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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...


You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

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No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.

EDIT: Now that I see you're an Aries Sun Pisces moon, I facepalm myself even more as to why someone as stupid as you exist. And I thought you're a damn old soul. I got hurt as well. Do you see me going around whining and calling Virgos/Bulls/Scorps/Libras cheating dogs just because I saw my own classmates cheating? Control your mouth and your mind, it's out of sync and you're looking like an idiot now.


Who gives a fuck about u bruh! Not me! Move along boy. Like I said Caps are dark cheating assholes. You can't change my mind. Don't worry tho you will live.
You gave a fuck by responding 😉

Are you really that impulsive and close minded though, jeez. You sound more disgusting than a dirty sock I found under my bed (which happened once back when I was a kid 😛)
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Still giving a fuck eh? Nice nice, and to say that you don't give a fuck is simply invalid and right now, my dear miss, you're being owned and roasted because you control your emotions worse than an 18 year old Cap.

And you were calling them weak earlier. Who's the tough guy now, tough guy?


You are weak.


So are you. How can the "weak" defeat the "not weak" then otherwise? You have a Pisces moon and so do I, so no excuses there for being any stronger.

Although humans are all weak as an individual, we need to all group up in order to survive. You're not completely wrong there on your statement, I'll give you that.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...


You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*


No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.

EDIT: Now that I see you're an Aries Sun Pisces moon, I facepalm myself even more as to why someone as stupid as you exist. And I thought you're a damn old soul. I got hurt as well. Do you see me going around whining and calling Virgos/Bulls/Scorps/Libras cheating dogs just because I saw my own classmates cheating? Control your mouth and your mind, it's out of sync and you're looking like an idiot now.


Who gives a fuck about u bruh! Not me! Move along boy. Like I said Caps are dark cheating assholes. You can't change my mind. Don't worry tho you will live.
You gave a fuck by responding 😉

Are you really that impulsive and close minded though, jeez. You sound more disgusting than a dirty sock I found under my bed (which happened once back when I was a kid 😛)
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Still giving a fuck eh? Nice nice, and to say that you don't give a fuck is simply invalid and right now, my dear miss, you're being owned and roasted because you control your emotions worse than an 18 year old Cap.

And you were calling them weak earlier. Who's the tough guy now, tough guy?


You are weak.


So are you. How can the "weak" defeat the "not weak" then otherwise? You have a Pisces moon and so do I, so no excuses there for being any stronger.

Although humans are all weak as an individual, we need to all group up in order to survive. You're not completely wrong there on your statement, I'll give you that.
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The "weak" beat the "strong" it seems. I hope your ego's fine after being such a fool in dxp.
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Good thing I don't believe the things strangers say about me. Anyways, you win some you lose some. You'll be fine, you're young.

As for being a fool, stop projecting. I gave my experience and you somehow internalized that and made it about you.

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I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...


You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*


No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.

What is your Sun and Moon anyways?


Aries sun Pisces moon

We both have Pisces Moon. Awesome. So we should be able to understand each other's emotional depths. Also I am a Libra sun so technically, we could be a good match. Shrug.

But seriously. I think I've intuitively sensed Earth Signs to be not an acceptable match for me. Especially Caps and Virgos. Even tho my Virgo Venus and Virgo Juno works against me big time. I end up with people that are not good for me.

It really depends tho. My grandpa is a Cap and my Grandma a Pisces. I think the older generations of Earth signs were better because of the values that were upheld pretty strongly by everyone.
My grandpa was a cap and the shit he did to my fam, my mom still to this day at 30 can't tell me. When I bring it up she gets silent and changes the subject but I already know it's just she can't bring herself to tell me.

But he did damage and I'm so happy he died before I was born. My gma is a Virgo, and while I do love and adore her, I resent her too. I wish I could be closer to her but knowing what she knew and didn't do anything about it makes me look at her funny. I don't hate her tho but I'm a bit salty with her.

Then my first bf was a cap and he scarred me for life. Cheating abusive dog. Super volitale and emotional.

I don't find earth signs emotional or sensitive enough for me. There's a huge barrier and I'm always the one who has to step out my comfort zone.

