Capricorn and scorpio soulmates?

I read often that these two sigs are supposed to be soulmates and I'm curious about your experiences 🙂. Tell me about your capricorn/scorpio stories.

So I already put this in the capricorn forum, but I thought it would be interesting to hear from both sides 🙂.

I read often that these two sigs are supposed to be soulmates and I'm curious about your experiences 🙂. Tell me about your capricorn/scorpio stories

Capricorn will emotionally bore the shit out a Scorpio.

Y'all sextile and square Suns need to get real, and stop trynna be those people soul mates.. Please leave those people alone with this shit. Please.

Idk what they’re talking about ^

Scorpio & Capricorn’s are meant to be 😡

Posted by Gobby
First thing's first: the whole notion of soulmates is complete and utter rubbish - it's just some false romantic construct.

Now, back to your question. Yes, it can work but only if both are prepared (and mature) to make it work. Caps tend to be closed and require time to open up, while Scorpios are usually all in and expect the same level of reciprocation. This fundamental discrepancy tends to be the root cause of many issues between this pairing.

It also doesn't help that Scorpios are stubborn, paranoid and irrational, which can only worsen and strain relations between the two. While Scorpios are very emotional, Caps are more reserved and pragmatic.

Lastly, Scorpios need to realise that their worst virtue is their tendency to manipulate others - something that Caps have zero tolerance for.

Well... at least your honest😄

How have you experienced being manipulated by a scorpio? Like any example of a situation?

dont invest your time in someone who is all about wearing a fake mask... i wont tolerate someone in my life who hugs me and says i love you and behind my back hold someone else's hands and say same to them... capricorns whether a girl or man are all about this s***... think a thousand times and watch their actions closely for 2 3 months before making them a priority in your life... coz they tend to take you for granted once they came to know that your heart and feelings are invested in them and you are unable to move that is where they will show you their true color

dont invest your time in someone who is all about wearing a fake mask... i wont tolerate someone in my life who hugs me and says i love you and behind my back hold someone else's hands and say same to them... capricorns whether a girl or man are all about this bullshit... think a thousand times and watch their actions closely for 2 3 months before making them a priority in your life... coz they tend to take you for granted once they came to know that your heart and feelings are invested in them and you are unable to move that is where they will show you their true color

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

? What's the secret?👀👀👀

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby
First thing's first: the whole notion of soulmates is complete and utter rubbish - it's just some false romantic construct.

Now, back to your question. Yes, it can work but only if both are prepared (and mature) to make it work. Caps tend to be closed and require time to open up, while Scorpios are usually all in and expect the same level of reciprocation. This fundamental discrepancy tends to be the root cause of many issues between this pairing.

It also doesn't help that Scorpios are stubborn, paranoid and irrational, which can only worsen and strain relations between the two. While Scorpios are very emotional, Caps are more reserved and pragmatic.

Lastly, Scorpios need to realise that their worst virtue is their tendency to manipulate others - something that Caps have zero tolerance for.

Well... at least your honest😄
How have you experienced being manipulated by a scorpio? Like any example of a situation? click to expand

While I've experienced Scorpio manipulation, I wouldn't say I've been a victim of it. In nearly every case, I was reasonably aware of what was going on and elected to either go with the flow or put my foot down. I can't speak for others but, as a Cap, I tend to have a habit of giving people plenty of rope in which to hang themselves with.
click to expand

click to expand

Just wish I understood exactly what and how this manipulation thing is. Like examples, 'cause it's said a lot about scorpio, but like how? Know plenty scorps, only found one manipulating, and that was just because he was a horny guy, not because he was a scorpio.

I think cap and scorp go well together with humour and a realistic view on the darker things in life. Not scared. But maybe that's more as friends🤔

@gobby is that u?

lol i was not recognizing u cause u usually have weird old ugly man with no teeth on avatar 😛

Soulmates? Is it because they both got dark, shady sides? Are they vibin' thru that? Or maybe power-hungry attracts another power-hungry?

so these two signs always wants to be taken seriously, then sparks fly when they find out they're almost alike.... hence potential soul m8s

..smth lyk dat

My father is a sag but in the cusp of cap ... He acts exactly like Capricorn stable loyal a provider hard worker... Never plays games ... My mom is a Scorpio they have been married and happy over fifty years they are best friends.... They do everything together .... My hubby and my mom have the same birth chart ... 😆😆😂 how cool is that... He is a Scorpio ... With earth placements .... Caps are good guys to me... Very traditional ... In which I love

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

How have you experienced being manipulated by a scorpio? Like any example of a situation?

