Addiction?

Posted by Chupka
I fell head over heels for capricorn.. .but too many mind games and bullshit followed between us. He was always curious what I was up to but never pursued me. I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him. November 2017 I cut him off all social media. Not to be a bitch but I couldn't deal with him commenting and lurking and messing with my head, it was too painful..... 5 months later I still can't get him out of my head. I need to move on, but my mind is killing me. I feel crazy, I'm usually good at moving on. Has anyone else been through this? He got me good!! Lol

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

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Posted by Chupka
I fell head over heels for capricorn.. .but too many mind games and bullshit followed between us. He was always curious what I was up to but never pursued me. I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him. November 2017 I cut him off all social media. Not to be a bitch but I couldn't deal with him commenting and lurking and messing with my head, it was too painful..... 5 months later I still can't get him out of my head. I need to move on, but my mind is killing me. I feel crazy, I'm usually good at moving on. Has anyone else been through this? He got me good!! Lol

Are you a Scorpio by any chance?

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Posted by Chupka
I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

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Did you ever have a completely honest conversation with him about this? If not, nothing ventured nothing gained.

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Did you ever have a completely honest conversation with him about this? If not, nothing ventured nothing gained.

He has ignored me so many times. I was tired of it. I have called him,texted him to ask what is intentions were.....only to be ignored. I took him to a soccer game, that I paid for. After that game didn't hear from him.....until months later. I opened up a bit again...just for him to ignore me and disappear😢. Opens an Instagram account and starts commenting on stuff there. Post pictures of another girl but not her face, either the back of her head or them wearing ski masks lol. It was too fucked up for me at this point.

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

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Posted by UnicornSag
Been there, done that, over with it.

What is it that you're looking for?



Someone who doesnt play mind games Haha.

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

Physical at the beginning. In fact it was great at the beginning. That's why I fell for him. Then it went downhill. That was a year and a half ago. I never chased him, I always left him a lone......but he would always come back and i would just ask what he wanted, and what his intentions were. He would either respond with sarcasm or not at all. Ugh. Why am I wasting my energy on this guy? lol.

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

Physical at the beginning. In fact it was great at the beginning. That's why I fell for him. Then it went downhill. That was a year and a half ago. I never chased him, I always left him a lone......but he would always come back and i would just ask what he wanted, and what his intentions were. He would either respond with sarcasm or not at all. Ugh. Why am I wasting my energy on this guy? lol.

I have one that keeps coming back. I delete him every time he ghosts. I just keep on moving and do me. I dont chase, dont ask to hang out when he contacts, gets no sex, money, I dont ask his intentions, no pressure, etc.

I reply like a friend, we will have to see each other sooner or later at a mutual hobby with mutual acquaintances so I 'keep it classy'.

He just popped back up this past few days with i miss you and talking about work. Its been since Oct... LOL I think its round 7 for a come back since then...

I cant understand it, if im done/not interested I dont go back! Ever. LOL

Caps are known if the cut you they cut you!

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Tsk tsk tsk tsk Sagittarius women, what the hell are you see on us? You guys deserves better.

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Tsk tsk tsk tsk Sagittarius women, what the hell are you see on us? You guys deserves better.

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

Physical at the beginning. In fact it was great at the beginning. That's why I fell for him. Then it went downhill. That was a year and a half ago. I never chased him, I always left him a lone......but he would always come back and i would just ask what he wanted, and what his intentions were. He would either respond with sarcasm or not at all. Ugh. Why am I wasting my energy on this guy? lol.

I have one that keeps coming back. I delete him every time he ghosts. I just keep on moving and do me. I dont chase, dont ask to hang out when he contacts, gets no sex, money, I dont ask his intentions, no pressure, etc.

I reply like a friend, we will have to see each other sooner or later at a mutual hobby with mutual acquaintances so I 'keep it classy'.

He just popped back up this past few days with i miss you and talking about work. Its been since Oct... LOL I think its round 7 for a come back since then...

I cant understand it, if im done/not interested I dont go back! Ever. LOL

Caps are known if the cut you they cut you!

That's what I'm saying!! For almost a year, I would just leave him the fuck alone. I never chased, but he found a way to come back. When I started to become distant and not as responsive, he lurked. He opened up snap chat and Instagram. I tried with him, but at that point I thought if he is interested he will contact me, I'm tired. Until one day I said fuck it. I don't want him commenting or making dumb comments on my social media so I deleted him. I know he has a girlfriend, which another reason I did that. I know there is a great guy in him. But he stopped. I just hate that I dream about him, and can't stop thinking about him lol.

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

Physical at the beginning. In fact it was great at the beginning. That's why I fell for him. Then it went downhill. That was a year and a half ago. I never chased him, I always left him a lone......but he would always come back and i would just ask what he wanted, and what his intentions were. He would either respond with sarcasm or not at all. Ugh. Why am I wasting my energy on this guy? lol.

