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Cap Woman & Aries man - Marriage & Divorce
Don't know any cap aries couples.
I've always lived with an Aries. My dad and my son, who is grown now. I love their sweetness and generosity and charm, however there is always tension. I love them, but I wouldn't want to be married to one. Too much conflict for a marriage I would think.
I've always lived with an Aries. My dad and my son, who is grown now. I love their sweetness and generosity and charm, however there is always tension. I love them, but I wouldn't want to be married to one. Too much conflict for a marriage I would think.
Failed in 2 relationships with aries men. I dont think we can ever get as far as marriage, too much differences....
It's not my experience but my Cap friend is married to an Aries. He was just over yesterday complaining about her and their relationship. He is "supposedly" reaching a boiling point because he feels he gives 110% and provide her with all of her needs and wants, but she won't meet him half way. Plus, her desire to not work is messing with his goals and money, which may be the ultimate deal breaker. She graduated college in May, and has been vacationing all summer on his dime, of course. He say shes only put in three job applications. He's just fed up.
I felt bad for him UNTIL he told me after her graduation she asked him why he wasn't all that excited and he told her he'll be excited when she gets a job. I'm like wth? Imo, She treats him like that because of his mouth. He did throw her a big graduation party, but how dare he tell her her accomplishment isnt good enough yet. I was so mad hearing that.
I felt bad for him UNTIL he told me after her graduation she asked him why he wasn't all that excited and he told her he'll be excited when she gets a job. I'm like wth? Imo, She treats him like that because of his mouth. He did throw her a big graduation party, but how dare he tell her her accomplishment isnt good enough yet. I was so mad hearing that.
I just hope cappies are wise their words. I could see negative comments like the one my friend made wearing a person down.
Posted by lnana04Omg i know how ur friend feels! I think its slightly better in his situation since he is wearing the pants. I was kind of the provider in my 4.5yrs r/s with an aries. Caps r simple ppl, we want to work hard with our partner for our future. With want to progress together and we are generous with our money till we feel the other party is taking advantage.
I just hope cappies are wise their words. I could see negative comments like the one my friend made wearing a person down.
Normally we will be tolerant till it bursts. I told my ex what I was disappointed in him and gave him a yr to change. Alas an Aries being them just take things too lightly and so I left....
Posted by lnana04I am so glad you said that.
I felt bad for him UNTIL he told me after her graduation she asked him why he wasn't all that excited and he told her he'll be excited when she gets a job. I'm like wth? Imo, She treats him like that because of his mouth. He did throw her a big graduation party, but how dare he tell her her accomplishment isnt good enough yet. I was so mad hearing that.
I don't know any Cap F Aries M couples so am looking for them on here to see if anyone is going through what I am.
My husband is obsessive compulsive! Especially about the housework. He has for years put me down by telling me I don't do certain tasks round the house, properly. I won't go into detail as it will take too long BUT it has caused major arguments! I am not untidy but I am not obsessive about housework! I am clean & tidy.
However nothing is ever good enough for him! In the end it has caused me to not want to do stuff round the house because it will never be good enough for him!
Now, I don't do Nothing as I am not lazy. I just don't enjoy doing it etc.
Anyway, like your friend be great told that her husband will our be happy for her when she gets a job; it's the same kind of thing with my husband where he is Only happy when I do the household tasks HIS way as mine is not good enough! It drives me INSANE!
There are other obsessive controlling things about my Aries husbands behaviour too but again - long story!
His behaviour towards me means that, like your friend, I treat my husband the way I do because of his Mouth! He bosses me, tells me I do things wrong - because I should be doing them HIS way and THEN calls his treatment of me HELP! !?!
Seriously WTF! ?!
Thank you for your post x makes me feel I'm not alone.
Sorry for my typos. .
Instead of *be great, it should say 'being told.'
Instead of *our be, it should say 'only be.'
Instead of *be great, it should say 'being told.'
Instead of *our be, it should say 'only be.'
Posted by lnana04
I just hope cappies are wise their words. I could see negative comments like the one my friend made wearing a person down.
Your friend will end up very worn down sadly. Like me. My husband continually told me I can't do things right BUT did it with a friendly tone of voice..on and on and on until I change my way to His!If I didn't change off he stormed and gone was the friendly voice!
The irony is that he tells me that I 'Always focus on the nagative' !!?! He says this when I tell him how bad his behaviour towards me is. He just can't see how detrimental his Mouth is!
It's HIM that's Negative! Not me.
I hope your friend doesn't suffer. We've been together 13 years and have a child together. But..its not at all as rosy as it sounds!
