Confused leo woman

I'm a leo with libra rising. It's a messed up and confusing situation, my libra friend and had a weird relationship, we started off as friends then ended up dating. The relationship didn't last long due to him breaking it off. We where going through stressful times during so he was addicted to drugs. After we broke it off we remained close friends and ended up living together. He told me that we where just friends but would do boyfriend things for me while we lived together. I ended up getting back with my ex and moving out. We talked for a little while after, but now all communication on his end has stopped. What in the world is going on? I don't understand why he's not talking to me if he's on a friend level with me like he says.

Too add to this a little more, I helped him in his recovery while we lived together, he has been clean and sober for awhile now.

Because it wasn't a true friendship. Some guys will agree to "friendship" usually to keep a woman around. It sounds like this guy wanted to keep you around as a potential option, but wasn't entirely sure about you (Libras can be indecisive in love). So he kept you close by trying to be "friends" and living together. Once you got back with your ex, any potential connection with you died in this guy's mind, so he disappeared.

I kinda figured as much. The last message he sent me was a contradiction to me. He told me that it was just friendship and there where no feelings on his end. Him and my children form a bond also, I told him that I was getting over the strong connection that we had, he messaged me and said that he will always have love for me and that when he is where he wants to be he will hit me up to be part of the team. And after that contact from him completely stopped. I had a good relationship with his family and friends. It's just hurtful, I feel like I did something wrong.

I've never had a connection as strong as I've had with him, it got scarry to the point where we would say what the other was thinking or do something the other was thinking about doing. I felt when something was wrong with him and he felt my energy as well. He's told me often that he swears I know what he's thinking by the things that I say or do. He's also mentioned that the only other strong connection that he's had like this was with his twin sister.

Yea libra guys are always looking for the next best thing, unable to still find it...

Don’t worry about it, like chuck said it doesn’t sound like a real friendship.

Posted by Leo_kiwi85
I've never had a connection as strong as I've had with him, it got scarry to the point where we would say what the other was thinking or do something the other was thinking about doing. I felt when something was wrong with him and he felt my energy as well. He's told me often that he swears I know what he's thinking by the things that I say or do. He's also mentioned that the only other strong connection that he's had like this was with his twin sister.

It doesn't mean that there wasn't a connection, but it just wasn't the same for him as it was for you unfortunately. There may be a lot of reasons for this, but know that the friendship was not what he was truly after (most people aren't). It sounds like he used the idea of the "friendship" to make things between you non-confrontational. Needless to say, confrontation is often necessary when dealing with hard truths.