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@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
Run hunnie
Posted by tnmntI can easily be cold. It makes me sad because I don't want to hurt him despite how much he's hurt me.Posted by confusedlibra78Just leave him. If you turn cold as a freezer and treat him with apathy better. Because apathy will be unexpected seeing how available you are, and will feel like rejection. And Cancers hate rejection. He'll learn the lesson after thinking about it for months, he'll cry, he'll be regretful. He won't forget you easily.Posted by tnmntNo, it's all about him. I thought my ex Sag husband was selfish...this guy takes the cake.Posted by confusedlibra78From what you say, it's not that he doesn't make you a priority, he doesn't consider you at all...Posted by nikkistarBecause this is a pattern with him. He's done similar things multiple times before. He's told me that he's going to take me to his favorite restaurant multiple times, never has but has taken other people. He told me he was taking me to a baseball game and that we'd go into the dugout. He made a point to tell me he always keeps his promises. Never happened. He was going to take me to a Giants game for my birthday, backed out 2 weeks before. He didn't get me anything for Christmas, didn't even acknowledge it with a card. When we were in NY we had made plans to go to a really nice restaurant for lunch and he slept through it. We spend 98% of the time at his bar or at his place hanging out. Then other day I asked him to go somewhere with me because I was uncomfortable going alone (I felt unsafe). Got to his place and he was asleep.
Man, I don't know if its because I am less sensitive about stuff, but I don't understand why you are so mad.Posted by confusedlibra78You are now saying he spends every weekend with you, but now you are pissed off that he decided to go to a game last minute with a friend without asking you? But he only made these plans AFTER you canceled. To me, he has nothing to apologize for. Him and his friend last minute decided to drive up to see the game, instead of wasting the weekend and the free ticket. You already said you couldn't come up, so why should he ask you to go? All of his plans didn't happen, so he made new ones. You aren't his mom, and you shouldn't require him to ask permission. Especially given it isn't even a big deal, its him going to a game with his friend. He was probably super excited about actually being able to attend when he thought he couldn't. Now he had someone willing to drive, and to half his expenses to boot, since he is very conscious about money.
I have one kid and he's with his dad every weekend, all weekend so it wouldn't have been an issue. My boyfriend knows that because we spend EVERY weekend together. Except this one due to the ice.
I don't logically comprehend how him going to a game equates to him not making you a priority.
After being with a husband for 18 years who didn't make me a priority, it's just tiresome behavior. And no man ever has to ask me permission for anything. I'm not that woman. However, the Giants are my absolute favorite team, he knows that, he didn't even bother to call to tell me. Again, it's not that I couldn't go it's that he didn't even let me know. He could have just called to say hey I've got some great news I'm going with a friend, something. Instead he waited till he was on the road and then told me.
If you can't see why this doesn't show how he doesn't make me a priority, maybe you should date him. Sounds like you'd be perfect for each other.
It's funny because I dated a Libra who was doing the same exact things to me.
He's just not that into you and he's taking advantage of your availability.
The way you feel now will be a frequent visitor.
Either you respect yourself enough to leave, or you learn to accept this feeling and compromise.
I can't accept it. I have to leave. How do I do it, though? He can be downright mean to others.
But don't fall again when he plays his cards, because he's going to turn you down again and in a nastier way.click to expand
Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameNope, I would have been fine with it. He had a single ticket to a concert for a band I didn't really know. He really, really wanted me to go and said he'd find a way to sneak me in and if he couldn't, we'd go back to his place. I told him that was ridiculous and that he should go because he loved the band and I wanted him to enjoy himself. He fought it for a bit but ended up going and bragged to his friends about how cool and awesome I was for "letting" him go.
Maybe he just wanted a guy only thing... but he's still petty as hell... he could've told you from the beginning that he wanted to go with his friends, and I'm sure you'd be okay with that right?
It's the fact that he try to hide it from you that you're upset about?
@confusedlibra78
Maybe also, since you guys spend every weekend together he just wanted to be with the guys... I don't think it's because he doesn't have an interest but everyone even clingy crabs need space.. hes still a douche though for the record.
Posted by DivaCanLeoHim:
What's his moon and Venus op?
Sag Moon
Virgo Venus
Me:
Virgo Moon
Scorp Venus
What's that mean?
Posted by DivaCanLeoBahahaha —? Do I do what someone else suggested? Go cold? Or do I tell him what's up so he knowsPosted by confusedlibra78It means dump him.Posted by DivaCanLeoHim:
What's his moon and Venus op?
Sag Moon
Virgo Venus
Me:
Virgo Moon
Scorp Venus
What's that mean?
Life is too short for this shitclick to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoYou think it's just sex? My Scorp FWB used me for sex and we had a lot of it. 3-5 times a night. I'm lucky if I get once a night with the Crab. There have also been nights where he just wants to cuddle. I think he uses me for cuddling, lolPosted by HarleyTwinFlameCrabs need space but he's selfish and just using her for sex.
Maybe he just wanted a guy only thing... but he's still petty as hell... he could've told you from the beginning that he wanted to go with his friends, and I'm sure you'd be okay with that right?
It's the fact that he try to hide it from you that you're upset about?
@confusedlibra78
Maybe also, since you guys spend every weekend together he just wanted to be with the guys... I don't think it's because he doesn't have an interest but everyone even clingy crabs need space.. hes still a douche though for the record.
It has nothing to do with his friends.
