Are all Gemini men this weird?

Posted by heliumfiasco
I'm dating one and I dont even get a chance to make a move. All over me. However, he needs lots of space when we arent together. He does have a weird vibe... makes me think hes a hoe. But he swears no. haha Its light hearted right now though.

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Posted by heliumfiasco
I've noticed they talk a lot, but about their own hobbies. Kind of like kids. Its not malicious... but no, they dont seem to want to talk about deeper things. At least not in the beginning. I'm very distant around men in general romantically. The thing I like most about him is that he doesnt seem to care and makes that move. Most men dont and it makes me feel at ease.

His distance is confusing though. I've decided to let him lead the whole way. If it falls off, it falls off.

Whats his Moon and Venus?

really? the gem i'm with talks in depth about things and allows me to speak freely about anything, and if i have something on my mind i can tell him and he'll honestly answer also the whole contact thing usually he initiates but sometimes i'll initiate or ask for kisses and he is more than happy to

gem i am seeing is sag moon gem venus but i've been dying for a gemen thread but both of you are right about the aloofness and distant but it's just them thinking i think

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Posted by heliumfiasco
I've noticed they talk a lot, but about their own hobbies. Kind of like kids. Its not malicious... but no, they dont seem to want to talk about deeper things. At least not in the beginning. I'm very distant around men in general romantically. The thing I like most about him is that he doesnt seem to care and makes that move. Most men dont and it makes me feel at ease.

His distance is confusing though. I've decided to let him lead the whole way. If it falls off, it falls off.

Whats his Moon and Venus?

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Posted by heliumfiasco
I've noticed they talk a lot, but about their own hobbies. Kind of like kids. Its not malicious... but no, they dont seem to want to talk about deeper things. At least not in the beginning. I'm very distant around men in general romantically. The thing I like most about him is that he doesnt seem to care and makes that move. Most men dont and it makes me feel at ease.

His distance is confusing though. I've decided to let him lead the whole way. If it falls off, it falls off.

Whats his Moon and Venus?

really? the gem i'm with talks in depth about things and allows me to speak freely about anything, and if i have something on my mind i can tell him and he'll honestly answer also the whole contact thing usually he initiates but sometimes i'll initiate or ask for kisses and he is more than happy to

gem i am seeing is sag moon gem venus but i've been dying for a gemen thread but both of you are right about the aloofness and distant but it's just them thinking i think

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Posted by heliumfiasco
I've noticed they talk a lot, but about their own hobbies. Kind of like kids. Its not malicious... but no, they dont seem to want to talk about deeper things. At least not in the beginning. I'm very distant around men in general romantically. The thing I like most about him is that he doesnt seem to care and makes that move. Most men dont and it makes me feel at ease.

His distance is confusing though. I've decided to let him lead the whole way. If it falls off, it falls off.

Whats his Moon and Venus?

really? the gem i'm with talks in depth about things and allows me to speak freely about anything, and if i have something on my mind i can tell him and he'll honestly answer also the whole contact thing usually he initiates but sometimes i'll initiate or ask for kisses and he is more than happy to

gem i am seeing is sag moon gem venus but i've been dying for a gemen thread but both of you are right about the aloofness and distant but it's just them thinking i think

I wouldnt say he is opposed to talking about deeper things. He is never afraid to go there. But the topics he starts are typically about his Motorcycle racing. However, this could be because the season is just starting. He has a lot of anxiety about it. His ex cheated on him after he got injured (so badly that he was out of racing for a year and a half) with the dude that won the series. Shes pregnant with his baby now!!!! I feel so bad for him. I know he wants to do well for his pride. Its his first time back since it all went down. He races against this guy. It gives me anxiety even thinking about it. Poor guy 😢

This Gemini is an Aqua moon and Gem Venus.... (im 80% sure on moon)

aqua moons tend to be really aloof, my mom is aqua moon and she's a leo and emotional but will withhold how shes feeling for long periods of time

something about gems and withholding to show face or emotions i have a couple gem friends and even the women seem to be reserved emotionally, hard to read sometimes

plus gem im with has a tendency to be unaware how he's portraying an emotion and i react and he'll reassure me that he doesn't know how he looks when he's in thought he said it's a real slow process when he thinks about stuff or when he's processing a thought while i'm quick in thought and reaction

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Posted by heliumfiasco
I've noticed they talk a lot, but about their own hobbies. Kind of like kids. Its not malicious... but no, they dont seem to want to talk about deeper things. At least not in the beginning. I'm very distant around men in general romantically. The thing I like most about him is that he doesnt seem to care and makes that move. Most men dont and it makes me feel at ease.

