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Posted by TheCanBullOh trust me, I know. John explained that it was a girl his friend was dating. I still didn't care for it, and guess what? After I said it, she stopped posting. HAHAPosted by nikkistarI had to explain to her that i like all my friends images, and yeah i recently became friends with her as it was her best friend that i knew from way back, and it all seemed a little weird to her, i was nice about it.Posted by TheCanBullOh man, this reminds of a time I called John up and was perturbed because some girl kept sharing stuff all over his wall.
You are like the Aries i know.. and well we fancy the f.. of each other lol, but i'm clingy, and she don't like clingy too much, and she's possessive lol... Aries are.. i'm possessive too but not to her level, but that makes me feel quite loved and it's sexy.. well at least when she is not using her temper that is... were not even together though were having sexy time over the phone and stuff.. but she kicked off because i liked her friends images lol.
She is Aries sun / moon with Pisces placements elsewhere.
So @confusedlibra78 dating me? i'm still Cancerian, just some difference, no mood swings, no problem expressing feelings outwardly and how i think, communicator. but still clingy and some light possessiveness lol.
But I didn't yell or anything, I simply said "Who is this girl? She's annoying me with how much she's posting on your wall." I did not like it at all.
John has always told me "I know you aren't going anywhere", so I think he is secure with me. I've already told him, I am like an incurable STD, he is stuck with me for life. LOL
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Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraYes, my cousins live in Wheat RidgePosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraI'm from NY but have been here awhile. Colorado is so beautiful!Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by Crabra? I'm in Atlanta. You?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
Ohh, Hotlanta eh? I've been there a few times. For some reason I was thinking you were in New York/Jersey. I'm in Colorado. 🙂
Ahh, that might explain why I was under the impression. You and I have interacted on several occasions here now, so that might have stuck in at some point. So you've been here? Pictures don't give the beautiful, mountainous scenery here justice. Hopefully you got to experience it firsthand.
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Wow! That is really close to me. I just might have to ask you to dinner next time you're around.
Posted by CrabraDefinitely ?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraYes, my cousins live in Wheat RidgePosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraI'm from NY but have been here awhile. Colorado is so beautiful!Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by Crabra? I'm in Atlanta. You?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
Ohh, Hotlanta eh? I've been there a few times. For some reason I was thinking you were in New York/Jersey. I'm in Colorado. 🙂
Ahh, that might explain why I was under the impression. You and I have interacted on several occasions here now, so that might have stuck in at some point. So you've been here? Pictures don't give the beautiful, mountainous scenery here justice. Hopefully you got to experience it firsthand.
Wow! That is really close to me. I just might have to ask you to dinner next time you're around.
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Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraDefinitely ?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraYes, my cousins live in Wheat RidgePosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraI'm from NY but have been here awhile. Colorado is so beautiful!Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by Crabra? I'm in Atlanta. You?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
Ohh, Hotlanta eh? I've been there a few times. For some reason I was thinking you were in New York/Jersey. I'm in Colorado. 🙂
Ahh, that might explain why I was under the impression. You and I have interacted on several occasions here now, so that might have stuck in at some point. So you've been here? Pictures don't give the beautiful, mountainous scenery here justice. Hopefully you got to experience it firsthand.
Wow! That is really close to me. I just might have to ask you to dinner next time you're around.
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Posted by confusedlibra78Okay yeah, this guy sounds like a big jerk...Posted by nikkistarBecause this is a pattern with him. He's done similar things multiple times before. He's told me that he's going to take me to his favorite restaurant multiple times, never has but has taken other people. He told me he was taking me to a baseball game and that we'd go into the dugout. He made a point to tell me he always keeps his promises. Never happened. He was going to take me to a Giants game for my birthday, backed out 2 weeks before. He didn't get me anything for Christmas, didn't even acknowledge it with a card. When we were in NY we had made plans to go to a really nice restaurant for lunch and he slept through it. We spend 98% of the time at his bar or at his place hanging out. Then other day I asked him to go somewhere with me because I was uncomfortable going alone (I felt unsafe). Got to his place and he was asleep.
Man, I don't know if its because I am less sensitive about stuff, but I don't understand why you are so mad.Posted by confusedlibra78You are now saying he spends every weekend with you, but now you are pissed off that he decided to go to a game last minute with a friend without asking you? But he only made these plans AFTER you canceled. To me, he has nothing to apologize for. Him and his friend last minute decided to drive up to see the game, instead of wasting the weekend and the free ticket. You already said you couldn't come up, so why should he ask you to go? All of his plans didn't happen, so he made new ones. You aren't his mom, and you shouldn't require him to ask permission. Especially given it isn't even a big deal, its him going to a game with his friend. He was probably super excited about actually being able to attend when he thought he couldn't. Now he had someone willing to drive, and to half his expenses to boot, since he is very conscious about money.
I have one kid and he's with his dad every weekend, all weekend so it wouldn't have been an issue. My boyfriend knows that because we spend EVERY weekend together. Except this one due to the ice.
I don't logically comprehend how him going to a game equates to him not making you a priority.
After being with a husband for 18 years who didn't make me a priority, it's just tiresome behavior. And no man ever has to ask me permission for anything. I'm not that woman. However, the Giants are my absolute favorite team, he knows that, he didn't even bother to call to tell me. Again, it's not that I couldn't go it's that he didn't even let me know. He could have just called to say hey I've got some great news I'm going with a friend, something. Instead he waited till he was on the road and then told me.
