StrawberryJam
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Is this capricorn stringing me along? (Page 3)
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Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by StrawberryJamI'm not really competent enough to give an opinion on compatibility as I'm new to astrology. I was asking out of curiosity but maybe someone else on here can help with that.Posted by WonderWoman14Posted by StrawberryJamFirst of all I notice this with my friends but it appears following guys you date on social media causes problems for example paranoia,over thinning and over analysing things. Just an observation lol
@sakuraflowers @gabz @wonderwoman14 @capri-sun
Text him today to thank him for the chocolate and let him know I really liked it.
He was posting stories but not talking to me. Few hours later he wrote me long text. But he didn't use my name pretty much what I was doing to him before.
He said you are very welcome. He told me he is now going to a concert with "a friend" then asked how am I coping with the weather as he is not coping well at all.
Then I responded and our respond were pretty quick. I then said this weekend will be great for cinemas. . He agree then I asked him for recommendation. He asked if it's for cinema or DVD. I said cinema. Then he hasn't replied.
Doesn't look like he still want it. I'm done
Look at the positives A) he sent you a long text (that in itself is an effort for a guy) lol B) he asked you questions which means he's interested in having a conversation with you, caps generally aren't into small talk.
You are assuming that because he hasn't replied to your last text it's because he'd nut interested but didn't he mention earlier that he was of to a concert with a friend? that's probably why.
I get the impression you are constantly looking at it negatively.
What's your sun, moon and Venus?
Yea I didn't ask for any of his social media. He asked for mine. I should have said no lol
Yea I think you are right on both point A and B. I was thinking ok I text him to say thanks then I said I should go watch movie on weekend. So I feel like I'm driving a green truck in front of hi but he didn't take the chance to say let's go to cinema!
Yep he's probably at the concert that's why he didn't reply.
This is our placement.
Virgo sun, Aqua moon, Virgo mercury, Leo Venus and mars
Cap sun, Taurus moon, sag mercury, scorpion Venus and mars.
I'm not sure if you area allowing your insecurities to get the better of you or if you just expect a guy to come I and sweep you off your feet and make all the effort. In that case I don't think cap guys are for you.
From my own experience guys do a runner as soon as you reciprocate interest. May be I just had bad luck. Anyway now I'm giving him a string of green lights. He is posting stories while he's at concert will see if he ask me out for he weekend. If not I will be honest with him and tell him we are better off as penpals
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Then I think you're bad experiences have sent your reactions to the other end of the spectrum ib showing little interest!! You may think you are but clearly you have your guard up.
Is posting stories, live videos on Instagram? Then he's just videoing the concert?
I'm not saying that this guy isn't what you are assuming him to be, I know nothing about him. I'm just viewing the situation from what you've said.
Honesty is always the best policy. Clearly he's not meeting your needs so it's probably for the best tbh.
@wonderwoman14 you could be right about the guard up thing.
Yep he is recording the concert and posting it there for people to see.
Well it's been a month since I saw him. If he is sincere about getting to know each other he would have asked me out last week when hebis back in town.
We can give him the benefit of the doubt of me being perceived as uninterested. I reached out today and been giving him hints. If he really wants to keep getting to know me he needs to ask me out this weekend. Or on vday. If not I'm not anyone's option. I will just have to cut him out. He has one more day to ask
Yep he is recording the concert and posting it there for people to see.
Well it's been a month since I saw him. If he is sincere about getting to know each other he would have asked me out last week when hebis back in town.
We can give him the benefit of the doubt of me being perceived as uninterested. I reached out today and been giving him hints. If he really wants to keep getting to know me he needs to ask me out this weekend. Or on vday. If not I'm not anyone's option. I will just have to cut him out. He has one more day to ask
Posted by StrawberryJamWell I don't understand why streaming the concert is an issue?
@wonderwoman14 you could be right about the guard up thing.
Yep he is recording the concert and posting it there for people to see.
Well it's been a month since I saw him. If he is sincere about getting to know each other he would have asked me out last week when hebis back in town.
We can give him the benefit of the doubt of me being perceived as uninterested. I reached out today and been giving him hints. If he really wants to keep getting to know me he needs to ask me out this weekend. Or on vday. If not I'm not anyone's option. I will just have to cut him out. He has one more day to ask
I'm not sure of the distance between you guys?! Maybe he was just after fun and sex it's hard to tell without knowing the guy. I wouldn't hold your hopes up about Valentine's either, every cap I know think it's one big commercial money spinner. It's just another day in the week to them.