Too many to mention. But one thing I've noticed is how they constantly change their moral viewpoints, depending on the kind of outcome they desire.

One of my Scorpio exes went back with an ex who she previously villainised, while clearly stating that she would never get back in touch with him (even as friends). So much for having some dignity...

Another Scorpio ex ended up shacking with (and later getting pregnant by) a male friend who had been unfaithful and deceitful to his ex-wife. She was well ware of what kind of guy he was because, at the time, her best friend was his mistress. Why would a Scorpio woman get herself into such a potentially messy situation? Maybe because she had turned 40 and felt desperate.

My first Scorpio ex still contacts me, from time-to-time, but keeps on playing mind games (even though she secretly wishes to rekindle what we once had). I always call her out on it but she's too immature to own up to her own butter. The funny thing is, deep down, she knows the failure of our romantic relationship was her fault, yet she still attempts to project all the blame onto me.

In summary, they really are a strange bunch and I'm still on the lookout for one who's relatively sane. The problem is, to them, everything is black and white (which is absolutely ludicrous). Also, their feelings are always more important than the feelings of the other parties involved...
click to expand

click to expand

Sounds nothing like the scorpios I know. And myself 😁 Ecxept for the black and white thing, but I just call that passion 😄 And if people explain, then it is accepted.

Sorry about your bad experiences.

In my opinion, Caps have Soulmates only in Taurus or Virgo.

Scorpios are good Love interests but not soul mates.

Posted by c0mrade
In my opinion, Caps have Soulmates only in Taurus or Virgo.

This ^^

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them.

This is how I picture cap and Scorp together. Idk which one is which but basically they both emerge from Hell as dark lords and come for world domination. Together💖

True romance y’all 😽

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

click to expand

😄😄 the horror is real! Being one myself I'd actually like for somebody to know how to deal with me, but not to the point of being controlled or manipulated.

But yeah you do learn from that stuff more, I guess 'cause you're alert and emotionally involved to various degrees. But can be very tough.

I think spongebob is the Scorp and Elmo is the cap now that I think about it

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!

But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.

That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated.

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

😄😄 the horror is real! Being one myself I'd actually like for somebody to know how to deal with me, but not to the point of being controlled or manipulated.
But yeah you do learn from that stuff more, I guess 'cause you're alert and emotionally involved to various degrees. But can be very tough. click to expand

I think Scorpios genuinely want to be understood but, at the same time, are afraid of being understood too much to the point of feeling vulnerable.

Furthermore, I wouldn't say it's to the point of being manipulated themselves but more to the point of their 'survival skills' (e.g. manipulation, projecting, mirroring, etc.) not having any effect on their partner.

It's a one hell of a dilemma and that's why, IMHO, they constantly have control issues...
click to expand

click to expand

I agree with a lot of this.

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

😄😄 the horror is real! Being one myself I'd actually like for somebody to know how to deal with me, but not to the point of being controlled or manipulated.
But yeah you do learn from that stuff more, I guess 'cause you're alert and emotionally involved to various degrees. But can be very tough. click to expand

I think Scorpios genuinely want to be understood but, at the same time, are afraid of being understood too much to the point of feeling vulnerable.

Furthermore, I wouldn't say it's to the point of being manipulated themselves but more to the point of their 'survival skills' (e.g. manipulation, projecting, mirroring, etc.) not having any effect on their partner.

It's a one hell of a dilemma and that's why, IMHO, they constantly have control issues...
click to expand

I agree with a lot of this. click to expand

Personally, I think many Scorpios would rather have me dead than still roaming the earth with such insightful knowledge about them...
click to expand

click to expand

😄😄 noo don't worry about that. As long as you don't use it for evil, it's all good.

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expand

click to expand

Yeah no I get that. Someone keeps real feelings from you and then suddenly burst out and expect a medal and understanding , not happening. Trust is lost. Sounds like she was never secure in herself or the relationship to act like this.

@scorpiotruth-

Which not-so-attractive traits, in an Aqua Venus?

I had a friend who was a female Capricorn. She had a holistic quality to her that was attractive and at least superficially, seemed to be level headed, but she wasn't very relatable emotionally. My dad is a Capricorn and my mom is a Scorpio.. They divorced when I was young. I'd say no go. Maybe it's different for the reversed genders? There are much better matches for the two out there.

