the dumping garden (Page 34)

Put the Leo in tears again (this is multiple times over the past 4 yrs - rinse, repeat).

Him: Why won't you give me a chance?
(always whiny they are UGH)
Me: I value you as a friend.
Him: But [lildol] I love you and would do anything for you.
Me: But I only see you as a friend. I do not think we would work out romantically.
Him: I'm done, can't do this anymore.
Me: If you feel that way. Have I ever done you wrong, steered you wrong or used you?
Him: No.
Me: I value your friendship. I hope you value mine.
Him: I do, but I can't do this anymore.
Me: I'm the one that has always been there when you needed someone to talk to.
Him: I know, but I gotta go.
Me: Can I have a hug.
Him: No, gotta go.

:/

I hate breaking hearts. (even worse when I have to do it over and over to the same person)

Have I ever said I don't care for Leos or that they rub me wrong? (rhetorical!)
UGH!

Sorry, can't make YOU the center of my universe!

Why do girls have to be soo bitchy?
My now ex-Aries friend is now best buddies with my other ex - Libra friend.
We were all invited to a party I knew there would b trouble. Tried to be civil with everyone. Both came to the party together n left together.
Oh n Aries had to he centre of attention n pretty much ignored me all night. Soo much for a long friendship - I'm sooo over it

I did something soooooo stupid at work. Gosh, I hope I can recover from it or that it doesn't hurt me.

Posted by lnana04
I did something soooooo stupid at work. Gosh, I hope I can recover from it or that it doesn't hurt me.

What happened Inana04? Are u ok

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Posted by lnana04
I did something soooooo stupid at work. Gosh, I hope I can recover from it or that it doesn't hurt me.

What happened Inana04? Are u ok

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Yeah I'm okay...now. Thanks so much for asking.

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Posted by lnana04
I did something soooooo stupid at work. Gosh, I hope I can recover from it or that it doesn't hurt me.

What happened Inana04? Are u ok

Yeah I'm okay...now. Thanks so much for asking.

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That's good - I don't post much but do read up on here almost daily.. Here for u if u need to talk x Hugs x

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Why worry, if they're both in the 'no new friends though' category, surely that's not a bad thing if they've done you so wrong?

Thanks - yh let them stick together
Feel soo much better that they won't be in my life anymore

I decided to try to explain in a little more depth to the Leo and txted him yesterday:

"FWIW, I do not want to ruin a good friendship by going down a romantic route and then it go sour. I value our friendship too much"

This is essentially what I was trying to get at the other night, but I didn't think he was quite grasping.

His response: "Bye"

Leo's are so selfish.

Have I mentioned I don't particularly care for them, they're whiny and they rub me wrong? 😛


I'm talking about it, but it doesn't really bother me. Him going cold anyway. What bothers me is that I hurt him (once again).

It's his own damn fault. Don't ask a question you don't want to know the answer to! Had I given it to him 100% straight up rather than softening the blow it would have even been more detrimental to his fragile ego.

Not all lost. My car broke down last night. The Leo works at the dealership I had it towed (NO, not because he works there, it's a mile from work). Answered my call this morning. Doing what he can to help on his end to move things along and make sure I'm taking care of. But SHIT! They said they won't be able to fix it until tomorrow and no loners avail. I'm fucked!

That being said, I have a woman (Cap w/ Mars Scorp) in my bed 😄
(I was supposed to bring her home last night, brought her home alright LOL)

Not like that though 😛
(just saying for the wayward minded)

Oh wow, my moms Cap ex is suppose to be on Nancy Grace tonight.

I couldnt stand him lol. Hope the interview goes well.

Fuck Merc R! Battery causing all my car issues supposedly (including tranny slippage - Onstar reported a tranny problem in email). I have an issue w/ a timing belt sensor as well (had diagnosed previously by a friend), but because check engine light has gone off, diagnostics can't pick it up. They're blaming my report of that error code on my battery as well. Pick it up this afternoon. BUT, I need to bring it back every 1000 miles 3x though because of a recall on an oil sensor (it's burning) before they'll fix that issue.

Leo got pissy with me again last night because I didn't call him right back after he had "gone out of his way" to get me a loaner car for today. I did call him back, two hrs later when I had a chance. Was on his "bye" kick again because he needed to talk and I wasn't avail so he got mad *smh* (and he wonders why a rela w/ me wouldn't work out). He's back on board this morning. Discounted my new battery for me. I'm on the hook to hang out with him tonight now.

What I see when you talk about the Leo's antics:

Lol, yes! I told him last night that he's spoiled (which he admits to) and that the world doesn't revolve around him ("Yes it does" and chuckles). Told him to chill or I'll smack him upside the head!

