Cannot decode this Capricorn man

Capricorn man I'm getting to know for a month n a half now, seems to be hot and cold. Are all Caps like that?

What is puzzling me for real, does he communicate more like a Capricorn or a Sagittarius according to his placements..?

I am not familiar with either signs ..ugh

His:

Capricorn Sun

Sagittarius Moon

Sagittarius Mercury

Scorpio Venus

Pisces Mars

Mine:

Taurus Sun

Scorpio Moon

Taurus Mercury

Aries Venus

Pisces Mars

So, is he more like Capricorn or Sag.?

You can say he's a family friend, but we were not at all close. It is long distance (working in a different country) but he came for a few days to meet up and then we started texting and calling almost daily until the past few days, probably for being busy (unsure). Thing is it was consistent. And now I wonder what is his communication style ?

Scorpio placements are not the best on a Capricorn... hostile and paranoid.

Posted by stillstillwater

Scorpio placements are not the best on a Capricorn... hostile and paranoid.

It's the one placement I like lol .. isn't scorpio venus all passionate and so? Just a guess from what I read, but well not sure if we'll reach that stage even

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Posted by stillstillwater

Scorpio placements are not the best on a Capricorn... hostile and paranoid.

It's the one placement I like lol .. isn't scorpio venus all passionate and so? Just a guess from what I read, but well not sure if we'll reach that stage even

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Yes def passionate but at what cost? lol Also you have to look at Scorpio placement on a Capricorn. Capricorns are already cynical so if you add paranoia to it as well... it's just a lot of assumptions throw in the mix.

For Caps Sag and Air placements create a more wholesome personality than the paranoid signs like Scorpio, Virgo, Cancer, and even Gemini.

Sag, Aqua, Aries, Taurus (hit or miss), Leo, Libra, Pisces are nice placements on a Cap 🙂

His Sag moon and Pisces Mars is really nice so he probably is very guarded but compassionate and curious.

Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

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Posted by stillstillwater

Scorpio placements are not the best on a Capricorn... hostile and paranoid.

It's the one placement I like lol .. isn't scorpio venus all passionate and so? Just a guess from what I read, but well not sure if we'll reach that stage even

Yes def passionate but at what cost? lol Also you have to look at Scorpio placement on a Capricorn. Capricorns are already cynical so if you add paranoia to it as well... it's just a lot of assumptions throw in the mix.

For Caps Sag and Air placements create a more wholesome personality than the paranoid signs like Scorpio, Virgo, Cancer, and even Gemini.

Sag, Aqua, Aries, Taurus (hit or miss), Leo, Libra, Pisces are nice placements on a Cap 🙂

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I do agree with being "cynical" it is really the thing that was keeping me closed off in the beginning.. Kind of trying to get used to it.

Posted by stillstillwater

Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

Oh .. I'm afraid it might be the case.. either he found me not reciprocating or got bored or just way too busy. But he was definitely more open in the beginning, sharing alot of stories and even personal ones. I was just not there yet.

No feelings involved from either sides anyway. We are just getting to understand what we are about. I hope he didnt give up just yet, cause I was just starting to feel good about it the same moment he got distant and inconsistent .. This is how lucky I am lol

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Posted by stillstillwater

Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

Oh .. I'm afraid it might be the case.. either he found me not reciprocating or got bored or just way too busy. But he was definitely more open in the beginning, sharing alot of stories and even personal ones. I was just not there yet.

No feelings involved from either sides anyway. We are just getting to understand what we are about. I hope he didnt give up just yet, cause I was just starting to feel good about it the same moment he got distant and inconsistent .. This is how lucky I am lol

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so then you better communicate your intereste in some way...even if it's mildly.

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Posted by stillstillwater

Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

Oh .. I'm afraid it might be the case.. either he found me not reciprocating or got bored or just way too busy. But he was definitely more open in the beginning, sharing alot of stories and even personal ones. I was just not there yet.

