What makes a Cancer guy fall in love? (Page 2)

Cancerlady?
What ever you pick up on my posts?. I have no personal attractions/love/hate, even a sense for you anyway? etc. so ease up on that.

If you can't understand the Virgo "logic" its your problem.. ! "As you Americans love to label the people" and eventually "make a profile and count it as a general info"?.. Laugh my ASS off?

As you've said about "Virgo" logics again?. You cant understand it.. because.. that?s the way you want it.. I know Canceriens that they "understand me" and even "love me" actually.. so it must be something wrong with you?. Not them.

I never.. followed you.. so don?t get feeling that you are "special"? I did? because of cancer bugger..er.. cancerbuddy? that dude? need to pay his debt for all VIRGO bashing stuff he did all along?! ON THE VIRGO BOARD?!

He is intelligent..? Naw..
He is good?? Naw..
He is great? ? Naw
He has a personality — Naw

What he is..??... a Cancer wannabe.. if you ask me..?.... NAW

Lol...

I am glad that a Virgo makes him "suffer"..
I f I where that Virgo "god forbid"? I would make him burn in eternity?!

Cancerbugger.. er.. buddy?
Its your own words? DUDE?!!

"If we are such a disease, then what the hell are you on this board for - just to harass us."


What the hell you've been doing in Virgo boards, for more than a year then..??

Care to explain? DUDE..??

Hehe?. And you dare to "shoo me.."??.... you're wrong again DUDE?!

Payback time?!

You acting like a b!tch dude?
Care to be a man?.. for sometimes..??

Definitely bitter.(lol) It must suck to be so bitter...I hope I never get that way.

Cancerlady

Yeah Atlantic Myst

Prove me that I am wrong? lol?.!

Lol Cancerlady?.

Bitter of what..??... people gets bitter of something that "has a meaning"?!
You think that you have a meaning..??... or—

As your "netglish" would suggest... LMAO

My main target is however is this dude called "cancerbuddy" but, whomever gets in the way?. May also suffer?

Choice is yours

Not that "he is important".. thou
Just a pay back—

What makes you ASSume I am talking about you? Don?t get feeling that you are "special" Laugh my ASS off?


You know people loved Hitler too....LMAO

In order to excercise revenge, don't you have to be wronged?

people "still" does...

In order to feel wronged, don't you have to associate some sort of importance to the person or thing doing you wrong?

But to be frank with you "no need to be honest and great with you"

You are not in my thought?..unless your tiny thought.. gets in the way?
Stay away?

Hey.... I give you last chance..
Check the "cancerbuddy" posts on virgo board.. before you jump in conclusions..!

And about the thoughts...

This is stupid, and I feel stupid for even allowing myself to respond. I have checked myself, and now I am finished with this. Sorry all those who came here to get advice and had to read this crap...unless you like that sort of thing of course.

Good Luck Jl_Fiona! and everyone else!

Peace
Cancerlady

So....

This VIRGO.. is not here... because of "you"? kid.. don?t get yourself prised?

The reason is this "virgo basher wannabe", not you?!

HOPE YOU UNDRESTAND....

if not..??.. well I guess I have to "waste" my time on you too...!

that deppends on "how intelligent" are you..!








doubt it too...

laugh out loud..."your netglish"...LOL

ahh

good for you you.. buh-bye.. takecare and have fun...

Now? CB—

Where the hell we where..??


Damn those kids with "help wannabe" feelings?

Turn that off Q. You irritating people around.

Ahhh

Cancerbuddy... I see that you don't like this "Cancerbuddy bashing"?even in your own ground?

Then kindly "shut the hell up" when you are visiting the "Virgo" board and keep your experiences to yourself, or you'll have me on your tail again..!!

On the other hand? "I really do think he was burned BAD by a cancer", if this is the way you "thinking", then? you are wrong again.. "as usual"!

