I have been reading about cancers for a while now. I love the information found on this site. I met a cancer man on a dating site. we just met recently, (no sex) after talking for 7 months. He lives in another state. He is 43 and I am 32. I read that cancer men are family men but this one has never been married has no kids and longest relationship was 2 years. I'm not understanding why he seems so distant now. We met the date at the bar went fine.We went back to my place and talked. Ever since then, he has not really called me and even went off on me. He became very rude and it has been a week since that conversation. Here's a little background before we met he would not send any selfies. I got 2 pics from him but those were 2 old pics. He is not much of a social media person, even though I did my background and came across those same pics online. He basically gave me pics available to everyone and it just seems like he is playing it really really safe. I kind of messed up and fell in love. I told him and he said "who am I". He said that he is or was talking to some other lady but nothing serious and it's a companionship (sounded more like a friend with benes). Anyways. He does those wonderful disappearing acts and I assumed he didn't want to speak with me anymore. So I texted him "I get the hint" he came back and said no he has been busy working. In fact, the last conversation after our date when he went off, He basically sounds thoroughly annoyed that I called told me just to wait until he calls me and me addressed me as "MY MAN" like I was some kind of dude. I only sai 3 words on that call because I was shocked at how he answered. He could not have answered the phone and text he was working. or better yet, just said not to call anymore. I wonder sometimes if he will pop back up later and act like nothing happened. I don't think I can talk to him again. I wonder why he talked to me the way he did. Any insight would be great.
