Aquastic007
@Aquastic
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My date with the Cancer guy
Posted by Dewritos
No amount of coupons and e-transfers can save him from this embarrassing revelation.
Some Cancer dudes act like Grandmas and confine their money under a Tempur Pedic mattress.
I was shocked ! Actually am still am.
Posted by Ladyleo18
How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Posted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18
How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?click to expand
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.
Posted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18
How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.
Just be careful and stay vigilant because that doesn't sound right. Unless it's stolen goods or something shady is going on so he's trying to keep off the grid, he should have a bank account. Look into him if you have enough details and make sure he is who he says he is. Hopefully he is legit but just keep your guard up until you know for sure xxclick to expand
No need, I really don't have the energy, I just got out of tiring relationship I deserve a normal one this time. not gonna take this further.He is a sweet guy and all ,but it seems like there's gonna be too much work here.
So before you even met he asked your bank connection so someone could transfer money into it? what that was about?
how intimate your conversation was for that 2 weeks to ask you this favour?
I know it sounds incredible in this age and day to not have a bank account, but I have a bestie (Taurus man) who is against the bank system, saying they are exploiting you and he refuses to have a bank account, when he needs one, he uses his parentsĀ“ one
I think in this case (if he is doing some business) it is to avoid taxes, because bank accounts can be traced
its very shady to ask a stranger (you) for this favour, doesnt he have some friends or family to ask this?
how intimate your conversation was for that 2 weeks to ask you this favour?
I know it sounds incredible in this age and day to not have a bank account, but I have a bestie (Taurus man) who is against the bank system, saying they are exploiting you and he refuses to have a bank account, when he needs one, he uses his parentsĀ“ one
I think in this case (if he is doing some business) it is to avoid taxes, because bank accounts can be traced
its very shady to ask a stranger (you) for this favour, doesnt he have some friends or family to ask this?
Posted by Pandora101
So before you even met he asked your bank connection so someone could transfer money into it? what that was about?
how intimate your conversation was for that 2 weeks to ask you this favour?
I know it sounds incredible in this age and day to not have a bank account, but I have a bestie (Taurus man) who is against the bank system, saying they are exploiting you and he refuses to have a bank account, when he needs one, he uses his parentsĀ“ one
I think in this case (if he is doing some business) it is to avoid taxes, because bank accounts can be traced
its very shady to ask a stranger (you) for this favour, doesnt he have some friends or family to ask this?
I was shocked and turned off at the same when he asked for my bank account. He had hard cash to pay for the date though.I am not easily fooled by love and good looks,so I pretended to look for them on my phone up until he said I should not worry about it.
Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18
How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.
Just be careful and stay vigilant because that doesn't sound right. Unless it's stolen goods or something shady is going on so he's trying to keep off the grid, he should have a bank account. Look into him if you have enough details and make sure he is who he says he is. Hopefully he is legit but just keep your guard up until you know for sure xx
No need, I really don't have the energy, I just got out of tiring relationship I deserve a normal one this time. not gonna take this further.He is a sweet guy and all ,but it seems like there's gonna be too much work here.
Girl itās hard work. You gave it a crack and youāre getting the dodge vibes so Iād definitely take heed.
Idk I just find Cancer guys shady.click to expand
Cancer men can be very shady. VERY! lmbo
Posted by STILLPosted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18
How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.
Just be careful and stay vigilant because that doesn't sound right. Unless it's stolen goods or something shady is going on so he's trying to keep off the grid, he should have a bank account. Look into him if you have enough details and make sure he is who he says he is. Hopefully he is legit but just keep your guard up until you know for sure xx
No need, I really don't have the energy, I just got out of tiring relationship I deserve a normal one this time. not gonna take this further.He is a sweet guy and all ,but it seems like there's gonna be too much work here.
Girl itās hard work. You gave it a crack and youāre getting the dodge vibes so Iād definitely take heed.
Idk I just find Cancer guys shady.
Cancer men can be very shady. VERY! lmboclick to expand
As I run for my life!!!
Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18
How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.click to expand
Aka he's jobless and sells whatever he can get off others. Girl, you know better than this, Please tell me you did not give him your banking details.
Posted by justagirlPosted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18Posted by AquasticPosted by Ladyleo18
How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.
Aka he's jobless and sells whatever he can get off others. Girl, you know better than this, Please tell me you did not give him your banking details.click to expand
Too smart to do that such, gave him an excuse .I read between the lines. Don't want no shady money that might get me into trouble
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Posted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
Posted by nikkistar
@Canceronthecusp
You keep rubbing that magic lamp.
First impression from the OP - does the "date" have a rich Nigerian uncle that will give millions if only you supply access to the banking account?
Second impression - some guy with a modicum of charm that is running a scam and is taking advantage of a perceived mark?
Third impression - looks like the trolls are back.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
You're so desperate
The guy doesn't work
He probably gambles too
Throw him back in the oceanclick to expand
She's already said she's not dealing with him. You're the desperate one.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
You're so desperate
The guy doesn't work
He probably gambles too
Throw him back in the oceanclick to expand
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?
She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...
Choose your words... Carefully.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by STILLPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
You're so desperate
The guy doesn't work
He probably gambles too
Throw him back in the ocean
She's already said she's not dealing with him. You're the desperate one.
1) didnt see that
2) wasn't talking to you
3) you sound mad bitter like you need a hug
Too bad I'm out of hugs for frigid bytchesclick to expand
Reading is fundamental
Was talking to you though
If I sounded 10 times more bitter I'd be your twin.