Time to pull the plugclick to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoExactly. I just stopped believing him when he said we or he was going to do something. Zero integrityPosted by confusedlibra78Lol well I hate people who don't treat their so with respect.Posted by DivaCanLeoYou think it's just sex? My Scorp FWB used me for sex and we had a lot of it. 3-5 times a night. I'm lucky if I get once a night with the Crab. There have also been nights where he just wants to cuddle. I think he uses me for cuddling, lolPosted by HarleyTwinFlameCrabs need space but he's selfish and just using her for sex.
Maybe he just wanted a guy only thing... but he's still petty as hell... he could've told you from the beginning that he wanted to go with his friends, and I'm sure you'd be okay with that right?
It's the fact that he try to hide it from you that you're upset about?
@confusedlibra78
Maybe also, since you guys spend every weekend together he just wanted to be with the guys... I don't think it's because he doesn't have an interest but everyone even clingy crabs need space.. hes still a douche though for the record.
It has nothing to do with his friends.
Time to pull the plug
If I say I'm going to do something I'm going to do it.
Virgo used to promise me many things
That's what users do.
Lieclick to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoFor what purpose? He could get laid by anyonePosted by confusedlibra78That means he's just biding his time.Posted by DivaCanLeoExactly. I just stopped believing him when he said we or he was going to do something. Zero integrityPosted by confusedlibra78Lol well I hate people who don't treat their so with respect.Posted by DivaCanLeoYou think it's just sex? My Scorp FWB used me for sex and we had a lot of it. 3-5 times a night. I'm lucky if I get once a night with the Crab. There have also been nights where he just wants to cuddle. I think he uses me for cuddling, lolPosted by HarleyTwinFlameCrabs need space but he's selfish and just using her for sex.
Maybe he just wanted a guy only thing... but he's still petty as hell... he could've told you from the beginning that he wanted to go with his friends, and I'm sure you'd be okay with that right?
It's the fact that he try to hide it from you that you're upset about?
@confusedlibra78
Maybe also, since you guys spend every weekend together he just wanted to be with the guys... I don't think it's because he doesn't have an interest but everyone even clingy crabs need space.. hes still a douche though for the record.
It has nothing to do with his friends.
Time to pull the plug
If I say I'm going to do something I'm going to do it.
Virgo used to promise me many things
That's what users do.
Lie
Men can fake relationshipsclick to expand
Posted by confusedlibra78You silly bitch. You can't make a fuckboy a boyfriend.Posted by nikkistarBecause this is a pattern with him. He's done similar things multiple times before. He's told me that he's going to take me to his favorite restaurant multiple times, never has but has taken other people. He told me he was taking me to a baseball game and that we'd go into the dugout. He made a point to tell me he always keeps his promises. Never happened. He was going to take me to a Giants game for my birthday, backed out 2 weeks before. He didn't get me anything for Christmas, didn't even acknowledge it with a card. When we were in NY we had made plans to go to a really nice restaurant for lunch and he slept through it. We spend 98% of the time at his bar or at his place hanging out. Then other day I asked him to go somewhere with me because I was uncomfortable going alone (I felt unsafe). Got to his place and he was asleep.
Man, I don't know if its because I am less sensitive about stuff, but I don't understand why you are so mad.Posted by confusedlibra78You are now saying he spends every weekend with you, but now you are pissed off that he decided to go to a game last minute with a friend without asking you? But he only made these plans AFTER you canceled. To me, he has nothing to apologize for. Him and his friend last minute decided to drive up to see the game, instead of wasting the weekend and the free ticket. You already said you couldn't come up, so why should he ask you to go? All of his plans didn't happen, so he made new ones. You aren't his mom, and you shouldn't require him to ask permission. Especially given it isn't even a big deal, its him going to a game with his friend. He was probably super excited about actually being able to attend when he thought he couldn't. Now he had someone willing to drive, and to half his expenses to boot, since he is very conscious about money.
I have one kid and he's with his dad every weekend, all weekend so it wouldn't have been an issue. My boyfriend knows that because we spend EVERY weekend together. Except this one due to the ice.
I don't logically comprehend how him going to a game equates to him not making you a priority.
After being with a husband for 18 years who didn't make me a priority, it's just tiresome behavior. And no man ever has to ask me permission for anything. I'm not that woman. However, the Giants are my absolute favorite team, he knows that, he didn't even bother to call to tell me. Again, it's not that I couldn't go it's that he didn't even let me know. He could have just called to say hey I've got some great news I'm going with a friend, something. Instead he waited till he was on the road and then told me.
If you can't see why this doesn't show how he doesn't make me a priority, maybe you should date him. Sounds like you'd be perfect for each other.click to expand
Get real. This isn't a relationship. You're just pretending it is and expect people to feel bad for you because you made a really piss poor judgement in this loser.
You made your bed. Lay in it and shut the fuck up. You don't have any room to be complaining to DXP and expecting any sympathy. Bye Felicia.
Posted by confusedlibra78It means leave. Quickly.Posted by DivaCanLeoHim:
What's his moon and Venus op?
Sag Moon
Virgo Venus
Me:
Virgo Moon
Scorp Venus
What's that mean?
Posted by confusedlibra78The emotional aspect. Guys love getting their egos stroked just as much as they like their dicks getting stroked.Posted by DivaCanLeoFor what purpose? He could get laid by anyonePosted by confusedlibra78That means he's just biding his time.Posted by DivaCanLeoExactly. I just stopped believing him when he said we or he was going to do something. Zero integrityPosted by confusedlibra78Lol well I hate people who don't treat their so with respect.Posted by DivaCanLeoYou think it's just sex? My Scorp FWB used me for sex and we had a lot of it. 3-5 times a night. I'm lucky if I get once a night with the Crab. There have also been nights where he just wants to cuddle. I think he uses me for cuddling, lolPosted by HarleyTwinFlameCrabs need space but he's selfish and just using her for sex.