@Capri-sun @wonderwoman14
I think I tried those placement but they didn't work out. May be better luck next time.
He is now playing games. He suggested what movies are good. Then I asked if he's seen them. He responded no I haven't 😉
The wink suggested he wants me to ask him
I think I tried those placement but they didn't work out. May be better luck next time.
He is now playing games. He suggested what movies are good. Then I asked if he's seen them. He responded no I haven't 😉
The wink suggested he wants me to ask him
Blocked him on the site that we met. Unfollowed him on Instagram. He is too much work. I can't believe man at his age is still playing this much games
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by sakuraflowersPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by sakuraflowersPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by sakuraflowersPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by Capri-sunoops I didn't read her profile. My first glance was black and white photo and for some reason I thought it was a guy >
She's not a man.
The girl's feelings saying you don't understand him...I might take a stab at it.
He was spending time with you before he left, you seem uninterested, detached, aloof, hesitant, pull away when he tries to hold your hand (all of which nothing is wrong with) so why should he want to see you after 3 weeks of being away again? 😕
Oh yeah, because if he's keen on you, he will want to see you even though it's like chasing someone...who possibly isn't interested so she can keep turning me down and being detached, aloof, hesitant, and pull away....
Just a thought...
If I was behaving the way you were, it would be because I'm not interested.
I understanding taking your time to get to know someone & being cautious & not wanting to be used for sex. There's a difference in holding hands, etc. Why not just say it made you feel uncomfortable or you weren't ready for that yet instead of just pulling away? Why not just tell him you'd like to take your time in getting to know each other first. Anytime he makes moves or advances, slow him down rather than just dodge him & then wonder why he's backing off & showing less interest & initiative.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamWow that's drastic. I don't think I've ever blocked anyone lol
Blocked him on the site that we met. Unfollowed him on Instagram. He is too much work. I can't believe man at his age is still playing this much games
Wish you better luck in the future
Posted by WonderWoman14I often have to block ppl as some of them can get really rude if you don't respond to them.Posted by StrawberryJamWow that's drastic. I don't think I've ever blocked anyone lol
Blocked him on the site that we met. Unfollowed him on Instagram. He is too much work. I can't believe man at his age is still playing this much games
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Anyway he wouldn't notice I have block him unless he is going through old meaaages.
He is still liking everything and always almost the first to view new stories I post.
He probably is curious and likes female attention or he has someone but he is not sure how things will work out therefore he wants to "keep in touch" with me. They say Capricorn is dark... or could be his scorp Venus and mars...
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14I often have to block ppl as some of them can get really rude if you don't respond to them.Posted by StrawberryJamWow that's drastic. I don't think I've ever blocked anyone lol
Blocked him on the site that we met. Unfollowed him on Instagram. He is too much work. I can't believe man at his age is still playing this much games
Wish you better luck in the future
Anyway he wouldn't notice I have block him unless he is going through old meaaages.
He is still liking everything and always almost the first to view new stories I post.
He probably is curious and likes female attention or he has someone but he is not sure how things will work out therefore he wants to "keep in touch" with me. They say Capricorn is dark... or could be his scorp Venus and mars...click to expand
Argh right ok. I don't add anyone to my social media that I'm just dating.
If you blocked him surely he can't see your stuff. Otherwise what's the point.
You're trying to read his mind again based on your own theory ?
Posted by WonderWoman14Yea I don't usually do that. He caught me off guard when he asked my username so he just followed I didn't have o approve.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14I often have to block ppl as some of them can get really rude if you don't respond to them.Posted by StrawberryJamWow that's drastic. I don't think I've ever blocked anyone lol
Blocked him on the site that we met. Unfollowed him on Instagram. He is too much work. I can't believe man at his age is still playing this much games
Wish you better luck in the future
Anyway he wouldn't notice I have block him unless he is going through old meaaages.
He is still liking everything and always almost the first to view new stories I post.
He probably is curious and likes female attention or he has someone but he is not sure how things will work out therefore he wants to "keep in touch" with me. They say Capricorn is dark... or could be his scorp Venus and mars...
Argh right ok. I don't add anyone to my social media that I'm just dating.
If you blocked him surely he can't see your stuff. Otherwise what's the point.
You're trying to read his mind again based on your own theory ?