His distance is confusing though. I've decided to let him lead the whole way. If it falls off, it falls off.

Whats his Moon and Venus?

really? the gem i'm with talks in depth about things and allows me to speak freely about anything, and if i have something on my mind i can tell him and he'll honestly answer also the whole contact thing usually he initiates but sometimes i'll initiate or ask for kisses and he is more than happy to

gem i am seeing is sag moon gem venus but i've been dying for a gemen thread but both of you are right about the aloofness and distant but it's just them thinking i think

I felt trapped, if I were to ask I couldn’t get a word out of my mouth. I feel like maybe he did this to get a clearer view as if he could be a step ahead of me so that if I were to hurt him he would’ve been the one who had the power when you look back at it. Gemini cares more about how they show you their moving on which you can clearly see through cuz he wants be ahead of time. Aries are the same thing, we hate being slowed down by someone or something. We wanna go on as nothing but we do think of the other person alot.. There’s more I mean he contacted me 3 weeks ago and it’s all this weird tension between us and we don’t talk even though we have each other on instagram now. What i’m feeling is that I see through geminis like crazy.

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Posted by heliumfiasco
I've noticed they talk a lot, but about their own hobbies. Kind of like kids. Its not malicious... but no, they dont seem to want to talk about deeper things. At least not in the beginning. I'm very distant around men in general romantically. The thing I like most about him is that he doesnt seem to care and makes that move. Most men dont and it makes me feel at ease.

His distance is confusing though. I've decided to let him lead the whole way. If it falls off, it falls off.

Whats his Moon and Venus?

really? the gem i'm with talks in depth about things and allows me to speak freely about anything, and if i have something on my mind i can tell him and he'll honestly answer also the whole contact thing usually he initiates but sometimes i'll initiate or ask for kisses and he is more than happy to

gem i am seeing is sag moon gem venus but i've been dying for a gemen thread but both of you are right about the aloofness and distant but it's just them thinking i think

I felt trapped, if I were to ask I couldn’t get a word out of my mouth. I feel like maybe he did this to get a clearer view as if he could be a step ahead of me so that if I were to hurt him he would’ve been the one who had the power when you look back at it. Gemini cares more about how they show you their moving on which you can clearly see through cuz he wants be ahead of time. Aries are the same thing, we hate being slowed down by someone or something. We wanna go on as nothing but we do think of the other person alot.. There’s more I mean he contacted me 3 weeks ago and it’s all this weird tension between us and we don’t talk even though we have each other on instagram now. What i’m feeling is that I see through geminis like crazy.

maybe just ask him straight forward what is on his mind regarding the two of you?

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Posted by heliumfiasco
I've noticed they talk a lot, but about their own hobbies. Kind of like kids. Its not malicious... but no, they dont seem to want to talk about deeper things. At least not in the beginning. I'm very distant around men in general romantically. The thing I like most about him is that he doesnt seem to care and makes that move. Most men dont and it makes me feel at ease.

His distance is confusing though. I've decided to let him lead the whole way. If it falls off, it falls off.

Whats his Moon and Venus?

really? the gem i'm with talks in depth about things and allows me to speak freely about anything, and if i have something on my mind i can tell him and he'll honestly answer also the whole contact thing usually he initiates but sometimes i'll initiate or ask for kisses and he is more than happy to

gem i am seeing is sag moon gem venus but i've been dying for a gemen thread but both of you are right about the aloofness and distant but it's just them thinking i think

I felt trapped, if I were to ask I couldn’t get a word out of my mouth. I feel like maybe he did this to get a clearer view as if he could be a step ahead of me so that if I were to hurt him he would’ve been the one who had the power when you look back at it. Gemini cares more about how they show you their moving on which you can clearly see through cuz he wants be ahead of time. Aries are the same thing, we hate being slowed down by someone or something. We wanna go on as nothing but we do think of the other person alot.. There’s more I mean he contacted me 3 weeks ago and it’s all this weird tension between us and we don’t talk even though we have each other on instagram now. What i’m feeling is that I see through geminis like crazy.

maybe just ask him straight forward what is on his mind regarding the two of you?

