the dumping garden (Page 20)

LOL@dried fruit!

Mr. Scorp did the dishes last night and I only had to complain a little to get him to do it.

Lightbulb moment:
All these years I've just gone with the flow, seriously never got me anywhere. I was a doormat and got cheated on. Now I open my mouth and he did the dishes and cleaned my counters.
Gotta love him.

haha. I figured out that he likes to be a hero. lol. I think that's the appeal of doing the dishes. I had a little melt down, and he got to swoop in and be the hero. I had a little melt down about lettuce the other day, and he went to the grocery store. I had a melt down a few weeks ago, and he brought me flowers.

And then he chastises me for holding things in for too long. lol. Never been a fit thrower, but damn, it gets results!

Posted by ellessque
^^^^^^ and inside....he probably thoroughly enjoys that part of you. I love being told what to do. LOL

I might resist for the sake of resisting but DAMN.....I like it 😄

😛 😛

I

*embarrassed and blushing*

lol. washing the dishes... oh so dirty.

was it a vietnamese coffee shop? i've heard of those. i've always wanted to check one out... sounds so peculiar. i mean... SURE to wake the guys (and some gals) up!

Moving in update:

If we make it through the moving in process, we will be fine. lol.

Mr. Scorp set the date: May 1st.
I told him he should start bringing things every time he comes over, to make it easier. Each time he comes with something, we will find room for it.

I envisioned him bringing a box a day. I did not know that this would mean he would be actively trying to get furniture in the house by the weekend.

Last night he brought his DVD's, CD's, and books. 4 boxes. He brings them to the upstairs room, which right now is a craft room, but is going to be his mancave. He brings the boxes up and starts telling me where he is going to put the couch, tv, etc. And then he gets all overwhelmed, because there is a craft table set up there. I told him I would get the stuff off the table for him and then fold the table up and put it away.

Scorp: When?
Me: When what?
Scorp: When are you going to do this? I want to get the furniture here this weekend.
Me: I'll do it tomorrow.
Scorp: You have cub scouts tomorrow.
Me: Oh.
Scorp: Starts telling me more about what is going to be done with the room.
Scorp: So when are you going to do this?
Me: I'll do it tomorrow.
Scorp: YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DO IT TOMORROW!!! WHAT'S WITH YOU? YOU'RE LIKE, CONFUSED!!
Me: WELL THEN I'LL DO IT ON THURSDAY!
Scorp: Wow. You're MEAN!
Me: How am I being mean?
Scorp: You yelled at me.
Me: You yelled at me first. lol.

It's been a trying week. And it's been really HOT and I haven't installed my A/C's yet. Was 80 degrees yesterday.

BEAUTIFUL DAY!

It's a girl! 4/10/13 7lbs 12oz 21"

Congratulations lildol!!!!

Congrats!!

TYs all!! 😄 😄 😄
I've posted her chart over on the Aries board!

Congrats!

Congrats!
That's a lot of aries! I thought my aries nephew was hard to handle and he's predominately water. Good luck! ; )

the act of loving another, no matter the kind of relationship, but just giving your heart sincerely is such a good feeling. it blows my mind and makes me high.

shoot... or maybe it was the norco

Posted by CreepyPants
the act of loving another, no matter the kind of relationship, but just giving your heart sincerely is such a good feeling. it blows my mind and makes me high.

Indeed! I about cried when I saw her (and I literally watched the birth)... and holding her tonight, OMG AMAZING!!!!

Posted by lildol

Posted by CreepyPants
the act of loving another, no matter the kind of relationship, but just giving your heart sincerely is such a good feeling. it blows my mind and makes me high.

Indeed! I about cried when I saw her (and I literally watched the birth)... and holding her tonight, OMG AMAZING!!!!

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aww!

Posted by lildol
TYs all!! 😄 😄 😄
I've posted her chart over on the Aries board!

Aries children are awesome!!!! Very kind and thoughtful kids! (My son is Aries). You are going to really enjoy this child!!

My granddaughter already LOVES me! 😄

You all had to go through labor with me... NOW ya all have to deal with the rest of it LOL

cute pic lil dol 🙂 she's beautiful

dxp is especially shifty lately.

if this flies in your face, sorry, but some need to learn how to commit and leave an impact and not be affected and give up. it's all about balance, time, and controlling the inflow and outflow of positivity or negativity.

maybe it takes holding this place at arms length, but i really dont think it takes rocket science to figure out how to get what you want from dxp while avoiding the drama.

i know it's crazy talk, but you CAN control your presence and what "atmosphere" you're going to subject yourself to. it just seems like everyone feels they have to swing at every pitch here... ESPECIALLY the slights no matter how unimportant or juvenile.

fuck... there are so many good thread topics that i find and pages deep i leave my remark and the conversation is so deviated that nobody seems to give a shit about substance, or the main point of the op.

sure threads will lose their fire. i get it, but it just seems like it's constant nonsense hour. most of the time i feel like i've walked into a stuffy "party"

a lot of it is hilarious. 🙂 but a shameful percentage of it is quite simply dumb. and by dumb i mean, can you fuck off with your ego. please.

if there's something you dont like about this place... find your footing and change it?

mmm. i feel >>||

scorpio girls- sneaky mother truckers! lol.