I have one that keeps coming back. I delete him every time he ghosts. I just keep on moving and do me. I dont chase, dont ask to hang out when he contacts, gets no sex, money, I dont ask his intentions, no pressure, etc.

I reply like a friend, we will have to see each other sooner or later at a mutual hobby with mutual acquaintances so I 'keep it classy'.

He just popped back up this past few days with i miss you and talking about work. Its been since Oct... LOL I think its round 7 for a come back since then...

I cant understand it, if im done/not interested I dont go back! Ever. LOL

Caps are known if the cut you they cut you!

That's what I'm saying!! For almost a year, I would just leave him the fuck alone. I never chased, but he found a way to come back. When I started to become distant and not as responsive, he lurked. He opened up snap chat and Instagram. I tried with him, but at that point I thought if he is interested he will contact me, I'm tired. Until one day I said fuck it. I don't want him commenting or making dumb comments on my social media so I deleted him. I know he has a girlfriend, which another reason I did that. I know there is a great guy in him. But he stopped. I just hate that I dream about him, and can't stop thinking about him lol.

Yup, I leave him alone too! LOL We dont even hang out on his come backs! he has tried but I dont jump, you ghosted and I was busy most of the times, I cant do last minute.

I shut down my social media for other reasons so he has no access to me. I know he looked though because on his come backs he would mention things. we were never FB friends, I didnt bother with it because hes a flake. We were already IG friends from before we dated. We both have a mutual 'hobby gram'.

I have no idea what mine does, he could have a GF, I dont ask and I dont care to know. LOL If he does he doesn't share her on IG last I saw anything, it was a month or so ago since my IG was active.

Hes been friend zoned.

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Tsk tsk tsk tsk Sagittarius women, what the hell are you see on us? You guys deserves better.

I take it you're a cap?

Because I don't want to believe that all caps are like this

All Cap men act similar when faced with Sagittarius or promiscuous women in general. Ghosting, extra defensive and avoid serious relationships at any cost.

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

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Tsk tsk tsk tsk Sagittarius women, what the hell are you see on us? You guys deserves better.

I take it you're a cap?

Because I don't want to believe that all caps are like this

All Cap men act similar when faced with Sagittarius or promiscuous women in general. Ghosting, extra defensive and avoid serious relationships at any cost.

Then why keep going back to someone you dont want a relationship with or get any sex? LOL. Ive not seen defensiveness, hes actually pretty open with me. We had a great time together, we have tons in common.

Makes it more confusing as a cap doesn't open up to just anyone. hes still open on his come backs with work life, etc.

He just does the ghost thing after he chases for a week or two or three. comes back about every 30 days or so. Hes a busy person so its not boredom. lol

This cap has more sag in his chart than I do and we are both cap Venus.

Because the love we feel for Sag women are genuine. But we can't make it official, it's very complicated.

Besides that Sags are mutables not fixed sign women, WE treat them with respect which mean NO SEX except based on love (mutual), not lust.

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Tsk tsk tsk tsk Sagittarius women, what the hell are you see on us? You guys deserves better.

I take it you're a cap?

Because I don't want to believe that all caps are like this

All Cap men act similar when faced with Sagittarius or promiscuous women in general. Ghosting, extra defensive and avoid serious relationships at any cost.

Then why keep going back to someone you dont want a relationship with or get any sex? LOL. Ive not seen defensiveness, hes actually pretty open with me. We had a great time together, we have tons in common.

Makes it more confusing as a cap doesn't open up to just anyone. hes still open on his come backs with work life, etc.

He just does the ghost thing after he chases for a week or two or three. comes back about every 30 days or so. Hes a busy person so its not boredom. lol

This cap has more sag in his chart than I do and we are both cap Venus.

Because the love we feel for Sag women are genuine. But we can't make it official, it's very complicated.

Besides that Sags are mutables not fixed sign women, WE treat them with respect which mean NO SEX except based on love (mutual), not lust.

So hes just mental and keeps going back trying with someone he will never wants to be with. Got it. LOL

It's all ego. And who knows what else lol.

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Posted by HoneyXx
my dearest sags!

stop chasing. like wtf? what in the world is happening? 😫😳

This is like the 5th thread about a sag chasing a cap.



let them come to you gawd dammit...

i don't know what it is, but i've never chased a cap in my life, or anyone for that matter. they've always came to me, asked me out... whatever...

never... and i repeat NEVER... chase.



Lol. This thread is actually about me walking away numerous times. Cap always coming back and asking me out then disappearing again. I've never chased this dude......not once. Unless he came back and I would flat out ask him "what the fuck is up?'. My problem is, I walked away from him completely. Took him off all my social media because I was tired of him lurking. But I have nightmares about him still. I can't shake him off. It's like I want to get over him so badly but my mind wont let me. This is just me expressing anonymously to get my feelings out. I have zero intentions of reaching out to him.

