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Posted by CapriLady
Yup. They need to appear in control, but you can't be a pushover either. Makes things hard. Give him a chance to miss you. Maybe you'll meet someone nicer too.



Yep soo true can identify with his need to stay/appear in control. What do u mean by I shouldn't b a pushover ?
If I stand my ground he acts like I've done him wrong or that I'm "arguing/fighting" him on it (his control)
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Posted by CapriLady
Sometimes people don't agree. I like Chanel 🙂



That's true people don't always agree on everything but that doesn't mean he should run away to sulk cos I didn't agree with him. He normally comes back but it's different this time I feel like he crossed the line. He's got to accept he can't have it all his way. he thinks that as I don't agree with him i won't listen to him n he can't be with me cos il always fight him. How is that even right ... ? Stubborn n won't see past this
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Posted by CapriLady
I see. I don't know what's going on with him then. I ate too much food this week. My mom is overfeeding me. I want to go back to the gym. We're going to the mall tomorrow. She has coupons.



i overfeed my family too. including myself. i get hungry all the time.

mother in law has opted for us to go to the gym on a regular basis. *crosses fingers* i hope it pulls through. there's a good sale going on too at some of the fitness centers. and unlimited visits.
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I see. I don't know what's going on with him then. I ate too much food this week. My mom is overfeeding me. I want to go back to the gym. We're going to the mall tomorrow. She has coupons.



i overfeed my family too. including myself. i get hungry all the time.

mother in law has opted for us to go to the gym on a regular basis. *crosses fingers* i hope it pulls through. there's a good sale going on too at some of the fitness centers. and unlimited visits.
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My mother has always overfed me. I realize it's a part of her love, so I forgive her but I have to remain really active to keep weight off. I like the Y. It's very close and it relieves stress. I've been slacking. It's part of my routine. I love seeing her but it interrupts everything and it is stressful because she's such a perfectionist.
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I see. I don't know what's going on with him then. I ate too much food this week. My mom is overfeeding me. I want to go back to the gym. We're going to the mall tomorrow. She has coupons.



i overfeed my family too. including myself. i get hungry all the time.

mother in law has opted for us to go to the gym on a regular basis. *crosses fingers* i hope it pulls through. there's a good sale going on too at some of the fitness centers. and unlimited visits.



My mother has always overfed me. I realize it's a part of her love, so I forgive her but I have to remain really active to keep weight off. I like the Y. It's very close and it relieves stress. I've been slacking. It's part of my routine. I love seeing her but it interrupts everything and it is stressful because she's such a perfectionist.
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since i'm married, i just fall into place, with food being part of our life, and serving my husband a delicious belgium beer or something like that. Winter's coming up and you know what happens when that comes around. Extra pounds to put on.

thanksgiving weekend isn't it? Happy thanksgiving for all you folks.
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I was in the turn lane and the Leo pulled up in the next lane over. As the light changes my GF glances over and says "some guy is staring at us" (having only met him once and in dim light she didn't recognize him). I look over, he grins and gives a little nod, we pull away. Next thing I know I'm getting multiple texts from him trashing her and I. He's seriously beyond belief!

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I'm very stressed over trying to get an internship. I feel like I may have waited too long but I'm really putting off calling because I'm nervous and I'm not even sure exactly WHO to call. I'm not ready to start a professional job. I still feel like I'm 16. : ( I have to make two connections, too in case the first falls through. The second would be through a program in DC but that's a whole different application process and I just can't handle all of this. I'd really just prefer to come about a large sum of money and spend my life traveling.
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i haven't slept since thursday night


*loading tranq gun*

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LOL 😛 sweet. i might still need a shot of that tonight, tbh.

i'd taken an ambien to put me down at 4pm yesterday and i just couldn't go with it. i mean??_ i was on a plane for a 5 hr flight sandwiched between two much larger people who were definitely encroaching on my space ...and effin couldn't get comfy enough to fall asleep. i walked off the plane completely disoriented and dizzy. i ate dinner at 8pm and by the time i was on dxp, i was literally hallucinating. @.@ at one point i thought i saw my dad standing behind me. my dad who lives in another state.

i'd heard that if you take a sleeping pill and don't sleep, you get weird. i can now confirm that.

when i finally DID fall asleep at 10:30pm??_ i freaking woke up at 3:30 am!!!! *sad face ??_with eye bags*
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Posted by truecap
Aqua's been asking me weird questions. Like did I get satellite set up in my office in the new house. I'll tell him the answer and ask "why do you ask?". He'll say, "just curious, happened to think about it".
Just struck me as odd that he would ask that.



did he dream it??

i remember he has a pisces mars. he may have dreamt it and had to say it out loud.

i do that after a dream, and i ask my mother if something happened.

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obably all that leo in you. opposites attract or repel. how's your mum? doing good?
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aquarians do odd really well



i dunno, i have seen you do some odd stuff yourself.

double sag day today. i hear the noise of hooves and freedom.



so funny that you say that cuz i was gonna follow up my post to say that even my lil ol' mars in aquarius stands out to me. :-P
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Aqua's been asking me weird questions. Like did I get satellite set up in my office in the new house. I'll tell him the answer and ask "why do you ask?". He'll say, "just curious, happened to think about it".
Just struck me as odd that he would ask that.



did he dream it??

i remember he has a pisces mars. he may have dreamt it and had to say it out loud.

i do that after a dream, and i ask my mother if something happened.

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We were watching TV and unless he drifted off in the recliner, I don't think so.
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A lady on another board I visit passed of breast cancer thursday. It's like she told people on the board in June and everything just seemed to unravel since then. Cancer is SCARY! Its also amazing how close you can become to people you don't know. Ive been a member of that board for over 10yrs, and I don't remember too many direct interactions with her, but she definitely had a presence.
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My trip is in 3 weeks- super excited to see my bro, sil n my nieces n nephew!
FaceTime is fantastic - started to pack the kids wanted to "see" the presents they are getting.

Capi is being distant n immature saying he thinks he needs to change his number - told him to grow up..
Acting like I'm stalking him - only saw him last week..



lmao...smh at this guy.drop him. like literally. drop his ass.

anyways have fun on your trip.

i wish i stayed home today and watched documentaries, i can spend my whole life learning.

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CC - I haven't spoken to him since, that was on Sat.. I'm taking it one day at a time n have a count down set up for the trip think it will do me good to get some distance. I feel like I've hit a brick wall with him now... He literally did everything he could to hurt me prob to get back at me cos I told him I was going away n had to think about things n that if I had what I needed I wouldn't have to go away to know what it was I wanted. I guess it cut pretty deep...