victoriagemini
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Posted by victoriageminiYou didn't understand what I'm tying to say. Let me try again. He liked you. Nobody is saying he didn't. It just wasn't enough. You would fall in the neutral category. He thought you were a nice girl, but I don't think the chemistry with you was sufficient. Second meeting means absolutely nothing in the grand scheme of things. You are being naive and behaving like you were with him for 2 yrs. If he sensed what I'm sensing from you, the neediness, then I can see why I ran though. He owed you nothing. He had a good time with you, but a better time with someone else. He didn't do anything wrong and, if anything, you're wrong for having such high expectation out of nothing. Jumping in bed or second dates are so trivial and next to nothing in the game of dating.
@aquarius09
Thing is if he didn't like my personality why the second meeting? Why Eben bother? He has ladies left and right in line..he's that handsome and successfull. Especially when I'm 5 hrs away from him.
I'm gonna have to agree with Arielle that you have put your pussy on pedestal. Jumping in bed with a guy, whether or not you had sex with him, means nothing when it comes to keeping a man. Memorize this because you are having a hard time comprehending this.
Secondly, actions speak louder than words. Look at his actions and his words. His actions didn't amount to his "I miss you" to you.
Secondly, actions speak louder than words. Look at his actions and his words. His actions didn't amount to his "I miss you" to you.
Posted by victoriageminiExactly, hun! It's your hope of him that has hurt you, not him. His actions were never measuring or equating to someone who is truly interested.
@aquarius09
I understand that we had nothing.. I just hoped..
Ugh
Posted by aquarius09I hope you don't think that's what I was trying to do because its not. I went to bed with him because I was attracted to him. All I wanted was to make out until he started to undress me...I didn't think I'm going to lure him..I thought he liked me more than a one night stand
I'm gonna have to agree with Arielle that you have put your pussy on pedestal. Jumping in bed with a guy, whether or not you had sex with him, means nothing when it comes to keeping a man. Memorize this because you are having a hard time comprehending this.
Secondly, actions speak louder than words. Look at his actions and his words. His actions didn't amount to his "I miss you" to you.
Posted by victoriageminiWhat I'm trying to tell you there is that even if you slept with him that day, it wasn't going to guarantee you anything. Nobody cares if the poor sucker walked away with blue balls. That's not your problem. If you don't want to have sex with someone, that's your call. I don't believe for a second that it was what repelled him. He was just biding time. In hindsight, I believe he deserves blue balls for being a coward and leading you on. He should've just straight up told you that he wasn't feeling you.Posted by aquarius09I hope you don't think that's what I was trying to do because its not. I went to bed with him because I was attracted to him. All I wanted was to make out until he started to undress me...I didn't think I'm going to lure him..I thought he liked me more than a one night stand
I'm gonna have to agree with Arielle that you have put your pussy on pedestal. Jumping in bed with a guy, whether or not you had sex with him, means nothing when it comes to keeping a man. Memorize this because you are having a hard time comprehending this.
Secondly, actions speak louder than words. Look at his actions and his words. His actions didn't amount to his "I miss you" to you.click to expand
Gettin deep in here ya'll!
Posted by victoriageminiIt's a blessing in disguise . Some women are in sham relationships pretending to be happy just for the fuck of it. Hang in there gal, you will find someone!Posted by MoonArtistYou don't get it....it keeps happening to me. Not just him. Every men I think wants to persue something with me in the end its only about sex. And I mean the guys I am attracted too as well not dudes that hit me up and I feel nothing for them. That's why this hurts really bad. I'm 29 and I Never Never had a boyfriend.Posted by victoriageminiROFLMFAO!!.....You actually believe that tripePosted by julietteBecause men love younger usuallyPosted by victoriageminiShe is 38 like him and that's how you concluded that he is looking for a mother figure? Wtf
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm
just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?
? "All" men after the young chickies? Some prefer them older, some like younger, some like women close to their own age, and some just don't care.
