the dumping garden (Page 19)

I'm incredibly nervous right now... I think I'm about to have an anxiety attack...

They were older than expected but I enjoyed myself anyway.

Mr.Scorp did his laundry here last night. As he's folding it, he says, "You're home all day tomorrow, maybe you can iron everything for me."

I haven't laughed so hard in a long time.

I just realized that I'm soon to be living with 2 Capricorn mooners.

Kari... I see you are fairly new...

Posted by KariAlexia
Thank you 😄

🙂 my pleasure my dear

there's a cap i kinda like.

*winces* gawd help me. i only like him. nothing crazy.

Asc - Scorp
Sun - Cap
Moon - Leo
Merc - Cap
Venus - Aqua
Mars - Virgo
Jupiter - Virgo
Saturn - Virgo
Uranus - Scorpio
Nept - Sag
Pluto - Libra

My mother is one of the most unstable people I have ever met in my life. Ugh.
Sun: cancer
Moon: Pisces

Felt really intense today for some reason. Cooled down a bit after walking around in the cold all day, some tea, chocolate and watching 'The Perks of being a wallflower'. Good movie by the way.

Posted by cowpuncher
Well give it a shot Creepy... go have a burger and a beer with the guy and see how it goes. Just don't have too many and go to one of those Asian Elvis impersonator drive-thru wedding chapels.

I did... tapas and sangria. yum! but i digress... he's quirky. it's so funny because he leaned over the table, looked me straight in the eyes and said "you're a little crazy" then sat back down and winked at me. HAHA! It was funny to me because I was way ahead of that thought. I kinda thought he was slightly craziER than me. And, I told him that. lol

What I gather so far is that he displays some of the typical cap male behavior I've read about on these boards b4... sensitivity that comes out a little in slight insecurity which is already a red flag to me. he kinda pouts if i dont reply to texts in a "timely" manner. nothing major so far.

gawd, i dont get replies back ever sometimes and i just brush it off and try again. it irritates me to no end when people act like 3 yr olds about instant replies. I JUST had a "friend" unfriend me on facebook because I didnt reply to his text within a few hrs. then he essentially bitched at me via text about it. i set him straight pretty calmly and even forgave him, but with that kind of impatience, i dont put it past him to do it again soon. in which case... very well then. have it your way.

but at any rate, he is super paranoid, imo, about revealing personal details about himself... like career. another red flag. all i know is he works in investments lol. i'll give him this though... he gave me a fair heads up that he poofs sometimes. LOL!!!!!!

the good points.. he's extremely family oriented. he works a lot. on what? no clue. i just hope it's not illegal. he's very smart. he speaks 4 languages. lolololol he's funny. physically he's tall, dark and handsome... strapping even.

yea i definitely sized him up. so far... too many red flags early on for anything serious. however, i'm not looking for any funny business, let alone anything serious. 😛 the cuckoo can stay outa the clock for the time being. But NO funny business!!!

I hate when I'm alone with my thoughts and have an epipheny of something important and no one here in person to share it with. 😢

Ah, well, at least I got some insight as to why my marriage didn't work out. And Shhhhhh!!!! (it might be my fault).

Sometimes, I forget that my aqua is indeed an aqua and not a capricorn. It seems like it'd be easy to distinguish between those two sign's traits...but...for some reason, it's not. He is definitely very capricorn-ish, though, even though from what I've told him, he apparently doesn't like capricorns. Haha.

@truecap, that sounds sad. : ( At least there is the internet, so your thoughts and feelings can be heard by somebody, even if they're no one important to you.

yea, that's the thing... any red flag so early on is a red flag in and of itself lol.

and yes indeed, there's no way i'm getting myself attached to anyone. nor will i mess with anyone else's agenda so i always try to keep some emotional distance.

ugh... i cant wait til i'm over all this ex crap... #& $ $ *% @#& $ *~!!!!!! However the pieces wanna fall... they need to just get there already!

Posted by Stinger Baby
to the idiot boy in my class that makes fun of my eyes....

... you dont hear me making crackin about all those gaps in your mouth. you should hang a sign that says NEXT TOOTH: A MILE

I almost choked on my coffee!! lol! Good one!!!

Biggest sigh of relief. My mom finally called this morning. I began to panic yesterday when I still couldnt get in touch with her. Hadnt heard from her since friday....talk about a scary experience.

My Cappie grandma still keeps a phone/address book, and in times like these....where my mothers phone broke and she didnt have any numbers memorized, I see why its smart to do.

Omg. I work 3rd shift tonight...my first time ever....and I havent been back to sleep. I told my friend I was going to stay up as long as I could last night and sleep today. He said Ithat wouldnt work, and i should get as much sleep as I can, so I went to bed like normal last night. Thing is, Ive been up since 8:00am and I havent been able to take a nap or anything. Ill be leaving in an hour and I work until 8:00am tomorrow morning. *sigh*

He's all entertained, saying im gonna crash around 1:00 and offering to pick me up tomorrow just so he can see how exhausted ill be smh.

cadbury creme egg... OMNOMNOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im hanging in there surprisingly. Four more hrs to go..*sigh*

Tuesday morning. Back to work. Sunny and 30 degrees.

