LibraJackson
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confusing Gemini
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
Posted by UndineHe's so confusing and frustrating. I'm glad you cut ties, I wish I was like that.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
Why did you guys break up?
Posted by Moonbutterto be honest, I don't even know. We were fighting over nothing and it didn't feel the same I guess.
Why did you guys break up?
It wasn't a bad break up that's why we haven't stopped talking
Idk shit...maybe he wants to be with u without being labeled as ur boyfriend.
Posted by LibraJacksonDo you guys connect emotionally?Posted by Moonbutterto be honest, I don't even know. We were fighting over nothing and it didn't feel the same I guess.
Why did you guys break up?
It wasn't a bad break up that's why we haven't stopped talkingclick to expand
Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
Posted by natsLost attraction? How? You mean you don't want her sexually?Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
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Posted by LibraJacksonHe most likely was committed before and it felt too restraining. Having a non-exclusive situationship suits us cause knowing that u are choosing to spend time with us makes us like u or love u. Obligations and commitment are suppressive
He's gem and I'm a libra. We were seeing eacother since last year and it ended early this year.
Somehow we never ended. We are still seeing eacother, talking to eachother everyday.
Now and then we would meet up and do couple things. we've had many discussions about getting back together but it ended up with us being friends (more than friends) this has been going on over the year now.
We've tried stop talking to eachother and move on but both of us have no interested. He said he doesn't want to be with anyone else and yet he won't commit to a relationship with me. He said I deserve better and that he can't be the boyfriend he once was. He gets jealous and annoyed if he sees me with someone else or if I was talking to another guy but when I confronted him about it. He said I could do whatever I want
In fairness, I haven't move on and I couldn't. He's still the love of my life. The chemistry might not be the same but he knows me so well and I'm so comfortable around him. But he's confusing as fuck and I don't know what to do to make us both happy.
So all geminis out there. help me please !
Thank you
Posted by MoonbutterCorrect. Sexually it's not there. Sure she is good looking and there was a time where I was literally obsessed and she just had to look at me and I'd be turned on but all the fighting etc and hurts over the years just ruined it and now there's no physical/sexual attraction however, she still feels it toward me.Posted by natsLost attraction? How? You mean you don't want her sexually?Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
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I do enjoy knowing I have her there but I don't have committment to her and can do as I please with anyone else. She seems to enjoy it also.
We still speak almost daily and see each other often and she will sleep over mine about 2-3 times per week and we'll snuggle. Doesn't sound very healthy I know but it works for us for now.
For sure once I meet someone else and start dating, I will erase my contact with her.
Posted by natsHave I mentioned you are...nuts? ?Posted by MoonbutterCorrect. Sexually it's not there. Sure she is good looking and there was a time where I was literally obsessed and she just had to look at me and I'd be turned on but all the fighting etc and hurts over the years just ruined it and now there's no physical/sexual attraction however, she still feels it toward me.Posted by natsLost attraction? How? You mean you don't want her sexually?Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
I do enjoy knowing I have her there but I don't have committment to her and can do as I please with anyone else. She seems to enjoy it also.
We still speak almost daily and see each other often and she will sleep over mine about 2-3 times per week and we'll snuggle. Doesn't sound very healthy I know but it works for us for now.
For sure once I meet someone else and start dating, I will erase my contact with her.
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Posted by Gemitati— yes hahahaPosted by natsHave I mentioned you are...nuts? ?Posted by MoonbutterCorrect. Sexually it's not there. Sure she is good looking and there was a time where I was literally obsessed and she just had to look at me and I'd be turned on but all the fighting etc and hurts over the years just ruined it and now there's no physical/sexual attraction however, she still feels it toward me.Posted by natsLost attraction? How? You mean you don't want her sexually?Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
I do enjoy knowing I have her there but I don't have committment to her and can do as I please with anyone else. She seems to enjoy it also.
We still speak almost daily and see each other often and she will sleep over mine about 2-3 times per week and we'll snuggle. Doesn't sound very healthy I know but it works for us for now.