This morning a scorpio girl in my class comes in, and sees a paper on one of the desks. She picks it up, reads it, studies it, then walks to the garbage can with it, gets ready to crumple it- I can see her getting ready to crumple.

Me: Whose paper is that?
SG: What?
Me: Whose paper is that?
SG: what paper?
Me: Whose. paper.is. that.? What are you doing with it?
SG: Oh! this paper! I wasn't going to crumple it up and throw it away.
Me: Okay. What are you doing with it?
SG: I was just going to put it down right here.
Me: Okay. Put it down then.

lol.

Posted by lildol
You all had to go through labor with me... NOW ya all have to deal with the rest of it LOL

Gorgeous baby!

Posted by CreepyPants
fuck... there are so many good thread topics that i find and pages deep i leave my remark and the conversation is so deviated that nobody seems to give a shit about substance, or the main point of the op.

🙂

Yup, yup! Totally agree.

Posted by coolcappy
Since a week tomorrow I feel very pretty when I look in the mirror no matter how I look and even with bed hair! Did any of you noticed the meeting between Mars and Venus last few days though, as a cap? It's weird, I think Venus's beauty is working on me and not my home lol as I didn't get anything new nor needed to clean the house, it's always clean. However I really seem to be clean and looked after myself, my body and especially my skin and face. I don't do anything diffrently and even have a few dimples here and there, yet I find I'm glowing and looking beautiful indeed. 🙂

I always think I look prettier and sexier with bedhead. lol. Maybe it's because whenever I have bedhead, it's because I've been in bed, been thoroughly fucked, and I'm all pink and rosy and happy. lol. Maybe this is TMI, but I love that look.

Drinking a bottle of lemon water. got some lemon around the rim of the bottle. making a sour face. lol.

Posted by capgirl69
Drinking a bottle of lemon water. got some lemon around the rim of the bottle. making a sour face. lol.

Whats good to me is A gallon of Crystal Springs with sliced lemon and cucumber.

Chance... *siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh* ... yes

Posted by lnana04

Posted by capgirl69
Drinking a bottle of lemon water. got some lemon around the rim of the bottle. making a sour face. lol.

Whats good to me is A gallon of Crystal Springs with sliced lemon and cucumber.

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this sounds pretty good Inana

Posted by Chance11

Posted by CreepyPants
Chance... *siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh* ... yes

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#bestlaughever

i dunno how my comment drew that connection, but i'm glad it did. lololololol

i get why lol... but you must have some crazy database of references in your head 😛

I just got home from walking the trail. Met a nice Leo guy, who was unfortunately not my type, but. like 10 minutes after i walked past him, i turned around after hearing something, and it was him running back to talk to me. We ended up walking and talking for 2hrs. He didn't have his phone on him so he asked if id walk with him to the store to get a pen, and I told him no but said I would sit down and wait....and I did. He came back after about 15min with a pen and some tylenol he bought since I mentioned I get headaches in the heat. I thought that was the sweetest thing ever. It wasn't done to impress, it was just being thoughtful.

I warned him that he might not hear from me and im an out of sight out of mind person, and he sorta understood. I explained it aswell as my jacked up personality as best as I could.. He wasnt like the most brilliant person ever,...neither am I, but I really enjoyed running my mouth to someone that actually listened lol. He listened to everything, and if we'd speak at the same time he'd make sure that I got what I was going to say out first....like he was really interested in hearing and listening.

Anyway, I always meet really nice/sweet /thoughtful guys. Im starting to be "team men" on how women complain about not finding good ones.

Thanks for reading Elle.

While I was talking and walking I was also texting the Taurus who seems to have a laser beam focus on all things sex related. He is a sweet guy too but goodness lol. Its good to meet other people and possibly see what you would be missing out on.

Posted by lnana04
I just got home from walking the trail. Met a nice Leo guy, who was unfortunately not my type, but. like 10 minutes after i walked past him, i turned around after hearing something, and it was him running back to talk to me. We ended up walking and talking for 2hrs. He didn't have his phone on him so he asked if id walk with him to the store to get a pen, and I told him no but said I would sit down and wait....and I did. He came back after about 15min with a pen and some tylenol he bought since I mentioned I get headaches in the heat. I thought that was the sweetest thing ever. It wasn't done to impress, it was just being thoughtful.