Maybe he just wanted a guy only thing... but he's still petty as hell... he could've told you from the beginning that he wanted to go with his friends, and I'm sure you'd be okay with that right?
It's the fact that he try to hide it from you that you're upset about?
@confusedlibra78
Maybe also, since you guys spend every weekend together he just wanted to be with the guys... I don't think it's because he doesn't have an interest but everyone even clingy crabs need space.. hes still a douche though for the record.
It has nothing to do with his friends.
Time to pull the plug
If I say I'm going to do something I'm going to do it.
Virgo used to promise me many things
That's what users do.
Lie
Men can fake relationshipsclick to expand
Dont let this one mans selfish ignorance turn you off from Cancers. When a Cancer man thinks you're the one, he will make you feel like you're the center of his world. Such an amazing sign in most placements. This guy is just a jerk.
Go find you a Cancer with lots of Earth placements 🙂
Posted by heliumfiascoThanks. I don't know why this hurts so much. I haven't talked to him yet. He's impossible to talk to.
Dont let this one mans selfish ignorance turn you off from Cancers. When a Cancer man thinks you're the one, he will make you feel like you're the center of his world. Such an amazing sign in most placements. This guy is just a jerk.
Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.click to expand
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
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Posted by confusedlibra78if he's not listening (impossible to talk to) then that is another sign ... so just ghost him and once he realizes you have backed out, you might be able to tell him ? who cares if he doesn't want to "hear" you - write everything down so you have it handy or you will get upset and forgetPosted by heliumfiascoThanks. I don't know why this hurts so much. I haven't talked to him yet. He's impossible to talk to.
Dont let this one mans selfish ignorance turn you off from Cancers. When a Cancer man thinks you're the one, he will make you feel like you're the center of his world. Such an amazing sign in most placements. This guy is just a jerk.click to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoYou're right and I know you're right. I have to get past my niceness and worry that he'll hurt my feelings since he clearly doesn't care about mine.Posted by confusedlibra78OK look at it this way. Life is very short. Do you want to be with a guy that hurts you or a guy that adds to your happiness.Posted by DivaCanLeoFor what purpose? He could get laid by anyonePosted by confusedlibra78That means he's just biding his time.Posted by DivaCanLeoExactly. I just stopped believing him when he said we or he was going to do something. Zero integrityPosted by confusedlibra78Lol well I hate people who don't treat their so with respect.Posted by DivaCanLeoYou think it's just sex? My Scorp FWB used me for sex and we had a lot of it. 3-5 times a night. I'm lucky if I get once a night with the Crab. There have also been nights where he just wants to cuddle. I think he uses me for cuddling, lolPosted by HarleyTwinFlameCrabs need space but he's selfish and just using her for sex.
Maybe he just wanted a guy only thing... but he's still petty as hell... he could've told you from the beginning that he wanted to go with his friends, and I'm sure you'd be okay with that right?
It's the fact that he try to hide it from you that you're upset about?
@confusedlibra78
Maybe also, since you guys spend every weekend together he just wanted to be with the guys... I don't think it's because he doesn't have an interest but everyone even clingy crabs need space.. hes still a douche though for the record.
It has nothing to do with his friends.
Time to pull the plug
If I say I'm going to do something I'm going to do it.
Virgo used to promise me many things
That's what users do.
Lie
Men can fake relationships
You obviously want a man who is less selfish and makes you Priority
But you're wasting you time on one who hurts you and isn't considerate of you.
He's getting consistent sex from you. He doesn't respect you.
At all. Otherwise he'd show you
It's all about that action boss.
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Posted by tctaI actually thought about writing him a letter and going and sitting down with him and just let him read it. My mom suggested just telling him that he doesn't love me and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me.Posted by confusedlibra78if he's not listening (impossible to talk to) then that is another sign ... so just ghost him and once he realizes you have backed out, you might be able to tell him ? who cares if he doesn't want to "hear" you - write everything down so you have it handy or you will get upset and forgetPosted by heliumfiascoThanks. I don't know why this hurts so much. I haven't talked to him yet. He's impossible to talk to.
Dont let this one mans selfish ignorance turn you off from Cancers. When a Cancer man thinks you're the one, he will make you feel like you're the center of his world. Such an amazing sign in most placements. This guy is just a jerk.click to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoHahaha...pinky swear
If you decide you can't let him go. No more threads okay.
Cause it's tiring
Posted by confusedlibra78come on - cut all the drama out - I would not tell him that he doesn't love you because it only opens the door for him to tell you that he does - which he does "in his way" - but the honest truth of it all is that "you want a different type of relationship than he can provide" "and you are worthy of that" "and although "he can't be the type of man that you need, you can both still care about each other" you just won't be together because you will not be talking to him and you will wait and not have sex with anyone until the day some nice man comes into your life and wants to treat you like you mean something special to him - and it will happenPosted by tctaI actually thought about writing him a letter and going and sitting down with him and just let him read it. My mom suggested just telling him that he doesn't love me and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me.Posted by confusedlibra78if he's not listening (impossible to talk to) then that is another sign ... so just ghost him and once he realizes you have backed out, you might be able to tell him ? who cares if he doesn't want to "hear" you - write everything down so you have it handy or you will get upset and forgetPosted by heliumfiascoThanks. I don't know why this hurts so much. I haven't talked to him yet. He's impossible to talk to.