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@wonderwoman14 @capri-sun
Guess what? He actually tried to reach out to me 3 days before Valentine's Day. He was asking questions about a story I posted.
I don't check the message in app often I only just saw his now.
So I responded and let him know I only just saw this and he has number why didn't he text? Then I responded to his original question.
What was he thinking? ?
Guess what? He actually tried to reach out to me 3 days before Valentine's Day. He was asking questions about a story I posted.
I don't check the message in app often I only just saw his now.
So I responded and let him know I only just saw this and he has number why didn't he text? Then I responded to his original question.
What was he thinking? ?
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
Posted by StrawberryJamI personally would have just replied To the message and not mentioned that you'd only just seen it and I wouldn't have asked why he hadn't text either.
@wonderwoman14 @capri-sun
Guess what? He actually tried to reach out to me 3 days before Valentine's Day. He was asking questions about a story I posted.
I don't check the message in app often I only just saw his now.
So I responded and let him know I only just saw this and he has number why didn't he text? Then I responded to his original question.
What was he thinking? ?
He's probably noticed you had gone off radar and was testing the water.
Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamIf I felt like I was being mugged off I'd have kept quiet tbh and ignored his message.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.click to expand
I don't know why you are still drawn to him? he frustrates the hell out of you.
Posted by WonderWoman14I be honest o wasn't into him but now with some distance I started to like him. Or I'm just confused.Posted by StrawberryJamIf I felt like I was being mugged off I'd have kept quiet tbh and ignored his message.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
I don't know why you are still drawn to him? he frustrates the hell out of you.click to expand
Also when I asked why didn't he text I meant why he message trough the app and if he sent a text instead i wouldn't have missed it. There's a chance he would interpret it the way you did may be not
Posted by StrawberryJamI think you are a little confused or you just want this gut to be something he's not. Either way it shouldn't be this difficult so I'd leave him be because this just has FRUSTRATION written all over it.Posted by WonderWoman14I be honest o wasn't into him but now with some distance I started to like him. Or I'm just confused.Posted by StrawberryJamIf I felt like I was being mugged off I'd have kept quiet tbh and ignored his message.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
I don't know why you are still drawn to him? he frustrates the hell out of you.
Also when I asked why didn't he text I meant why he message trough the app and if he sent a text instead i wouldn't have missed it. There's a chance he would interpret it the way you did may be notclick to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14Yes I'm annoyed by how the table turned I was plotting exit strategy while on third date with him.Posted by StrawberryJamI think you are a little confused or you just want this gut to be something he's not. Either way it shouldn't be this difficult so I'd leave him be because this just has FRUSTRATION written all over it.Posted by WonderWoman14I be honest o wasn't into him but now with some distance I started to like him. Or I'm just confused.Posted by StrawberryJamIf I felt like I was being mugged off I'd have kept quiet tbh and ignored his message.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
I don't know why you are still drawn to him? he frustrates the hell out of you.
Also when I asked why didn't he text I meant why he message trough the app and if he sent a text instead i wouldn't have missed it. There's a chance he would interpret it the way you did may be notclick to expand
I never initiated contact except last week to finally thank him for the chocolate. I'm frustrated how he turn things around. I know he still likes me but he is doing what I did to him before
Ok I partially read the thread , and from what I've seen you sound a lot like me when I started seeing this current cap.
Things I've learned:
1. Don't get frustrated
I know we want guys to be there giving us attention and all, but caps are a bit different in this case. They will text you, sometimes occasionally.. but if they still text you to check on you they are interested.
2. I used to think too much about what I text him, I'd think and ask other people about what should I say so he can see me, or see I'm interested but the best way to show them you are interested is by replying to them, be yourself (Always), and don't pressure them. They will slowly open up to you if that's what they want.
3. Stop thinking about it. Do you!, just be like they don't exist and they will come around. Sometimes I send him videos showing him what I'm doing and lately he's been sharing too.
4. Patience.
How long have you been seeing him? and have you been intimate yet? (I think I read that somewhere )
Things I've learned:
1. Don't get frustrated
I know we want guys to be there giving us attention and all, but caps are a bit different in this case. They will text you, sometimes occasionally.. but if they still text you to check on you they are interested.
2. I used to think too much about what I text him, I'd think and ask other people about what should I say so he can see me, or see I'm interested but the best way to show them you are interested is by replying to them, be yourself (Always), and don't pressure them. They will slowly open up to you if that's what they want.