For sure once I meet someone else and start dating, I will erase my contact with her.
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Posted by natsInteresting? What is your Moon and VenusPosted by MoonbutterCorrect. Sexually it's not there. Sure she is good looking and there was a time where I was literally obsessed and she just had to look at me and I'd be turned on but all the fighting etc and hurts over the years just ruined it and now there's no physical/sexual attraction however, she still feels it toward me.Posted by natsLost attraction? How? You mean you don't want her sexually?Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
I do enjoy knowing I have her there but I don't have committment to her and can do as I please with anyone else. She seems to enjoy it also.
We still speak almost daily and see each other often and she will sleep over mine about 2-3 times per week and we'll snuggle. Doesn't sound very healthy I know but it works for us for now.
For sure once I meet someone else and start dating, I will erase my contact with her.
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Posted by MoonbutterLibra MoonPosted by natsInteresting? What is your Moon and VenusPosted by MoonbutterCorrect. Sexually it's not there. Sure she is good looking and there was a time where I was literally obsessed and she just had to look at me and I'd be turned on but all the fighting etc and hurts over the years just ruined it and now there's no physical/sexual attraction however, she still feels it toward me.Posted by natsLost attraction? How? You mean you don't want her sexually?Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
I do enjoy knowing I have her there but I don't have committment to her and can do as I please with anyone else. She seems to enjoy it also.
We still speak almost daily and see each other often and she will sleep over mine about 2-3 times per week and we'll snuggle. Doesn't sound very healthy I know but it works for us for now.
For sure once I meet someone else and start dating, I will erase my contact with her.
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Cancer Venus
Posted by natsSomehow I'm not surprised about the Cancer VenusPosted by MoonbutterLibra MoonPosted by natsInteresting? What is your Moon and VenusPosted by MoonbutterCorrect. Sexually it's not there. Sure she is good looking and there was a time where I was literally obsessed and she just had to look at me and I'd be turned on but all the fighting etc and hurts over the years just ruined it and now there's no physical/sexual attraction however, she still feels it toward me.Posted by natsLost attraction? How? You mean you don't want her sexually?Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
I do enjoy knowing I have her there but I don't have committment to her and can do as I please with anyone else. She seems to enjoy it also.
We still speak almost daily and see each other often and she will sleep over mine about 2-3 times per week and we'll snuggle. Doesn't sound very healthy I know but it works for us for now.
For sure once I meet someone else and start dating, I will erase my contact with her.
Cancer Venus
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Posted by MoonbutterLOL! What's that supposed to mean? Is it because I can't let go ?Posted by natsSomehow I'm not surprised about the Cancer VenusPosted by MoonbutterLibra MoonPosted by natsInteresting? What is your Moon and VenusPosted by MoonbutterCorrect. Sexually it's not there. Sure she is good looking and there was a time where I was literally obsessed and she just had to look at me and I'd be turned on but all the fighting etc and hurts over the years just ruined it and now there's no physical/sexual attraction however, she still feels it toward me.Posted by natsLost attraction? How? You mean you don't want her sexually?Posted by UndineYou guys sound like myself and cap ex. Your right on the lost attraction but we still like you.
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.
I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.
Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.
I also still get jealous and hurt seeing or hearing about my ex cap with someone else. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship with her. I love her but I'm not attracted to her. Our friendship is really amazing though and we just have a connection hence we keep coming back to each other.
I do enjoy knowing I have her there but I don't have committment to her and can do as I please with anyone else. She seems to enjoy it also.
We still speak almost daily and see each other often and she will sleep over mine about 2-3 times per week and we'll snuggle. Doesn't sound very healthy I know but it works for us for now.
For sure once I meet someone else and start dating, I will erase my contact with her.
Cancer Venus
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The cap ex is Aries moon and Aqua venus.
Posted by MoonbutterSexually yes but I don't know about love emotional. He's would be there for me If I ask him but I don't know.Posted by LibraJacksonDo you guys connect emotionally?Posted by Moonbutterto be honest, I don't even know. We were fighting over nothing and it didn't feel the same I guess.