Frigid bytches don't need hugs. Save them for emotionally weak bytches like yourself.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
You're so desperate
The guy doesn't work
He probably gambles too
Throw him back in the ocean
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?
She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...
Choose your words... Carefully.
Yeah i missed that part
Thank God now the bytch can get off the crab board
I was getting tired of her updates and questionsclick to expand
*Snaps sarcastically*
Snapping with my claw, that is.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
You're so desperate
The guy doesn't work
He probably gambles too
Throw him back in the ocean
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?
She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...
Choose your words... Carefully.
Yeah i missed that part
Thank God now the bytch can get off the crab board
I was getting tired of her updates and questions
*Snaps sarcastically*
Snapping with my claw, that is.
Lol so you date aqua chicks? Whats that like?
click to expand
I think Aqua chicks are attracted to me.
My Sun, Moon, and Mars is the 11th house.
My descendant is in Aquarius/7th house, my Uranus is in Aquarius. I have Mercury-Uranus aspect.. Aqua ranks #2 in a Pullen chart.
The closest I've got to an Aquarius girl, was a hot make-out session.. I kept making out with this 40 y/o Aqua chick most of summer '17...
They are hot. Unpredictable. Probably wouldn't get bored. Very different.. I feel the "alien" thing that are stereotyped as.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by nikkistar
@Canceronthecusp
You keep rubbing that magic lamp.
First impression from the OP - does the "date" have a rich Nigerian uncle that will give millions if only you supply access to the banking account?
Second impression - some guy with a modicum of charm that is running a scam and is taking advantage of a perceived mark?
Third impression - looks like the trolls are back.click to expand
Second Impression
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
You're so desperate
The guy doesn't work
He probably gambles too
Throw him back in the ocean
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?
She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...
Choose your words... Carefully.
Yeah i missed that part
Thank God now the bytch can get off the crab board
I was getting tired of her updates and questions
*Snaps sarcastically*
Snapping with my claw, that is.
Lol so you date aqua chicks? Whats that like?
I think Aqua chicks are attracted to me.
My Sun, Moon, and Mars is the 11th house.
My descendant is in Aquarius/7th house, my Uranus is in Aquarius. I have Mercury-Uranus aspect.. Aqua ranks #2 in a Pullen chart.
The closest I've got to an Aquarius girl, was a hot make-out session.. I kept making out with this 40 y/o Aqua chick most of summer '17...
They are hot. Unpredictable. Probably wouldn't get bored. Very different.. I feel the "alien" thing that are stereotyped as.
Are cancers scared of ending up with a boring partnerclick to expand
A LOT of Cancers have Gemini Venus.. Damn near half of us.
I think that's why people think most of us are scared of boring.
Posted by Black-Mamba
And she brought the whole aqua board with her
Thank you Jesus for this whatever it is failing.
Its like some of them live in our board
Hey! You like this aqua don't even front! And yes I do, deal with it š
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by STILLPosted by Black-MambaPosted by STILLPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
You're so desperate
The guy doesn't work
He probably gambles too
Throw him back in the ocean
She's already said she's not dealing with him. You're the desperate one.
1) didnt see that
2) wasn't talking to you
3) you sound mad bitter like you need a hug
Too bad I'm out of hugs for frigid bytches
Reading is fundamental
Was talking to you though
If I sounded 10 times more bitter I'd be your twin.
Frigid bytches don't need hugs. Save them for emotionally weak bytches like yourself.
Have you read her posts? She's dick hopping. That's desperate from my pov.
I have a right to my opinion
Why you care so much? Did i trigger something in you?
Lol at emotionally weak
Hilarious. I've seen more emotions than ice been on those earth.
Bye weirdo. I don't have time for your negativity. Go to sleep in a bed of hurt.
I'm feeling goodclick to expand
Unlike you, I don't speak unless I have my facts straight. It's not dick hopping dumb ass. She had a bf. They've broken up and she went on one date. There was no sex.
You're made cause you can't get a date. Loser!
Lol @ you calling someone negative. Hello pot.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Black-MambaPosted by AquasticPosted by aquarius09
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Lol he's 34
You're so desperate
The guy doesn't work
He probably gambles too
Throw him back in the ocean
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?
She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...
Choose your words... Carefully.
Yeah i missed that part
Thank God now the bytch can get off the crab board
I was getting tired of her updates and questions
*Snaps sarcastically*
Snapping with my claw, that is.
Lol so you date aqua chicks? Whats that like?
I think Aqua chicks are attracted to me.
My Sun, Moon, and Mars is the 11th house.
My descendant is in Aquarius/7th house, my Uranus is in Aquarius. I have Mercury-Uranus aspect.. Aqua ranks #2 in a Pullen chart.
The closest I've got to an Aquarius girl, was a hot make-out session.. I kept making out with this 40 y/o Aqua chick most of summer '17...
They are hot. Unpredictable. Probably wouldn't get bored. Very different.. I feel the "alien" thing that are stereotyped as.
Are cancers scared of ending up with a boring partner
A LOT of Cancers have Gemini Venus.. Damn near half of us.
I think that's why people think most of us are scared of boring.
I wad watching this documentary on a Taurus porn actor who is married to a cancer
He says he didnt know why she stayed, she said she's bored when he's not around
I like cancers with cancer Venus
click to expand
Sun Conjunct Venus is always a good aspect in general.
Sounds like cancer guys i dated. Doesn't have any bank account, huh? Where are you guys located? Just curious
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