see him again. Girls got needs too! My friends said I should give him another chance but I'm not sure.

He then texted me saying he was home and then eventually I told him I was annoyed, he was apologizing but It didn't feel sincere to me. He concluded his apologies saying these things happen.

So at the moment, I'm just going to distance myself away from him. If he wants me he can start showing it to me.

Honestly, I'm so confused by it all, never had a guy falling asleep on me on our first time in bed together.

What do you think it's up with this Cancer guy?

Posted by MyStarsShineI cant stand the way some women go on. about penis size,, that makes me cringe, they can’t help that for fecks sake . I have seen some women here doing that ... gross 👎🏻

Posted by MyStarsShine

I’m not sure what’s worse, the 4 second wonder or falling asleep at 10.30

Lol 😂

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Posted by Anasui

You should've reminded him that his cousin, family dog, and other members in the clan you smashed in between your 5 dates lasted longer than 4 seconds

Posted by LibraJackson

So I have been on 5 dates with this Cancer guy, not going to lie at first he gave me the cute vibes and all I wanted was his attention and I felt like all of our dates, we had so much fun until now. On Friday last week, he went out with his friends and got too drunk and was a bit hungover on Saturday. He then came over to my house in the evening time.

I made him dinner, we watched movies, drank Tea. He FELL ASLEEP on me at 10.30 pm, I was like WTF is this. I was expecting a frisky business. I was so confused, he travelled like an hour and a half to be with me and fell asleep!!! In fairness, he was very affectionate and cuddly.

Anyway, I was extremely annoyed and I stayed up drinking wine with my housemate instead. The next day we went out for lunch together. To make a long story short, before he went home. We started kissing and then we had sex, the kissing was good but he lasted 4 seconds ... FOUR SECONDS! I was extremely annoyed. He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

After he left, I was debating whether or not should I see him again. Girls got needs too! My friends said I should give him another chance but I'm not sure.

He then texted me saying he was home and then eventually I told him I was annoyed, he was apologizing but It didn't feel sincere to me. He concluded his apologies saying these things happen.

So at the moment, I'm just going to distance myself away from him. If he wants me he can start showing it to me.

Honestly, I'm so confused by it all, never had a guy falling asleep on me on our first time in bed together.

What do you think it's up with this Cancer guy?

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Posted by LibraJackson

So I have been on 5 dates with this Cancer guy, not going to lie at first he gave me the cute vibes and all I wanted was his attention and I felt like all of our dates, we had so much fun until now. On Friday last week, he went out with his friends and got too drunk and was a bit hungover on Saturday. He then came over to my house in the evening time.

I made him dinner, we watched movies, drank Tea. He FELL ASLEEP on me at 10.30 pm, I was like WTF is this. I was expecting a frisky business. I was so confused, he travelled like an hour and a half to be with me and fell asleep!!! In fairness, he was very affectionate and cuddly.

Anyway, I was extremely annoyed and I stayed up drinking wine with my housemate instead. The next day we went out for lunch together. To make a long story short, before he went home. We started kissing and then we had sex, the kissing was good but he lasted 4 seconds ... FOUR SECONDS! I was extremely annoyed. He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

After he left, I was debating whether or not should I see him again. Girls got needs too! My friends said I should give him another chance but I'm not sure.

He then texted me saying he was home and then eventually I told him I was annoyed, he was apologizing but It didn't feel sincere to me. He concluded his apologies saying these things happen.

So at the moment, I'm just going to distance myself away from him. If he wants me he can start showing it to me.

Honestly, I'm so confused by it all, never had a guy falling asleep on me on our first time in bed together.

What do you think it's up with this Cancer guy?

Warum schreibst du ..hier über sowas —?

Und hättest du auch nur einen Hauch ...von echtem Intresse ..an ihm

..dann würdest du hier nicht ab lästern ...wie ein Schulmädchen ...und das vielleicht als Kompliment sehen !

gibt es hier ein nest von deutschen oder was?!?!

zum thema: viel zu früh zu viel druck.

was solls....

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Posted by LibraJackson

So I have been on 5 dates with this Cancer guy, not going to lie at first he gave me the cute vibes and all I wanted was his attention and I felt like all of our dates, we had so much fun until now. On Friday last week, he went out with his friends and got too drunk and was a bit hungover on Saturday. He then came over to my house in the evening time.

I made him dinner, we watched movies, drank Tea. He FELL ASLEEP on me at 10.30 pm, I was like WTF is this. I was expecting a frisky business. I was so confused, he travelled like an hour and a half to be with me and fell asleep!!! In fairness, he was very affectionate and cuddly.

Anyway, I was extremely annoyed and I stayed up drinking wine with my housemate instead. The next day we went out for lunch together. To make a long story short, before he went home. We started kissing and then we had sex, the kissing was good but he lasted 4 seconds ... FOUR SECONDS! I was extremely annoyed. He said sorry but he didn't seem to be that bothered by it and I'm here like WTF...

After he left, I was debating whether or not should I see him again. Girls got needs too! My friends said I should give him another chance but I'm not sure.

He then texted me saying he was home and then eventually I told him I was annoyed, he was apologizing but It didn't feel sincere to me. He concluded his apologies saying these things happen.

So at the moment, I'm just going to distance myself away from him. If he wants me he can start showing it to me.

Honestly, I'm so confused by it all, never had a guy falling asleep on me on our first time in bed together.

What do you think it's up with this Cancer guy?

Warum schreibst du ..hier über sowas —?

Und hättest du auch nur einen Hauch ...von echtem Intresse ..an ihm

..dann würdest du hier nicht ab lästern ...wie ein Schulmädchen ...und das vielleicht als Kompliment sehen !

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Posted by saggurl88

LOL. This made me laugh. And I'm allergic to shrimps. 😂

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Posted by Antiphates

I think this thread safely can go into my "reasons to not bother with women" folder.

why? why are men bothered by honest expressions of disappointment?

Don't know about others but for me it's not the disappointment itself but what led to it/what it represents and how the other side is treated here which represents or connects to some of the major reasons for why I rarely take female interest in me seriously.

i think people are oversensitive, this is just communication

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