How ya been Stoic?

Not only is it Thursday, but even more importantly, it's almost Friday!

Been well, lildol. How 'bout yourself, you little heartbreaker? 😉

Is Mercury R over yet?
I hope so had a bad couple of weeks where everything was going wrong to the point where I wanted to start a fresh n b single

Capi looked soo sexy hot with stubble n made me feel heaps better
Aww soo bliss right now x

It's Friday!!

Wohoo weekend starts soon!!!

Job loss is a symptom, not a disease, which explains why the short-sighted focus on job creation always fails.

Have I mentioned how selfish Leo's are—

I'm on NC AGAIN - I was out with a friend last night and the Leo wanted me to come pick him up (probably because he had been drinking). I told him No, that I had already had a drink and I didn't want to be driving away from home (his place is opposite mine from where I was at).

So, because he doesn't want to put himself at risk, I'm expected to put myself at (greater) risk?

*smh*

'Friendship' has been reevaluated!

I'm tempted to text him back. Given that it would be more of a personal attack on his character than anything else, I think I'll pass.

Someone pointes out to me that I have been using the word "actually" a lot lately.
This has actually led me to add an 1 second pause every time I get it because now I realize it. 😆

When's the best time to book flights..
No promo codes around n currently only sale on the bus class/first class tickets urrggggh

I still have an exam on Wednesday but I'm here on DXP! @_@!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You cant be so judgemental...or naive....or assume. The people you speak of are usually the people with the agendas. They coukd very well be thinking for themselves AND possibly even you in the future.

Alot of cheery people play the part to get IN the know.

My sis is like that...she can mingle with the best of them, having them taking her under their wing. In a couple of years, she'll know enough to run her own company if she want. These days, the most important thing is knowing how communicate and deal with ALL types of people, and she can deal with everyone from all walks of life.

I cant tolerate everyone...or anyone really, but ill be limited in some ways because of that.

Dont judge or assume, but study and see how the game works. Not suggesting you play it, but it most likely alway surround you.

I'm so darn bored with my life right now *sigh*

And the whole Saturn Return thing was so overrated. There was a change, but still...I actually expected something different.

Happy 11-12-13!

Screwed up. He's gone. I'll live.

But fuck this sucks.

I'm so, so sorry deivaleonne. 😢

Where is my green thumb? I bought a houseplant about two weeks ago and its already dying smh.

They call me the plant murderer! lol!

My Cap friend said he should manage my moms money, and I said no...she'd let me do it. He was like yeah, maybe you are right...although it would only grow about 1% but thats cool. Straight diss. I told him no...the little stock I do have grown much more. Basically he ran down why I suck as an investor because its growth but I dont know how to capitalize off my investments. It took all of me not to hang up the phone. Then he told me what he does, and tried to say what I should do...but he more he broke it down the less sense it made. He ended with "im gonna leave you alone and just let you do what you do" I told him I was going to do what I do regardless...he then changed the subject getting off the phone minutes later. Lol...gosh he irritates me. All him...him dissing me, him deciding the convo was over, him getting off the phone. Ugh

He is finishing up his degree and wants to be a financial planner. He think he knows all there is to know about money, but he's never insulted me or my decisions like that. I was truly offended lol. He does know much more than me when it comes to stocks, but still...he doesnt know everything. Cap males smh...how do people deal.

Posted by truecap
They call me the plant murderer! lol!

Oh no lol! My cappie grandma plants die too.

Thing is, mine are low maintenance, so I dont get what im doing wrong smh.

I don't have a green thumb either!

Posted by lnana04
My Cap friend said he should manage my moms money, and I said no...she'd let me do it. He was like yeah, maybe you are right...although it would only grow about 1% but thats cool. Straight diss. I told him no...the little stock I do have grown much more. Basically he ran down why I suck as an investor because its growth but I dont know how to capitalize off my investments. It took all of me not to hang up the phone. Then he told me what he does, and tried to say what I should do...but he more he broke it down the less sense it made. He ended with "im gonna leave you alone and just let you do what you do" I told him I was going to do what I do regardless...he then changed the subject getting off the phone minutes later. Lol...gosh he irritates me. All him...him dissing me, him deciding the convo was over, him getting off the phone. Ugh

He is finishing up his degree and wants to be a financial planner. He think he knows all there is to know about money, but he's never insulted me or my decisions like that. I was truly offended lol. He does know much more than me when it comes to stocks, but still...he doesnt know everything. Cap males smh...how do people deal.

Sounds like he suffers from an excess of confidence due his recent miseducation. The first time he has to explain to a senior citizen why they have less money today than they did twelve months ago when they listened to him should help correct that.

