Question for Capri women

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Hi there guys, i'm a pisces guy, i have changed my job recently and i've met an amazing Capricorn woman, we chated, we flirted and as me beying shy i couldn't ask more, but there was a moment when i was in the moment it was just perfect, our heads got closer and she kissed me, i rly enjoyed it, but next day i found out she has a husband, they have been together for 14years. they have 2kids, she says she doesn't love him anymore, but sticks there for the kids, she said she realy likes me and would like to try to work things out with me, but i'm a man with principles, i wouldn't even have thought she has a man because she was so flirty with me, i wouldn't have tried to kiss her, i would have distanced myself from her, now she realy grossing me out, how could a person hide something like that, she didn't wear a weding ring, she was hiding it prob ?I'm def not going to be the one to fuck up this family they have, but they realy have issues, if not me then someone else will take my place.my question would be this, what is the reason for capricorn to stay in relationship if they don't feel the love they once felt for their partner? children?why would they hit on a single guy and wouldn't feel ashamed ?What could be the motives? Bored?Problems in the family? Because i've heard Capricorns fix problems rather than turn from them.She was looking strong and without any emotions first when i met her, but when we started talking, i've noticed it's more than meets the eye, behind that hard char is a strong and vulnerable personality at the same time, she's afraid to show them because she's afraid to depend on someone, afraid to get hurt or get 2 close to people , she's also outgoing ,strong and independant, funny and charming, that was what i liked about her.So capri's how about a honest reply, why would you hit on a person if you're already married and have kids, why would you stay in relationship or marriage that doesn't bring you happyness , do you think you exchange stability for love when you have kids?
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I'm not judging, i just want to know why do things like this, lack of passion, lack of talking with a partner or something? 🙂 She's rly open with me, says her dreams and future plans, i'm open person 2 but now she scares the shit out of me, i'm afraid to get closer to her and open myself to her , and now i keep my distance after i found out this, i feel strongly for her, but this is how it has to be, not going to invade a family, i'd rather try to help her back in a good relationship with her husband than get in one with her, i believe if you take a married person you're either become cursed or karma hit's you back 100x, some things just have to be done regardless of how you feel, like,love doesn't matter, starting relationships like this wouldn't work out . at least thats my thoughts. i'm thinking to change my job again soon because of her, because i feel strong connection with her and i don't know how long can i hold on like this, it hurts and feels good at the same time. crazy yeah?
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1. Well she already told you and I believe that's the truth and most married people don't wear their rings depending on the working environment or type of career.
If you really want to observe look at the ring finger there should be indents or shape of a ring imprint. And always ask hey are you married or single always when meeting someone new.

That's great to have those standards and views. I'm glad there's someone else out there with those likable qualities of one self respect, morals, values and beliefs.

Two..

Yes my parents did that to us for the sake of kids and raising them properly. But I know my dad was out there messing around because when I found out they separated I already met the other woman. Which I didn't know at the time but always around him haha. Finally she introduced herself and to my brothers. So it was for the kids sake. But we were older and understood it's time to move on if no one is happy.