Posted by Jalent99You are so right.! However the strange thing us our differences didn't come out until we were married!?! Got worse from there. .
Failed in 2 relationships with aries men. I dont think we can ever get as far as marriage, too much differences....
My BFF Capricorn female has been in a 10 year relationship with her Aries man. They broke up a few times with 1.5 years being the longest they were broken up. They just bought a house & are so in love still. No marriage or kids yet.
Posted by truecapyeah I haven't even delved deeper to see any successful couples with this sun sign combo.
Don't know any cap aries couples.
I've always lived with an Aries. My dad and my son, who is grown now. I love their sweetness and generosity and charm, however there is always tension. I love them, but I wouldn't want to be married to one. Too much conflict for a marriage I would think.
I mean I have SEEN successful long term ones with LIBRA/CAP, like Sting and his wife, and that Sammy Hagar dude with his lovely model wife born January 7.
edit - I saw only that supermodel wife, Miranda Kerr but it was short.
http://www.eonline.com/news/486747/orlando-bloom-opens-up-about-miranda-kerr-split-we-love-and-cherish-each-other
Posted by pooface222You might have moved into the marriage quicker than I. We stayed together for 2.5yrs out of the 4.5. For me I m the one contributing more $ and effort. Finally decide that he will always be him, either accept that or not. There are probably other signs out there who can accept an Aries, but not the Earth signs I believe. We need someone more responsible.Posted by Jalent99You are so right.! However the strange thing us our differences didn't come out until we were married!?! Got worse from there. .
Failed in 2 relationships with aries men. I dont think we can ever get as far as marriage, too much differences....click to expand
My mum is an aries, dad a cancer. He worked really hard as a provider, she stayed home. My mom is great to us, but I sometimes feel she is too harsh towards my dad. Wants things her way. But the cancer in him prevail to keep his family, us happy!
Posted by pooface222No but I'm a fellow earth that has two Aries enter my life. I got on birth control and stayed there was this gut feeling since he was into sex alot that I couldn't risk to have a. baby. Well I was right and I'm happy to make that decision when I was 19 years old. God damn it was a blessing and curse.
Anyone married in this coupling?
I have posted similar before but about relationships. This time marriage and divorce.
I'm interested to hear about your bad experiences. Especially if you have kids or babies...
Posted by Jalent99We were together for 6 years before we got married. If he had been like this beforehand I wouldn't have married him.Posted by pooface222You might have moved into the marriage quicker than I. We stayed together for 2.5yrs out of the 4.5. For me I m the one contributing more $ and effort. Finally decide that he will always be him, either accept that or not. There are probably other signs out there who can accept an Aries, but not the Earth signs I believe. We need someone more responsible.Posted by Jalent99You are so right.! However the strange thing us our differences didn't come out until we were married!?! Got worse from there. .
Failed in 2 relationships with aries men. I dont think we can ever get as far as marriage, too much differences....
My mum is an aries, dad a cancer. He worked really hard as a provider, she stayed home. My mom is great to us, but I sometimes feel she is too harsh towards my dad. Wants things her way. But the cancer in him prevail to keep his family, us happy!
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Thanks for your reply. .you are right about earth signs wanting someone more responsible! ?
My sister's Cancer dad Is married to an Aries and he's always complaining. He basically works and provides while she stays at home.
Same with my Cap friend. When he was over the other day I noticed something within him, as if a very deep sadness was there. I told my mother and she noticed it too and she was only around him for 10 minutes or so.
His wife has been basically vacationing all summer. This is her second trip to Tampa on his dime. I think she's cheating and I think my friend thinks it too. I felt that maybe he was sad about something else, but my ma was like no...He's sad about his wife. Not only that, he's leaving next month and will be gone for a year (military).
He's caring for her and their five kids (two, who are not biologically his) and instead of spending as much time with him as she can she's out there as if shes cheating. I cant stand my friend sometimes, but Id hate if he's really down about it all.
Same with my Cap friend. When he was over the other day I noticed something within him, as if a very deep sadness was there. I told my mother and she noticed it too and she was only around him for 10 minutes or so.
His wife has been basically vacationing all summer. This is her second trip to Tampa on his dime. I think she's cheating and I think my friend thinks it too. I felt that maybe he was sad about something else, but my ma was like no...He's sad about his wife. Not only that, he's leaving next month and will be gone for a year (military).
He's caring for her and their five kids (two, who are not biologically his) and instead of spending as much time with him as she can she's out there as if shes cheating. I cant stand my friend sometimes, but Id hate if he's really down about it all.
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