I never attract people who are good for me tho, I think it's my moon and the house my sun is in. I'm very skeptical of people at this point, but maybe that is the point. To pay close attention.



Well. My Grandpa is nothing like that. To me it sounds like this is a dated curse you are dealing with. One that is experienced in your family every time and every will until the cycle is broken.

My grandpa is your stereotypical good man type. Works hard, does the right thing.
Both my grandpas were assholes. For diff reasons. Hate to say it. My other one was a libra who abandoned his family. The cap was a provider. But he fucked them up emotionally.



It isn't about genetics. Curses like this are more because of behaviors and teachings that get passed down. There is even a subconscious part of this.

Point is. It is fate. You have to learn to recognize the cycle to break it.

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I def thinks it's subconscious. Do you still attract people who aren't good for you?

How do you break such cycle? Is it about energy?
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I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...


You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*


No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.

EDIT: Now that I see you're an Aries Sun Pisces moon, I facepalm myself even more as to why someone as stupid as you exist. And I thought you're a damn old soul. I got hurt as well. Do you see me going around whining and calling Virgos/Bulls/Scorps/Libras cheating dogs just because I saw my own classmates cheating? Control your mouth and your mind, it's out of sync and you're looking like an idiot now.


Who gives a fuck about u bruh! Not me! Move along boy. Like I said Caps are dark cheating assholes. You can't change my mind. Don't worry tho you will live.
You gave a fuck by responding 😉

Are you really that impulsive and close minded though, jeez. You sound more disgusting than a dirty sock I found under my bed (which happened once back when I was a kid 😛)
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Still giving a fuck eh? Nice nice, and to say that you don't give a fuck is simply invalid and right now, my dear miss, you're being owned and roasted because you control your emotions worse than an 18 year old Cap.

And you were calling them weak earlier. Who's the tough guy now, tough guy?


You are weak.


So are you. How can the "weak" defeat the "not weak" then otherwise? You have a Pisces moon and so do I, so no excuses there for being any stronger.

Although humans are all weak as an individual, we need to all group up in order to survive. You're not completely wrong there on your statement, I'll give you that.
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The "weak" beat the "strong" it seems. I hope your ego's fine after being such a fool in dxp.
Good thing I don't believe the things strangers say about me. Anyways, you win some you lose some. You'll be fine, you're young.

As for being a fool, stop projecting. I gave my experience and you somehow internalized that and made it about you.

Chin up pup
I'm defending my clause, since when have I made it personal about me? You started the whole personal thing by saying that I'm weak. Just because I started bashing you about your close-mindedness, doesn't mean I take the whole argument as me being butthurt and insulted by a woman who doesn't know what's she on about?

Come on.
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This was all about you and your ego. And it was never about u.

My stance is still the same, I still feel that same about Caps. So what are you really doing here?

Stop it.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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I might not be doing a good job in showing interest then... I'm trying to show interest by making an effort to ask more questions to show interest in his life. He only ask me questions when I'm not responding. It's not that I'm doing this on purpose just that he is not really inviting conversation.

I'm confuse as he is showing interest when it's face to face. Feels like he is showing interest by being physical like holding hands and kissing me in elevator and his car. But when we are apart I can't feel him showing wanting to connect on emotional level.

I wasn't comfortable with holding hands in public because he was going away for 3 weeks. I don't want to be seen as "his girl" if we never see each other again.

The first week he was away he was telling me he is bored and wish I was there to play with him. I asked you only want me there cos you are bored? He laughed, Then he said I should join him on his vacation. We only met 3 times, I take that as a joke, if it was real invitation it's probably more to do with sex...


You're expecting too much from a cap. He moves very slow. He'll start to open up to you more when he feels comfortable and sees you doing it first.

I personally think you're trying to control your relationship with him too much. It doesn't have a natural flow and that's going to end up in a breakup. Just have fun and stop thinking so much.



And that's the main reason for a significant proportion of failed relationships with Cap men...