Ladies, take heart! Your failed attempts at nurturing houseplants to healthy, fulfilling lives is not your fault! The plants are not so simple as they are commonly thought to be; they realize that you are goats and they are your food. They are merely choosing suicide over permitting themselves to meet their intended end of nourishing you. Crafty little buggers...

I don't like people interfering in MY life!

Posted by StoicGoat
Ladies, take heart! Your failed attempts at nurturing houseplants to healthy, fulfilling lives is not your fault! The plants are not so simple as they are commonly thought to be; they realize that you are goats and they are your food. They are merely choosing suicide over permitting themselves to meet their intended end of nourishing you. Crafty little buggers...

Hahahahaha!!!

Guy goes out of his way to show adoration. Gets slammed with high position in job and new spot in a band. Goes MIA for a week. Comes back and says he's still interested. Disappears when asked if we're okay.

And he wonders why I'm confused and concerned? Last time he disappeared he ended up in the hospital with nervous system failure I didn't hear about til a month later. How am I supposed to move on when I don't know it's even over with? My mind says run. My heart says stay. I think my heart is a masochist.

HA! My Leo friend called and apologized for trying to distance himself.
I told him he was selfish that night expecting me to risk 'me' like that!
He acknowledged such.
Told him I was going out with a GF last night, he didn't seem all that happy.
Jealous is what he is!
I've never even dated the guy.
He's such a sap!

On a more depressing note (LOL)

Last night out I met a guy... another fricken LEO!
I told him that I do not like Leo's, they are selfish, self-centered, egotistical bastards.
He's still meeting my GF and I for drinks tonight.
I don't mind another friend. I'm fine with Leos as friends.
I'm guessing that's not his angle though.
Of all the women in the bar, YTF me?

:/

Lildol, the Leo magnet! 🙂

😛

I HATE when people always talk about saving up money or not having much money then go out and spend a lot. My boyfriend talked about needing tires for winter because he almost had a car accident the other day. So he drops $ 400 some of tires, goes out and buys a $ 400 ps4 and then talks about Christmas gifts. Said he had to sell his stocks for the money. He also said he's not going to be buying any games for the ps4 yet (which is another $ 50-60 per game) so why did he have to buy it now, when he had all these other things to pay for? Not to mention his wii U broke and to get it fixed it will cost $ 100. He needs a new shaver, too, which is another $ 50-90. But, he really needed that new ps4! God. This is on the top of the list of things that piss me off.

Gotta love the way Caps take control!

My friend got a little over the top, I had to pick up my daughter (Cap), friend in car inebriated and throwing up, my daughter immediately took on the role!

Love my girl to no end!

f/|ck it all ever
why to run for these millions surrounded by *very honest* goverment representatives
when i could be a programmer or a translator
yeah, very cap-ish f||ck it all

Hmmm...not sure how I feel about this.

I told my Taurus I was breaking away a few weeks ago. We went backnforth, and just a few days ago I decided to text him that I'll ALWAYS be his friend and never ever leave him in that way. Idk...it's important for some door to be opened.

Well I'm feeling a certain way today because he just updated his facebook. Posted a pic of himself as well as a current fav car, I guess. Thing is, this guy hasn't been on facebook since probably January, and posted maybe twice ALL last year. My sis told me btw...they are friends on facebook.

My thing is, Why update it now? My ma says he's putting himself out there again. This guy more than anyone else knows exactly how to make me jealous. Hopefully he's not trying to get a reaction out of me....and hopefully he's not really putting himself out there again.*sigh*

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Posted by Scenic
I HATE when people always talk about saving up money or not having much money then go out and spend a lot. My boyfriend talked about needing tires for winter because he almost had a car accident the other day. So he drops $ 400 some of tires, goes out and buys a $ 400 ps4 and then talks about Christmas gifts. Said he had to sell his stocks for the money. He also said he's not going to be buying any games for the ps4 yet (which is another $ 50-60 per game) so why did he have to buy it now, when he had all these other things to pay for? Not to mention his wii U broke and to get it fixed it will cost $ 100. He needs a new shaver, too, which is another $ 50-90. But, he really needed that new ps4! God. This is on the top of the list of things that piss me off.

Red flag, thankfully he's just a boyfriend, than a husband though right!

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damn. That IS alot of money to drop for just playthings and christmas is coming up. wellll.....
on the positive side, he's driving you around on his new 400 dollar tires right?

I love Michael Stipe. I think M should host the awards.

Yes, at the very least he got the new tires and won't be putting anyone in danger now. He has two kids and that is expensive. I told him he should start saving up for college or something for them because he's not just living for himself. Even though I yelled at him a lot for that he thanked me and said I was right. But damn if I'm not still mad about that ps4.