Why did you guys break up?
It wasn't a bad break up that's why we haven't stopped talkingclick to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeSo truthful and honest. I needed to hear that. Thank you
Hun, he's not being confusing...you're just trying to hold on to a lost cause. That's why you are hurting and reading too much into it.
He said the following:
he doesn't want to be with anyone else and yet he won't commit to a relationship with me.
He basically hasn't found anyone that has caught his interest.
He said I deserve better and that he can't be the boyfriend he once was. He gets jealous and annoyed if he sees me with someone else or if I was talking to another guy but when I confronted him about it. He said I could do whatever I want
Basically letting you know, that he doesn't want to commit to you but is content with getting all the benefits. You have no right to claim him and tell him he cant fck around with anyone else because he 'told you' you're not in a relationship. He's only using you.
If he does end up committing to you it's because he hasn't found anyone else better to take your place... but the moment that he does - he might bail.
Men really aren't that complicated -- if he wanted to be with you, he would. He's pulling the wool over your eyes with his manipulative behavior. He doesn't want to be claimed because you're not it, unfortunately. I'm sorry to say. But because he hasn't found that one, he wants to keep you around, hence his confusing jealousy. It's purely a comfort thing. I certainly suggest moving on; wait for the one who doesn't hesitate to be with you.
Cancer Venus is going to make him cling... Libra moon is going to make him detached in a way and wishy/washy. Ultimately though, he's going to need a strong emotional connection before he commits.
He may love you but is keeping you around (a) for comfort and (b) until someone better comes along. That is 100% . I know I definitely did that with my ex.
Posted by natsWell how would he love her then, if he's just using her?
He may love you but is keeping you around (a) for comfort and (b) until someone better comes along. That is 100% . I know I definitely did that with my ex.
Posted by bittercupcakeThis is soo truePosted by LibraJacksonI don't want to give you false hope and tell you it's because of a placement - this might give you a false sense of hope and I dont want to do that.... I was in a similar position where I tried to justify his confusing behavior (hot/cold) as the stars. But it was much more complex and I ended up heart broken so many times and it was only a year that we had been dating on/off... as someone who's been there - it's just not worth the pain.Posted by bittercupcakeSo truthful and honest. I needed to hear that. Thank you
Hun, he's not being confusing...you're just trying to hold on to a lost cause. That's why you are hurting and reading too much into it.
He said the following:
he doesn't want to be with anyone else and yet he won't commit to a relationship with me.
He basically hasn't found anyone that has caught his interest.
He said I deserve better and that he can't be the boyfriend he once was. He gets jealous and annoyed if he sees me with someone else or if I was talking to another guy but when I confronted him about it. He said I could do whatever I want
Basically letting you know, that he doesn't want to commit to you but is content with getting all the benefits. You have no right to claim him and tell him he cant fck around with anyone else because he 'told you' you're not in a relationship. He's only using you.
If he does end up committing to you it's because he hasn't found anyone else better to take your place... but the moment that he does - he might bail.
Remember an important detail - people will fight for what they want and play hot/cold when they're not fully interested or are unsure of you.... i want someone who wants me not someone who is using me or settling for me.click to expand
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September 21st 1995 with June 12 1972
Him
Rising: Virgo
Sun: Gemini
Moon: cancer
Mercury: cancer
Venus: Gemini
Mars: cancer
Jupiter: Cap
What do you guys think of this pairing , I feel so different with him .. hmm or is just the physical ?
September 21st 1995 with June 12 1972
Him
Rising: Virgo
Sun: Gemini
Moon: cancer
Mercury: cancer
Venus: Gemini
Mars: cancer
Jupiter: Cap
What do you guys think of this pairing , I feel so different with him .. hmm or is just the physical ?
September 21st 1995 with June 12 1972
Him
Rising: Virgo
Sun: Gemini
Moon: cancer
Mercury: cancer
Venus: Gemini
Mars: cancer
Jupiter: Cap
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