3. Stop thinking about it. Do you!, just be like they don't exist and they will come around. Sometimes I send him videos showing him what I'm doing and lately he's been sharing too.
4. Patience.
How long have you been seeing him? and have you been intimate yet? (I think I read that somewhere )
Posted by StrawberryJamYou think too much and over analyse everything. You're constantly trying to 2nd guess instead of just chilling and letting it flow.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamSo he's mirroring your behaviour and now you're pissed?!Posted by WonderWoman14Yes I'm annoyed by how the table turned I was plotting exit strategy while on third date with him.Posted by StrawberryJamI think you are a little confused or you just want this gut to be something he's not. Either way it shouldn't be this difficult so I'd leave him be because this just has FRUSTRATION written all over it.Posted by WonderWoman14I be honest o wasn't into him but now with some distance I started to like him. Or I'm just confused.Posted by StrawberryJamIf I felt like I was being mugged off I'd have kept quiet tbh and ignored his message.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
I don't know why you are still drawn to him? he frustrates the hell out of you.
Also when I asked why didn't he text I meant why he message trough the app and if he sent a text instead i wouldn't have missed it. There's a chance he would interpret it the way you did may be not
I never initiated contact except last week to finally thank him for the chocolate. I'm frustrated how he turn things around. I know he still likes me but he is doing what I did to him beforeclick to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14I was cold but never ignored any questions of him. He is taking it to a new level. Yes I'm pissed cos he is playing games. I'm considering sending him a text then block him on all channelPosted by StrawberryJamSo he's mirroring your behaviour and now you're pissed?!Posted by WonderWoman14Yes I'm annoyed by how the table turned I was plotting exit strategy while on third date with him.Posted by StrawberryJamI think you are a little confused or you just want this gut to be something he's not. Either way it shouldn't be this difficult so I'd leave him be because this just has FRUSTRATION written all over it.Posted by WonderWoman14I be honest o wasn't into him but now with some distance I started to like him. Or I'm just confused.Posted by StrawberryJamIf I felt like I was being mugged off I'd have kept quiet tbh and ignored his message.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
I don't know why you are still drawn to him? he frustrates the hell out of you.
Also when I asked why didn't he text I meant why he message trough the app and if he sent a text instead i wouldn't have missed it. There's a chance he would interpret it the way you did may be not
I never initiated contact except last week to finally thank him for the chocolate. I'm frustrated how he turn things around. I know he still likes me but he is doing what I did to him before
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I thought you had already blocked him? If I was you I would just delete his number and get on with your life.
Posted by WonderWoman14Already deleting his number and blocked him on the website we met. I haven't blocked him on Instagram yet
I thought you had already blocked him? If I was you I would just delete his number and get on with your life.
Posted by StrawberryJamWhy not?Posted by WonderWoman14Already deleting his number and blocked him on the website we met. I haven't blocked him on Instagram yet
I thought you had already blocked him? If I was you I would just delete his number and get on with your life.click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14Cos he is useful. He is a loyal liker of every post.Posted by StrawberryJamWhy not?Posted by WonderWoman14Already deleting his number and blocked him on the website we met. I haven't blocked him on Instagram yet
I thought you had already blocked him? If I was you I would just delete his number and get on with your life.click to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14Cos he is useful. He is a loyal liker of every post.Posted by StrawberryJamWhy not?Posted by WonderWoman14Already deleting his number and blocked him on the website we met. I haven't blocked him on Instagram yet
I thought you had already blocked him? If I was you I would just delete his number and get on with your life.click to expand
Wtf?! Why would you give a shit if he likes your posts?I'm sorry but I really don't understand you.
Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by WonderWoman14Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14Cos he is useful. He is a loyal liker of every post.Posted by StrawberryJamWhy not?Posted by WonderWoman14Already deleting his number and blocked him on the website we met. I haven't blocked him on Instagram yet
I thought you had already blocked him? If I was you I would just delete his number and get on with your life.
Wtf?! Why would you give a shit if he likes your posts?I'm sorry but I really don't understand you.
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Posted by WonderWoman14It's for the algorithm to reach to more people as my page is not for my personal photosPosted by StrawberryJamPosted by WonderWoman14Cos he is useful. He is a loyal liker of every post.Posted by StrawberryJamWhy not?Posted by WonderWoman14Already deleting his number and blocked him on the website we met. I haven't blocked him on Instagram yet
I thought you had already blocked him? If I was you I would just delete his number and get on with your life.