No they're not. They're petty af. We're a universal sign and we need another universal sign so we can build each other up...and not get up caught up in the basic shit people call life.

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

click to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

click to expand

She sounds crazy. And young. click to expand

click to expand

yet she's not, just a Scorpio.

Posted by DeadInside

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

click to expand

where is your capricorn solidairty click to expand

click to expand

I told her that I think he's telling the truth so that's my solidarity right there.

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

😄😄 the horror is real! Being one myself I'd actually like for somebody to know how to deal with me, but not to the point of being controlled or manipulated.
But yeah you do learn from that stuff more, I guess 'cause you're alert and emotionally involved to various degrees. But can be very tough. click to expand

I think Scorpios genuinely want to be understood but, at the same time, are afraid of being understood too much to the point of feeling vulnerable.

Furthermore, I wouldn't say it's to the point of being manipulated themselves but more to the point of their 'survival skills' (e.g. manipulation, projecting, mirroring, etc.) not having any effect on their partner.

It's a one hell of a dilemma and that's why, IMHO, they constantly have control issues...
click to expand

I agree with a lot of this. click to expand

Personally, I think many Scorpios would rather have me dead than still roaming the earth with such insightful knowledge about them...
click to expand

Honestly I WISH my cap was into astrology. Lol women love to be understood.
I’ve tried sending him articles etc but he’s not having it. Lol I think Scorpios are SO misunderstood, it’s crazy. He said once in therapy that he didn’t realize how much I loved him until something traumatic happened in our relationship. I was like WTF?! learning astrology has also helped me become more self aware and has helped me curb those manipulative tendencies and other negative traits that are typical of Scorpio women. I wish my cap was into astrology because his aqua in Venus has a few of those not-so-attractive traits too, that I wish he was aware of 😂😂 click to expand

click to expand

lol whats wrong with aqua venus?

can u give specific detail on his not so attractive quirks?

not everything is attractive in a relationship.

if u have personal planets that are "freedom" lovng more u would understand eachother well.

Posted by DeadInside

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by DeadInside

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

click to expand

where is your capricorn solidairty click to expand

I told her that I think he's telling the truth so that's my solidarity right there. click to expand

the position of ceo of capricorn board is really far click to expand

click to expand

Ok fine I agree I could've done a better job. But Fuck Cap men are fucking evils sometimes too so you have to keep an eye on them like a hawk. Too much freedom and no bueno.

So chicks before dicks! Till I die! Unless that prince charming then fuck all my gfs and him and I are running away to our castle far far away... which they don't exist so basically chicks before dicks till I die.

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

click to expand

She sounds crazy. And young. click to expand

yet she's not, just a Scorpio. click to expand

Maybe not young but she is in fact crazy. Lol Scorpio or not. click to expand

click to expand

hehe that is what i said. But that is a Scorpio trait. You guys are super paranoid. I have experience with Scorpio mars and they come up with the craziest stories in their head based on a few facts.

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

😄😄 the horror is real! Being one myself I'd actually like for somebody to know how to deal with me, but not to the point of being controlled or manipulated.
But yeah you do learn from that stuff more, I guess 'cause you're alert and emotionally involved to various degrees. But can be very tough. click to expand

I think Scorpios genuinely want to be understood but, at the same time, are afraid of being understood too much to the point of feeling vulnerable.

Furthermore, I wouldn't say it's to the point of being manipulated themselves but more to the point of their 'survival skills' (e.g. manipulation, projecting, mirroring, etc.) not having any effect on their partner.

It's a one hell of a dilemma and that's why, IMHO, they constantly have control issues...
click to expand

I agree with a lot of this. click to expand

Personally, I think many Scorpios would rather have me dead than still roaming the earth with such insightful knowledge about them...
click to expand

Honestly I WISH my cap was into astrology. Lol women love to be understood.
I’ve tried sending him articles etc but he’s not having it. Lol I think Scorpios are SO misunderstood, it’s crazy. He said once in therapy that he didn’t realize how much I loved him until something traumatic happened in our relationship. I was like WTF?! learning astrology has also helped me become more self aware and has helped me curb those manipulative tendencies and other negative traits that are typical of Scorpio women. I wish my cap was into astrology because his aqua in Venus has a few of those not-so-attractive traits too, that I wish he was aware of 😂😂 click to expand

lol whats wrong with aqua venus?

can u give specific detail on his not so attractive quirks?

not everything is attractive in a relationship.