Posted by HoneyXx
@chupka

then it's likely that he's juggling between multiple women right now. trying to figure out which one he actually wants to pursue.

keep doing your thing... start dating others as well...

what's your mars and moon sign? it might explain why you're so drawn to him.

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Capricorns never really “shut” the door, I’m finding. They take forever to open up. Sometimes you can get in a little if they’re drunk. At least that’s how mine is.

are you planning to drunk your capricorn ?

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

Physical at the beginning. In fact it was great at the beginning. That's why I fell for him. Then it went downhill. That was a year and a half ago. I never chased him, I always left him a lone......but he would always come back and i would just ask what he wanted, and what his intentions were. He would either respond with sarcasm or not at all. Ugh. Why am I wasting my energy on this guy? lol.

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Posted by HoneyXx
my dearest sags!

stop chasing. like wtf? what in the world is happening? 😫😳

This is like the 5th thread about a sag chasing a cap.



let them come to you gawd dammit...

i don't know what it is, but i've never chased a cap in my life, or anyone for that matter. they've always came to me, asked me out... whatever...

never... and i repeat NEVER... chase.

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Posted by HoneyXx
my dearest sags!

stop chasing. like wtf? what in the world is happening? 😫😳

This is like the 5th thread about a sag chasing a cap.



let them come to you gawd dammit...

i don't know what it is, but i've never chased a cap in my life, or anyone for that matter. they've always came to me, asked me out... whatever...

never... and i repeat NEVER... chase.

As I posted I dont chase him, I delete him, he comes crawling back! LOL He makes all contact since we dated.

I never chase men.

The point of this thread is why they keep coming back, they chase.

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

Physical at the beginning. In fact it was great at the beginning. That's why I fell for him. Then it went downhill. That was a year and a half ago. I never chased him, I always left him a lone......but he would always come back and i would just ask what he wanted, and what his intentions were. He would either respond with sarcasm or not at all. Ugh. Why am I wasting my energy on this guy? lol.

You gotta think of it this way. How can you have this persons dick inside your body but be too afraid to speak on your true thoughts? Its silly, right.

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my dearest sags!

stop chasing. like wtf? what in the world is happening? 😫😳

This is like the 5th thread about a sag chasing a cap.



let them come to you gawd dammit...

i don't know what it is, but i've never chased a cap in my life, or anyone for that matter. they've always came to me, asked me out... whatever...

never... and i repeat NEVER... chase.

As I posted I dont chase him, I delete him, he comes crawling back! LOL He makes all contact since we dated.

I never chase men.

The point of this thread is why they keep coming back, they chase.

Precisely. I've walked away from the cap many, many times. BUT HE LITERALLY found a way to come back. Never chased....EVER! It's been 5 months since I took him off my social media for good, he hasn't tried thankfully. But he haunts my thoughts 😭😭.

The speed of me chasing? 0mph, thank you.

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Posted by HoneyXx
my dearest sags!

stop chasing. like wtf? what in the world is happening? 😫😳

This is like the 5th thread about a sag chasing a cap.



let them come to you gawd dammit...

i don't know what it is, but i've never chased a cap in my life, or anyone for that matter. they've always came to me, asked me out... whatever...

never... and i repeat NEVER... chase.

As I posted I dont chase him, I delete him, he comes crawling back! LOL He makes all contact since we dated.

I never chase men.

The point of this thread is why they keep coming back, they chase.

Precisely. I've walked away from the cap many, many times. BUT HE LITERALLY found a way to come back. Never chased....EVER! It's been 5 months since I took him off my social media for good, he hasn't tried thankfully. But he haunts my thoughts 😭😭.

The speed of me chasing? 0mph, thank you.

He texts, I reply when I can, then immediately delete his number/texts. Rinse and repeat for every text in. His number has not been saved in my phone since we dated back in the fall.

Its my own defense system! LOL Cant text if I dont have your number. haha. Also why keep a guys number thats not interested. I delete them all, always have.

Hes been up my butt now for three days like Chatty Cathy. Wants to hang out.

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Just get all possessive, clingy, needy, and start dry-humping his leg ...

He'll never come back ...

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

Physical at the beginning. In fact it was great at the beginning. That's why I fell for him. Then it went downhill. That was a year and a half ago. I never chased him, I always left him a lone......but he would always come back and i would just ask what he wanted, and what his intentions were. He would either respond with sarcasm or not at all. Ugh. Why am I wasting my energy on this guy? lol.

You gotta think of it this way. How can you have this persons dick inside your body but be too afraid to speak on your true thoughts? Its silly, right.

this made me lough but it's so true lol

problem is Sags only appear to be so though and open and blunt about anything...when you add some feelings you have a completely different person who is cautious, calculated and wants to avoid being hurt by any cost. You want to know the truth and have everything open and on the table but you're afraid of hurting at the same time or making a wrong move.