Dont let this one mans selfish ignorance turn you off from Cancers. When a Cancer man thinks you're the one, he will make you feel like you're the center of his world. Such an amazing sign in most placements. This guy is just a jerk.click to expand
Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
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I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
Posted by Crabra? I'm in Atlanta. You?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
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Posted by tctaLol, that was my mom's advice. I'd rather say that he can't love me the way I need to be loved...basically what you said. I do need something different. I wish it hadn't taken me a failed marriage and this to figure it out.Posted by confusedlibra78come on - cut all the drama out - I would not tell him that he doesn't love you because it only opens the door for him to tell you that he does - which he does "in his way" - but the honest truth of it all is that "you want a different type of relationship than he can provide" "and you are worthy of that" "and although "he can't be the type of man that you need, you can both still care about each other" you just won't be together because you will not be talking to him and you will wait and not have sex with anyone until the day some nice man comes into your life and wants to treat you like you mean something special to him - and it will happenPosted by tctaI actually thought about writing him a letter and going and sitting down with him and just let him read it. My mom suggested just telling him that he doesn't love me and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me.Posted by confusedlibra78if he's not listening (impossible to talk to) then that is another sign ... so just ghost him and once he realizes you have backed out, you might be able to tell him ? who cares if he doesn't want to "hear" you - write everything down so you have it handy or you will get upset and forgetPosted by heliumfiascoThanks. I don't know why this hurts so much. I haven't talked to him yet. He's impossible to talk to.
Dont let this one mans selfish ignorance turn you off from Cancers. When a Cancer man thinks you're the one, he will make you feel like you're the center of his world. Such an amazing sign in most placements. This guy is just a jerk.
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Posted by confusedlibra78He may well love you, truly. Just ask yourself if you want to be loved by someone who treats those he loves in this way?Posted by tctaI actually thought about writing him a letter and going and sitting down with him and just let him read it. My mom suggested just telling him that he doesn't love me and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me.Posted by confusedlibra78if he's not listening (impossible to talk to) then that is another sign ... so just ghost him and once he realizes you have backed out, you might be able to tell him ? who cares if he doesn't want to "hear" you - write everything down so you have it handy or you will get upset and forgetPosted by heliumfiascoThanks. I don't know why this hurts so much. I haven't talked to him yet. He's impossible to talk to.
Dont let this one mans selfish ignorance turn you off from Cancers. When a Cancer man thinks you're the one, he will make you feel like you're the center of his world. Such an amazing sign in most placements. This guy is just a jerk.click to expand
I don't think we hurt people as badly as some of the other signs. We just get annoyed and throw tandrums but we apologize pretty quick if we took it too far if we truly see it hurt you. If you be passive aggressive towards us not so much. We just tend to be the most dramatic but its not the most hurtful honestly. I mean I know some of us do the disappearing act but sometimes its out of shame and not to make the other person feel worse. Also it can be that we just don't liked to backed into a corner schedule wise and that causes anxiety.
If you want to see some hurt bombs get on the wrong side of a Virgo.Aqua or Cap and get back with me lol
If you want to see some hurt bombs get on the wrong side of a Virgo.Aqua or Cap and get back with me lol
Lol, that was my mom's advice. I'd rather say that he can't love me the way I need to be loved...basically what you said. I do need something different. I wish it hadn't taken me a failed marriage and this to figure it out.
well at least now you know what you are looking for ...
Posted by GetMisted— I'm glad I didn't have to sit in the cold and spend $ $ $ to watch itPosted by confusedlibra78
Let me start by saying I'm a huge NY Giants fan. My Cancer boyfriend was going to take me to a game for my bday but decided not to at the last minute because it was too expensive. That was in Sept.
A week ago, he said that he had a ticket through his family to go to the game in Green Bay but the flights were too expensive so he wasn't going. Fast forward to last night, I couldn't go to see him because we had some ice on my road and I didn't feel safe.
Imagine my surprise when I wake up to a text this morning saying... I have some good news and some bad news. I ask him what it is and he says he's on the road to Green Bay to see the game and he's sad I'm not with him. I said you could have asked and his response was all these decisions were made at 3 am and he was with his friend.
I am furious. Not even that I'm not going to the game but that he didn't even bother to ask me. He's called me many, many times at 3 am just to say hi but I was clearly not who he wanted to be with. I really think this is over. I'm tired of not being a priority to him. Sorry, needed to vent.
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Posted by HighTideHe's EXTREMELY passive. He tells me how much he cares about me by telling me what he's told other people about me. It's never direct it's always yeah I was telling so and so that you're awesome because of X thing.
I don't think we hurt people as badly as some of the other signs. We just get annoyed and throw tandrums but we apologize pretty quick if we took it too far if we truly see it hurt you. If you be passive aggressive towards us not so much. We just tend to be the most dramatic but its not the most hurtful honestly. I mean I know some of us do the disappearing act but sometimes its out of shame and not to make the other person feel worse. Also it can be that we just don't liked to backed into a corner schedule wise and that causes anxiety.
If you want to see some hurt bombs get on the wrong side of a Virgo.Aqua or Cap and get back with me lol
Posted by LadyNeptuneExactly!Posted by confusedlibra78He may well love you, truly. Just ask yourself if you want to be loved by someone who treats those he loves in this way?Posted by tctaI actually thought about writing him a letter and going and sitting down with him and just let him read it. My mom suggested just telling him that he doesn't love me and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me.Posted by confusedlibra78if he's not listening (impossible to talk to) then that is another sign ... so just ghost him and once he realizes you have backed out, you might be able to tell him ? who cares if he doesn't want to "hear" you - write everything down so you have it handy or you will get upset and forgetPosted by heliumfiascoThanks. I don't know why this hurts so much. I haven't talked to him yet. He's impossible to talk to.