Wtf?! Why would you give a shit if he likes your posts?I'm sorry but I really don't understand you.
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Anyway he is now blocked. He will probably notice as he can't see photos anymore but mesaages would still appear it's going through.
I don't need his manipulation. Liking everything is his way to keep him on my mind while he slut around. If he wants to make it righ he can text and make a plan.
This video is great explain why he text but ignore your respond
I'm a Cap man who had a breakup with an awesome Virgo last year, I love my virgo girls, virgo/libra cusps are better,
with that said I just blocked an Aires Pisces cusp for basically the same things you did when this thread started.. The girl, like you didn't act interested enough for me, there was nothing sensual about her or warm, a lot of physical nervousness from her, here's the thing, and I'll give you some insight, you thought he was after sex, let me explain, if a guy wants to be close yo you, and near you and with you, it isn't always about sex, more than likely it's about physical touch or straight up presence and being physically close. Remember, we're earth signs, we bond in person.
Now, I didn't string this girl along, I told her on week 2 it wasn't going to work.. she felt too distant and cold for me.
She got mad and I gave her a second chance, then she told me she didn't think it would work, and I thought oh man good riddance, and blocked her across the board..
What my feelings were, as a cap man is that the girl was not interested at all, maybe speed dating or looking for a friend, who knows. I can tell you though, this is what you made him feel, he should have told you straight away though, what I told this girl, and that's that he just wanted to be with you and it had nothing to do with sex. But, I don't think you would have believed that. Try to show affection when dating the next guy, if you like him, and you won't have to wonder what he's thinking..
with that said I just blocked an Aires Pisces cusp for basically the same things you did when this thread started.. The girl, like you didn't act interested enough for me, there was nothing sensual about her or warm, a lot of physical nervousness from her, here's the thing, and I'll give you some insight, you thought he was after sex, let me explain, if a guy wants to be close yo you, and near you and with you, it isn't always about sex, more than likely it's about physical touch or straight up presence and being physically close. Remember, we're earth signs, we bond in person.
Now, I didn't string this girl along, I told her on week 2 it wasn't going to work.. she felt too distant and cold for me.
She got mad and I gave her a second chance, then she told me she didn't think it would work, and I thought oh man good riddance, and blocked her across the board..
What my feelings were, as a cap man is that the girl was not interested at all, maybe speed dating or looking for a friend, who knows. I can tell you though, this is what you made him feel, he should have told you straight away though, what I told this girl, and that's that he just wanted to be with you and it had nothing to do with sex. But, I don't think you would have believed that. Try to show affection when dating the next guy, if you like him, and you won't have to wonder what he's thinking..
Posted by DannyMCguess what? I'm Virgo libra cusp. I thought I showed enough affection like holding his hand while looking into his eyes at the restaurant. Then kissing him in elevator but stop when ppl comes in.
I'm a Cap man who had a breakup with an awesome Virgo last year, I love my virgo girls, virgo/libra cusps are better,
with that said I just blocked an Aires Pisces cusp for basically the same things you did when this thread started.. The girl, like you didn't act interested enough for me, there was nothing sensual about her or warm, a lot of physical nervousness from her, here's the thing, and I'll give you some insight, you thought he was after sex, let me explain, if a guy wants to be close yo you, and near you and with you, it isn't always about sex, more than likely it's about physical touch or straight up presence and being physically close. Remember, we're earth signs, we bond in person.
Now, I didn't string this girl along, I told her on week 2 it wasn't going to work.. she felt too distant and cold for me.
She got mad and I gave her a second chance, then she told me she didn't think it would work, and I thought oh man good riddance, and blocked her across the board..
What my feelings were, as a cap man is that the girl was not interested at all, maybe speed dating or looking for a friend, who knows. I can tell you though, this is what you made him feel, he should have told you straight away though, what I told this girl, and that's that he just wanted to be with you and it had nothing to do with sex. But, I don't think you would have believed that. Try to show affection when dating the next guy, if you like him, and you won't have to wonder what he's thinking..
I also kissed him in his car. I let him run his hand on my back, leg and face. All of rated.
After he went overseas I admit I was a bit cold cos I was confused.
However now that he is back I tried to be warm to him in text and he wouldn't ask me out. Also he likes to send me impersonal messages but then just to ignore my respond.