*smh*


No its not. It's because caps are dark, cheating, negative dogs. Who can't emote to save their lives. Weak.
What the hell are you smoking? Caps cheating? Please, cheating isn't restricted to zodiac signs, it happens for EVERY SIGN.
Duh! What you said further validates my statement. Caps are cheating dogs. What are you smoking?!
So is your sign. So are everybody else's. Are you saying that you're a cheating dog now? Are you saying that everyone posting in here is a cheating dog now?

Ignorance disgusts me.

EDIT: Now that I see you're an Aries Sun Pisces moon, I facepalm myself even more as to why someone as stupid as you exist. And I thought you're a damn old soul. I got hurt as well. Do you see me going around whining and calling Virgos/Bulls/Scorps/Libras cheating dogs just because I saw my own classmates cheating? Control your mouth and your mind, it's out of sync and you're looking like an idiot now.


Who gives a fuck about u bruh! Not me! Move along boy. Like I said Caps are dark cheating assholes. You can't change my mind. Don't worry tho you will live.
You gave a fuck by responding 😉

Are you really that impulsive and close minded though, jeez. You sound more disgusting than a dirty sock I found under my bed (which happened once back when I was a kid 😛)
Awesome
Still giving a fuck eh? Nice nice, and to say that you don't give a fuck is simply invalid and right now, my dear miss, you're being owned and roasted because you control your emotions worse than an 18 year old Cap.

And you were calling them weak earlier. Who's the tough guy now, tough guy?


You are weak.


So are you. How can the "weak" defeat the "not weak" then otherwise? You have a Pisces moon and so do I, so no excuses there for being any stronger.

Although humans are all weak as an individual, we need to all group up in order to survive. You're not completely wrong there on your statement, I'll give you that.
Cool
The "weak" beat the "strong" it seems. I hope your ego's fine after being such a fool in dxp.
Good thing I don't believe the things strangers say about me. Anyways, you win some you lose some. You'll be fine, you're young.

As for being a fool, stop projecting. I gave my experience and you somehow internalized that and made it about you.

Chin up pup
I'm defending my clause, since when have I made it personal about me? You started the whole personal thing by saying that I'm weak. Just because I started bashing you about your close-mindedness, doesn't mean I take the whole argument as me being butthurt and insulted by a woman who doesn't know what's she on about?

Come on.
This was all about you and your ego. And it was never about u.

My stance is still the same, I still feel that same about Caps. So what are you really doing here?

Stop it.
Quit smoking weed for half an hour and come back to this thread, I cannot possibly hope to converse with you without facepalming.

It was all about me and never about me? What?

My point thus far is that cheaters appear in all signs, not just Caps, and you're being incredibly narrow minded and ignorant on your statement.

How can you even bring my ego into this to begin with. You got countered and butthurt so now you're blaming me on my ego and making it the scapegoat?
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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@wonderwoman14 I'm 2 years younger than you and he is 12 years older than I
So he's not a young guy then. I find older caps much more appealing and tend to have their heads screwed on. Best of luck
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Not young but he looks young that's why I gave him a chance. But being french and with 70% female friends on Instagram and with photos tagged by them tells me it's a waving red flag. He never talked about his female friends. He only tells me about him and "his boys" who knows if he was telling the truth.

Also I feel like he is playing games now. Still no text. I feel like unfollowing him already
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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Ewwwwww, I swear the older some cap men get, the creepier they get



Follow your heart fellow Virgo... He just want ya cookie... I felt a vibe just reading it


Alright he is still following me and liking eveything. Should I block him? Or just ignore him? Or confront him the next time he reach out?

Ignore. Or do whatever you would normally do.

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Ignore is what I normally do. But I'm really tempted to call him out
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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Ewwwwww, I swear the older some cap men get, the creepier they get



Follow your heart fellow Virgo... He just want ya cookie... I felt a vibe just reading it


Alright he is still following me and liking eveything. Should I block him? Or just ignore him? Or confront him the next time he reach out?
Block

You should of from day 3 of him telling you all these sexual things

Don't confront him, for what.. Move on with someone who makes you feel comfortable

Idk how old you are but he sounds like a creep.
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Sorry when did he tell me sexual things?
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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is this how earthies date? sounds like trying to pass a test
I'm thinking the same, just all bad