No feelings involved from either sides anyway. We are just getting to understand what we are about. I hope he didnt give up just yet, cause I was just starting to feel good about it the same moment he got distant and inconsistent .. This is how lucky I am lol

so then you better communicate your intereste in some way...even if it's mildly.

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Kind of hard now when it seems that he dropped me like a hot potato

@stillstillwater @xoxflute I hear you, probably I'm not showing much as I want to.. I will try to be more open with him

He apologized n said he was busy with stuff he told me about before that were still not finished, so I know that's true, but I really cannot stand dropping communication all of a sudden!

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Posted by stillstillwater

Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

Oh .. I'm afraid it might be the case.. either he found me not reciprocating or got bored or just way too busy. But he was definitely more open in the beginning, sharing alot of stories and even personal ones. I was just not there yet.

No feelings involved from either sides anyway. We are just getting to understand what we are about. I hope he didnt give up just yet, cause I was just starting to feel good about it the same moment he got distant and inconsistent .. This is how lucky I am lol

so then you better communicate your intereste in some way...even if it's mildly.

Kind of hard now when it seems that he dropped me like a hot potato

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It seems that way but if he has put in any effort that door is still open.

We take a really long time to move on even if we cut people off from our life quickly; the actual getting rid of feelings takes a long time.

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Posted by TxOgal

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Posted by stillstillwater

Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

Oh .. I'm afraid it might be the case.. either he found me not reciprocating or got bored or just way too busy. But he was definitely more open in the beginning, sharing alot of stories and even personal ones. I was just not there yet.

No feelings involved from either sides anyway. We are just getting to understand what we are about. I hope he didnt give up just yet, cause I was just starting to feel good about it the same moment he got distant and inconsistent .. This is how lucky I am lol

so then you better communicate your intereste in some way...even if it's mildly.

Kind of hard now when it seems that he dropped me like a hot potato

It seems that way but if he has put in any effort that door is still open.

We take a really long time to move on even if we cut people off from our life quickly; the actual getting rid of feelings takes a long time.

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Ehm well I almost got cursed out by a cap for not getting over my feelings quickly enough, so I'mma have to disagree with you on that.

He himself changed his feelings over night 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Posted by stillstillwater

Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

Oh .. I'm afraid it might be the case.. either he found me not reciprocating or got bored or just way too busy. But he was definitely more open in the beginning, sharing alot of stories and even personal ones. I was just not there yet.

No feelings involved from either sides anyway. We are just getting to understand what we are about. I hope he didnt give up just yet, cause I was just starting to feel good about it the same moment he got distant and inconsistent .. This is how lucky I am lol

so then you better communicate your intereste in some way...even if it's mildly.

Kind of hard now when it seems that he dropped me like a hot potato

It seems that way but if he has put in any effort that door is still open.

We take a really long time to move on even if we cut people off from our life quickly; the actual getting rid of feelings takes a long time.

Ehm well I almost got cursed out by a cap for not getting over my feelings quickly enough, so I'mma have to disagree with you on that.

He himself changed his feelings over night 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Trust me he didn’t have feelings to begin with.

Posted by TxOgal

Capricorn man I'm getting to know for a month n a half now, seems to be hot and cold. Are all Caps like that?

What is puzzling me for real, does he communicate more like a Capricorn or a Sagittarius according to his placements..?

I am not familiar with either signs ..ugh

His:

Capricorn Sun

Sagittarius Moon

Sagittarius Mercury

Scorpio Venus

Pisces Mars

Mine:

Taurus Sun

Scorpio Moon

Taurus Mercury

Aries Venus

Pisces Mars

So, is he more like Capricorn or Sag.?

You can say he's a family friend, but we were not at all close. It is long distance (working in a different country) but he came for a few days to meet up and then we started texting and calling almost daily until the past few days, probably for being busy (unsure). Thing is it was consistent. And now I wonder what is his communication style ?

