the dumping garden (Page 35)

Posted by CluelessCancer

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Scenic
I HATE when people always talk about saving up money or not having much money then go out and spend a lot. My boyfriend talked about needing tires for winter because he almost had a car accident the other day. So he drops $ 400 some of tires, goes out and buys a $ 400 ps4 and then talks about Christmas gifts. Said he had to sell his stocks for the money. He also said he's not going to be buying any games for the ps4 yet (which is another $ 50-60 per game) so why did he have to buy it now, when he had all these other things to pay for? Not to mention his wii U broke and to get it fixed it will cost $ 100. He needs a new shaver, too, which is another $ 50-90. But, he really needed that new ps4! God. This is on the top of the list of things that piss me off.

Red flag, thankfully he's just a boyfriend, than a husband though right!

damn. That IS alot of money to drop for just playthings and christmas is coming up. wellll.....
on the positive side, he's driving you around on his new 400 dollar tires right?

I mean if he has no responsibilities but himself and at times taking his girl out to eat than who cares right. how old are these people?

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Lol. Scenic just came with added bonuses in her replies. =D

Posted by Scenic
Yes, at the very least he got the new tires and won't be putting anyone in danger now. He has two kids and that is expensive. I told him he should start saving up for college or something for them because he's not just living for himself. Even though I yelled at him a lot for that he thanked me and said I was right. But damn if I'm not still mad about that ps4.

well good for him and his children can enjoy car rides to the zoo, parks, and stuff. safely.

you'll be mad for awhile about that ps4 ..... Lol.

hahahaha! 28yo Pisces
Um, NO!
Will have lunch with him today though.
He heads back to KY tonight, Army boy on Biden duty.
Funny shit!
I'm too old for this crap!

Found the perfect picture for most of the threads her on DXPnet:

That one's pretty good 🙂

??_my 4 week old nephew has an amazing quaff for a little peanut. libra sun, cap moon. boom!

capinc??_ he has you beat for hair lol


🙂 i'm a proud auntie





??_who has baby fever lol

isn't he a heartbreaker— 😄 thanks CC doll! xoxo

M ??_he has the best duck face too. he's hysterical.

OMG! Cute, cute, cute!!!

(my son is Libra w/ Cap Moon - you all are in for a hell of a time 😉)

The most useful letter in the alphabet for ending a conversation with my mother...K

Thanksgiving arrives on the plane this Friday.

Posted by TigerCap
Found the perfect picture for most of the threads her on DXPnet:

Lol!!! Post that on every forum!! 😄

Cute nephew Creepy!!!

Lildol, my daughter is opposite as a sun Cap with a Libra Moon - do not ever, ever pick on someone in her presence. She'll fight you for their honor! She is 100% for the underdog. lol!

Well, two days sick looks more realistic than one! 🙂

Maybe you just need to recharge, Clueless. When's the last time you took some vacation days?

Posted by CluelessCancer
I just got invited to go to a gun shooting range, i want to throw up, from the excitement.

I would LOVE that! That's my kind of entertainment. 🙂

A thought on pisces moon, and perhaps moon placements in general...

I realize that with a cap sun 2nd house, scorp ascendant... I will always have that outgoing side of me in the drivers seat. Constantly driving at it. And my poor pisces moon/emotional self, hanging on for dear life half the time, wide-eyed sitting in the back... possibly even bound n gagged in the trunk wondering why *i* ever wonder how i got there lol

Have I ever mentioned that I don't care all that much for Leos and their attention seeking behavior?

He knows I'm supposed to be going out with my GF tonight (and I'm always with her and never have time for him as he puts it), so he calls pulling this shit:

(BTW I'm skipping some of the in btwn parts to keep it short, his Merc is in Leo too, so you can imagine the dramatics)

Him: "I'm sick of life, I just want to end it"
Me: "What happened?"
Him: "Hold on, let me get myself together"
Me: being impatient "Talk to me!"
(short story, he got reamed out at work - the catalyst)
Me: "Well you should have bit your tongue" ... "I have good days and bad days too"
Him: "But you don't own a loaded 45"
Him: *sniffling sounds* "I've been crying all day"
Him: "I'm just gonna end it"
Me: bluntly "No you're not"
Him: "Nobody cares anyway"
Me: Babbles about what he has going on in his life
Him: Going on about how none of that matters
Him: "I'm just sick of living"
Me: babbles on about selfish behavior and hurting others, and more about everyone has good/bad days so on and so forth in my very straight forward, sounds like I lack any empathy what-so-ever way. I probably come off very unemotional and cold. I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing. Fine, he had a bad day. I can't solve his problems for him. At one point I literally told him he needs to suck it up and roll with the punches!

