I'm very curious about this...

So I've been reading through this forum, and you never hear about Cancers and Geminis getting together.
Whys this?


What are cancers views on geminis?

I have had a thing with a cancer off and on for about two years, i've been interested since day one.

I'm a Gemini.

I guess that can be true.

Gemeni is the sign of the twins - they are known for their duality. Cancerians like steady and stable people; a gemeni is too unpredictable for them and would fray their nerves. Superficially gemenis might seem like a lot of energetic fun, and so they can be good friends for cancers who often need to be dragged out of their bad moods and be energized. But in a relationship they need solid support and someone they know they can trust, always know where they are, and never have to question how they[the partner] feel about them[the cancer].

On the other hand, cancers can be too controlling and "clingy" for carefree gemenis. They won't like it if you flirt, even if you think it's harmless. They'll want to know where you are, who you're with, and what time you'll be home. And gemenis don't like bad moods, which cancers usually have a lot of.

It just comes down to different relationship attitudes. Cancers are very devoted and demand loyalty, while gemenis like to be carefree and not really define or restrict their relationship too much. It doesn't help either that gemenis tend to remain child-like through out their lives and cancers need someone serious to keep things together. Neither of you will like it if the cancer has to start acting like your parent to keep life from getting out of control.

Well I guess technically I'm a Taurus Gemini Cusp.

no you're a gemeni. Cusps don't mean anything unless you land on one of those days that sometimes falls in one sign and sometimes in the other, like April 20th. I don't believe in the whole shared sign thing.

I should mention by the way that I am an April 21st bull and the only thing "arian" about me is that I have emotional outbursts when I lose my temper; which makes sense because my moon is in aries. Being on the cusp doesn't do anything.