Inana did you survive?

When reading Shakespeare with my students, it always strikes me how little people have changed in 600 years or so. lol.

Posted by truecap
Inana did you survive?

Yes! Thanks for asking. Im on my way home now from my 2nd night.

My ex husband has lost his ever lovin' mind!!

Posted by truecap
My ex husband has lost his ever lovin' mind!!

You really going to leave it at that without any explanation? ; )
/curious

Posted by Scenic

Posted by truecap
My ex husband has lost his ever lovin' mind!!

You really going to leave it at that without any explanation? ; )
/curious

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He has gone off the deep end with his over reactions and irrational thoughts and behavior. Reading into things that's not there, assumptions with no grounds for truth, creating drama that doesn't exist...

Posted by truecap

Posted by Scenic

Posted by truecap
My ex husband has lost his ever lovin' mind!!

You really going to leave it at that without any explanation? ; )
/curious

He has gone off the deep end with his over reactions and irrational thoughts and behavior. Reading into things that's not there, assumptions with no grounds for truth, creating drama that doesn't exist...

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Oh, so he's just being himself then? lol.
That is how mine is!

Posted by capgirl69

Posted by truecap

Posted by Scenic

Posted by truecap
My ex husband has lost his ever lovin' mind!!

You really going to leave it at that without any explanation? ; )
/curious

He has gone off the deep end with his over reactions and irrational thoughts and behavior. Reading into things that's not there, assumptions with no grounds for truth, creating drama that doesn't exist...

Oh, so he's just being himself then? lol.
That is how mine is!

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I don't know about you, but I'm glad I don't live with him anymore! 🙂

Yeah, me too. He reminds me at least once a week with his antics. I don't know how I coped with him for such a long time. Really it goes to show that we Capricorn ladies can make ANYTHING work if we are determined enough.

Yes maam!!! Also proves our patience and perserverance!! We should be the poster child for Cap women! lol!!!

I didn't realize how bad my ex was until he been had moved out for two months!

Leo boy crushing on a Libra girl in my third period. So cute.

Im about to have an exam done on me and i havent told anyone bcuz i dont want to but Im really nervous and I have to express it somewhere.

I'd really like to scream now.

Really.

I hate holding things in, but the need to keep it private is stronger.

-_-

So much difficulty right now!

Good outcome

Hugs

WHHHHEEEEEWWWWWWWW! Not all over yet though.

Wow, Im so off and on with people. I dont like that about myself.

I work with a Cancer girl who is very similar with her moods, but its like she balance it better and people understand. With me, i feel they pull back when im off and things are never the same...like they dont open up like that again.

I can make his reality turn into fantasies

k... i hate bashing my own kind, but goddamn... some cap men are complete morons.

two in the last two days that i've dealt with that are COMPLETELY idiotic. clearly speaking before thinking.

either you cap guys here have completely spoiled me with the creme de la creme of good cap men, or they ate a bowl full of stupid before calling me up...

OR I am just a gigantic beyatch right now!

could be all three! i dunno... but wtf...

Posted by CreepyPants
k... i hate bashing my own kind, but goddamn... some cap men are complete morons.

two in the last two days that i've dealt with that are COMPLETELY idiotic. clearly speaking before thinking.

either you cap guys here have completely spoiled me with the creme de la creme of good cap men, or they ate a bowl full of stupid before calling me up...

OR I am just a gigantic beyatch right now!

could be all three! i dunno... but wtf...

You properly intimidate them...

😭
noooo, cant be.

the last one texted me out of the blue. the joys of living in las vegas is ppl you basically dont know anymore will hit you up upon arrival to hang out. well any of my friends might do that no matter how well we've been in touch, but at any rate... so i haven't heard from him in veritable years. No joke... yeeeeaaars. "Are you still in vegas? Would like to see you..." my reply was short and simple. i suppose i could have elaborated, but it was right when my meds were wearing off... i'm on some heavy pain killers right now for a lil procedure i had to have done. i said, "im heavily sedated and recovering for the next few days"

his reply?

"what do you mean... are you a drug addict now?"

some meaning can be lost in text, but really guy? who the hell...

pain, discomfort + excessive narcotic analgesics = please just be nice or please leave me alone.


id give my lower half for a baked salmon steak right now

Lol@Creepy. Thats why I be on here talking about Cap males.They can be very annoying. My best friend reminds me everyday.

im ranting badly...

another thing re. this txt exchange.

after his drug addiction question, i clarified in more detail and finished with "i'll be resting for a few days. enjoy your weekend"

"ok. i'll check on you tomorrow"

lol check on what exactly? seeing as how i was already majorly irritated...