Dont let this one mans selfish ignorance turn you off from Cancers. When a Cancer man thinks you're the one, he will make you feel like you're the center of his world. Such an amazing sign in most placements. This guy is just a jerk.
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Posted by TheCanBullOddly enough, he NEVER compliments me...like ever. One time he said my skin was soft. That's it. I'm used to men falling all over themselves with compliments. It was kind of refreshing to not be complimented constantly but after 7 mos I wonder if he's really even attracted to me.Posted by confusedlibra78This is one thing no one should ever be passive about.Posted by HighTideHe's EXTREMELY passive. He tells me how much he cares about me by telling me what he's told other people about me. It's never direct it's always yeah I was telling so and so that you're awesome because of X thing.
I don't think we hurt people as badly as some of the other signs. We just get annoyed and throw tandrums but we apologize pretty quick if we took it too far if we truly see it hurt you. If you be passive aggressive towards us not so much. We just tend to be the most dramatic but its not the most hurtful honestly. I mean I know some of us do the disappearing act but sometimes its out of shame and not to make the other person feel worse. Also it can be that we just don't liked to backed into a corner schedule wise and that causes anxiety.
If you want to see some hurt bombs get on the wrong side of a Virgo.Aqua or Cap and get back with me lol
Let me give you some true Cancerian love.... kinda generic and not personalised as i don't know you lol... but it's something like what i said to my Scorpio, and it happened.
"You are everything to me, i feel like we are two parts of one thing, and we shall go far together.
I love you darling, and i want to be with you until the end."
Those who say to a girl, oh you are hot, oh you look great today baby... not deep and heart felt, for a Cancer to be so shallow in words... means a lot about that person.
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When he tells me what he has told others, it's usually that I'm easy to get along with, we don't fight, I am super cool, etc. But he's never said it to me directly.
Posted by confusedlibra78well it would be nice for you to have someone a bit more mature that can tell you how he feels directly ...Posted by HighTideHe's EXTREMELY passive. He tells me how much he cares about me by telling me what he's told other people about me. It's never direct it's always yeah I was telling so and so that you're awesome because of X thing.
I don't think we hurt people as badly as some of the other signs. We just get annoyed and throw tandrums but we apologize pretty quick if we took it too far if we truly see it hurt you. If you be passive aggressive towards us not so much. We just tend to be the most dramatic but its not the most hurtful honestly. I mean I know some of us do the disappearing act but sometimes its out of shame and not to make the other person feel worse. Also it can be that we just don't liked to backed into a corner schedule wise and that causes anxiety.
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Posted by TheCanBullYes, that's me and thank you. His friends are shocked when they find out we're dating.Posted by confusedlibra78If that's you in your avatar, you are a pretty woman, so i don't understand not paying any kind of compliment, and really my standards are very high in regards to expressing a loved one, it's never shallow, and is meaningful.Posted by TheCanBullOddly enough, he NEVER compliments me...like ever. One time he said my skin was soft. That's it. I'm used to men falling all over themselves with compliments. It was kind of refreshing to not be complimented constantly but after 7 mos I wonder if he's really even attracted to me.Posted by confusedlibra78This is one thing no one should ever be passive about.Posted by HighTideHe's EXTREMELY passive. He tells me how much he cares about me by telling me what he's told other people about me. It's never direct it's always yeah I was telling so and so that you're awesome because of X thing.
I don't think we hurt people as badly as some of the other signs. We just get annoyed and throw tandrums but we apologize pretty quick if we took it too far if we truly see it hurt you. If you be passive aggressive towards us not so much. We just tend to be the most dramatic but its not the most hurtful honestly. I mean I know some of us do the disappearing act but sometimes its out of shame and not to make the other person feel worse. Also it can be that we just don't liked to backed into a corner schedule wise and that causes anxiety.
If you want to see some hurt bombs get on the wrong side of a Virgo.Aqua or Cap and get back with me lol
Let me give you some true Cancerian love.... kinda generic and not personalised as i don't know you lol... but it's something like what i said to my Scorpio, and it happened.
"You are everything to me, i feel like we are two parts of one thing, and we shall go far together.
I love you darling, and i want to be with you until the end."
Those who say to a girl, oh you are hot, oh you look great today baby... not deep and heart felt, for a Cancer to be so shallow in words... means a lot about that person.
When he tells me what he has told others, it's usually that I'm easy to get along with, we don't fight, I am super cool, etc. But he's never said it to me directly.
AFAIK all Cancer's do what i do when they find the right one? i could be wrong though, as i'm Taurus moon and mars. Very careful and deliberate with words, articulate and a huge vocabulary.
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He's super smart, studied to be a lawyer, etc, but is very arrogant with others (not me) and has a chip on his shoulder. But, I feel that's because he is super insecure deep down.
Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by Crabra? I'm in Atlanta. You?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
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Ohh, Hotlanta eh? I've been there a few times. For some reason I was thinking you were in New York/Jersey. I'm in Colorado. 🙂
Posted by TheCanBullMy Cancer boyfriend is not one to express a ton of compliments himself. They are far and few between, if at all. The only times he has done so is when I have expressed the need to hear it verbally from him for reassurance, which isn't very often.
