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Posted by capgirl69
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my side hurts from laughing so hard at that.


on a heavier note... one of the doctors i work with just called my boss to say that he doesnt want me working with him as i am a FEMALE! apparently big time can't have females in his OR anymore! sounds like someone's wife wears the pants at home.



Can they do that? That's awful!
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the docs are the prima donnas in this gig. all else humbly bow down. it's completely okay with me. it just sucks. i wasnt the only chick that got the short end of the deal. another lady from a competitor company had to let her boss take over.

vegas is a different beast than most other areas in this industry. most of the time being female works in women's favor. i truly hate to say it and wish things were different and more clinically and qualification based. but everyonce in a while, such as this case, it goes against us. gotta take the good with the bad i guess.
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Posted by lnana04
Im on the same boat. I dont think Im fit for Fwb, short term relationships, long term relationships, long distance relationships, marriage, etc etc etc.

The Delany sisters never married and hardly dated and they both lived to be over 100yrs old.

Life>>>> Love



ahhh there's hope. but perhaps not being in a romantic relationship doesnt have to mean your life doesnt possess love or that love can't better it or be a major part of it... love doesnt have to take on the traditional form or meaning.

maybe i can love a pet parrot. at this point it would out live me, if I get a baby. and then i can pass it down to my brother or sisters kids... making sure to have taught it all sorts of fun and entertaining things to say 😛
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You may need to work on your technique; I'm experiencing amusement rather than jealousy and astonishment. 😛 haha! stupid charm of an over-inflated sense of accomplishment... i missed my mark!

I like how you skip right over contentment and want to be thrilled. lol Ok, reasons to be thrilled...

10) You can wax and shave whatever you want whenever you want. wont be an issue ever again very soon 😄
9) No need to worry about your looks or breath first thing in the morning. i've always brushed my teeth first thing in the morning, single or not... it's just a thing with me.
8) You can spend as much time with your friends as you want. this is a good one!
7) No one will make fun of you for becoming emotional over a chick flick. seeing as how i've cried from commercials and previews... this is now a moot point. pisces moon, what can i say
6) You can travel wherever you want whenever you want. another very very good one
5) No need to worry about maternity leave throwing a monkey wrench in your career plans. i dont think i plan anything anymore. i plot
4) No one will nag you about what you spend your money on. haha! definitely!
3) You'll never have to pretend to like your significant other's friends
2) You'll never have to pretend to like your significant other's family there's something kinda bitter sweet about these thoughts

and the numero uno reason why it's better to be single is... *drum role, please*

1) The remote will always be under your control! i'm one of those people who doesnt watch tv. surprise, i'm weird lol

I totally stole those from the interwebz, but whatever. The effort invested in originality seems foolish when compared to the luxurious sloth of plagiarism!

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All of a sudden i feel really stressed. I felt so good this morning but now stress about all the stuff i need to do. Wash my car, finish my house, workout, bills, i had a delay in money comming in until tuesday which irritated me. Work tomorrow. All of a sudden i feel overwhelmed. Its times like these that i pray, God lead me to put one in front of the other and do one thing at a time and count my blessings because i have so many.



I wish these were the only things I had to do. 🙂

Hope that makes you feel better.



uh oh, well we are caps. sometimes i feel like we are given the weight of the world by default. smh sending strength prayers your way love 🙂
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Back at ya!
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So the cap that i was dating for a second (quickly stopped because he proved to impatient, insecure and presumptuous of me)... and i were talking on the phone. We were supposed to hang out tonight but he got weird via text. lol. I'm such a straight shooting, no bullshit person... I feel like most earth signs are this way. This cap is scorp rising, cap sun and leo moon... apparently that spells trouble.

I called him out on his crap and we both got fed up and decided against hanging out. I'm so over guys trying to be emotionally manipulative with me, it's not even funny.

I told him he needs to be more honest... to himself, to me about what the frick he wants... in general. He bucked for a minute, then conceded. And asked me how he could be more honest. So I gave my answer catered to his character specifically and he said he'd be more up front with me. lol OK.