"thanks but please dont bother" yea, it's a bit blunt. so is asking if i'm a drug addict. essentially, i dont even know the guy anymore. what do i care. in fact i hardly knew him. i met him at a friends bday party. we exchanged numbers and talked on the phone for a while. that's the extent of our whole "relationship." he was cool then, some 2.5 yrs ago, from what i knew. i have no clue what his deal is now.

"dont bother.. are you dating someone? are you married?" ah yes... more excellent questions... nevermind that whole part where i said im in pain and need a few days to recover. and nvm that the first brilliant assumption was that i'm a drug addict ...a sure way to rekindle rapport

"no, but i'm in a lot of pain. i'm uncomfortable. i'm really medicated, and after your drug addiction assumption...i'm now really irritated. please have yourself a nice weekend."

"lol" super funny isnt it, guy?

no apologies... no sense of sensitivity. none in the slightest.

telling him to fuck off would have saved some time. esp since his entire agenda was probably to hook up. ugh. i got the feeling from his first text "would like to see you" oh ya? pay for it, skank.

true. maybe that wasnt his agenda, but at least i think a little before speaking and dont call ppl out on weeeaaak assumptions.

"you ask bad and insensitive questions. dont ever go into counseling." my patience wears thin and i start to get blunt.

"ok... are you a career counselor?" gooooooooood one *claps*

Inana... yea apparently! This last week is the first time I've had any exp being annoyed by cap guys ...let alone my own sign!

i dunno why i'm so irritated by that convo. 2.5 yrs of literally nothing and you pop up with this— drug addict? smh

*he pops up*

seems i still wanna bitch him out lol

Creepy, I vote for "he ate a bowl full of stupid". lol!

He was probably drunk the whole time.

That whole conversation made me mad, myself. 'Are you married?' 'Are you a counselor?' 'Are you a drug addict?'
Oh god the unnecessary repetitiveness. No effort in the conversation. And then the 'lol' would have made me plot his murder, I think. He doesn't even care that you're in pain at all. Stupid.

Hope you're feeling better, Creepy, and you have a fast recovery!!

"He doesn't even care that you're in pain at all. Stupid."

Exactly, Scenic!

Any NORMAL person would have said something like gosh i hope you feel better and i hope it wasnt anything serious... shit something! a damn smiley face even.

"Hope you're feeling better, Creepy, and you have a fast recovery!!" ...like so! Thanks truecap 🙂 my doc gave me plenty of the good stuff. lol i should be just fine.

scorpypoo, ex-scorp, came over and took care of me while i was curled up and at my worst. that was so sweet of him.

I know this flies in the face of many... Marrakesha I apologize... this just dawned on me and I needed to "scream" it somewhere where my shallow and trivialness could easily be overlooked...

IAN SOMERHALDER LOOKS LIKE THE BIGGEST EFFING DOUCHEWAGON!!!!!!!

WHY do women fawn over him?! He looks like a damn joke! Big hypothetical, but if that man walked up to me, or ANY man resembling him... I'd either run before he could reach me or I'd vomit. His face repulses me! Might be his dumbass smirk, or his lazy eyes, but I really think it's the fact that every picture he takes it seems like he's trying to look sexy, but in actuality he ends up looking like an ostrich. plain n simple. he cant do sexy, but he can do ostrich. good for him.

Posted by Sangfroid
I've been away due to pc problems and "big" problems and they might just keep me away Again soon. There's always a reason for my disappearing and it's NOT an act of any sort!

@ Sangfroid: We've missed you!!! I wondered where you went!

For Creepy:

Just because you like the sexy ostriches!!! lol!!! 😛

Posted by MissGummyshoe

Posted by CreepyPants
I know this flies in the face of many... Marrakesha I apologize... this just dawned on me and I needed to "scream" it somewhere where my shallow and trivialness could easily be overlooked...

IAN SOMERHALDER LOOKS LIKE THE BIGGEST EFFING DOUCHEWAGON!!!!!!!

WHY do women fawn over him?! He looks like a damn joke! Big hypothetical, but if that man walked up to me, or ANY man resembling him... I'd either run before he could reach me or I'd vomit. His face repulses me! Might be his dumbass smirk, or his lazy eyes, but I really think it's the fact that every picture he takes it seems like he's trying to look sexy, but in actuality he ends up looking like an ostrich. plain n simple. he cant do sexy, but he can do ostrich. good for him.

Hear, hear! I just do not understand. He turns me into dried fruit.

LOL at "Marrakesha I apologize" - oh, she's gonna be gunnin' for you if she gets wind of this!

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i blame my medicine head. totally forgot i posted that 😛 HAHAHAHA!!!!!! gosh that was scathing.

Marrakesha I do apologize. I'm sure he's great and I'm sure I suck in comparison... but lololol... he looks like a bird.

Posted by truecap

Posted by Sangfroid
I've been away due to pc problems and "big" problems and they might just keep me away Again soon. There's always a reason for my disappearing and it's NOT an act of any sort!

@ Sangfroid: We've missed you!!! I wondered where you went!

For Creepy:

Just because you like the sexy ostriches!!! lol!!! 😛

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LOL *faints*