That's why I just run from earth signs
Are you scared of not passing? Haha
No it's just not sexy to me.. Major turn off


If you think earth way is a test. Try dating a Scorpio lol
My boyfriend is a Scorpio
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He never test you? Scorpios are notorious for untrusting and put people to test
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is this how earthies date? sounds like trying to pass a test
I'm thinking the same, just all bad

That's why I just run from earth signs
Are you scared of not passing? Haha
No it's just not sexy to me.. Major turn off


If you think earth way is a test. Try dating a Scorpio lol
My boyfriend is a Scorpio
He never test you? Scorpios are notorious for untrusting and put people to test
Nope.... I see him do it to others thou

I can't even get past first base with earth signs ??

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So earth test are more hardcore than Scorpio test? That's a compliment!!
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Yep if he asked to meet I would have let him to hold my hands. He gave up too early. Also last time we were out i did kiss him in elevator and car.

No offense of not knowing what to respond. He could have explain it's a guy or just a friend. Also could have sat how he feels to be back as I asked.

Isn't that what communication is for? If I don't get what others are texting I always ask what do you mean?

Yea he gave me chcoocoate before he leaves probably as a bribe. He admitted to looking me up in Instagram before and then asked me what it is I told him and he followed before he left.

Capri I didn't think you wrrr thinking he only want sex before. What made you change your mind?
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Yep if he asked to meet I would have let him to hold my hands. He gave up too early. Also last time we were out i did kiss him in elevator and car.

No offense of not knowing what to respond. He could have explain it's a guy or just a friend. Also could have sat how he feels to be back as I asked.

Isn't that what communication is for? If I don't get what others are texting I always ask what do you mean?

Yea he gave me chcoocoate before he leaves probably as a bribe. He admitted to looking me up in Instagram before and then asked me what it is I told him and he followed before he left.

Capri I didn't think you wrrr thinking he only want sex before. What made you change your mind?
You're post about him asking you what you had on. Anytime a guy asks me that I leave him alone because that's not what I'm looking for or interested in. Any comments along those lines really.

As it relates to how does it feel to be back, questions like that irritate me tbh. So I would just not reply or you would get a message with nothing but attitude in my response.
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Would that make any difference if the text was at 3pm? He asked me how my week was and that he was helping a friend to move house at that moment. Then he asked if I have anything exciting on my agenda.

It was his last sentence made me text him the next day. It's was my gut feeling.
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She's not a man.

The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.

He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕

Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....

Just a thought...

If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.

I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.
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@wonderwoman14 I'm 2 years younger than you and he is 12 years older than I
So he's not a young guy then. I find older caps much more appealing and tend to have their heads screwed on. Best of luck
Not young but he looks young that's why I gave him a chance. But being french and with 70% female friends on Instagram and with photos tagged by them tells me it's a waving red flag. He never talked about his female friends. He only tells me about him and "his boys" who knows if he was telling the truth.

Also I feel like he is playing games now. Still no text. I feel like unfollowing him already
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In my experience caps are very honest, especially the more mature cap, infact bluntly honest sometimes.

I wouldn't read too much into the Instagram photos etc I mean if he was hiding something he wouldn't want you knowing his Insta account. I have a lot of make friends/aquaintances because I'm a big football (soccer)

fan but it doesn't mean I fancy them.

I wouldn't be so hasty, it looks a bit childish if you unfollow him. If it's bothering you that much just send him a text, it might be he's testing to see how interested you are because you have played it pretty cool in my opinion. I would personally send one saying something along the lines of "hey I've not heard off you, is everything ok" if you don't hear back or you think he comes back with some lame text then move on.
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@wonderwoman14 my boss is also a cappy and he is only 5 years older. I swear he is the most charming guy. He is gentle but assertive. He is also really cool and supportive. Oh very athletic too!
My guy is 5 years older than me. How you described your boss is how my guys employees would describe him. He treats everyone the same it doesn't matter who you are.
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Idk, stuff like that is over my head. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I'm not into the whole chase & everything else. Either we want to be together or we don't. If we do, then we work towards that. If we don't then we leave each other alone.