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I just can't understand how people don't value what they have, what's the point in beying in the relationship if it doesn't make you happy, you can discuss this with a second half and do whats best for the kids , but get divorced, unless one of them doesn't want to, i think if 2 people are not inlove then growing kids don't see the true love relationships and they might think that screaming on each other and always arguing about something, beying with other people while married make look like normal to them and when they grow up they might do the same, just my thoughts, because as simple as it sounds, kids learn from parents by action and they understand and feel grown ups way more than we understand, they copy them little by litte, i've been raised by my mom and not my real father, but he was like my real father. i love him as such.It's sad to see many people in this world lost their own beliefs and value, respect for themselves and for others, media and technology might be geting better, but people are going reverse..... I'm pisces so i'm kind of shy to talk about relationships straight when i meet people, if i ask them if you're married they might start thinking im into them 😄
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Well if i would know she is def geting a divorce that might be different, but for not that's how it is, i might get closer, but at first i would need her to be straight forward with her husband that she wants to be with me, i don't want to apear like nothing if im something in her life, i would support her and help her as much as i could and i'm not afraid of hard work , i think in like there is 2 things you should give you all , for love and for your dreams, but sometimes in sittuations like this i feel like it's not worth to fight, she's not geting divorced and i'm def not going to ask her to do that, she has head of her own, if she will rly want it she will do it herself, i'm not married and never been married, she's 6yrs older than me but i don't see this as an issue, and yes, i want kids, i wouldn't mind other woman bringing her kids into my life because i love them, i'd like to have no less than 2 but no more than 5, i want huge family, i'm also spending alot of time towards my goals and trying to get more out of my life so when the time comes i can give my kids and my woman and myself what i didn't have when i was a child, that is nice warm home and nice kind people around them 🙂
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Posted by REpisRies
Hi there guys, i'm a pisces guy, i have changed my job recently and i've met an amazing Capricorn woman, we chated, we flirted and as me beying shy i couldn't ask more, but there was a moment when i was in the moment it was just perfect, our heads got closer and she kissed me, i rly enjoyed it, but next day i found out she has a husband, they have been together for 14years. they have 2kids, she says she doesn't love him anymore, but sticks there for the kids, she said she realy likes me and would like to try to work things out with me, but i'm a man with principles, i wouldn't even have thought she has a man because she was so flirty with me, i wouldn't have tried to kiss her, i would have distanced myself from her, now she realy grossing me out, how could a person hide something like that, she didn't wear a weding ring, she was hiding it prob ?I'm def not going to be the one to fuck up this family they have, but they realy have issues, if not me then someone else will take my place.my question would be this, what is the reason for capricorn to stay in relationship if they don't feel the love they once felt for their partner? children?why would they hit on a single guy and wouldn't feel ashamed ?What could be the motives? Bored?Problems in the family? Because i've heard Capricorns fix problems rather than turn from them.She was looking strong and without any emotions first when i met her, but when we started talking, i've noticed it's more than meets the eye, behind that hard char is a strong and vulnerable personality at the same time, she's afraid to show them because she's afraid to depend on someone, afraid to get hurt or get 2 close to people , she's also outgoing ,strong and independant, funny and charming, that was what i liked about her.So capri's how about a honest reply, why would you hit on a person if you're already married and have kids, why would you stay in relationship or marriage that doesn't bring you happyness , do you think you exchange stability for love when you have kids?
Hi..
It's interesting you say this. I have had a very similar thing happen. And with a Pisces man. I am a Cap woman.
However, HE came on to ME...Not the other way round. I have been unhappy in my marriage for about 5 years. 2 of those years is the first 2 years of our little girls life.
You ask about how we Caps can do this is in a marriage? And you ask why don't we just leave?
Well it's not as easy as all that for some of us unfortunately. I wanted to leave my husband - 4 years ago - before I was even pregnant. LONG STORY that I'm not going into on here. But out of guilt for leaving my husband I stayed with him. I felt guilty just thinking of leaving. It's my first marriage and facing divorce was a scary thing for me. So I stayed And had a baby.
Now 3 years ago I met a man - a Pisces - and was instantly attracted. And I WANTED him. BUT
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Posted by REpisRies
Well if i would know she is def geting a divorce that might be different, but for not that's how it is, i might get closer, but at first i would need her to be straight forward with her husband that she wants to be with me, i don't want to apear like nothing if im something in her life, i would support her and help her as much as i could and i'm not afraid of hard work , i think in like there is 2 things you should give you all , for love and for your dreams, but sometimes in sittuations like this i feel like it's not worth to fight, she's not geting divorced and i'm def not going to ask her to do that, she has head of her own, if she will rly want it she will do it herself, i'm not married and never been married, she's 6yrs older than me but i don't see this as an issue, and yes, i want kids, i wouldn't mind other woman bringing her kids into my life because i love them, i'd like to have no less than 2 but no more than 5, i want huge family, i'm also spending alot of time towards my goals and trying to get more out of my life so when the time comes i can give my kids and my woman and myself what i didn't have when i was a child, that is nice warm home and nice kind people around them 🙂
Hi ya..I have only posted half of my message as my Internet keeps switching off and is causing me problems! Have typed my reply to you twice now and twice Internet has shut down!   
I will send rest of my reply tomorrow. .
I am a Capricorn and the man who likes me is I
also Pisces. .
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This doesn't sound like a good situation. Who cares what her reasons are, stay/get out of it, and stay far far away.