Or maybe that's just me and my Neptune energy and not every Sag is like this lol

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@Chupka

Out of the blue text on his lunch break... 'Love you'

What the?!

I. Cant. Even.

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I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him.

You complain about mind games and yet you didn’t keep it 💯. What’s that about?

Because every time I opened up just a bit he ignored me.

Ignored how? Did you guys have a physical relationship as well?

Physical at the beginning. In fact it was great at the beginning. That's why I fell for him. Then it went downhill. That was a year and a half ago. I never chased him, I always left him a lone......but he would always come back and i would just ask what he wanted, and what his intentions were. He would either respond with sarcasm or not at all. Ugh. Why am I wasting my energy on this guy? lol.

You gotta think of it this way. How can you have this persons dick inside your body but be too afraid to speak on your true thoughts? Its silly, right.

this made me lough but it's so true lol

problem is Sags only appear to be so though and open and blunt about anything...when you add some feelings you have a completely different person who is cautious, calculated and wants to avoid being hurt by any cost. You want to know the truth and have everything open and on the table but you're afraid of hurting at the same time or making a wrong move.

Or maybe that's just me and my Neptune energy and not every Sag is like this lol

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Cut him off

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@Chupka

Out of the blue text on his lunch break... 'Love you'

What the?!

I. Cant. Even.

Are you fucking with me?

Lmao!!!! What are you going to do??

Mine won't come back as he is in a committed relationship and I will NOT reach out. But the last 2 days have been bad. I start hearing his voice and had a dream about him. I'm going crazy!! Legit. He is my first guy obsession. I've had crushes and all, but this is a different ball game and I can't figure it out. Fml.....but I will survive it's just a dumb phase.

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@Chupka

Out of the blue text on his lunch break... 'Love you'

What the?!

I. Cant. Even.

Are you fucking with me?

Lmao!!!! What are you going to do??

Mine won't come back as he is in a committed relationship and I will NOT reach out. But the last 2 days have been bad. I start hearing his voice and had a dream about him. I'm going crazy!! Legit. He is my first guy obsession. I've had crushes and all, but this is a different ball game and I can't figure it out. Fml.....but I will survive it's just a dumb phase.

I sent an emoji, I didn't know what to say or think! LOL I then just changed the subject and we talked about work for a few then we went on with our day.

I wanted to say, 'funny you dont show it'... 'or you do??'...

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@Chupka

Out of the blue text on his lunch break... 'Love you'

What the?!

I. Cant. Even.

Are you fucking with me?

Lmao!!!! What are you going to do??

Mine won't come back as he is in a committed relationship and I will NOT reach out. But the last 2 days have been bad. I start hearing his voice and had a dream about him. I'm going crazy!! Legit. He is my first guy obsession. I've had crushes and all, but this is a different ball game and I can't figure it out. Fml.....but I will survive it's just a dumb phase.

I sent an emoji, I didn't know what to say or think! LOL I then just changed the subject and we talked about work for a few then we went on with our day.

I wanted to say, 'funny you dont show it'... 'or you do??'...

Hmmm maybe you are freaking him out? What are your feelings?

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@Chupka

Out of the blue text on his lunch break... 'Love you'

What the?!

I. Cant. Even.

Are you fucking with me?

Lmao!!!! What are you going to do??

Mine won't come back as he is in a committed relationship and I will NOT reach out. But the last 2 days have been bad. I start hearing his voice and had a dream about him. I'm going crazy!! Legit. He is my first guy obsession. I've had crushes and all, but this is a different ball game and I can't figure it out. Fml.....but I will survive it's just a dumb phase.

I sent an emoji, I didn't know what to say or think! LOL I then just changed the subject and we talked about work for a few then we went on with our day.

I wanted to say, 'funny you dont show it'... 'or you do??'...

Hmmm maybe you are freaking him out? What are your feelings?

Who knows.

I have feelings but they are degraded now and I dont trust him. It would take some serious work to get back.

Just keeping him in the friend zone and keep doing me; be my perfectly imperfect awesome self where the grass is nice and green. He he.

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Posted by Chupka
I fell head over heels for capricorn.. .but too many mind games and bullshit followed between us. He was always curious what I was up to but never pursued me. I was always too afraid to tell him how I truly felt about him as I felt like just an option to him. November 2017 I cut him off all social media. Not to be a bitch but I couldn't deal with him commenting and lurking and messing with my head, it was too painful..... 5 months later I still can't get him out of my head. I need to move on, but my mind is killing me. I feel crazy, I'm usually good at moving on. Has anyone else been through this? He got me good!! Lol

Wtf😂

The landlord daughter nickname is chupka😅where u from

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