Look, you didn't have anything that deep with him, you had one touchy-feely session with him, and some dates.....and he's moved to someone else who seems to have caught his attention more than you did, so what's the big deal? Who cares how old she is or even what she looks like? Is
he the last man on earth and you have to get pregnant to save the human race? No! So find another guy. It really is that simple. IF you insist on making it complicated then you COULD decide that she's smarter, prettier, has more mental connection with him, and the two of them have hours and hours of mind blowing sex while money just magically pours into their bank accounts for no real reason other than they're the most perfect match EVER
......but that would be as silly as what you're currently doing
by obsessing over a guy who found someone else he'd rather get jiggy with.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Yeah true....Posted by victoriageminiWhat I'm trying to tell you there is that even if you slept with him that day, it wasn't going to guarantee you anything. Nobody cares ifPosted by aquarius09
I'm gonna have to agree with Arielle that you have put your pussy on pedestal. Jumping in bed with a guy, whether or not you had sex with him, means nothing when it comes to keeping a man. Memorize this because you are having a hard time comprehending this.
Secondly, actions speak louder than words. Look at his actions and his words. His actions didn't amount to his "I miss you" to you.
I hope you don't think that's what I was trying to do because its not. I went to bed with him because I was attracted to him. All I wanted was to make out until he started to undress me...I didn't think I'm going to lure him..I thought he liked me more than a one night stand
the poor sucker walked away with blue balls. That's not your problem. If you don't want to have sex with someone, that's your call. I don't believe for a second that it was what repelled him. He was just biding time. In hindsight, I believe he deserves blue balls for being a coward and leading you on. He should've just straight up told you that he wasn't feeling you.click to expand
Thank you girly hugs
Posted by Aquastic+1Posted by victoriageminiIt's a blessing in disguise . Some women are in sham relationships pretending to be happy just for the fuck of it. Hang in there gal, you will find someone!Posted by MoonArtistYou don't get it....it keeps happening to me. Not just him. Every men I think wants to persue something with me in the end its only about sex. And I mean the guys I am attracted too as well not dudes that hit me up and I feel nothing for them. That's why this hurts really bad. I'm 29 and I Never Never had a boyfriend.Posted by victoriageminiROFLMFAO!!.....You actually believe that tripePosted by julietteBecause men love younger usuallyPosted by victoriageminiShe is 38 like him and that's how you concluded that he is looking for a mother figure? Wtf
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm
just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?
? "All" men after the young chickies? Some prefer them older, some like younger, some like women close to their own age, and some just don't care.
Look, you didn't have anything that deep with him, you had one touchy-feely session with him, and some dates.....and he's moved to someone else who seems to have caught his attention more than you did, so what's the big deal? Who cares how old she is or even what she looks like? Is
he the last man on earth and you have to get pregnant to save the human race? No! So find another guy. It really is that simple. IF you insist on making it complicated then you COULD decide that she's smarter, prettier, has more mental connection with him, and the two of them have hours and hours of mind blowing sex while money just magically pours into their bank accounts for no real reason other than they're the most perfect match EVER
......but that would be as silly as what you're currently doing
by obsessing over a guy who found someone else he'd rather get jiggy with.click to expand
But I want romance...I've been alone for a long time
Why is he still liking my photos thou?
Posted by victoriageminiI was single for 8 yrs before I met my Aries. The reason for my singlehood was that I couldn't find what I was looking for and I wasn't going to settle with the douche that were available to me at the time. I had no problem being single and I still don't. One thing my single days taught me is to not put up wit someone's bad behaviour. Often you will find people staying in bad relationships because they don't know how to be alone or you find people getting in relationships with all the wrong people because desperation is running high. Desperation will only help you settle for less.
But I want romance...I've been alone for a long time
Posted by victoriageminiJust because he isn't romantically interested in you, doesn't mean he doesn't think you're a good person or a beautiful person. Him liking your pic doesn't mean anything. At best it means he likes the pic.
Why is he still liking my photos thou?
