How do gemini's stick to a decision once made

I find it so hard to stick to a decision especially when I'm dating. Even if I have an inkling the guy is shit I get so curious as to why people are a certain way I either stay in the situation or say I'm not going to contact them again and end up doing it. I need some self restraint. How do you stick to a decision?

Posted by ACsquarepluto

I try to live by a rule of delayed reaction. Don't take action until time has passed and you can reach an informed conclusion. I don't believe in wishy-washiness or indecision so when I've made one, I stick it out through all doubt.

I have been trying to delay my reaction and not react for at least a day but sometimes I definitely react sooner then am like opps should I have done that and spend the rest of the time second guessing myself when really I guess I should just trust my original judgement

Never had that issue since I remember myself! Always knew that I love that person and want to be with him. During relashionships IF he did something that doesn’t sit well with me - I would think but it never happened. So I am some other Gemini? Lol

I guess what I want to say - don’t date people just out of boredom...only if you are absolutely in love.

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Posted by MissM

I find it so hard to stick to a decision especially when I'm dating. Even if I have an inkling the guy is shit I get so curious as to why people are a certain way I either stay in the situation or say I'm not going to contact them again and end up doing it. I need some self restraint. How do you stick to a decision?

I can relate! I tend to go back and forth quite a lot, especially when dating. I could be thinking im done with him in the morning, send a text explaining how i feel and then regretting it all 3 hrs later😂. But i’d say always go with your gutfeeling that never failed me.

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Hahaha this is me. I go back and forth so much its ridiculous. I'm like I'm never contacting him again, two days later Hey! lol. I really need to just know when to cut things off and not second guess myself

Posted by GemFallOut

I'm def. like this. lol

Emotion can kick in first and I'll go off that and then when a few hours have passed I've calmed down and can approach it logically. Usually, the outcome is completely different. Especially in dating.

Usually only a guy I'm really into can cause that in me. lol. I'm usually not very emotional in dating so if he can get that reaction, I know right away... I fucked up. lol

I wish I was more logical when I liked someone when dating but the reality is i'm like a hot mess lol. I chase then withdraw, don't really have a clue what i want and if I ever got what I want I think I would get bored and run away lol

Posted by GemFallOut

I'm def. like this. lol

Emotion can kick in first and I'll go off that and then when a few hours have passed I've calmed down and can approach it logically. Usually, the outcome is completely different. Especially in dating.

Usually only a guy I'm really into can cause that in me. lol. I'm usually not very emotional in dating so if he can get that reaction, I know right away... I fucked up. lol

I wish I was more logical when I liked someone when dating but the reality is i'm like a hot mess lol. I chase then withdraw, don't really have a clue what i want and if I ever got what I want I think I would get bored and run away lol

I flip a coin - but sometimes it lands on the edge... 😵



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