If that's you in your avatar, you are a pretty woman, so i don't understand not paying any kind of compliment, and really my standards are very high in regards to expressing a loved one, it's never shallow, and is meaningful.
AFAIK all Cancer's do what i do when they find the right one? i could be wrong though, as i'm Taurus moon and mars. Very careful and deliberate with words, articulate and a huge vocabulary.
I find he shows it more than says it to me. I know my worth to him because of my relationship with his mom. Since his mother is his bestfriend, he has already introduced me to her, and I have her phone number and added on facebook. He actively tells me to reach out to her in the event I worry about him, due to some of his health concerns. So, I don't really need the added words.
I feel bad for the OP in the aspect she is definitely not a priority, and has seemingly in the "dance" that so many have talked about before. She most definitely deserves better than this.
Posted by MagicMonaI missed you 🙂Posted by Moonbutteroh you did, did you? no. that is def. a crab thing. we dont walk around looking for hurt feelings.Posted by DMVI thought that was more a Scorpio thing?
Cancer and Capricorn have a few things in common.
One being, they both like to even the score with people. Good or bad.
If a cancer feels slighted, real or imagined, they have a desire to make you feel the same.
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Posted by TheCanBullYea... You kind of are. My bestfriend, Garry, is a Cancer as well and is almost just as stoic as my boyfriend.Posted by nikkistarWow i really am much much different to most Cancer's WTF o.0Posted by TheCanBullMy Cancer boyfriend is not one to express a ton of compliments himself. They are far and few between, if at all. The only times he has done so is when I have expressed the need to hear it verbally from him for reassurance, which isn't very often.
If that's you in your avatar, you are a pretty woman, so i don't understand not paying any kind of compliment, and really my standards are very high in regards to expressing a loved one, it's never shallow, and is meaningful.
AFAIK all Cancer's do what i do when they find the right one? i could be wrong though, as i'm Taurus moon and mars. Very careful and deliberate with words, articulate and a huge vocabulary.
I find he shows it more than says it to me. I know my worth to him because of my relationship with his mom. Since his mother is his bestfriend, he has already introduced me to her, and I have her phone number and added on facebook. He actively tells me to reach out to her in the event I worry about him, due to some of his health concerns. So, I don't really need the added words.
I feel bad for the OP in the aspect she is definitely not a priority, and has seemingly in the "dance" that so many have talked about before. She most definitely deserves better than this.
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Posted by TheCanBullHe's totally different with others. Makes jokes, tells stories, can get really aggressive if they piss him off and he cuts them to shreds verbally. Wit me he hardly says anything of substance, it's always surface. I'm an intellectual and like to talk about everything from quantum physics to football to politics to religion. I get very little of that with him, though when we do talk it's fun, but he'll do it with others.Posted by confusedlibra78This makes a lot of sense, acts completely different around others?Posted by TheCanBullYes, that's me and thank you. His friends are shocked when they find out we're dating.Posted by confusedlibra78If that's you in your avatar, you are a pretty woman, so i don't understand not paying any kind of compliment, and really my standards are very high in regards to expressing a loved one, it's never shallow, and is meaningful.Posted by TheCanBullOddly enough, he NEVER compliments me...like ever. One time he said my skin was soft. That's it. I'm used to men falling all over themselves with compliments. It was kind of refreshing to not be complimented constantly but after 7 mos I wonder if he's really even attracted to me.Posted by confusedlibra78This is one thing no one should ever be passive about.Posted by HighTideHe's EXTREMELY passive. He tells me how much he cares about me by telling me what he's told other people about me. It's never direct it's always yeah I was telling so and so that you're awesome because of X thing.
I don't think we hurt people as badly as some of the other signs. We just get annoyed and throw tandrums but we apologize pretty quick if we took it too far if we truly see it hurt you. If you be passive aggressive towards us not so much. We just tend to be the most dramatic but its not the most hurtful honestly. I mean I know some of us do the disappearing act but sometimes its out of shame and not to make the other person feel worse. Also it can be that we just don't liked to backed into a corner schedule wise and that causes anxiety.
If you want to see some hurt bombs get on the wrong side of a Virgo.Aqua or Cap and get back with me lol
Let me give you some true Cancerian love.... kinda generic and not personalised as i don't know you lol... but it's something like what i said to my Scorpio, and it happened.
"You are everything to me, i feel like we are two parts of one thing, and we shall go far together.
I love you darling, and i want to be with you until the end."
Those who say to a girl, oh you are hot, oh you look great today baby... not deep and heart felt, for a Cancer to be so shallow in words... means a lot about that person.
When he tells me what he has told others, it's usually that I'm easy to get along with, we don't fight, I am super cool, etc. But he's never said it to me directly.
AFAIK all Cancer's do what i do when they find the right one? i could be wrong though, as i'm Taurus moon and mars. Very careful and deliberate with words, articulate and a huge vocabulary.
He's super smart, studied to be a lawyer, etc, but is very arrogant with others (not me) and has a chip on his shoulder. But, I feel that's because he is super insecure deep down.
Unsure of why he does that though, i would be very empowered by such a laid back and a pretty woman, so not sure what the insecurity is?
But you hit the nail on the head TBH, Cancer's when they don't actually be themselves do this.
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Posted by CrabraI'm from NY but have been here awhile. Colorado is so beautiful!Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by Crabra? I'm in Atlanta. You?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
Ohh, Hotlanta eh? I've been there a few times. For some reason I was thinking you were in New York/Jersey. I'm in Colorado. 🙂
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Posted by nikkistarThanks for your kind words. He has said "when you meet my mother" to me a few times. She definitely knows about us and was upset that he wasn't sending her pictures of us when we were in NY.Posted by TheCanBullMy Cancer boyfriend is not one to express a ton of compliments himself. They are far and few between, if at all. The only times he has done so is when I have expressed the need to hear it verbally from him for reassurance, which isn't very often.