Him: all non-nonchalant at the end "So, when you coming over?"

ATTENTION SEEKING!

*rips hair out*

:/

Aww haha omg. Smother him. With a pillow. He might like it.

Pillow sounds good! We ended up out to dinner. He says on the way he knows he's a spoiled brat and acts like a baby at times. I told him "YEAH, you do act like a baby!" (I'm so mean) He wanted to get out of the car at that point and just walk home. I should have just said ok...but, I didn't.

I was able to escape after about 2 hrs of being with him. On the drive home he was talking about cutting his own throat. Of course, I'm like, "You're not going to do that". THEN, once we got to his place, he said I saved his life then tried to kiss me. I turned my head. He was like "I don't know why you won't give me a chance..."

UGH!

It goes on
He: "I probably won't be here tomorrow"
Me: "Yes you will"
Him: "No, I don't think I'll make it through the night"
Me: "You have leftovers from dinner, food in the fridge and beer. You can't let it go to waste."
Him: "I'll give you a key"
Me: "Just go to bed"
Him: "I haven't been sleeping"
Me: "Well I have to go, I'm tired and need to get to bed"
Gave him a hug and left.

Him, this morning: "Good Morning [lildol]" then "I miss u [lildol]"

And he wonders why I won't give him a chance. REALLY? I wonder why...

We just went from 160 pages to 152...

WHO DELETED?

Be careful with them Leos. Although they were teens, I read before where this Leo guy killed his Capricorn girlfriend because he felt she was being rude to him at a party smh.

This guy sounds cute/crazy, but it IS distrubing that he's going to lengths of speaking of suicide to get your attention and sympathy. "Why wont you give me a chance?" shows that he constantly feels rejected and with them, Idk how much they can take when it comes to rejection smh.

I hate to mention this, but in that same magazine that I read that story from of the Leo killing his girlfriend...I turn the page and there's another story of a teen girl killed because she broke up with her boyfriend...come to find out, she was also a Capricorn, and he was a Libra.

Then I remember watching one of those murder shows, and there was a story of a woman that worked at a bar. One day a guy tried asked for her number and she rejected him. He started dating another girl and had the new girl he was dating, a Libra, murder the woman that worked at the bar. The woman murdered was a Capricorn and the guy was a Scorpio.

I guess my point here is to say...be carefull with the rejection out here. These men are crazy, and can't seem to handle it when it comes from some women.

Inana, THANKS! :/

I've been dancing this dance for about 4 years now with him.

Not just the me not giving him a chance either, but talks of suicide. A couple of years back I even called the cops on him because he said he had a hit list and was planning on going out "suicide by cop".

He told me last night not to call the suicide hotline on him. I never admitted to being the one to call before. But, he probably knows given that statement...

In any case, I've always been very blunt with him and I don't coddle. So, he is used to my abrasiveness. Of course, that doesn't mean he won't snap, and it doesn't mean he won't snap on me. His stability level varies from day to day it seems at times! He said in one of his texts this morning for 'me' to keep smiling... uh, ok.

The statement "If I can't have you, then no one can have you" has crossed my mind as he get's very testy when I'm seeing someone and then, of course, he's jealous of me spending "so much time" with my GF as of late (or anyone ever for that matter, including myself)... last night he said that I need to spend more time with him.

Some Caps are better with Leos than others. It's true. They don't handle rejection well. I had one that just assumed I was interested, and then when I came out and said "No" he held a grudge for years. The dating world can be a scary place. I trust my instincts. I just deleted someone whose friendship request I don't remember accepting because I didn't like the look in their eyes.

I finally told the Leo to go eff off, I'm sick of his shit.

He joined my GF, whom he'd never met, and I out last night. Out of the blue he stormed out in what I considered a fit of jealousy. Texts me to enjoy my crack w h o r e GF. Final straw!

I miss you. And I hate saying it out loud. But it's deep, it's resounding, and it echoes in every thought. No amount of distraction or amusement can drown it out. I can handle it, but the worst of it is that I begin to feel as though you don't deserve it.

And lildoll- I'm happy you let it go. I didn't want to say it because it might sound too cruel, but I would have abandoned him. He wants too much from you. It doesn't sound so much a Leo thing as plain insecurity. He just needs some good vibes and to find his own happiness.