if u have personal planets that are "freedom" lovng more u would understand eachother well. click to expand

I have 4 libra placements (including rising) which is why I believe it’s worked, but I think my sun and moon are dominant.
Ironically he seems to think I am just as aloof as he is, becaus like I mentioned before, he once told me that he didn’t realize how much I loved him. click to expand

click to expand

aw that's so sweet ^_^

ur love is the quiet kind.

yeah with 4 planets libra, it's perfect.

we have a Pisces sun uncle with personal planets in Aries and Aquarius who is married to double Libra, libra venus, i dont know her rising but she has Scorpio mars

and they are like bread and butter....easy peasy. He's so freedom loving too, even rides a motorcycle to express his love of freedom in his old age .lol 😛

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

click to expand

She sounds crazy. And young. click to expand

yet she's not, just a Scorpio. click to expand

An evolved Scorpio doesn’t have the time nor energy to babysit grown ass men. I just can’t 🤦🏻‍♀️ click to expand

click to expand

I'm never having this evolved vs unevolved convo ever again. Because basically that's an explanation for any negative trait for any sign. Oh they're unevolved. It just defeats the whole point of astrology because we're supposed to get predictability and generalization of each sign by their positive and negative traits.

Posted by UnicornSag

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

click to expand

She sounds crazy. And young. click to expand

yet she's not, just a Scorpio. click to expand

Maybe not young but she is in fact crazy. Lol Scorpio or not. click to expand

hehe that is what i said. But that is a Scorpio trait. You guys are super paranoid. I have experience with Scorpio mars and they come up with the craziest stories in their head based on a few facts. click to expand

This is exactly what Cap told me and when he got distant (2nd one, not the one from previous thread) lol note that I'm Scorp Mars too lol well I apologized and calmed down but deep down I know I was still right lol click to expand

click to expand

I think Scorp mars gets some of the worse demons of the Scorpio sign. I find Scorpio suns much more tame than Scorpio mars especially in men.

Posted by UnicornSag

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by UnicornSag

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

click to expand

She sounds crazy. And young. click to expand

yet she's not, just a Scorpio. click to expand

Maybe not young but she is in fact crazy. Lol Scorpio or not. click to expand

hehe that is what i said. But that is a Scorpio trait. You guys are super paranoid. I have experience with Scorpio mars and they come up with the craziest stories in their head based on a few facts. click to expand

This is exactly what Cap told me and when he got distant (2nd one, not the one from previous thread) lol note that I'm Scorp Mars too lol well I apologized and calmed down but deep down I know I was still right lol click to expand

I think Scorp mars gets some of the worse demons of the Scorpio sign. I find Scorpio suns much more tame than Scorpio mars especially in men. click to expand

Moon is the worst I think...Suns aren't at all like Moons. Well imagine then having Scorp Moon and Mars guy lol that's my dear Virgo, who flipped out for forgetting my phone lol click to expand

click to expand

God bless for dealing with those placements... Just when you think Virgos can't get any worse add some Scorpio placements and voila.

Posted by UnicornSag

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by UnicornSag

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by UnicornSag

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by The_Mad_H8R

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Posted by Gobby

Posted by starlord

Sorry about your bad experiences.

What bad experiences? They're just experiences and nothing more.

You should really be sorry for how pathetic those exes are...
click to expand

Did I offend you? For me I wouldn't like being manipulated, that's all I meant. But yeah sucks for them. click to expand

No offence taken. I just don't understand why some dxpers automatically perceive a 'bad experience' as traumatic. That's rarely ever the case and why life is all about different shades of grey (as opposed to just black and white).

IMO, most 'bad experiences' are character building, enlightening and invaluable, potentially providing a wealth of hindsight and wisdom. In other words, it's necessary to go through such experiences in order to grow.

At least now I have more insight into the mind of a Scorpio and am better equipped to deal with them (much to their horror)...
click to expand

Everything you wrote has been my experience with scorpios as well. Except they are the most paranoid people I've ever met, not caps, caps are cautious in a prove it to me kind of way. Scorpios seem to retard their own development because they are so distrustful of everything. Not saying that everything/one should be trusted, but the way they come off to people sometimes is counter productive. And using their own fears to tear someone down to their level (they are the destroyer of the zodiac for this reason), that just don't work for me. They do make good friends so long as you don't give them a foothold to attempt to control. click to expand

Yeah, I remember one time I was meant to meet-up with one of the exes in the morning. I was a bit excited and found it hard to sleep. As a result, I ended up oversleeping by about an hour.