My husband has almost the same placements except libra moon. He is funny and jokes around a lot, I‘m a cap mercury so I get that your taurus mercury might require more consistency in communication. He was always consistent in texting and seeing eachother however. I adore his scorp venus and pisces mars, sooo sensual and although not the most romantic he is very deep.

What was your last communication like? Did you send a text and he didn‘t respond?

Long distance is always difficult 🤷🏻‍♀️ Someone else might have come around that caught his attention. You aren‘t in a relationship so you both are free to see and talk to other people

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Posted by starlord

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by TxOgal

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by TxOgal

Posted by stillstillwater

Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

Oh .. I'm afraid it might be the case.. either he found me not reciprocating or got bored or just way too busy. But he was definitely more open in the beginning, sharing alot of stories and even personal ones. I was just not there yet.

No feelings involved from either sides anyway. We are just getting to understand what we are about. I hope he didnt give up just yet, cause I was just starting to feel good about it the same moment he got distant and inconsistent .. This is how lucky I am lol

so then you better communicate your intereste in some way...even if it's mildly.

Kind of hard now when it seems that he dropped me like a hot potato

It seems that way but if he has put in any effort that door is still open.

We take a really long time to move on even if we cut people off from our life quickly; the actual getting rid of feelings takes a long time.

Ehm well I almost got cursed out by a cap for not getting over my feelings quickly enough, so I'mma have to disagree with you on that.

He himself changed his feelings over night 🤷🏼‍♀️

Trust me he didn’t have feelings to begin with.

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Probably true. Not deep ones at least.

But if he knows what it means to have feelings, he should have more understanding of other peoples feelings and that they don't just dissapear in a week.

From what he has told, he just is like this though. He can have some sort of feelings, and then they just dissapear and maybe reappear and dissapear. So I still stand by what I have said 😉

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Posted by TxOgal

Capricorn man I'm getting to know for a month n a half now, seems to be hot and cold. Are all Caps like that?

What is puzzling me for real, does he communicate more like a Capricorn or a Sagittarius according to his placements..?

I am not familiar with either signs ..ugh

His:

Capricorn Sun

Sagittarius Moon

Sagittarius Mercury

Scorpio Venus

Pisces Mars

Mine:

Taurus Sun

Scorpio Moon

Taurus Mercury

Aries Venus

Pisces Mars

So, is he more like Capricorn or Sag.?

You can say he's a family friend, but we were not at all close. It is long distance (working in a different country) but he came for a few days to meet up and then we started texting and calling almost daily until the past few days, probably for being busy (unsure). Thing is it was consistent. And now I wonder what is his communication style ?

My husband has almost the same placements except libra moon. He is funny and jokes around a lot, I‘m a cap mercury so I get that your taurus mercury might require more consistency in communication. He was always consistent in texting and seeing eachother however. I adore his scorp venus and pisces mars, sooo sensual and although not the most romantic he is very deep.

What was your last communication like? Did you send a text and he didn‘t respond?

Long distance is always difficult 🤷🏻‍♀️ Someone else might have come around that caught his attention. You aren‘t in a relationship so you both are free to see and talk to other people

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Yeah that's the thing that I thought of, maybe somone else is in the picture. Eventhough he seems too busy for that. And, I've always been so trusting in any relationship, like I don't doubt anything like that or get jealous even until they give me a significant reason to doubt it. But yeh this is not even a relationship lol so it is very confusing to me, I've never been in such situation before.

He used to be consistent, texting every morning, midday and night (even if it's just goodnight) and calling every other day. Now this has really slowed down in just a few days.. when I wrote this post he hasn't responded to my text which was really a response to him when he said things were crazy n told me to let him know when I wake up but then poof.. no reply, only called a day later saying he was rushing to finish some stuff (I know he is honest, but he used to check in on me alot).

