Me and my boyfriend broke up and i feel horrible about it (Page 2)

Posted by Harukaa

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Harukaa

Why you did this ?


You are not bad person, maybe you feel unloved .. or it just mistake .. don't be harsh to ur self.

Just tell me why u did it?

Stop coddling bad behaviour, please and thank you.

She need someone to do this for her.

Sometimes pain destroy people in a moment of weakness.

We all did bad things in our life .. we are not angels .

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Not really. I have NEVER used anyone as a means to an end. My conscience has always been very strong in directing mya ctions.

Edit: I will say this though: People need to tell her she did wrong and now she should learn from this and not do that again. The damage it causes the victim can be great too. I know people whose self esteem has taken a great hit when they were cheated on. It can destroy a person too.

Posted by blackphase

Posted by aquarius09
And by the way, if people are going to cause nothing but grief to others and do nothing to change their narcissistic behaviour, then they are a menace to the society and they should get rid of themselves.

Some people don't know any other way of life unfortunately. Not everyone was lucky enough to have a good upbringing where they learned right from wrong or how to properly treat other people. I don't particularly like these types of people either, but don't tell them to go kill themselves. Some people are able to change with the right help or with an eye opening experience.. not all but some.

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We have an innate sense of right and wrong unless you were raised in a basement by yourself. She has human interaction and the mere fact that she created this thread shows she knows she did something wrong. Now that she's acknowledged that she did something wrong, she should either do damage control or tell herself that she'll never do this crap again if she's truly remorseful.

She's NOT the victim here. She's trying to be one with all this suicidal talk though.

Posted by leo48

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by leo48

Posted by kissmygrits
Let him go. Good riddance. Cut off all contact. If he does that he does not care about you. Do you want someone like that in your life?


What if he doesn't and gains respect for you. Kick that fear to the curb.

your right it will be so awkward if my friends find out or if anyone finds out

Here's the real problem.

And what you don't realize is that you

have more control over this than him.

But you have to TAKE it, like @kissmygrits said.


YOU tell THEM how it happened (not that you

owe them an explanation).

Where is your moon?

i dont really know but could u find out for me do some investigating. and what is a cusp

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Need date and time your were born including the year.

If u don't have the time its alright.