I made other plans... I went to the gym to blow of steam in general. I LOVE my job. Fucking LOVE it. I love the challenge that it presents to me. And yes it's stressful, but it's the kind that is good for me. The kind that requires me to hit the gym at the end of the day to sweat out the emotions I can do without.

He calls me up while I'm at the gym and procedes to say that I'm stubborn, I've got the wrong idea and all this stuff that I really didnt care to hear. lol. Didn't we get past that? omg *smh* In the middle of our convo a lady staff member walks up to me while i was on a bike to tell me I have to lock my bag. I told her I dont have a lock and dont trust that my stuff wont get stolen without one.

Meanwhile, knucklehead on the phone overhears this and says that I "need to get smart and say that i have medical device that i need in my bag" Something like that. LOL I didnt even comment. I dont remember if I did. I just remember thinking to myself "i need to get smart? really." I know I said "you made presumptions of me that were slippery and indirect. you didnt deny it when i first called you out on it, but now you're acting like it's not what you meant because it was said so underhanded. I might have been born at night but i wasnt born last night... i'm kinda over this whole conversation. let's talk later." LOL! I get ruthless.

The lady walked away and came back with a free lock for me and asked if she could give me a free personal training sesh if i wanted to schedule one with her. All for being so upfront and understanding.

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and i'm thinking really hard on picking up the violin.

i played piano for years and years and years. miss it. dearly. still play when i can, but i dont have a piano at the moment. i've been dying to learn the violin for years and it just seems so much more... mobile. it will definitely fill my craving for raw instrumental music at my hands. until i can get a piano again. 🙂
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Creeps, he sounds like a dick. I'm sure he has good qualities...


I play flute! OK, haven't picked it up in years, but I'm sure I can still play 🙂
(damn, I've had that thing for 30 yrs now... I'm old 😭)



agreed. he does sound like a dick.

I play the flute too! I can still play it but I pretty much suck.
I want to learn the guitar.
Maybe I can get Scorp to teach me the drums since we have them at home.
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Posted by lildol
Creeps, he sounds like a dick. I'm sure he has good qualities...


I play flute! OK, haven't picked it up in years, but I'm sure I can still play 🙂
(damn, I've had that thing for 30 yrs now... I'm old 😭)



yup. i think i'd shared another story about him a while ago on here and everyone was in agreement that he's speshal.

and you're right, that's diplomatic of you... he does have many many attractive qualities about him. but tough shit if he's going to be so incredibly emotionally unstable right off the bat. i took him down a peg. apparently i should have taken him down a few.

he's already txted me bright and early this morning that he's sorry about last night and is "starting to have feelings" and doesnt want to get hurt.

LMFAO! this guy is a nut job. I can count on one hand how many times we've hung out in the last 3 months almost. The extent of our physical relationship has just been kissing. I shit you not. I can appreciate the honesty, but seriously... at this point... I'm over it.

bah

anyhoo... i love all instruments. you should start up again... playing music is SO therapeutic imo. 🙂
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Posted by lnana04
LoL@ you and the Cap guy. The gym may be good for your emotional release but whenever you want your blood to boil you now know who to call lol.

I like to hear Cap/Cap stories. I remember laughing at Capgirl and the Cap she dated.



ROFL!!!!!!! 😛 anytime i need some gym motivation lololol

honestly... dealing with him, REALLY makes me reflect on myself. And I hope to GAWD! that I am nothing like this!!!!!! srsly!
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Creeps, he sounds like a dick. I'm sure he has good qualities...


I play flute! OK, haven't picked it up in years, but I'm sure I can still play 🙂
(damn, I've had that thing for 30 yrs now... I'm old 😭)



agreed. he does sound like a dick.

