
stillstillwater
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Posted by CancerMikeWhat you should do next is pursue someone who is not taken.
I’m a cancer man in pursuit of a Capricorn woman. I’m going to try to make this as short as possible so I can get some guidance on what to do. When she first started coming around to my job we would always lock eyes, but I didn’t approach for a couple of months because she was engaged. The first time we talked it seemed very natural and the conversation was extremely easy and we talked for hours.
She started coming to my job more often and the conversations got deeper. She is engaged, but I don’t feel like she feels that he is her soulmate. They’ve been engaged for a longer time than normal (2 yrs). She’s asked me questions that relate to her like if I would date a girl who has a kid, would I date a girl that works for the same company and what I pursue a girl that’s married/engaged if I thought she’d be the one.
After many conversations, I finally told her that she was an incredible woman and if she was single I would pursue her in a serious manner. However, she said she wouldn’t date me because she doesn’t think she can trust me. The “disappearing act” ensued after that conversation, but she still comes around once a week or so and we still talk for quite some time.
We talked about the type of homes we like, how many kids each one of us would like to have and serious topics of that nature. She recently hinted that she wouldn’t mind cooking for me.
I want some input from Capricorn women on to what exactly is going on and what I should do next?
Thanks for the help

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