If you can't see why this doesn't show how he doesn't make me a priority, maybe you should date him. Sounds like you'd be perfect for each other.click to expand
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Posted by TheCanBullSounds perfect. I like to be possessed. I may be a Libra but I have a ton of Scorp in my chart and a Virgo moon, so I'm not all air. Clinginess is ok, too.Posted by nikkistarYou are like the Aries i know.. and well we fancy the f.. of each other lol, but i'm clingy, and she don't like clingy too much, and she's possessive lol... Aries are.. i'm possessive too but not to her level, but that makes me feel quite loved and it's sexy.. well at least when she is not using her temper that is... were not even together though were having sexy time over the phone and stuff.. but she kicked off because i liked her friends images lol.Posted by confusedlibra78
He told me on our second date he had a plan for me and that was to make me fall in love with him. I've heard so many lines, I ignored it, but maybe he's confused because, unlike most women, I don't get all possessive and clingy and I don't fall in love easily.
I would freak the eff out if someone brought up the word love in the very beginning. lol
On a different note, I am not clingy at all, I rarely call or text my Cancer. However, I am hyper possessive, and he knows it. So maybe that is why I work with my Cancer. *shrugs*
She is Aries sun / moon with Pisces placements elsewhere.
So @confusedlibra78 dating me? i'm still Cancerian, just some difference, no mood swings, no problem expressing feelings outwardly and how i think, communicator. but still clingy and some light possessiveness lol.
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So....I told him how I feel and really made it more about me and not his failures and now he's turning it around on me. Sigh. That's what I get for trying. When will I ever learn?
Posted by notsosureLol, I figured. I told him that if I had done the same thing to him he'd be hurt but that the game was only a small part of the issue. He said he wouldn't be hurt and why would he be. Then he said none of what I was saying made sense. I'm not responding to that.
P.s. I am referring to him, not you!
Posted by DivaCanLeoLol!!, also means you have square moons. So hard for you to get along emotionally. I don't like seeing square moons for couples regardless of the degree. You have to both be extrmely emotionally mature to handle (significant example Brad- Cap Moon and Angie- Aries Moon couldn't hack it, they tried though).Posted by confusedlibra78It means dump him.Posted by DivaCanLeoHim:
What's his moon and Venus op?
Sag Moon
Virgo Venus
Me:
Virgo Moon
Scorp Venus
What's that mean?
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Even though both your suns can deal with each others moon, still a tough one. Based on what I've read astrology-aside, he's a douchebag that needs to be caught off. There certain people you work hard to keep in your life, he's clearly not one.
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This is also just a guess based on the fact that you mentioned he's 33 @confusedlibra78. Uranus is in Sagittarius and his Moon could very well be conjunct Uranus.
I tend to stay clear of people with prominent uranus (especially hard aspects to their Moon) because they are very detached and can just do things without a care in the world of how it affects anyone else. It's not their fault, it's just certain (well mainly other Uranian and Aquarian people that would understand them). You would think you as an air also would but it's not always the case depending on YOUR chart as well.
Cancer which is generally a caring sign is in conflict with this. So its obvious he is not evolved. I give him another 4yrs after his nodal return to hopeful mature (as not everyone that goes through a saturn return matures).
Normally, I never tell anyone to break up with someone and give them a chance but common sense prevails here. He doesn't deserve that chance.
I tend to stay clear of people with prominent uranus (especially hard aspects to their Moon) because they are very detached and can just do things without a care in the world of how it affects anyone else. It's not their fault, it's just certain (well mainly other Uranian and Aquarian people that would understand them). You would think you as an air also would but it's not always the case depending on YOUR chart as well.
Cancer which is generally a caring sign is in conflict with this. So its obvious he is not evolved. I give him another 4yrs after his nodal return to hopeful mature (as not everyone that goes through a saturn return matures).
Normally, I never tell anyone to break up with someone and give them a chance but common sense prevails here. He doesn't deserve that chance.
Posted by ShinzoThanks. I can't wait that long.
This is also just a guess based on the fact that you mentioned he's 33 @confusedlibra78. Uranus is in Sagittarius and his Moon could very well be conjunct Uranus.
I tend to stay clear of people with prominent uranus (especially hard aspects to their Moon) because they are very detached and can just do things without a care in the world of how it affects anyone else. It's not their fault, it's just certain (well mainly other Uranian and Aquarian people that would understand them). You would think you as an air also would but it's not always the case depending on YOUR chart as well.
Cancer which is generally a caring sign is in conflict with this. So its obvious he is not evolved. I give him another 4yrs after his nodal return to hopeful mature (as not everyone that goes through a saturn return matures).
Normally, I never tell anyone to break up with someone and give them a chance but common sense prevails here. He doesn't deserve that chance.
I guess it's their forte, we are on a same boat my dear...my cancer guy is being a real deuche bag by going to Oman today and only told me the moment he checked in the hotel. He did tell me he wanna go there soon just didnt expect everything is already confirmed and tadaaa he's already there.
Posted by scorpion88Oh wow!! What did you do?
I guess it's their forte, we are on a same boat my dear...my cancer guy is being a real deuche bag by going to Oman today and only told me the moment he checked in the hotel. He did tell me he wanna go there soon just didnt expect everything is already confirmed and tadaaa he's already there.
Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by GemitatiI will take that as you are genuinely asking and not being a dick. Yes, I'm fucking hurt. Not being important to someone that you care about hurts, a lot
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