Look it's ok if he thinks it's not working out. He doesn't have to like eveything I post and then text me but not to go into anything deep or reply. I feel like he is putting me on back burner so I blocked him on Instagram. He has my number he can text me like I asked him to...
By blocking him you're being cold, don't expect him to come back now
By blocking him you're being cold, don't expect him to come back now
Posted by pinkbird03And waiting for his reply is any better? If he came back he didn't have any respect for you
By blocking him you're being cold, don't expect him to come back now
Posted by pinkbird03This is just an excuse you are making for him. I had guys who truly care and would call me right even I didn't block them. They only thought I blocked them.
By blocking him you're being cold, don't expect him to come back now
Your advice is kinda suggesting women should be doormat
Posted by StrawberryJamBlocking someone is just immature. It's saying you can't handle him being in your life in a mature way.Posted by pinkbird03This is just an excuse you are making for him. I had guys who truly care and would call me right even I didn't block them. They only thought I blocked them.
By blocking him you're being cold, don't expect him to come back now
Your advice is kinda suggesting women should be doormatclick to expand
Posted by youngaliThat's my point. I didn't respond to him once while he was away. Because he was only talking about himself. I extend the convo by asking him questions.
if i send several texts and you don't respond for 3 or more days, yet you're posting shit on social media or snapchat lol... you're getting blocked for inconsistency. no way around it.
He was there posting shits and then reply when he goes to bed. His reply didn't have any questions therefore I didn't respond.
Since then he kept liked everything I post and I liked back.
When he came back he text me and let me know what he's doing that day and I have anything on my agenda. I responded the next day and then no reply.
I had to reach out to him to say thanks for the chocolate. We chat a little and he ignored my last question.
It's not only inconsistency he got blocked for. It's also for stringing me along. Wanting to talk but not really to talk just to have one foot in. That's why I blocked him
Posted by pinkbird03He's not in my life in a mature way. You got one thing rightPosted by StrawberryJamBlocking someone is just immature. It's saying you can't handle him being in your life in a mature way.Posted by pinkbird03This is just an excuse you are making for him. I had guys who truly care and would call me right even I didn't block them. They only thought I blocked them.
By blocking him you're being cold, don't expect him to come back now
Your advice is kinda suggesting women should be doormatclick to expand
Hmmmm... I'm hearing you differently now.. forget where you guys are at now, are you saying you threw warmth at him in the beginning? When he went to kiss you, hold your hand etc.. you actually wanted that and enjoyed it, and showed him you enjoyed it? My feelings were that you shyed away from it all.. which showed mega disinterest, which as a cap I wouldn't have stuck around for..
What I know of virgo/libra cusps, because I love them is that you ladies are mega-shy, super sweet, seductive and warm.. as people.. you drive me crazy..
If I went to hold your hand I wouldn't expect you to pull away in a way that was like 'no dude not yet' but maybe in a way that was like 'are you sure you like me because I'm really into you, don't break my heart' (think the guy and girl from 50 shades of grey) the way you 2 seem, seems like a bad start, you can fix it all though if you 2 meet up and have a date, end the games right now, completely stop the games, unblock him everywhere, tell him that you really like him and that if you came off cold it was because of XYZ, be honest about it.. go out on a date and if he seems cold than warm his ass up, hold his hand, give him a kiss, lose yourself a little.. no sex though, obviously... don't hold back.. the attraction between you 2 is most likely going to be magnetic as hell.. I know from experience. Don't read into what he feels too much or be afraid to lose the guy or get hurt... live in the moment. And do it now, or you'll never know what you 2 could become. You probably have 3 days to do this..
If I went to hold your hand I wouldn't expect you to pull away in a way that was like 'no dude not yet' but maybe in a way that was like 'are you sure you like me because I'm really into you, don't break my heart' (think the guy and girl from 50 shades of grey) the way you 2 seem, seems like a bad start, you can fix it all though if you 2 meet up and have a date, end the games right now, completely stop the games, unblock him everywhere, tell him that you really like him and that if you came off cold it was because of XYZ, be honest about it.. go out on a date and if he seems cold than warm his ass up, hold his hand, give him a kiss, lose yourself a little.. no sex though, obviously... don't hold back.. the attraction between you 2 is most likely going to be magnetic as hell.. I know from experience. Don't read into what he feels too much or be afraid to lose the guy or get hurt... live in the moment. And do it now, or you'll never know what you 2 could become. You probably have 3 days to do this..