I have nothing against "cancerians" or any other signs for this matter, stop turning "your opinion" into "group opinion", whether I "burned" by crabs or the other signs I never blame it to anyone "as you do"!

Haffo

The posts has been made for a specific reason and to the specific persons and they've been "noticed".

Atlantic myst

You called me a "prick"..! do I know you..?? call the whole Norway a "prick" do I care..?? hehe.

My Cancerian Daughter made a Checklist of Cancerian Qualities. So far only CancerLady qualifies.

Hello:

I wanted to respond to jl fiona's question about knowing when Cancer men are in love or falling in love.. well the things that most of the others said about them is true. Cancer men will stay very closed up about their feelings... how do I know this? My boyfriend is a Cancer, and I was always wondering and doubting how he really felt about me because he would not BUDGE until he was sure in telling me how he felt about me or even to say I love you. It was hard on me, because I feel HARD for him, lol. It was the first time in my life where I actually felt nervous and would tremble whenever I would hear from him and that I couldn't eat!
I was always a skeptic whenever I would hear my friends or other people say that they experienced that with someone they had fallen in love with, but I became a believer when I met him. He turned me on mentally and physically in a way that I had not felt for someone ever. I always tell him how sexy he is and what gets me is that he's modest about that. He actually dosen't think he is.

The thing I know which made it harder for him also to tell me is that he had just gotten out of a 41/2 year relationship with a girl. He was really in love with her and I had just also ended a six year relationship. I had sooooo many doubts about us but I knew how I felt about him couldn't be ignored. At the beginning I could tell he still had very strong feelings for his ex but at the same time he would cling to me. He even at one point admitted to me he was still in love with her and tried to encourage me not to get my hopes up too high about a future with us- this was one of the hardest times for me, but he would always call me constantly and would come to see me.

When we first met, he told me he loved me but I told him that he didn't have to say that to me because I know that we were both just enthralled with each other.
He did eventually stop saying it and even though I kept saying it to him, he would not. I would say "I love you" and there would be either dead silence or "ok" as a response.

We were almost four or five months into the relationship before he told me he loved me but what was wonderful was that I knew he really meant it.

Cancer men can be these wonderful oxymorons. He can be sooo gentle and sweet and affectionate and then all of a sudden stand-offish and quiet and just wants to be left alone BUT he still loves you, lol.

Believe me Jl, when your Cancer sweetheart falls in love with you it will be very deep and wonderful and everything you can want. Also be aware that he can be moody and when he's angry he can get pretty mean, lol, but HE LOVES YOU and this you will be certain of.

I wish you and your Sweetie all the best. If you truly love him, don't stop showing and telling him how much you do, he is paying attention very closely and his heart is evaluating it all. Like someone said trust is very important to them and please if at all possible DON'T LIE TO HIM ABOUT ANYTHING- Cancer men hate to be lied to! Anyone would but they really really don't. I've made that mistake twice with my Cancer man and it was not good, lol, to say the least.

Just love him truly,deeply,completely... he will be your always and you his.

OBPisces

BigDad,

What qualities are those if I may ask?

Cancerlady

Hello Sweet Cancerlady. From past few days you have been blooming like a "Real Woman". That question is for girls waiting for the "first time" to happen.

Hello all:

I just wanted to post and let whoever cares to know how things are going with my Cancer Sweetheart- I am sooo in love with this man, lol.

Well we will have been together a year on his birthday next month 06-25! Amazingly enough we met on the internet on the night before his birthday! I could tell the story of how we met, but I will save that for whoever would like to hear it. I will say this, it was one of those "totally-didn't-expect-to-happen-didn't-look-for-it-to-happen-still-never-thought-it-would-happen-to-me-kind of things because I was on the internet that night in a chat room totally out of boredom and IMing people just as a joke! Then another thing that's so funny is that when we started talking when he responded to my IM, the way he would respond to my questions, I was about to disconnect the IM and block any further messages coming from him!

