Why do cancers start something with someone but not finish?

Simply put: he is clingy, but not possessive. always in the background, starts things, but doesn't carry them on.

Im friends/intimite with this cancer man on and off for 2 years.

we're both in our twenties.

I know he recently (like a week ago) stopped seeing another girl (short fling), and straight away he was following my social media interactions again and trying to talk to me. Two days later he purposely comes into my work to see me and we end up talking for a while. We find out we're both going to the same gig the same night.

At the gig he spots me in the crowd, laughing, very happy, and starts waving grabbing my attention. SO far so good, i don't want to be a rebound so I'm aware of that, but I'm glad he's happy to see me. Energetically i felt him come on very strong over the past few days.

After the gig i go over to his table to say hi and his reaction is a lot more mellow. He doesn't offer me a chair to sit with them, and the conversation just dies off.

It's like he's all happy to see me and talk to me sometimes, but other times he "isn't to interested".

He starts conversations but then doesn't carry them on.

Whats this cancer kid doing to me?

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Because cancer is a cardinal sign and we're good at starting things but not finishing things?

The hair on my ass has more "cardinal powas" than this guy does.

Since when does half-assing a relationship with a woman count for leadership skill?

Was he sitting with any other girls when you said hi to him? Maybe he just started "talking" to someone and felt uncomfortable when you stopped by.

Maybe, you don't know how to carry a conversation? Maybe you don't keep him engaged?

Or how about this WILD THEORY... maybe he's actually not trying to fuck you anymore. 😕

That's why you can't be friendly, because anytime you are..