He too jokes alot and I find him very light hearted which is something I love about him. But, I am so worried sometimes I don't know if he's not as interested as before or is it really just that he's that busy.. He does have a hectic schedule, but used to even send me good morning it made me feel that we are still connected somehow, or that I'm still on his mind.. Today there was no contact though

I dont know what he wants, does he like distance or would he think i lost interest?

Also, I noticed he has quite very talkative females (ok maybe just 1 or 2 that I know of) in his circle of friends and his ex wife was very talkative. So ugh I am at loss

wow that was quite a long post... sorry about that

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Posted by TxOgal

Capricorn man I'm getting to know for a month n a half now, seems to be hot and cold. Are all Caps like that?

What is puzzling me for real, does he communicate more like a Capricorn or a Sagittarius according to his placements..?

I am not familiar with either signs ..ugh

His:

Capricorn Sun

Sagittarius Moon

Sagittarius Mercury

Scorpio Venus

Pisces Mars

Mine:

Taurus Sun

Scorpio Moon

Taurus Mercury

Aries Venus

Pisces Mars

So, is he more like Capricorn or Sag.?

You can say he's a family friend, but we were not at all close. It is long distance (working in a different country) but he came for a few days to meet up and then we started texting and calling almost daily until the past few days, probably for being busy (unsure). Thing is it was consistent. And now I wonder what is his communication style ?

My husband has almost the same placements except libra moon. He is funny and jokes around a lot, I‘m a cap mercury so I get that your taurus mercury might require more consistency in communication. He was always consistent in texting and seeing eachother however. I adore his scorp venus and pisces mars, sooo sensual and although not the most romantic he is very deep.

What was your last communication like? Did you send a text and he didn‘t respond?

Long distance is always difficult 🤷🏻‍♀️ Someone else might have come around that caught his attention. You aren‘t in a relationship so you both are free to see and talk to other people

Yeah that's the thing that I thought of, maybe somone else is in the picture. Eventhough he seems too busy for that. And, I've always been so trusting in any relationship, like I don't doubt anything like that or get jealous even until they give me a significant reason to doubt it. But yeh this is not even a relationship lol so it is very confusing to me, I've never been in such situation before.

He used to be consistent, texting every morning, midday and night (even if it's just goodnight) and calling every other day. Now this has really slowed down in just a few days.. when I wrote this post he hasn't responded to my text which was really a response to him when he said things were crazy n told me to let him know when I wake up but then poof.. no reply, only called a day later saying he was rushing to finish some stuff (I know he is honest, but he used to check in on me alot).

He too jokes alot and I find him very light hearted which is something I love about him. But, I am so worried sometimes I don't know if he's not as interested as before or is it really just that he's that busy.. He does have a hectic schedule, but used to even send me good morning it made me feel that we are still connected somehow, or that I'm still on his mind.. Today there was no contact though

I dont know what he wants, does he like distance or would he think i lost interest?

Also, I noticed he has quite very talkative females (ok maybe just 1 or 2 that I know of) in his circle of friends and his ex wife was very talkative. So ugh I am at loss

Probably paying attention to someone else or for some reason isn’t happy talking to you right now. My cap ex was always attentive when he was happy. In a sulking mood, or trying to figure out what he wanted it slowed down.. but it takes a hell of a long time to process and make a move.. that goes with leaving too. Doesn’t help when they won’t talk about it.

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would he still mention something about marriage? if he is considering someone else?! Yesterday he mentioned us being married in the future (which he does alot) but obviously we are still seeing if that will work out .. I feel that I'm overthinking just bec. of his lack of communciation.. n I'm not even in love .. probably him distancing himself that bit got me hooked somehow

ugh .. I wish he just texted at least

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Posted by AquaNextDoor

Posted by TxOgal

Capricorn man I'm getting to know for a month n a half now, seems to be hot and cold. Are all Caps like that?

What is puzzling me for real, does he communicate more like a Capricorn or a Sagittarius according to his placements..?

