New texting language for all men by us female

OK... Today...when I stopped for lunch... I decided to draw up a draft answer to my latest ghostly call to Mr. Cancer Man.

So I wrote...

Mfg mu or fo @ gl saved it in my drafts ...for future use... I was thinking...

Now in an attempt to find out how long it would take a man to figure this out... which they didn't btw...After I had them read it.....I accidently hit the send button.... I hate texting of anykind.

Asked a few more people and they could not figure it out either.

So you brilliant Cancers' out there..... What do you think this means—?? And as a Cancer... how long would you pounder this——? Would it drive you crazy... trying to figure it out—?.... Would you actually pick up the phone in frustration...... I anticipate you would pee your pants...upon receipt... but then what—??

I know I was pissing my pants just writing it out...and if this was a game I was thinking.... Game on!!!! I believe I have just found the way to drive his ass crazy...beyond belief.


I will disclose it meaning on Sunday.... Not before... but would like some feed back... as I'm sure other ladies... would be interested in knowing whether this new language could possibly work on some of you boys... in creating the mystery apparently you boys like so much...That game with the push/pull crap that drives us crazy.....

BTW some of the answer to my message are in this message.... so you have an advantage...

Have fun!!!!!

OH...BTW... Because this is an open forum.... it is allowed..to post part of the answer... which will assist others in completing the quiz....

The point is how long it would take to figure it out... and the reaction to receiving such a text message. Again have fun.

ooo, jason that's good! i was thinking something similar...

"motherfucking man up or fuck off and good luck"

usually gl (in gamer speak) meant "good luck". get lost seems more appropriate here though.

Hey Jason... you are partially correct.... But other than trying to figure this out... was also to be sharing how you as a cancer man.... would have reacted to receiving such a text..... 🙂

I'm sure the girls would really like to know how you boys would feel and how you would deal with this new text language.

Also keep in mind .... that to do this properly imo.... the words must mean something to both parties... hence they would have been expressed upteem times before.... but fell on deaf ears... it seems. Now I cut to the chase...with this message... and yes GL means Get lost.

tl;dr

Posted by fourthwallbreaker
I'd delete the text, as it looks like spam or some other dodgy bullshit

Same here

OK... Children.... now you guys are missing the point.... This was the man that persued me for the better part of a year... and for which we haven't seen each other for two. ( I walked after he disrespected me) We have communicated via e-mail to a point.... but not since January 09. He is the one who initiates these calls... not me.... He calls and hangs up.... WTF.

This little text...was in response to his childlike behavior..... and since he is iniating this game..... I responded accordingly... with my version of it...I suppose... albeit accidental...as I really did not want it to got so soon. I hate texting...

I do not think for a nanosecond..that he would just delete the message... I think he may have laughed his pants off... initially ...knowing the man...and how much he like to play.... I'm sure he would have put some thought into it... as he initiating the BS in the first place..... Which he is fully aware that I am on to him bigtime.

WTF is the point of these calls—?? If not to continue the friggen game... and maybe come out as a man at the other end of the BS GAME thingy—?

^ Why not change your number??

Because I run a business...so that cannot and should not be an option.... I could go make a scene at his office tho... hum..... That would be very interesting..... Like call him ...and meet me outside in 5 minutes..... then slap the bejesus out of him...... mmmmmmmmm That could/would be fun!

I know his response.. I've heard before..... "I don't know where your coming from" WTF... At least be a friggen man and admit the fact that he was in my face for 1 year... nonstop... office husband... yada yada yada...

Why doesn't he just go away.. like a good boy... if he is not interested——? I left and haven't been back... I'm not initiating this crap..he is.... So why—??

He wants to play like a child... I play like an adult... Gives him something to think about...pounder... as in FO and GL.

I don't need him...and he knows it!

Honey...that was my plan.... as I drafted the silly text..Saved it as a DRAFT.....just to vent my frustration... Typical women I guess....I just needed to do something... I surely did not want the silly thing to go...but it did.

That text was not suppose to go out.... it was just my way of venting... and I'm not text savy...hence I hit the wrong button...and the friggen thing just went... You should have heard me...at that moment... Not Pretty...let me tell you.

Hypnotic—

Point taken... however he already knows I am interested... That is the reason I walked when he pull the disrespect line on me... almost two years ago.....It was also expressed in January 09 as I told him that he wasn't worth my time and energy.... So that item is kidda moot.

As for the game thingy... I wish I would have not hit the button... but I did.. and there was no way to take it back... So yup your right I'm exposed... So what to do now—? MAKE SURE THE NEXT TIME I NEED TO VENT... NOT PUT AN ADDRESS FOR THE DELIVERY... if that can be done... not sure yet.. Not text savy as I have stated...

OK.. it is out there... and I will cope.. however I don't believe he just deleted it... I know this man... and he would put it aside and come back to it later...trying to figure out WTF it means... We had a lot of fun two years ago.. We were a powerhouse together... We read each others mind...We knew each others thoughts... He would see this as a chalenge... And yup... he will continue to play the game... however the next time... I hope that I'm more prepared to not give him that friggen response... he is so waiting for...

Posted by katica
I can tell you that you sending that message would not get a response from him..if he is childlike/player or holds any resentment whatever...he will enjoy *knowing* you are thinking wtf on the calls and of course guys know how women are when they like a guy...and partially the calls are like a *string along* for you to grasp...he is merely seeing if he can get a response from you...of course you gave him one...maybe not intentionally but you did save a msg with his phone number...so essentially you may have sent it after all..[could have saved it without his phone number submitted]...

if he's anything like the cancers I know...they like to stir stuff up...maybe for attention or more likely to fuck with your mind...it doesn't mean they
want you...just means they know your reaction and can gather how you will be thinking/feeling regardless if you show no signs...

now he'll take your message as you wanting his attention...and he most likely will not give it to you...