If that's you in your avatar, you are a pretty woman, so i don't understand not paying any kind of compliment, and really my standards are very high in regards to expressing a loved one, it's never shallow, and is meaningful.
AFAIK all Cancer's do what i do when they find the right one? i could be wrong though, as i'm Taurus moon and mars. Very careful and deliberate with words, articulate and a huge vocabulary.
I find he shows it more than says it to me. I know my worth to him because of my relationship with his mom. Since his mother is his bestfriend, he has already introduced me to her, and I have her phone number and added on facebook. He actively tells me to reach out to her in the event I worry about him, due to some of his health concerns. So, I don't really need the added words.
I feel bad for the OP in the aspect she is definitely not a priority, and has seemingly in the "dance" that so many have talked about before. She most definitely deserves better than this.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvI wasn't given the opportunity to offer. He told me about it when he was 40 miles outside of Green Bay. He knew I had the money, though.Posted by DivaCanLeoExactly , did u offer to pay ur ticket or half?
That would piss me off
That game is going to be a classic
But maybe he just couldn't afford a ticket for you and his friend is paying for his own ticket.
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Posted by MagicMonaThe one time I was upset with him and called him out on his BS he did a 180 and made everything right the next day. However, later on he complained that I wasn't making time for him (which I pointed out was total crap since we spend all my free time together) and he said especially since you blew me up the other day. He didn't forget...Posted by TheCanBullnothing is ever wrong with discussing things, you are correct. but the question is will she be the only one wanting to talk things out? will he be able to hold an honest conversation? it takes two. let's just hope he is the kind who listens and wants to work things out.Posted by MagicMonaAgree wholehearted. But nothing wrong with discussing some things with greater detail, i mean the OP obviously has her heart there for him, it's just not getting captured correctly and i doubt it really ever will...with this guy bless her.
why do people question fucked up behavior, like there is a logic behind it? you dont try to make sense out of fuckery. you see it for what it is and move as far away from it as you can. when he crawls back, he will see what his games and passive aggressive nature gets him. do for yourself, dont wait for him to because he will always be a flaky pos.
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Posted by TheCanBullHe told me on our second date he had a plan for me and that was to make me fall in love with him. I've heard so many lines, I ignored it, but maybe he's confused because, unlike most women, I don't get all possessive and clingy and I don't fall in love easily.Posted by MagicMonaAgree wholehearted. But nothing wrong with discussing some things with greater detail, i mean the OP obviously has her heart there for him, it's just not getting captured correctly and i doubt it really ever will...with this guy bless her.
why do people question fucked up behavior, like there is a logic behind it? you dont try to make sense out of fuckery. you see it for what it is and move as far away from it as you can. when he crawls back, he will see what his games and passive aggressive nature gets him. do for yourself, dont wait for him to because he will always be a flaky pos.
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Posted by TheCanBullSounds like we need to date ?? He definitely acts up and shows a different version of himself.Posted by confusedlibra78Damn i'm like that... but i'm a crooked twisted up version of it lol... Crab emotion, Taurus sensuality and that Aquarius and Gemini witty banter, and a need to discuss things.Posted by TheCanBullHe's totally different with others. Makes jokes, tells stories, can get really aggressive if they piss him off and he cuts them to shreds verbally. Wit me he hardly says anything of substance, it's always surface. I'm an intellectual and like to talk about everything from quantum physics to football to politics to religion. I get very little of that with him, though when we do talk it's fun, but he'll do it with others.Posted by confusedlibra78This makes a lot of sense, acts completely different around others?Posted by TheCanBullYes, that's me and thank you. His friends are shocked when they find out we're dating.Posted by confusedlibra78If that's you in your avatar, you are a pretty woman, so i don't understand not paying any kind of compliment, and really my standards are very high in regards to expressing a loved one, it's never shallow, and is meaningful.Posted by TheCanBullOddly enough, he NEVER compliments me...like ever. One time he said my skin was soft. That's it. I'm used to men falling all over themselves with compliments. It was kind of refreshing to not be complimented constantly but after 7 mos I wonder if he's really even attracted to me.Posted by confusedlibra78This is one thing no one should ever be passive about.Posted by HighTideHe's EXTREMELY passive. He tells me how much he cares about me by telling me what he's told other people about me. It's never direct it's always yeah I was telling so and so that you're awesome because of X thing.
I don't think we hurt people as badly as some of the other signs. We just get annoyed and throw tandrums but we apologize pretty quick if we took it too far if we truly see it hurt you. If you be passive aggressive towards us not so much. We just tend to be the most dramatic but its not the most hurtful honestly. I mean I know some of us do the disappearing act but sometimes its out of shame and not to make the other person feel worse. Also it can be that we just don't liked to backed into a corner schedule wise and that causes anxiety.
If you want to see some hurt bombs get on the wrong side of a Virgo.Aqua or Cap and get back with me lol
Let me give you some true Cancerian love.... kinda generic and not personalised as i don't know you lol... but it's something like what i said to my Scorpio, and it happened.
"You are everything to me, i feel like we are two parts of one thing, and we shall go far together.
I love you darling, and i want to be with you until the end."
Those who say to a girl, oh you are hot, oh you look great today baby... not deep and heart felt, for a Cancer to be so shallow in words... means a lot about that person.