I am not familiar with either signs ..ugh

His:

Capricorn Sun

Sagittarius Moon

Sagittarius Mercury

Scorpio Venus

Pisces Mars

Mine:

Taurus Sun

Scorpio Moon

Taurus Mercury

Aries Venus

Pisces Mars

So, is he more like Capricorn or Sag.?

You can say he's a family friend, but we were not at all close. It is long distance (working in a different country) but he came for a few days to meet up and then we started texting and calling almost daily until the past few days, probably for being busy (unsure). Thing is it was consistent. And now I wonder what is his communication style ?

My husband has almost the same placements except libra moon. He is funny and jokes around a lot, I‘m a cap mercury so I get that your taurus mercury might require more consistency in communication. He was always consistent in texting and seeing eachother however. I adore his scorp venus and pisces mars, sooo sensual and although not the most romantic he is very deep.

What was your last communication like? Did you send a text and he didn‘t respond?

Long distance is always difficult 🤷🏻‍♀️ Someone else might have come around that caught his attention. You aren‘t in a relationship so you both are free to see and talk to other people

Yeah that's the thing that I thought of, maybe somone else is in the picture. Eventhough he seems too busy for that. And, I've always been so trusting in any relationship, like I don't doubt anything like that or get jealous even until they give me a significant reason to doubt it. But yeh this is not even a relationship lol so it is very confusing to me, I've never been in such situation before.

He used to be consistent, texting every morning, midday and night (even if it's just goodnight) and calling every other day. Now this has really slowed down in just a few days.. when I wrote this post he hasn't responded to my text which was really a response to him when he said things were crazy n told me to let him know when I wake up but then poof.. no reply, only called a day later saying he was rushing to finish some stuff (I know he is honest, but he used to check in on me alot).

He too jokes alot and I find him very light hearted which is something I love about him. But, I am so worried sometimes I don't know if he's not as interested as before or is it really just that he's that busy.. He does have a hectic schedule, but used to even send me good morning it made me feel that we are still connected somehow, or that I'm still on his mind.. Today there was no contact though

I dont know what he wants, does he like distance or would he think i lost interest?

Also, I noticed he has quite very talkative females (ok maybe just 1 or 2 that I know of) in his circle of friends and his ex wife was very talkative. So ugh I am at loss

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Don‘t stress dear 🌷

Do you know if he is looking for a relationship in general or where were your convos heading?

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Posted by TxOgal

Capricorn man I'm getting to know for a month n a half now, seems to be hot and cold. Are all Caps like that?

What is puzzling me for real, does he communicate more like a Capricorn or a Sagittarius according to his placements..?

I am not familiar with either signs ..ugh

His:

Capricorn Sun

Sagittarius Moon

Sagittarius Mercury

Scorpio Venus

Pisces Mars

Mine:

Taurus Sun

Scorpio Moon

Taurus Mercury

Aries Venus

Pisces Mars

So, is he more like Capricorn or Sag.?

You can say he's a family friend, but we were not at all close. It is long distance (working in a different country) but he came for a few days to meet up and then we started texting and calling almost daily until the past few days, probably for being busy (unsure). Thing is it was consistent. And now I wonder what is his communication style ?

My husband has almost the same placements except libra moon. He is funny and jokes around a lot, I‘m a cap mercury so I get that your taurus mercury might require more consistency in communication. He was always consistent in texting and seeing eachother however. I adore his scorp venus and pisces mars, sooo sensual and although not the most romantic he is very deep.

What was your last communication like? Did you send a text and he didn‘t respond?

Long distance is always difficult 🤷🏻‍♀️ Someone else might have come around that caught his attention. You aren‘t in a relationship so you both are free to see and talk to other people

Yeah that's the thing that I thought of, maybe somone else is in the picture. Eventhough he seems too busy for that. And, I've always been so trusting in any relationship, like I don't doubt anything like that or get jealous even until they give me a significant reason to doubt it. But yeh this is not even a relationship lol so it is very confusing to me, I've never been in such situation before.