It comes to me naturally to get what the action is. But I wouldn’t be overanalyzing if it wasn’t for him, we spoke openly about stuff that bothered us and haha! When we spoke about something and he was completely wrong and wrong for even thinking what he thought I would say okay I don’t want to discuss this, and totally ignored him and talked to his and my friend and I could hear him saying my name and just sitting there in the former thinking about this issue and he got crooked for me taking away his power of talking which geminis are all about (communication) then he would stand up walk up to me, take my hand and say I need to talk to you. Trust me he got mad hahahah. Yeah I wish we would’ve opened up more even though we opened up about alot! I’m an Aries so i’m very open but I hate complicated and messy conversations and so does he so we never had them but I wish he would’ve opened up more about how this or that made him feel and you know, just telling me his thoughts and feelings and he fucked it up for me because then I turned out that way too and I would rather solve it by communication than the issues having the staying power which got us to dislike each other more maybe? The thing is i’m Aries with a Libra moon and I can have a dicussion about anything without it exploding. I understand peoples point of views and i’m there to solve things not to stay at A but rather getting to B and that’s what I love about myself..

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Posted by DonnaLibra
I'm a Libra with a Libra moon and my guy is a Gemini sun/Gem moon and he is the most romantic man I've ever been with. He was constantly all over me from the beginning wanting to see me every night. He does talk about his feelings and told me he has crossed oceans of time to find me. We have deep conversations and I can talk to him about anything. He does have a temper but I know how to put that fire out. Most of the Libra women I know are with Gemini men. We seem to just gel.

Posted by Seeyou
your so funny, I like your personality. Fuck that Gemini. Gemini will always be Gemini. They never now what they want. If they have it. They don't threat it well. If its gonne, they feel they made a mistake. And then they try to get u back or play games. They never no what they want. They get bored, come back get bored. They are not serious. If your with one. Don't take it to serious its just a trip. They are bachelors for live. Just to have fun and good time. Don't think about serious relationship with them. If u want something serious go with another sign.

Posted by heliumfiasco
Also about them being distant and needing time to think. You might be right. My Gemini told me for the next week he wont be texting as much as he is stressed out and would be limiting his phone use. I thought he was bullshitting me (I always think everyone is lying to me haha). Then he sent me is a screenshot of a text and in the corner I actually saw the crescent moon Icon in the upper corner of his Iphone showing that he has everything in Do Not Disturb mode. I was like "welll damnnnn he isnt lying"

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Posted by heliumfiasco
Also about them being distant and needing time to think. You might be right. My Gemini told me for the next week he wont be texting as much as he is stressed out and would be limiting his phone use. I thought he was bullshitting me (I always think everyone is lying to me haha). Then he sent me is a screenshot of a text and in the corner I actually saw the crescent moon Icon in the upper corner of his Iphone showing that he has everything in Do Not Disturb mode. I was like "welll damnnnn he isnt lying"

As a Gemini female, who is also seeing a Gemini male, I'm the one that needs space all the time. I think we both like when my kids come back home b/c then we each get a break from one another. LOL

I don't know why I'm like this but I am. 😢

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Posted by WittyGem88
I was with a gemini male in the past. I have to say we both needed lots of space. He was affectionate and was writing me letters daily but wasnt passionate enough for me. I also have gem men besties. I have to say they are wonderful. You can call them anytime — unplanned night outs,etc. spontaneous people. But I have to agree they barely talk about themselves until they feel comfortable around you. Most of my other friends thought they are always cheerful and chillAF. But me being very close with them as I grew up with them (known them since I was 11yo) they have told me some deep, sometimes dark experiences they had which caused them to act a certain way. If they get pissed off at someone, they just ignore. They hide in their man cave once in a while and while they are there, expect them to do zero contact. Because if they get bugged they have the tendency to get nasty because they havent healed or recovered just yet. After the hibernation, they come back with more energy like nothing ever happened. I got used to it so when an aqua pulls the same shit on me, i’m like... you will be back when you’re ready. LOL gem men trained me well lol