I play the flute too! I can still play it but I pretty much suck.
I want to learn the guitar.
Maybe I can get Scorp to teach me the drums since we have them at home.
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do it 🙂 the guitar especially. i play the air guitar in my car while i'm driving with my knee sometimes LOLOLOL
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and i'm thinking really hard on picking up the violin.

i played piano for years and years and years. miss it. dearly. still play when i can, but i dont have a piano at the moment. i've been dying to learn the violin for years and it just seems so much more... mobile. it will definitely fill my craving for raw instrumental music at my hands. until i can get a piano again. 🙂



All the best with it. I'm trying to learn to play the acoustic guitar, badly. I mean, it's not going too well but it's the therapeutic aspect that keeps me going at it. I was alright on the keyboard as a kid. I don't know why I lost my ability to play by ear and now I'm in true Cap fashion kicking myself for not bothering to learn to read music!
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it is never too late! and practice makes perfect. i play and played well at the piano, but it wasnt without TONS of practice. my parents would actually yell at me to stop playing so much.

what drove me was picking out songs that i really really liked. pick out your favorite songs, find the guitar music and go to town.
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2 years! He's been wanting to shave it for a long time. Lol. I noticed he'd start talking about it when he's seen his twin. Well he saw him last weekend and he's been talking about it ever since. So I really encouraged him to do it today and I had to sit in the bathroom with him, but it's all gone and now he hates his life. Lol.

But I think it looks good. He's cute, he doesn't need all that hair!
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2 years! He's been wanting to shave it for a long time. Lol. I noticed he'd start talking about it when he's seen his twin. Well he saw him last weekend and he's been talking about it ever since. So I really encouraged him to do it today and I had to sit in the bathroom with him, but it's all gone and now he hates his life. Lol.

But I think it looks good. He's cute, he doesn't need all that hair!



lol he hates his life?! LMAO typical scorpio detesting a little change. 😛 well, im sure it is and i'm glad you find that it looks good.
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2 years! He's been wanting to shave it for a long time. Lol. I noticed he'd start talking about it when he's seen his twin. Well he saw him last weekend and he's been talking about it ever since. So I really encouraged him to do it today and I had to sit in the bathroom with him, but it's all gone and now he hates his life. Lol.

But I think it looks good. He's cute, he doesn't need all that hair!



lol he hates his life?! LMAO typical scorpio detesting a little change. 😛 well, im sure it is and i'm glad you find that it looks good.
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He's always hating his life. lol. He does look a lot different- it is very drastic. It is really amazing how much a beard can change your appearance. It was one of those where this morning I did a double take, haha. Like, who is this person?

His beard made him look a little tough. Without it, you can tell he's not tough. I think that's what he hates about not having it. It's easier if people think you are a little tougher than you are! lol.
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I am so flipping happy I could do backflips down the hallway until I explode. 😄

My virgo son texted me this morning.....

him - "mom, we need to talk"
me - "please don't tell me someone is pregnant or that you are becoming a monk"
him - "no, I found a place closer to my job. would you be upset if I moved out?"
me - (((((*FUCKING TWIRLS*))))))
me - *composes self* that would be no problem, just give me at least a weeks notice.
him - okay, here is my weeks notice. I found an apartment really close to work and I won't have to depend on you for rides.
me - that is no problem. you can take whatever you need in the house....like your bed, dresser or the extra furniture in the basement.
him - thanks! I will mow the lawn and clean my room out before I leave.
me - that would be awesome, I would appreciate it a lot!


YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!

This has been tough....since the ordeal in December. I stand by every decision I made when all that went down. The pisces is doing fantastic...full time job with benefits, in school and taking care of his family...ON HIS OWN. The Leo girlfriend has gotten her drivers license and is working towards getting enrolled in school......she updates me with voicemails because she is still a little afraid to talk to me in person. The baby is fantastic....and now the Virgo is making huge strides at success...ON HIS OWN.

I love my boys. 😄

LIFE FUCKING ROCKS....and you have to BELIEVE in TOMMORROW!



The coming eclipse is apparently one of great power to get all things right that needs to be made right 🙂

(you're still gonna miss him 😛)
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i just heard tonight that a bunch of old friends, mostly acquaintances at this point, have all come to the conclusion that i am running away from life or certain parts of life.

don't even know where to begin.