He used to be consistent, texting every morning, midday and night (even if it's just goodnight) and calling every other day. Now this has really slowed down in just a few days.. when I wrote this post he hasn't responded to my text which was really a response to him when he said things were crazy n told me to let him know when I wake up but then poof.. no reply, only called a day later saying he was rushing to finish some stuff (I know he is honest, but he used to check in on me alot).

He too jokes alot and I find him very light hearted which is something I love about him. But, I am so worried sometimes I don't know if he's not as interested as before or is it really just that he's that busy.. He does have a hectic schedule, but used to even send me good morning it made me feel that we are still connected somehow, or that I'm still on his mind.. Today there was no contact though

I dont know what he wants, does he like distance or would he think i lost interest?

Also, I noticed he has quite very talkative females (ok maybe just 1 or 2 that I know of) in his circle of friends and his ex wife was very talkative. So ugh I am at loss

Don‘t stress dear 🌷

Do you know if he is looking for a relationship in general or where were your convos heading?

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Thank you .. I shall not stress right, if it's meant to be it will happen I believe

well he already talked to my family about marriage, but we were not that close really, so we are at a stage that we are getting to know eachother .. n if things are alright we will proceed.. he was actually so in a rush in the beginning (probably had an image of my character made up in his head lol) but well I am very slow and like to let this connection gradually develop... this is why I was worried if he thinks me being slow about it is disinterest, when it actually means that I am serious about this

one more thing though, I do know he wanted to settle down and have a family, that was before him talking to my family. But I know that he was looking

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Capricorn man I'm getting to know for a month n a half now, seems to be hot and cold. Are all Caps like that?

What is puzzling me for real, does he communicate more like a Capricorn or a Sagittarius according to his placements..?

I am not familiar with either signs ..ugh

His:

Capricorn Sun

Sagittarius Moon

Sagittarius Mercury

Scorpio Venus

Pisces Mars

Mine:

Taurus Sun

Scorpio Moon

Taurus Mercury

Aries Venus

Pisces Mars

So, is he more like Capricorn or Sag.?

You can say he's a family friend, but we were not at all close. It is long distance (working in a different country) but he came for a few days to meet up and then we started texting and calling almost daily until the past few days, probably for being busy (unsure). Thing is it was consistent. And now I wonder what is his communication style ?

My husband has almost the same placements except libra moon. He is funny and jokes around a lot, I‘m a cap mercury so I get that your taurus mercury might require more consistency in communication. He was always consistent in texting and seeing eachother however. I adore his scorp venus and pisces mars, sooo sensual and although not the most romantic he is very deep.

What was your last communication like? Did you send a text and he didn‘t respond?

Long distance is always difficult 🤷🏻‍♀️ Someone else might have come around that caught his attention. You aren‘t in a relationship so you both are free to see and talk to other people

Yeah that's the thing that I thought of, maybe somone else is in the picture. Eventhough he seems too busy for that. And, I've always been so trusting in any relationship, like I don't doubt anything like that or get jealous even until they give me a significant reason to doubt it. But yeh this is not even a relationship lol so it is very confusing to me, I've never been in such situation before.

He used to be consistent, texting every morning, midday and night (even if it's just goodnight) and calling every other day. Now this has really slowed down in just a few days.. when I wrote this post he hasn't responded to my text which was really a response to him when he said things were crazy n told me to let him know when I wake up but then poof.. no reply, only called a day later saying he was rushing to finish some stuff (I know he is honest, but he used to check in on me alot).

He too jokes alot and I find him very light hearted which is something I love about him. But, I am so worried sometimes I don't know if he's not as interested as before or is it really just that he's that busy.. He does have a hectic schedule, but used to even send me good morning it made me feel that we are still connected somehow, or that I'm still on his mind.. Today there was no contact though

I dont know what he wants, does he like distance or would he think i lost interest?