Posted by DannyMCDamn dude it's like you were in my head. I didn't pull my hand away but I didn't cling back. I know it's just as bad. I have unblocked him but I'm not sure how to reach out to him 😢
What I know of virgo/libra cusps, because I love them is that you ladies are mega-shy, super sweet, seductive and warm.. as people.. you drive me crazy..
If I went to hold your hand I wouldn't expect you to pull away in a way that was like 'no dude not yet' but maybe in a way that was like 'are you sure you like me because I'm really into you, don't break my heart' (think the guy and girl from 50 shades of grey) the way you 2 seem, seems like a bad start, you can fix it all though if you 2 meet up and have a date, end the games right now, completely stop the games, unblock him everywhere, tell him that you really like him and that if you came off cold it was because of XYZ, be honest about it.. go out on a date and if he seems cold than warm his ass up, hold his hand, give him a kiss, lose yourself a little.. no sex though, obviously... don't hold back.. the attraction between you 2 is most likely going to be magnetic as hell.. I know from experience. Don't read into what he feels too much or be afraid to lose the guy or get hurt... live in the moment. And do it now, or you'll never know what you 2 could become. You probably have 3 days to do this..
Idk what to say
There's a lot to be said for intuition.
If you don't have a good feeling, then there's
probably a good reason.
If you don't have a good feeling, then there's
probably a good reason.
If you still were not into him by the third date then you were the one stringing him along initially.
Yeah, you will only get in return what you've given. Better to learn from this and move on.
Yeah, you will only get in return what you've given. Better to learn from this and move on.
Posted by lnana04I kissed him on second date. I don't kiss just any body. Looks like we have different definition of "into " someone
If you still were not into him by the third date then you were the one stringing him along initially.
Yeah, you will only get in return what you've given. Better to learn from this and move on.
@dannymc I unblocked him and he liked my new post. I guess he's been manually searching for myprofile? As blocking would made him unfollow me automatically.
I liked back and followed him but he didn't follow back... not sure if how to get him to meet in person...
I liked back and followed him but he didn't follow back... not sure if how to get him to meet in person...
Posted by StrawberryJamHave you ever been straight forward with him? By telling him what you want and how you feel. Also by asking him what he wants and how he feels
@dannymc I unblocked him and he liked my new post. I guess he's been manually searching for myprofile? As blocking would made him unfollow me automatically.
I liked back and followed him but he didn't follow back... not sure if how to get him to meet in person...
Posted by WonderWoman14Do we have a different definition?Posted by StrawberryJamI think you are a little confused or you just want this gut to be something he's not. Either way it shouldn't be this difficult so I'd leave him be because this just has FRUSTRATION written all over it.Posted by WonderWoman14I be honest o wasn't into him but now with some distance I started to like him. Or I'm just confused.Posted by StrawberryJamIf I felt like I was being mugged off I'd have kept quiet tbh and ignored his message.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
I don't know why you are still drawn to him? he frustrates the hell out of you.
Also when I asked why didn't he text I meant why he message trough the app and if he sent a text instead i wouldn't have missed it. There's a chance he would interpret it the way you did may be notclick to expand
Posted by StrawberryJamOr?Posted by WonderWoman14Yes I'm annoyed by how the table turned I was plotting exit strategy while on third date with him.Posted by StrawberryJamI think you are a little confused or you just want this gut to be something he's not. Either way it shouldn't be this difficult so I'd leave him be because this just has FRUSTRATION written all over it.Posted by WonderWoman14I be honest o wasn't into him but now with some distance I started to like him. Or I'm just confused.Posted by StrawberryJamIf I felt like I was being mugged off I'd have kept quiet tbh and ignored his message.Posted by WonderWoman14Yea don't think I have other choice. I think it's him who gone off the radar as he knows I sent the last text... and r feels the need to test the water with me. He is one weird cap.. ?Posted by StrawberryJamJust leave it now. Don't contact him.
Anyway now that's he's seen it he's not responding. I kinda regret responding.
I don't know why you are still drawn to him? he frustrates the hell out of you.
Also when I asked why didn't he text I meant why he message trough the app and if he sent a text instead i wouldn't have missed it. There's a chance he would interpret it the way you did may be not
I never initiated contact except last week to finally thank him for the chocolate. I'm frustrated how he turn things around. I know he still likes me but he is doing what I did to him beforeclick to expand
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