So maybe someone else has more to offer you in that aspect.

That's why I say everything sounds like games. *shrug* or like you are unsure of what you want.

Plus this is also why I say communication between these 2 signs are difficult. Sometimes I think virgos are more uptight than capricorns.
My best guy friend is a cap. He annoys me a lot. When I need him to be serious he often give me rubbish advise. And when I'm joking he would be serious. However we are friends cos we have the same kind of humor and we ALWAYS have each other's back.

My boss is cap we have lots of unposted understanding. Zero communication problem. If he wasn't my boss we could be really good friends in real life.

Oh well if he wants to he can talk to me. After all I sent my last text. I must admit when I was distancing I was trying to get my ex back.
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@wonderwoman14 my boss is also a cappy and he is only 5 years older. I swear he is the most charming guy. He is gentle but assertive. He is also really cool and supportive. Oh very athletic too!
My guy is 5 issues older than me. How you described your boss is how my guys employees would describe him. He treats everyone the same it doesn't matter who you are.
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He is super cool. I wish I can meet someone like him
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@wonderwoman14 my boss is also a cappy and he is only 5 years older. I swear he is the most charming guy. He is gentle but assertive. He is also really cool and supportive. Oh very athletic too!
My guy is 5 issues older than me. How you described your boss is how my guys employees would describe him. He treats everyone the same it doesn't matter who you are.
He is super cool. I wish I can meet someone like him
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On an intimate level I think caps are often misunderstood. They are very very slow to open up and it takes time and patience. So if they do for you then you know they value you.

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Idk, stuff like that is over my head. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I'm not into the whole chase & everything else. Either we want to be together or we don't. If we do, then we work towards that. If we don't then we leave each other alone.

So maybe someone else has more to offer you in that aspect.

That's why I say everything sounds like games. *shrug* or like you are unsure of what you want.

Plus this is also why I say communication between these 2 signs are difficult. Sometimes I think virgos are more uptight than capricorns.
This is why I love caps you say what you mean and you mean what you say. I hate mind games.
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@wonderwoman14 my boss is also a cappy and he is only 5 years older. I swear he is the most charming guy. He is gentle but assertive. He is also really cool and supportive. Oh very athletic too!
My guy is 5 issues older than me. How you described your boss is how my guys employees would describe him. He treats everyone the same it doesn't matter who you are.
He is super cool. I wish I can meet someone like him
On an intimate level I think caps are often misunderstood. They are very very slow to open up and it takes time and patience. So if they do for you then you know they value you.

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The cap opens in person. My boss is awesome. He just gets me and we have lots of common interest. We laugh and people are like wtf? Webjsut get each other's unspoken jokes.
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Text him today to thank him for the chocolate and let him know I really liked it.

He was posting stories but not talking to me. Few hours later he wrote me long text. But he didn't use my name pretty much what I was doing to him before.

He said you are very welcome. He told me he is now going to a concert with "a friend" then asked how am I coping with the weather as he is not coping well at all.

Then I responded and our respond were pretty quick. I then said this weekend will be great for cinemas. . He agree then I asked him for recommendation. He asked if it's for cinema or DVD. I said cinema. Then he hasn't replied.

Doesn't look like he still want it. I'm done
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Great idea to be done.
When he says a friend I just assume it's a woman. Or else he could have said my boys. Anyway at least we now find out he is the one playing games, not me



He's not playing games. If he was honest with you. That is on you to assume whatever it is that you'd like to assume.

You 2 don't sound like a good fit together so however you want to wrap it is totally upon you.

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He is 12 years older probably not a good start anyway
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Text him today to thank him for the chocolate and let him know I really liked it.

He was posting stories but not talking to me. Few hours later he wrote me long text. But he didn't use my name pretty much what I was doing to him before.

He said you are very welcome. He told me he is now going to a concert with "a friend" then asked how am I coping with the weather as he is not coping well at all.

Then I responded and our respond were pretty quick. I then said this weekend will be great for cinemas. . He agree then I asked him for recommendation. He asked if it's for cinema or DVD. I said cinema. Then he hasn't replied.