I totally agree.. with this statement. Thank you

I would just leave him alone. If he gets a kick out of calling you unknown, let him do it. I know it is your phone, you probably feel voilated because you pay the bill but he is after the chase itself, not you per se.

He loves the thrill, excitement, torture in the hard to get chase. He feeds off that shit. Let him know you want him and he will back off again. It will drive you crazy, yes, it is only done to distract you from your life. Switch the focus on him so he can be seen as the prize. Confront him about it, lol, he will lie and deny every dayum bit of calling. You know it is him but he will not admit it to you even if you can prove it. LOL!

Man is a mess. You don't want or need that BS in your life. Yes, he pursued you in the beginning, unfortunately that is what you have to forget. That was the past, he is not going to do it again. He does not want to act like or be your husband. He wants you to accept him for who he is or move on. Just don't let him completely, "capture" you. You will just have to remain slightly out of reach with this man. You can date him but not focus on him and it would be best too have someone else because "Mr. Broken Promise" man does not want you to have any expectations of him. He just does not want you to forget him.

Give him a call, confront him, tell him you know it is him. He will argue with you but he will stop too. At least for a few more years. You are being hard to get but don't be too impossible to get. Leo women are stubborn, very stubborn and fixated. You will lose him if you don't quit being closed off. Don't confont him about you and him, just about the calls.

Posted by herykane
you do know you can file a police report for harassment don't you? might be considered a miscellaneous incident or offense but you'll at least have it on record and might scare him into stopping if his actions are unwanted and unwarranted

Hey Herykane.... I've been wondering about that very action.... Did a little googling yesterday on that very subject...

It may not be physical abuse....but surely would qualify as mental abuse.... in any country.

Thank you....

OK......

Jason2213 You were the closest to getting my little quiz:

MFG = More Fucken Games

MU= Man Up

or= or

FO= Fuck Off

@= A = And

GL= Get Lost

More Fucken Games! Man up or fuck off and get lost!

In my origal posts.... I said that part of the answer was in the message..... GAMES... I something I have expressed to him on a number of occassions... as in Grow up...or get lost

Thanx everyone for your input....

Well it's been awhile.... but here we go again.... 3 years out now.

Yup it seems to take forever....

A little background.... I DON'T TEXT ANYONE... AND NOBODY TEXTS' ME... EVER... OTHER THAN TELUS MOBILITY... ARRGGGGG.

On Dec 25 2010 9:02 AM text comes in...
Merryyyyy Christmas to you and the rest of your family. Have a wonderful day today & a properous New Year when it comes!!!!

Now this came in on a cell number... I had no clue who was sending me this... but had my suspicions.....A few days out... I decided to call the number... Private Caller... to see what I would get. I got V-mail message.. Some women with a very generic message at the other end... I still knew who it was tho... Call me psychic... what can I tell you. Even if this person had covered New Years... I suspected.. that I would get a message on New Years.... Yup came in at 11:10 am

On 1-Jan-11 11:10 AM text comes in...Happy New Year

I did nothing with it... until Today..... I sent him a simple message..... Read below:


1/2/2011 text
Me -Boo Boo (I sent the same message on Holloween night 2008)

Him -What does Boo Boo mean?

Me -If you don't know.. You must have the wrong no Sorry

Him -I don't have the wrong number. So it means that I'm your Darling. Thank U Have a wonderful and properous New year
Me -NO! It means I have your no

Him -OK??_ I got it!

Me -MFG (Yup he understood my criptic message from late 2009)

Him -I guess this means My Forgiving God

Him -Just Joking

ME -lol

Him -Have a good nite. Talk to you soon

Note that when I got the message early Christmas day..from some unknown number...I suspected him... as no other in my mind.. would text me like this.... I went back through my phone to see if this number ever registered before.... I so happens 4 calls came in which I missed in July... July being the real eye opener for me... as that would be his birthday.

Can some Cancer expert out there please enlighten me as to what I may expect—?? ZERO communication in 2009 on my part...but it seems to me... that he is still holding on...to something... .... and yes I know it is him.... NO doubt in my mind... at all.

Would he not wonder or be driven crazy with thought... as to how I knew he was the texting party from that other number...when the message was left by some women.... Just saying. How the heck am I so sure?? And I am!!!!

Can some Cancer expert out there please enlighten me as to what I may expect—?? ZERO communication in 2009 SHOULD READ 2010..... .

Is there a way to edit posts here—— arggggg

Thank you for responding Wineaux.... Yup... Reminiscing in 2009 with the BS mystery/ghostly calls from his cell and office numbers...Reminiscing in 2010 with those 4 calls in July... from that other number which I did nothing with) .... and now this... WTF does he want from me—

I am not interested in friendship... unless he gets serious and his first step will have to be an appology....for his very bad behavior in early 2008.... "My Forgiving God"... says to me that he knows.. he was very bad.

We were NEVER FWB... and that won't be changing either anytime soon. Haven't given that up in years... and won't be in the future unless I'm properly married.

So I guess I'm left with NOShip.

Well... I believe I called him out on that other number thingy...in the texting above. Once he said that "I don't have the wrong number" blah blah.... he was caught with his pants down..and he knew it....imo. 🙂

Well I guess... we shall see ... if he lives up the the last line... as in talk to you soon.... because I know I won't be calling or responding to anymore ghostly calls