People stay for all kinds of reasons, kids would be a good reason, but also maybe, they stay bcuz even if it's an unhappy relationship, it's a predictable one.

Starting over is a scary thing to many people.

If you want something with her, and she you, let her know to call you once she's out of her marriage.
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Posted by Greentea
This doesn't sound like a good situation. Who cares what her reasons are, stay/get out of it, and stay far far away.

People stay for all kinds of reasons, kids would be a good reason, but also maybe, they stay bcuz even if it's an unhappy relationship, it's a predictable one.

Starting over is a scary thing to many people.

If you want something with her, and she you, let her know to call you once she's out of her marriage.
yeaaah, sounds crazy, 14years together, throwing away such a long lasting relationship while you were giving so much, sacrificing so much and giving yourself to relationship for 14 years isn't something you can easily throw away, starting over sounds like a scary thing especialy when relationship lasted so long, i'm sure she feels security and comfort in there because it's been a good rountine, but i think it's just a matter of time untill this relationship breaks, doesn't matter how secure or comforting relationships are, i think relationships are made by 4 main things, respect, trust, support and love, if either one of these fade relationships start fading, i have seen couples live 10years just because of security and it's rly sad to see people live together just because of their kids , kids should see a happy family, not the family thats just comftable with each other, i'm as a cancer know it's hard to move on, but sometimes you have to do things for yourself, only by facing you fear and geting out of the comfort zone you can change something. its crazy how many people live in unhappy relationships but they do nothing to change their situation just because they feel comftable and are afraid to start all over again..it's sad that so many people in this world became more close to technology and less close to the people they care about....i'd say let her know you still feel for her, but also let her know that you respect yourself and her and you don't want to divide the family, you can't ask for that, all you can do is say how you feel and what you think about this, you sound like a good man, i respect people like you, who don't go hunting married woman, people who have principles and morals, people who have values and don't trade them for pleasure like sex or money, values like these can't be bought by money, hold on to them! 🙂 goodluck!
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Posted by REpisRies
Hi there guys, i'm a pisces guy, i have changed my job recently and i've met an amazing Capricorn woman, we chated, we flirted and as me beying shy i couldn't ask more, but there was a moment when i was in the moment it was just perfect, our heads got closer and she kissed me, i rly enjoyed it, but next day i found out she has a husband, they have been together for 14years. they have 2kids, she says she doesn't love him anymore, but sticks there for the kids, she said she realy likes me and would like to try to work things out with me, but i'm a man with principles, i wouldn't even have thought she has a man because she was so flirty with me, i wouldn't have tried to kiss her, i would have distanced myself from her, now she realy grossing me out, how could a person hide something like that, she didn't wear a weding ring, she was hiding it prob ?I'm def not going to be the one to fuck up this family they have, but they realy have issues, if not me then someone else will take my place.my question would be this, what is the reason for capricorn to stay in relationship if they don't feel the love they once felt for their partner? children?why would they hit on a single guy and wouldn't feel ashamed ?What could be the motives? Bored?Problems in the family? Because i've heard Capricorns fix problems rather than turn from them.She was looking strong and without any emotions first when i met her, but when we started talking, i've noticed it's more than meets the eye, behind that hard char is a strong and vulnerable personality at the same time, she's afraid to show them because she's afraid to depend on someone, afraid to get hurt or get 2 close to people , she's also outgoing ,strong and independant, funny and charming, that was what i liked about her.So capri's how about a honest reply, why would you hit on a person if you're already married and have kids, why would you stay in relationship or marriage that doesn't bring you happyness , do you think you exchange stability for love when you have kids?
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Hi..
It's interesting you say this. I have had a very similar thing happen. And with a Pisces man. I am a Cap woman.
However, HE came on to ME...Not the other way round. I have been unhappy in my marriage for about 5 years. 2 of those years is the first 2 years of our little girls life.
You ask about how we Caps can do this is in a marriage? And you ask why don't we just leave?
Well it's not as easy as all that for some of us unfortunately. I wanted to leave my husband - 4 years ago - before I was even pregnant. LONG STORY that I'm not going into on here. But out of guilt for leaving my husband I stayed with him. I felt guilty just thinking of leaving. It's my first marriage and facing divorce was a scary thing f