... cept maybe here... yes. i did run away from certain parts of my life. THEM! their drama AND they're drama! lameness! fakeness! there's a reason i let those relationships fall by the wayside... because i didnt feel they were worth it!

there is a method here.
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nope! those friends i was referring to in the previous page are kinda old news for me because of all their antics. i can't stomach judgement when it's constant, trivial and narrow-minded. they're a group of friends i'd stopped hanging out with several years ago because i DID make friends with them through an ex-bf. and plus... they talk a lot. i'm surprised my name still comes up with all of them. a small handful of them i do keep up with though.

apparently even that ex lost touch with all of them too. and i'd put money on it that it's because he's trying to avoid their judgements as well.

current friends i met the same time i met scorpypoop. then he and i didnt start dating til 5 or 6 months after i'd been hanging out and getting to know all of them. scorpypoop likes to act like they're only my friends because of him. he's become very possessive over their friendship ...to say the least.
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thats right 🙂 they haven't a clue. i guess i'd rather it that way.

at first i was a smidge upset about what i'd heard. which isn't really that bad. worse things can be said of oneself than "oh she's running from her life" lololol and all this time i thought i was running after it. silly me 😛

it just goes to show how strong opinions are formed without knowing much at all.
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it is one of the most soul crushing things when you have "i love you always... " all written out and ready to send, but then decide not to and delete it all.


You didn't write that for him anyway; you wrote it for you. It's not the deletion that felt soul-crushing, but what your decision to delete it means.

You have to feel your feelings. Hiding from them is just lying to yourself and what do you gain from that? When you accept your feelings you will accept your fate, and when you accept your fate, you will be able to move on. What you choose to do then will be, as ever, entirely up to you.

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I guess Im being difficult.

My Cap friend got in trouble with his wife on Sunday. As I was leaving work he stopped me and asked if I was going to the festival. I said "maybe" and he said "lets go ou there for an hour" I was like okay. I waited an hour until he got off and as we headed to the gas station he called his wife. He thought she was with her mother, but she was home, so he said they could continue with their plans. As soon as he got off the phone I was like "see, thid is why I dont fool with you" but I was laughing. It was no biggie, and I told him to just drop me home. He insisted that we go to the festival, because we still had time,so we did.

We ended up staying out there for two hrs. between getting there, looking for parking, and walking around....2hrs past. When I checked my phone as we were leaving I saw that she called twice. He looked at the time and said "Oh, s@it, Im in trouble" he was trying to think of something to tell her whe she called and he tried to explain he was bringing me somewhere. She yelled "FOr TWO HOURS" she was pissed, and in our weird humor we were laughing, not at her, but at how F-up the situation was. I didnt even think much about it being mothers day., and we noticed everytime we hang out it ends up being a problem...as in where shes suppose to be st school or something, so we'll hang, and shell get home early wondering where he is.

Anyway, I didnt talk to him yesterday, but he called not long ago. He said they got into a bad argument, and its just what he expected....that she think something Is going on between us. Now Ive only met her once, and I like her, but Im pretty ackward when it comes to meeting people and developing a relationship. I tried to talk to her, but we never really connected that day, and he is pushing me to hang with them/her more. Today he was like "see, thats why you need to come over more and hang with the family....this is looking bad....I talk about you to her all the time and Im with you sometimes, yet you wont come over....shes getting suspicious."

Idk, but I just refuse to be uncomfortable or force something, and I was so uncomfortable the last time. I told him that we should just stop hanging out. He said I was being an @sshole, and said he'd call me back...I know he was a bit pissed, but we've just gotten to where we hang. I just feel chilling with the family, or even going to their house period is not something I want to do, and its nothing against her. im sure I look
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Now that I've stewed for a couple of days, time to vent.

I basically was on kid duty Sat and Sun as the bf stayed up until 5 or 6 am playing video games and wanted to sleep as opposed to getting up and taking care of his kids (his 3 & 5 yr old). I didn't want to burden my daughter as she's feeding every 3-4 hrs and actually needs her rest. So, I just went ahead and took care of them (oh and let me tell you what a joy it was - NOT). On Sat I took care of them until my daughter came downstairs around 2:30, the bf got up around the same time, jumped in the shower and left for work. Ok, fine, one day... Sun rolls around and same damn shit! Ya know what, if the little fucker doesn't want to take care of his kids he shouldn't even have them! And he talks about getting full custody...

I'm not playing this shit next weekend! He can go stay at his mother's house - not that she wants the kids around either (yeah, they're that sweet).