Is this normal Cancer behavior?

This cancer guy slid into my DM a few weeks ago and we decided to meet up for a bite to eat. Really sweet, had a bit of nervous energy but I appreciated it as he seemed really genuine. Texting convo is great and really consistent. Last two dates were amazing and I felt like I was on cloud 9 since I saw him last on wednesday - we finally kissed for the first time on this date. He likes to do fun things and we usually take turns in paying for our outings, which is cool with me. But today he wanted to see me for quick coffee as I have plans all weekend. I paid for the coffee, we sat down great conversation, we left he didn’t offer to at least drive me to the place where I needed to go he knew it was a long way and he gave me two very awkward tap kisses. I left the date dissappointed and can’t help but feel as though he may feel the same. Am I reading too much into this? His Venus and Mars are both in Leo btw.

He's a Cancer which means he's jealous that you have plans lol. He'll get over it. You saw him, that should be enough. he's acting like a typical crabby baby boy. Just ignore it and keep talking to him like normal. maybe shoot him a "I'm so bored, it was way better hanging with you earlier" message lol But then he might keep bugging the hell out of you, so I don't know if that would be good for you to open that door lol

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Posted by saggurl88

He's a Cancer which means he's jealous that you have plans lol. He'll get over it. You saw him, that should be enough. he's acting like a typical crabby baby boy. Just ignore it and keep talking to him like normal. maybe shoot him a "I'm so bored, it was way better hanging with you earlier" message lol But then he might keep bugging the hell out of you, so I don't know if that would be good for you to open that door lol

This made no sense why woukd Cancer be jealous over someone having plans?

Do you mean clingy? Because attention is not 100% on him? Trying to make logical sense of it is all.

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Cause something else has her busy. It's the mars and venus sign along with that clingy crab sign. He's a little butt hurt, so to say.

Posted by Caliope

He gave you two awkward tap kisses.

Did you want a serious makeout session at the coffee shop?

It was in his car. We were in his car when we said goodbye 😒😑

Posted by Caliope

Why do you expect him to drive you to your destination? You've only known him for a few weeks.

Not sure, I guess after dating several Taurus men who would pick up every tab and atleast offer a lift I got a bit used to it. I can get over that but something that I feel really odd about is the awkward tap kiss

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Posted by saggurl88

He's a Cancer which means he's jealous that you have plans lol. He'll get over it. You saw him, that should be enough. he's acting like a typical crabby baby boy. Just ignore it and keep talking to him like normal. maybe shoot him a "I'm so bored, it was way better hanging with you earlier" message lol But then he might keep bugging the hell out of you, so I don't know if that would be good for you to open that door lol

This made no sense why woukd Cancer be jealous over someone having plans?

Do you mean clingy? Because attention is not 100% on him? Trying to make logical sense of it is all.

Cause something else has her busy. It's the mars and venus sign along with that clingy crab sign. He's a little butt hurt, so to say.

Maybe but tbe OP expects to be waited on too. Though she paid for coffee which confuses me. Cancer men usually will pay but if a woman goes halves then that us mutual respect.

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Oh, I didn't get the from the OP. I read it as her be a little concerned because he was acting off when she thought things were going great. I still think things are going great, he's just being a little crabby. And yes cancer men are very generous. her paying is a little surprising to me too. Usually they are overly accommodating in my opinion.

Posted by MissKrabs

Reading too much into it.

So I'm a 24 year old Leo female and I recent met a 27 year old cancer guy (12th July). We've been hooking up for just over a month now and it's been great. We meet up every couple of days, and when we do, I end up staying the night and pretty much half the next day. And we're up talking about so many things and the sex in incredible. He talks to be about his previous relationships, expediences, about his feelings and his aspirations. And it's great, there's no pressure, we're both pretty clear that neither of us wants anything serious right now. But I keep catching him in these moments where hes just staring, or while we're watching movie, he'll be watching me, he keeps throwing these testing questions at me to see if I listened or remembered something we spoke about earlier, he always texts, from the second I leave or he'll call randomly and we'll talk for hours. Hes mentioned a couple of times hes hasn't hooked up with anyone else or really even wanted to since we started hanging out. The other night he got a little upset I think that I didn't show him a few videos from a party I had gone to. He wasn't thrilled that I didn't want to show him things like my social media profile and etc. (Although those are just my personal rules when I'm hooking up with someone, to keep them isolated from the routine aspects of my life)

Is there something more to this or am I over thinking it? Because if there is something more happening here then I need to think this through before I end up hurting him.

Posted by Airfairy215

This cancer guy slid into my DM a few weeks ago and we decided to meet up for a bite to eat. Really sweet, had a bit of nervous energy but I appreciated it as he seemed really genuine. Texting convo is great and really consistent. Last two dates were amazing and I felt like I was on cloud 9 since I saw him last on wednesday - we finally kissed for the first time on this date. He likes to do fun things and we usually take turns in paying for our outings, which is cool with me. But today he wanted to see me for quick coffee as I have plans all weekend. I paid for the coffee, we sat down great conversation, we left he didn’t offer to at least drive me to the place where I needed to go he knew it was a long way and he gave me two very awkward tap kisses. I left the date dissappointed and can’t help but feel as though he may feel the same. Am I reading too much into this? His Venus and Mars are both in Leo btw.

I am also a Cancer and have Mars in Leo too. It's a mix of Cancers being crabby and doing the push and pull, plus Leos feeling the need to chase.

The Cancer in him is probably getting the feels already so he's showing you he can be casual about it. So he sees you for coffee but doesn't get too clingy by dropping you off to where you should be (as some girls get turned off by these things in my experience. It kinda maybe shows we're getting clingy and paranoid and stalkery by wanting to know where you're gonna be and who you're gonna be with), and he probably is trying to not let you feel that.

The Leo part in him, in contrast, might be getting the hint that you're already giving in to his sudden small requests, and he wants to chase, he wants to feel he's on his toes when it comes to you. So probably why he's backing off a bit?

You mix these up, that's maybe what's running through his head. Haha