Anyway, we had a rough week because his ex-girlfriend has been trying to contact him again but I threw such a fit that I don't think that will be happening again.
The reason I had such a fit the history he has had with this girl is awful- in how she has treated him- she has always been the one who would break up with him and not only that but just how she treated him when they were together. Also he confessed something to me that I didn't know had happened around the time of us first meeting- he had gone to see her about a month after he and I had started seeing each other and they had "gotten together". He confessed this to me about a month ago when I came out to meet his mom and sister for the first time and I stayed the weekend at his sister's house.

I wasn't angry because I almost expected something like that to happen when we first met. I knew he still cared for her a great deal, I just didn't know he would do it in secret. Anyhow, he told me that it was a big mistake and she started treating him the same mean way she had before and he said that after that had happened he knew it was over with him and her for good.

So now you must understand the reason for my huge fit because there is no way I am putting up with him staying in contact with this girl after she has treated him the way he has and every time she feels like she wants to hear from him and be nice to him then he would jump! NOOOOOO WAYYYYYY, not with me! I told him stop the communication with her for good or we are done. Plus he tells me all the time how stupid he was in letting her treat him the way he did.

I told him I am about having a serious future with him and that if he wants the same then all the past will be left there and we will focus on our future. I truly believe in my heart that he is ready for it. We've been through a lot and there have been many doubts but I know he is ready. I've always given him a choice and let him know that I want it to be something natural that he truly feels and wants with in his heart. I've never made him feel he had to love me and I would constantly tell him if he felt like I was just not the one for him then he could always tell me the truth. I always left the door open. I wanted to make sure he never felt boxed in or pressured or forced into anything, as much as they would have torn me to pieces if it had turned out to be that way, still I would tell him that he couldn't love me just because he didn't want to hurt me at that moment because for him to lie to me about truly loving me in that way would cause sooo much more pain down the road for us both.

Well, I just want to say that right now all is well- just that when he comes to see me and has to leave is killing me more and more! We are now talking about things we want to do to for our future- him moving here where I live and finding a job here- also saving for a house, etc. He lives right now about 31/2 hours away from me now which isn't too bad, but when you want to be with that person constantly, even that can be too muc

6/25 is also my birthday! He must be an AMAZING person...🙂

I'm glad to hear everything is good...I have a question for you though, Do you often want what you can't have? And if you do get it...do you not want it then?

CANcer man in love.....ooohh the bliss. Qbpisces you definitely have observed us cancer male in the wild and in domesticatd environments,LOL. Okay when we FALL in love,we GIVE our all, we will pamper you. Humour you. Give you all the attention ,we uh at times kinda look at other ladies but only fo a short short. And then we settle. BUt one thing us cancer detest is being LIED to ..or not giving us all the facts,cause if dat happens .can anyone say"LOCKED OUT AND IN OUR SHELLs"and hit u with a serious mean spat of our tongues. But to each their own, Qbpisces i'm happy for you and to all that found love. God bless.

where's all the answers, don't quite understand reading all these arguments going on. But I'm curious enough what makes a Cancer Man fall in love ?



I NEED TO SEE ANY SPECIFIC OPINIONS or SIGNS





:/

Posted by Daemon
CANcer man in love.....ooohh the bliss. Qbpisces you definitely have observed us cancer male in the wild and in domesticatd environments,LOL. Okay when we FALL in love,we GIVE our all, we will pamper you. Humour you. Give you all the attention ,we uh at times kinda look at other ladies but only fo a short short. And then we settle. BUt one thing us cancer detest is being LIED to ..or not giving us all the facts,cause if dat happens .can anyone say"LOCKED OUT AND IN OUR SHELLs"and hit u with a serious mean spat of our tongues. But to each their own, Qbpisces i'm happy for you and to all that found love. God bless.

Hmm as a scorpio lady his sense of humour is so dry though or is it just me. But so far so good.