Doesn't look like he still want it. I'm done
First of all I notice this with my friends but it appears following guys you date on social media causes problems for example paranoia,over thinning and over analysing things. Just an observation lol

Look at the positives A) he sent you a long text (that in itself is an effort for a guy) lol B) he asked you questions which means he's interested in having a conversation with you, caps generally aren't into small talk.

You are assuming that because he hasn't replied to your last text it's because he'd nut interested but didn't he mention earlier that he was of to a concert with a friend? that's probably why.

I get the impression you are constantly looking at it negatively.

What's your sun, moon and Venus?
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Text him today to thank him for the chocolate and let him know I really liked it.

He was posting stories but not talking to me. Few hours later he wrote me long text. But he didn't use my name pretty much what I was doing to him before.

He said you are very welcome. He told me he is now going to a concert with "a friend" then asked how am I coping with the weather as he is not coping well at all.

Then I responded and our respond were pretty quick. I then said this weekend will be great for cinemas. . He agree then I asked him for recommendation. He asked if it's for cinema or DVD. I said cinema. Then he hasn't replied.

Doesn't look like he still want it. I'm done
First of all I notice this with my friends but it appears following guys you date on social media causes problems for example paranoia,over thinning and over analysing things. Just an observation lol

Look at the positives A) he sent you a long text (that in itself is an effort for a guy) lol B) he asked you questions which means he's interested in having a conversation with you, caps generally aren't into small talk.

You are assuming that because he hasn't replied to your last text it's because he'd nut interested but didn't he mention earlier that he was of to a concert with a friend? that's probably why.

I get the impression you are constantly looking at it negatively.

What's your sun, moon and Venus?
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Yea I didn't ask for any of his social media. He asked for mine. I should have said no lol

Yea I think you are right on both point A and B. I was thinking ok I text him to say thanks then I said I should go watch movie on weekend. So I feel like I'm driving a green truck in front of hi but he didn't take the chance to say let's go to cinema!

Yep he's probably at the concert that's why he didn't reply.

This is our placement.

Virgo sun, Aqua moon, Virgo mercury, Leo Venus and mars

Cap sun, Taurus moon, sag mercury, scorpion Venus and mars.
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@sakuraflowers @gabz @wonderwoman14 @capri-sun

Text him today to thank him for the chocolate and let him know I really liked it.

He was posting stories but not talking to me. Few hours later he wrote me long text. But he didn't use my name pretty much what I was doing to him before.

He said you are very welcome. He told me he is now going to a concert with "a friend" then asked how am I coping with the weather as he is not coping well at all.

Then I responded and our respond were pretty quick. I then said this weekend will be great for cinemas. . He agree then I asked him for recommendation. He asked if it's for cinema or DVD. I said cinema. Then he hasn't replied.

Doesn't look like he still want it. I'm done
First of all I notice this with my friends but it appears following guys you date on social media causes problems for example paranoia,over thinning and over analysing things. Just an observation lol

Look at the positives A) he sent you a long text (that in itself is an effort for a guy) lol B) he asked you questions which means he's interested in having a conversation with you, caps generally aren't into small talk.

You are assuming that because he hasn't replied to your last text it's because he'd nut interested but didn't he mention earlier that he was of to a concert with a friend? that's probably why.

I get the impression you are constantly looking at it negatively.

What's your sun, moon and Venus?

Yea I didn't ask for any of his social media. He asked for mine. I should have said no lol

Yea I think you are right on both point A and B. I was thinking ok I text him to say thanks then I said I should go watch movie on weekend. So I feel like I'm driving a green truck in front of hi but he didn't take the chance to say let's go to cinema!

Yep he's probably at the concert that's why he didn't reply.

This is our placement.

Virgo sun, Aqua moon, Virgo mercury, Leo Venus and mars

Cap sun, Taurus moon, sag mercury, scorpion Venus and mars.

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I'm not really competent enough to give an opinion on compatibility as I'm new to astrology. I was asking out of curiosity but maybe someone else on here can help with that.

I'm not sure if you area allowing your insecurities to get the better of you or if you just expect a guy to come I and sweep you off your feet and make all the effort. In that case I don't think cap guys are for you.