I contacted her as soon as I could, apologised and made my way to see her. She also wanted me to do her a favour, before meeting-up, but a third party deemed it as no longer necessary, resulting in my lateness being significantly reduced.

While she was waiting for me, she sat and had a tea at a nearby cafe...

Several weeks later, I was constantly accused of deserting her, making her feel abandoned, my lateness being a sign of not being enthusiastic about meeting-up with her... you treetrunking name it. I know part of the problem was due to my reserved nature, while we were together, but she went completely overboard. As for my explanation, it meant nothing as her feelings were more important - not logic or rational reasoning.

Shortly after that, I kicked her ass to the kerb. I don't need that kind of unreasonable drama in my life...
click to expand

Did you tell her why til were late? 'Cause I would have thought that was hella adorable!
But I agree, very paranoid. Maybe scared and uncomfortable when things are good, so gotta make up something bad to keep the mind occupied from the fear.
That and just a general resentment towards being used/manipulated. click to expand

She knew, but I think she was using it as an excuse to dreg up things that didn't go so well between us in the past.

I just didn't like the fact she kept it to herself, for several weeks, and then later vomited all over me with it.
click to expandclick to expandclick to expand

I'll agree to this. I have a Scorpio friend who is dating a Cap guy. His phone was messed up for a whole day because he was trying to update it. After he called and explained the situation she still gave him hell saying things like, "Do you think I'm stupid to believe your phone was messed up all day??"

When she was telling me the story I told her that I think he's telling the truth because I also got the update notification but didn't choose to do it. She says, "I know he is telling the truth". I was like w...t...f... then why all the drama? She told me because next time he will know that she won't just accept anything he says so that he never lies to her and keeps him alert. I was like you're crazy!! lmao.

She laughed. I laughed. But inside I was a little like...

click to expand

She sounds crazy. And young. click to expand

yet she's not, just a Scorpio. click to expand

Maybe not young but she is in fact crazy. Lol Scorpio or not. click to expand

hehe that is what i said. But that is a Scorpio trait. You guys are super paranoid. I have experience with Scorpio mars and they come up with the craziest stories in their head based on a few facts. click to expand

This is exactly what Cap told me and when he got distant (2nd one, not the one from previous thread) lol note that I'm Scorp Mars too lol well I apologized and calmed down but deep down I know I was still right lol click to expand

I think Scorp mars gets some of the worse demons of the Scorpio sign. I find Scorpio suns much more tame than Scorpio mars especially in men. click to expand

Moon is the worst I think...Suns aren't at all like Moons. Well imagine then having Scorp Moon and Mars guy lol that's my dear Virgo, who flipped out for forgetting my phone lol click to expand

God bless for dealing with those placements... Just when you think Virgos can't get any worse add some Scorpio placements and voila. click to expand

Exactly lol who ever says Caps are devils has never seen angry or nagging Virgo/Scorp combo lol if he wasn't as great as he is in his normal state I'd be either crazy or long gone far away by now lol click to expand

click to expand

lol there are two types of evils: 1) evil that will make your life hell because they're too involved aka nagging, fighting, etc 2) evil that will make you feel inadequate because they're detached aka cheating, not giving a fuck etc 🙂

It's clear which are Caps which is definitely lesser of the two evils at least in my book

@unicornsag

yea for me i prefer #2 because at least it doesn't affect my productivity level and my life goals. So even if they fuck up at least your life is still going well. With #1 they fuck with your day-to-day life.

Posted by WittyGem88v2
Step dad is Cappy and Mom is a Scorp. Perfect. Harmonious. Practically romantic. I think its just a matter of meeting the right scorp for the right cappy.

you could say that about any sign "the right" kind. Sure.

This match is a no go.

For Scorpios I'd pick Taurus for earth sign, Cancer for water sign, Aquarius for air sign, and Leo for fire sign.

Hell no!!!

I think it's an electric match when all of the pieces are right. But they're the two darkest and heaviest signs in the zodiac. Sometimes that can make things difficult. It's a match but I think both have easier connections with other complimentary signs (Cancer/Pieces for Cap, Taurus/Virgo for Scorp).

IDK. For some reason I am usually not physically attracted to Caps. I can recognize that they are handsome or pretty and enjoy their company but that.....pull....or magnetism seems to be missing with this group for me.

Maybe more exploring is necessary.