Long distance eh, maybe you seasoned him up for someone else....it happens
Posted by aquarius09I see....I appreciate your insight. I like him and I hate him at the same time if that makes sense. My emotions...Posted by victoriageminiJust because he isn't romantically interested in you, doesn't mean he doesn't think you're a good person or a beautiful person. Him liking your pic doesn't mean anything. At best it means he likes the pic.
Why is he still liking my photos thou?click to expand
Posted by cherishedlibraSucks big time
Long distance eh, maybe you seasoned him up for someone else....it happens
Those sensitive players! Damn them!
Trick is with players you can't show them all your cards. (No matter how you feel about him) You must be able to get up from the table before the game is finished when the odds are in your favor.( No matter how you feel about him)
Be confident enough to walk away if he never comes back ,oh well, you still have you...is that a big win?
These men love to be looked after and will jump from one to other which ever one is looking after him the best. Its hopeless if he's still hooked on an ex (who mommied him the best) that dumped him. He always give in to her no matter who he's with.
Don't think he's not aware of what he's doing because he knows.
Take this time to heal. Forgive and forget him.
Trick is with players you can't show them all your cards. (No matter how you feel about him) You must be able to get up from the table before the game is finished when the odds are in your favor.( No matter how you feel about him)
Be confident enough to walk away if he never comes back ,oh well, you still have you...is that a big win?
These men love to be looked after and will jump from one to other which ever one is looking after him the best. Its hopeless if he's still hooked on an ex (who mommied him the best) that dumped him. He always give in to her no matter who he's with.
Don't think he's not aware of what he's doing because he knows.
Take this time to heal. Forgive and forget him.
Posted by ScorpioStarGazerCould do that. Or jus take it slooooow like the tortoise.
It sucks when you fall for someone you think you know who suddenly loses interest in you and then falls for someone else. Makes you feel like you're just not good enough especially when it happens over and over again. You wonder what the point of dating again is if you only run the risk of it happening repeatedly. It hurts for sure. Makes me want to become a hermit....avoid all human interaction. Afterall, if you avoid human interaction you can't get hurt.
Enjoy the light side of things first.
Posted by ScorpioStarGazerWow my feelings exactly! You put into words what I couldn't express here
It sucks when you fall for someone you think you know who suddenly loses interest in you and then falls for someone else. Makes you feel like you're just not good enough especially when it happens over and over again. You wonder what the point of dating again is if you only run the risk of it happening repeatedly. It hurts for sure. Makes me want to become a hermit....avoid all human interaction. Afterall, if you avoid human interaction you can't get hurt.
Posted by cherishedlibraI'm going to ignore him now...I used to like his pics still on social media but now I feel stupid as fuq so I will ignore him. He liked my photo today too...I'm not going to block or delete him because I am taking the high road and if it means nothing then it means nothing. If he wants he can no one is making him do it but I'm not going to give him attention anymore
Those sensitive players! Damn them!
Trick is with players you can't show them all your cards. (No matter how you feel about him) You must be able to get up from the table before the game is finished when the odds are in your favor.( No matter how you feel about him)
Be confident enough to walk away if he never comes back ,oh well, you still have you...is that a big win?
These men love to be looked after and will jump from one to other which ever one is looking after him the best. Its hopeless if he's still hooked on an ex (who mommied him the best) that dumped him. He always give in to her no matter who he's with.
Don't think he's not aware of what he's doing because he knows.
Take this time to heal. Forgive and forget him.
Posted by ShashkaNot sure about that
You know someday someone will season someone up for you!
Posted by facerollWhat was special? Well he persued me hard..at first I didn't give a fuq about him..he persued for 4 month before we actually met. I thought wow he might be serious. I gave him a chance and I really liked him. So that's why I'm confused AF. I guess he did just want to fuq me..he is seeing someone now and still liking my pics.don't get crab men
you can have romance without a relationship. that's why you date. don't get so caught up in the first guy who shows you some positive attention. this is about you and your happiness. why settle for someone like this cancer who obviously wanted to find his happiness elsewhere? you know what you say to guys like that dude? NEXT. a good man wants a good woman. but that involves having a life outside of your relationship. not being clingy and trying to force things just for the sake of it. if he could be anyone then what makes him want to stay? it's not about having impossible standards. be realistic. but realize not everyone is worth your time. and take it graciously and not take it personally if he decides you're not the one. what
was so special about this crab guy anyway? the more energy you waste on him and other guys who aren't the one the less energy and time you have to put into the right dude.