Also, I noticed he has quite very talkative females (ok maybe just 1 or 2 that I know of) in his circle of friends and his ex wife was very talkative. So ugh I am at loss

Don‘t stress dear 🌷

Do you know if he is looking for a relationship in general or where were your convos heading?

Thank you .. I shall not stress right, if it's meant to be it will happen I believe

well he already talked to my family about marriage, but we were not that close really, so we are at a stage that we are getting to know eachother .. n if things are alright we will proceed.. he was actually so in a rush in the beginning (probably had an image of my character made up in his head lol) but well I am very slow and like to let this connection gradually develop... this is why I was worried if he thinks me being slow about it is disinterest, when it actually means that I am serious about this

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Why not just tell him that you would like to get to know him on a more serious note to find out if you both could be together? Because you like him and see him as a potencial.

How often have you seen eachother?

@AquaNextDoor ..ops I edited my last post before seeing yours

we have these talks, but we are not anymore since he got super busy.. I do miss these conversations eventhough I am very slow to open up .. but I am trying hard

I have known him since what seems like forever, he literally saw me growing up, but we really never had a proper conversation until he talked to my family .. and then he came back to see me for like 4 days until a couple of hours before his plane leaves. We were trying to talk and see eachother as much as possible that time.. that was 2 months ago

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Kind of makes sense why you're having a hard time understanding him. he's all over the place.

I had similar issue with this Cap man:

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Scorpio Venus

Gemini Mars

We were just friends but he was NEVER open with me that he actually had romantic feelings for me but took out is frusteration out on me when I didn't reciprocate even though I had multiple convos about how we are just friends.

Finally he opened up and told me the truth (but after we had both kind of moved on) and said he didn't tell me because he was afraid of rejection... which is fine but then why take it out on me *shrug*

So I don't like Scorpio placements on Caps.

Oh .. I'm afraid it might be the case.. either he found me not reciprocating or got bored or just way too busy. But he was definitely more open in the beginning, sharing alot of stories and even personal ones. I was just not there yet.

No feelings involved from either sides anyway. We are just getting to understand what we are about. I hope he didnt give up just yet, cause I was just starting to feel good about it the same moment he got distant and inconsistent .. This is how lucky I am lol

so then you better communicate your intereste in some way...even if it's mildly.

Kind of hard now when it seems that he dropped me like a hot potato

It seems that way but if he has put in any effort that door is still open.

We take a really long time to move on even if we cut people off from our life quickly; the actual getting rid of feelings takes a long time.

Ehm well I almost got cursed out by a cap for not getting over my feelings quickly enough, so I'mma have to disagree with you on that.

He himself changed his feelings over night 🤷🏼‍♀️

Trust me he didn’t have feelings to begin with.

Probably true. Not deep ones at least.

But if he knows what it means to have feelings, he should have more understanding of other peoples feelings and that they don't just dissapear in a week.

From what he has told, he just is like this though. He can have some sort of feelings, and then they just dissapear and maybe reappear and dissapear. So I still stand by what I have said 😉

Haha that’s what they do! Should have feelings 😂They just boom cut their feelings off so the don’t feel them. If they had them, they come back eventually cuz they never dealt with them.

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Man that's a tough life!!!

I just recently learned I pushed things away and never really dealt with them, and it's really hard. Not a good way to live life.

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@AquaNextDoor ..ops I edited my last post before seeing yours

we have these talks, but we are not anymore since he got super busy.. I do miss these conversations eventhough I am very slow to open up .. but I am trying hard

I have known him since what seems like forever, he literally saw me growing up, but we really never had a proper conversation until he talked to my family .. and then he came back to see me for like 4 days until a couple of hours before his plane leaves. We were trying to talk and see eachother as much as possible that time.. that was 2 months ago

Hm you seem already emotionally invested in him. My advice for you would be to date and talk to other people in the mean time. People who are actually in your area for you to actually see in person! Don‘t lay all your eggs in one basket girl. You are free to explore other potencial mates and so is he. You know a man no matter how busy or stressed out would still keep in touch with the woman of his no1 position.