Posted by lildol
I finally told the Leo to go eff off, I'm sick of his shit.

He joined my GF, whom he'd never met, and I out last night. Out of the blue he stormed out in what I considered a fit of jealousy. Texts me to enjoy my crack w h o r e GF. Final straw!

Well WTF. Good riddance.

I feel ya M!

On a positive note, I purchased my turkey on Sat, it's been sitting outside since - no need to have had to make room in the freezer/fridge. Tomorrow is expected to be perfect fridge weather though, 42F.

Beer slushies have proved interesting, sure beats what 7-Eleven has to offer anyway 🙂


OH, and as for the turkey, we have a bird cage outside. My Cap GF suggested that I put the 'bird' in the cage LOL

Posted by deivaleonne
And lildoll- I'm happy you let it go. I didn't want to say it because it might sound too cruel, but I would have abandoned him. He wants too much from you. It doesn't sound so much a Leo thing as plain insecurity. He just needs some good vibes and to find his own happiness.

No, no, no. Wouldn't have been cruel. I know the realities and what a messed up 'friendship' it was. I dealt with a lot with him. I've tried to help him and support him, which at times has been very exhausting. His emotional ups and downs are extreme and can change without any apparent provocation. He needs medication, I can't do anything more for him.

Posted by lildol
On a positive note, I purchased my turkey on Sat, it's been sitting outside since - no need to have had to make room in the freezer/fridge. Tomorrow is expected to be perfect fridge weather though, 42F.

Beer slushies have proved interesting, sure beats what 7-Eleven has to offer anyway 🙂


OH, and as for the turkey, we have a bird cage outside. My Cap GF suggested that I put the 'bird' in the cage LOL

Lol!!! That would be funny!

My 16 year old has been put in charge of outdoor Christmas lights and decorations this year. He said he wants it to look like the Griswald's. Should I be nervous? lol!

"Sell your cleverness and buy bewilderment" - Rumi

love Love LOVE that quote.

Just seems like too many people are so incredibly caught up in their own arsenal of knowledge and brain power that few really seem to live or experience anything further than themselves.

Posted by CreepyPants
"Sell your cleverness and buy bewilderment" - Rumi

love Love LOVE that quote.

Just seems like too many people are so incredibly caught up in their own arsenal of knowledge and brain power that few really seem to live or experience anything further than themselves.

—

speaking of things I love??_ SilentTempest, I *adore* that painting by April Gornik. She's actually my favorite artist. really really good avi choice 🙂

Posted by CluelessCancer
I love that quote Creepy.

it's refreshing isn't it? 🙂 cheers love

This is the first time in a long time ive had the place to myself. Everyone is off with their boos lol.

Did anyone figure out who deleted?

I think Elle

Posted by Chance15
'keep your cleverness and don't buy bs'-me 😄 and think for yourself, be your own leader, and don't live by cliches.

blegh lol 🙂

Oh the woes of the broken hearted...!
Why do people hurt each other when breaking up....
Will make us stronger when we come out the other side...

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Oh the woes of the broken hearted...!
Why do people hurt each other when breaking up....
Will make us stronger when we come out the other side...

Hugs!

Posted by truecap

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Oh the woes of the broken hearted...!
Why do people hurt each other when breaking up....
Will make us stronger when we come out the other side...

Hugs!

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Thanks Truecap x

Posted by M
Props to this guy, what with more and more stores trying to stay open.
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/pizza-hut-manager-says-fired-042328900.html<BR>
Some people don't mind working, and some people need to...but it shouldn't be forced. Which leaves closing on principle the best route. Everyone who changes over puts more pressure on the stores who don't and thus lose a day of business.

+1000

Posted by M
Lolz. Are you a victim of industry, Sam?

Nope but I feel for the guy standing up to the big guys

I won't be at Walmart today.

Is it true that the night before Thanksgiving is one of the biggest bar nights of the year?

There's been a lot of bar-event ads and the local bar was packed.

I have to go fetch a newspaper for my mother...lol

I'm sorry for your loss Sam. Maybe this one just isn't ready. Let him work it out for himself. You deserve someone who values and appreciates you.

No one's life is like a Christmas movie. Seriously. Reality just isn't always pretty.

Im usually all for tradition and doing the family thing for thanksgiving, but I wanted to go out to eat this year...just me and my mom. Im not for the big family gathering today *sigh*