I warned him that he might not hear from me and im an out of sight out of mind person, and he sorta understood. I explained it aswell as my jacked up personality as best as I could.. He wasnt like the most brilliant person ever,...neither am I, but I really enjoyed running my mouth to someone that actually listened lol. He listened to everything, and if we'd speak at the same time he'd make sure that I got what I was going to say out first....like he was really interested in hearing and listening.

Anyway, I always meet really nice/sweet /thoughtful guys. Im starting to be "team men" on how women complain about not finding good ones.

He sounds great- why is he not your type?

Posted by capgirl69

Posted by lnana04
I just got home from walking the trail. Met a nice Leo guy, who was unfortunately not my type, but. like 10 minutes after i walked past him, i turned around after hearing something, and it was him running back to talk to me. We ended up walking and talking for 2hrs. He didn't have his phone on him so he asked if id walk with him to the store to get a pen, and I told him no but said I would sit down and wait....and I did. He came back after about 15min with a pen and some tylenol he bought since I mentioned I get headaches in the heat. I thought that was the sweetest thing ever. It wasn't done to impress, it was just being thoughtful.

I warned him that he might not hear from me and im an out of sight out of mind person, and he sorta understood. I explained it aswell as my jacked up personality as best as I could.. He wasnt like the most brilliant person ever,...neither am I, but I really enjoyed running my mouth to someone that actually listened lol. He listened to everything, and if we'd speak at the same time he'd make sure that I got what I was going to say out first....like he was really interested in hearing and listening.

Anyway, I always meet really nice/sweet /thoughtful guys. Im starting to be "team men" on how women complain about not finding good ones.

He sounds great- why is he not your type?

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Well for one, he has called me three times already. I told him yesterday that im not big on talking all the time and he said he understood. I picked up earlier and told him I work 3rd shift so. Id be sleep today. He called about 30min ago trying to ask if id be interested in doing something today. I had to tell him again I work tonight so ill be sleep in a few.

I wouldn't say he was unattractive, but he's just not someone I would normally be attracted to., plus be strikes me as desperate for female attention.

He seems nice, but he's someone I would hook up with someone else.

those Leos do like to give you their full attention. lol.

Aqua and I are not going anywhere. He is going to be even busier. Also, in recent conversations he talks about not really appreciating or liking people because they're all the same. And some other things that make me feel disposable. I hate to sound needy, but sending one or two texts a day and having no other contact doesn't cut it for me. But, that's fine. I knew what I was getting into and I don't have any commitment or obligation to him. Maybe life will throw me a bone and I'll meet another nice guy. : )

I'm so glad it is Friday.
And Scorp moves in tomorrow!

Yay, caught it. Too cute!

Posted by lnana04
Yay, caught it. Too cute!

Thanks!

and this little guy is 9 and a half now. he was 3 there.

Pretty eyes Serendibite!

The Leo called me four times yesterday, including once from the bike shop off the trail smh. I guess he figured Id pick up then.
The Taurus wont stop sexting. He's so sweet when we are in person....I dont get it. I dont l care for his text personality.
The Capricorn and I work together and act more like strangers than best friends. He is a trip. He be in his zone and so do I.

Im tired of guys.

very VERY pretty eyes Serendibite. prettiest i've seen

Posted by lnana04
Pretty eyes Serendibite!

The Leo called me four times yesterday, including once from the bike shop off the trail smh. I guess he figured Id pick up then.
The Taurus wont stop sexting. He's so sweet when we are in person....I dont get it. I dont l care for his text personality.
The Capricorn and I work together and act more like strangers than best friends. He is a trip. He be in his zone and so do I.

Im tired of guys.

lol.
I don't blame you!

Hey Capgirl... how's all with the Scorp— He's moved in, yes? 🙂

Posted by lildol
Hey Capgirl... how's all with the Scorp— He's moved in, yes? 🙂

Things are good.

Since about April 1st, he has been staying with me just about every day. For the past few weeks, he has been moving in a little at a time.
Been kind of a stressful couple of weeks. We had our first arguments, and it kind of came to a head last week. I think we were both wondering if we could handle it, and second guessing the decision. Big reality check for both of us, I think. Really no major fighting, just the sudden realization on his point of the full extent of how hot and cold I can run, and the sudden realization on my part of just how dramatic he can be, lol. Over the past 8 months, this was the first time we have spent every day together. And the first time we have argued.
This past week was the first 24/7 week he spent at my house with my son. I think that's a lot for anyone to handle- a 9 year old around 24/7.

On Saturday, he brought his big furniture, and his dad helped. Long day, but now he is completely in. Just a few items left at his apartment.

And yesterday we kind of cleaned up a little, started unpacking, and my son went to his dad's, and suddenly the stress melted and things were back to normal. Went on a nice bike ride last night, and our first grocery shopping trip! 🙂 That was fun. I've never had anyone grocery shop with me.

So, you know, growing pains are to be expected, but

*all in all, things are good. We are happy.

Sorry, had an ADD moment. lol.

capgirl... things appear to be going swimmingly ^_^