Don‘t worry too much about what he will think. „Does he think i‘m not as interested anymore?“

Fuck that mentality! Do you think he signs up on an astrology board thinking about if YOU lost interest in him because he became flaky? No he doesn‘t. You give him already more priority than he gives you girl. This won‘t end good for you. Once you give yourself the same priority that you give others then you‘ll stop entertaining situations that seem to lead nowhere or people who be hot and cold. You can deserve better than that 🌷

Good luck!

@AquaNextDoor Thanks for your words.. I believe I feel this way cause of other external influences as my father already likes him alot, so it's kind of making me worried he'd point at me if this didn't work out, when it cannot be anybody's fault if we just don't feel it. His words were not at all easy for me to take.

Anyway, I shouldn't care and you got a point although I cannot get myself to see anyone for now until I make up my mind about him, blame me or my Taurus placements, I feel bad if I do so, like cheating lol I will definitely just focus on myself for now and my work. I suppose at least this will pay off when I put some more effort into it.

Thanks again, I won't get paranoid 🙂

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@AquaNextDoor Thanks for your words.. I believe I feel this way cause of other external influences as my father already likes him alot, so it's kind of making me worried he'd point at me if this didn't work out, when it cannot be anybody's fault if we just don't feel it. His words were not at all easy for me to take.

Anyway, I shouldn't care and you got a point although I cannot get myself to see anyone for now until I make up my mind about him, blame me or my Taurus placements, I feel bad if I do so, like cheating lol I will definitely just focus on myself for now and my work. I suppose at least this will pay off when I put some more effort into it.

Thanks again, I won't get paranoid 🙂

You got this 🌷

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Ehm well I almost got cursed out by a cap for not getting over my feelings quickly enough, so I'mma have to disagree with you on that.

He himself changed his feelings over night 🤷🏼‍♀️

Well, if he decided to move on, it will likely always appear to most people that those feelings are gone, even if they aren't.

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Well it's right what another poster said: he didn't really have feelings involved.

But it was like he was back and forth about it, then we had sex, and it was like he changed. Because the situation was weird, I wanted to talk about the having sex, and I think he thought I meant like I wanted to have "the talk" and couldn't handle that. Oh gosh, dooooo many misunderstandings with that guy!

But still, if a person knows how it is to have feelings, he could have been way more respectful of mine. Not reciprocate, just be respectful. Hoping he will be better at that for the next girls he will get with. 🙇🏼‍♀️

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Ehm well I almost got cursed out by a cap for not getting over my feelings quickly enough, so I'mma have to disagree with you on that.

He himself changed his feelings over night 🤷🏼‍♀️

Well, if he decided to move on, it will likely always appear to most people that those feelings are gone, even if they aren't.

Well it's right what another poster said: he didn't really have feelings involved.

But it was like he was back and forth about it, then we had sex, and it was like he changed. Because the situation was weird, I wanted to talk about the having sex, and I think he thought I meant like I wanted to have "the talk" and couldn't handle that. Oh gosh, dooooo many misunderstandings with that guy!

But still, if a person knows how it is to have feelings, he could have been way more respectful of mine. Not reciprocate, just be respectful. Hoping he will be better at that for the next girls he will get with. 🙇🏼‍♀️

Well, yes he didn't have feelings involved.

I meant it in the general context...that you will never know if he still had feelings after deciding to move on, assuming he had feelings to begin with.

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Oh. I just thought that another poster was trying to make the point, that he could only turn off the feelings from day to day, because there was none. But you are saying, that it will seem like that no matter what?