When he tells me what he has told others, it's usually that I'm easy to get along with, we don't fight, I am super cool, etc. But he's never said it to me directly.
AFAIK all Cancer's do what i do when they find the right one? i could be wrong though, as i'm Taurus moon and mars. Very careful and deliberate with words, articulate and a huge vocabulary.
He's super smart, studied to be a lawyer, etc, but is very arrogant with others (not me) and has a chip on his shoulder. But, I feel that's because he is super insecure deep down.
Unsure of why he does that though, i would be very empowered by such a laid back and a pretty woman, so not sure what the insecurity is?
But you hit the nail on the head TBH, Cancer's when they don't actually be themselves do this.
I totally get what you are saying, this guy might be very water dominant, and the whole thing he does with his mates is him acting up to impress and be something he is not, a projected image to cover up his true self.
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Posted by confusedlibra78
He told me on our second date he had a plan for me and that was to make me fall in love with him. I've heard so many lines, I ignored it, but maybe he's confused because, unlike most women, I don't get all possessive and clingy and I don't fall in love easily.
I would freak the eff out if someone brought up the word love in the very beginning. lol
On a different note, I am not clingy at all, I rarely call or text my Cancer. However, I am hyper possessive, and he knows it. So maybe that is why I work with my Cancer. *shrugs*
Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraI'm from NY but have been here awhile. Colorado is so beautiful!Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by Crabra? I'm in Atlanta. You?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
Ohh, Hotlanta eh? I've been there a few times. For some reason I was thinking you were in New York/Jersey. I'm in Colorado. 🙂
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Ahh, that might explain why I was under the impression. You and I have interacted on several occasions here now, so that might have stuck in at some point. So you've been here? Pictures don't give the beautiful, mountainous scenery here justice. Hopefully you got to experience it firsthand.
Posted by ImpulsvNo. He had one ticket to the game but was concerned about the $ 800 plane ticket. He wasn't even going to go alone because of the plane ticket.Posted by confusedlibra78Mmm he told u the first time when he said he had one free tickets but could not afford both then opted to not go.Posted by ImpulsvI wasn't given the opportunity to offer. He told me about it when he was 40 miles outside of Green Bay. He knew I had the money, though.Posted by DivaCanLeoExactly , did u offer to pay ur ticket or half?
That would piss me off
That game is going to be a classic
But maybe he just couldn't afford a ticket for you and his friend is paying for his own ticket.
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We did talk about what would happen if NY went to the Superbowl what we'd do and we discussed going to Texas.
Posted by CrabraYes, my cousins live in Wheat RidgePosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraI'm from NY but have been here awhile. Colorado is so beautiful!Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by Crabra? I'm in Atlanta. You?Posted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThank you. Where can I find a guy like you? LolPosted by confusedlibra78Posted by CrabraThanks, you actually get what I'm feeling completely. I appreciate that. I've dealt with it for too long and I want something better for myself.
@confusedlibra78
Same guy we've always talked about on here?
Very sorry to hear how badly he hurt you. I know how you feel, and it's not about not seeing the game, or that he went with his buddies, or even seemingly rubs things in. It is all about how you weren't even a passing thought in the decision making process, and I know all too well how deep a wound being inconsiderate can leave.
Just know that some crabs out there are healers, and mend hearts instead of break them.
No one can say you didn't try that is for sure. You're still young, have a good heart, and very pretty. There is definitely no reason to cut yourself short when there are guys out there that would love to have that, and will fight for it.
I was going to ask you the same question xD I'm more than willing to climb to the top of the apple tree for girls like you. I just can't find the tree!
Ohh, Hotlanta eh? I've been there a few times. For some reason I was thinking you were in New York/Jersey. I'm in Colorado. 🙂
Ahh, that might explain why I was under the impression. You and I have interacted on several occasions here now, so that might have stuck in at some point. So you've been here? Pictures don't give the beautiful, mountainous scenery here justice. Hopefully you got to experience it firsthand.
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Do cancer man make a clear remark if they know that they don't feel for you? Do they have a courage to stand out and say that they are over you?
Me and the Cancer I have been dating got into a fight. It was pretty bad and we were both wrong and very angry. I apologized for my part he has not so I ended it. In ending it I gave him his Christmas present. I told him I did not want anything from him n
I am head over heels love with my Cancer friend. He is 28, I am 26. He loves me as a friend only. But I am out of control attracted towards him.
I am a virgin. Most of the time I don't feel urge to have sex until I have feelings for the guy but this ti
start by making relationship threads. gross
ask about dating
dxp games
make long boring post that require an attention span
complain about the honor of your post being selected for the cancer man left me thread
not talk about president ele
Hi all,
I'm Taurus Sun, Aqua Moon (age 23). He is Cancer Sun, Aqua moon (age 24).
We were together for 9 months, having met online. Once we met, he deleted his online dating account and initiated conversation for every day since day 1 to the end (aro
Met a Cancer guy and he seemed to be really cool. We both enjoy music, talk about any and everything and seem to have a great time when we are face-to-face..... He barely reaches out to me via text or call but always stalks my social media page and I catc
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:D
The question I have for you is, why are you putting up with this? If this is a continually habit of his, he isn't going to change. And you deserve better than that, especially given that you experienced 18 years with someone whom failed to make you feel that way. Stop repeating history, you deserve more than that.
And trust me, if my Cancer back out of a Broncos bday game, I'd murder someone. Having said that, my Cancer has done some crap that I see as selfish, but when confronted, he changes the behavior. Yours is just a self-centered prick.