Now I found out they boom a trip together! They only knew each other like for 2 weeks? Hate myself
Is it the venus opposite Pluto that was the problem in synastry?
I need to get my shite together but I'm crushed
Omg she's 42 ! I made a mistake and he's 38 so he does want a little mother figure.
Posted by ScorpioStarGazerThank you.thats lovely
I'm sorry you're hurting. I know how you feel. Just know that someday you will meet someone deserving of your love. Don't hate yourself or blame yourself. You simply just fell for someone who didn't fall for you. If that's a crime then lock me up and throw away the key because I'm definitely guilty! Be thankful you at least have a heart and know how to use it. A lot of people don't. The right man will come along someday who will desire you just the way you are. Until that time comes don't waste your tears on people who don't deserve them.
Posted by victoriageminiVictoria, your mindset and obsessing about age is immature..... you are 29 and acting and behaving like a 16 years old..... do you really think there is such a big difference between 29 and 42? its about mentality, and I am sorry to say, you dont sound like a normal 29
Omg she's 42 ! I made a mistake and he's 38 so he does want a little mother figure.
if I remember correctly, you are a virgin? it may explain a lot (I just vaguely remember something like this and maybe the cancer man wanted be the first? if it was not you, then I am sorry to confuse you with someone else and ignore my last sentence, please and dont get offended)
Posted by Pandora101You must be 42 then...your body and mentality is different. If he wants kids..well....Posted by victoriageminiVictoria, your mindset and obsessing about age is immature..... you are 29 and acting and behaving like a 16 years old..... do you really think there is such a big difference between 29 and 42? its about mentality, and I am sorry to say, you dont sound like a normal 29
Omg she's 42 ! I made a mistake and he's 38 so he does want a little mother figure.
if I remember correctly, you are a virgin? it may explain a lot (I just vaguely remember something like this and maybe the cancer man wanted be the first? if it was not you, then I am sorry to confuse you
with someone else and ignore my last sentence, please and dont get offended)click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchUm excuse me if I was childish he wouldn't keep me around second of all I'm just shocked becuase all his past ladies where under 30 fourthly you seem to say different stuff on why he lost interest every time. Wtf?
This is SO childish I can´t believe it!
There´s literally 4 years between them, while there is almost ten years between the twos of you! So that must mean he was looking for a kindergardener, when he was in touch with you. And seems like you are one, which is probably why he bounced. To get with a real, mature woman.
Hating on her is a bunch of bullshit, that´s the lowest of lows, so childish. I seriously hope you start learning something soon and feel better about yourself.
@thinktoomuch and I'm not hating. I didn't call her bitch did i? I'm a Venus in Aries.Rejection is deep for me
Posted by FutureSeekerThanks
If you can't handle feedback- quit posting. You open yourself up to it when you post. If you only want a response that agrees with yours that is ridiculous.
You liked him. He liked you. He showed interest, so you thought. Some of his behaviors were confusing. He now is interested in someone else. He still likes things of yours on social media. So what? He probably has no clue how much you were interested in him. He most likely was seeing a few people and started really liking this other person. Why want someone who doesn't want you—? That baffles me— It's just not a match. I hate feeling rejected too- and I've gone through ALOT. My current relationship is the first time in years I have been with someone healthy. Everyone else wasn't a match for one reason or another. Sometimes they decided, sometimes I did. You will never know they why.
I'm not trying to put you on the defense- I'm trying (again) to give perspective.
Free yourself from your happiness being dependent on a person or a relationship. It's about expectation management
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