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Posted by SunMoonStarsWhat you have planned would be enough. Just have a good time, create memories.
My Cap and I are spending the 3 year anniversary together.
I've planned a lunch and activities for us. He's recently got fired and I don't want him to worry about getting a gift, and it's hard with our "status" on hold.
So question is, should I:
A) Mention that we should just skip the presents this year.
B) Set a budget for gift giving
C) Just buy something as I normally would
D) ??
Any ideas would be appreciated!
Posted by wagtailThank you. Time certainly flies!
Congrats on three years!
Either way, I hope you guys have a fabulous lunch 😄
Posted by GreenteaShould I make it clear that we should skip gifts this year? Last year we gave each other gifts and I know milestones are important to him. I just don't want that situation where he shows up with something and I'm empty handed...Posted by SunMoonStarsWhat you have planned would be enough. Just have a good time, create memories.
My Cap and I are spending the 3 year anniversary together.
I've planned a lunch and activities for us. He's recently got fired and I don't want him to worry about getting a gift, and it's hard with our "status" on hold.
So question is, should I:
A) Mention that we should just skip the presents this year.
B) Set a budget for gift giving
C) Just buy something as I normally would
D) ??
Any ideas would be appreciated!
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Posted by SunMoonStarsYes you should tell him the plans if you think gift exchanges shouldn't happen this year. After 3 years being together, you should be able to tell/suggest/share anything with eachother. 🙂Posted by GreenteaShould I make it clear that we should skip gifts this year? Last year we gave each other gifts and I know milestones are important to him. I just don't want that situation where he shows up with something and I'm empty handed...Posted by SunMoonStarsWhat you have planned would be enough. Just have a good time, create memories.
My Cap and I are spending the 3 year anniversary together.
I've planned a lunch and activities for us. He's recently got fired and I don't want him to worry about getting a gift, and it's hard with our "status" on hold.
So question is, should I:
A) Mention that we should just skip the presents this year.
B) Set a budget for gift giving
C) Just buy something as I normally would
D) ??
Any ideas would be appreciated!
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Posted by truecapAnniversary when we first met.
Anniversary of what?
Your relationship doesn't have a title, so I'm just wondering what you're celebrating. First met? First date? First kiss?

Posted by SunMoonStarsPosted by truecapAnniversary when we first met.
Anniversary of what?
Your relationship doesn't have a title, so I'm just wondering what you're celebrating. First met? First date? First kiss?
I floated the idea of having a theme for gift giving and a budget, and he said it was up to me. I suggested that we each plan a day for the other and skip gifts. He like that idea too so that's what we'll do.
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I've planned a lunch and activities for us. He's recently got fired and I don't want him to worry about getting a gift, and it's hard with our "status" on hold.
So question is, should I:
A) Mention that we should just skip the presents this year.
B) Set a budget for gift giving
C) Just buy something as I normally would
D) ??
Any ideas would be appreciated!