Dealing with an immature Leo

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scorpio_sun_gemini_rising
@scorpio_sun_gemini_rising
8 Years

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Long story short..

I am dating an immature Leo. He is also 4 years younger, 23 and I am 27.

We love each other so much but I am beginning to finally accept that we probably need to break up or at least take a break at this point and I would love other Leo's opinions...especially any Leo males who can give me some advice.

We love each other so much and when we are good, we are amazing but he can be very selfish and has a HUGE ego.

Honestly, I am not here to b*tch about my boyfriend.. I honestly think its just a case of us growing at different rates instead of together? I don't really know. I do want to be with this guy but we often cant be in the same room lately without arguing at least once about something..usually stupid petty things. We are at the stage that sometimes everything about one another irritates the other. (we recently lived together for 4 months but it wasn't working so I have recently moved out as of the start of this month)

As much as I don't want to break up.. I am honestly exhausted and need to begin looking after myself better.. this guy causes so much anxiety in my life its unreal. He is very fiery and I am very sensitive. We both know the relationship is on thin ice...

Please provide advice on the following:

- When it comes down to it - I keep letting things slide (nothing major im honestly so relaxed with him and give him alot of freedom) but I am not being treated 100% the way I know he can... what should I do?

- Whats the best way to break up with a Leo on calm and friendly terms?

me:

Sun: Scorp (24th oct so Scorp-Libra cusp)

Rising: Gemini

Moon: Capricorn

Merc: Scorpio

Venus: Libra

Mars: Gemini

him:

Sun: Leo

Rising: Cancer

Moon: Pisces

Merc: Virgo

Venus: Libra

Mars: Cancer
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Nameless Nemean
@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

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Sounds like you two are on two different pages, possibly two different life phases. The fact that the two of you couldn't live together shows that this relationship is unlikely to go the distance.

Unfortunately there's usually no easy way to break up with a fixed sign, especially not a Leo with a big ego. However the best method will be to get the Leo to agree that the relationship is broken and no longer fun for either of you. If the Leo feels as if the breakup is mutual (or even his idea) it will go over a lot smoother. That being said, don't try to manipulate the Leo into breaking up with you on his own. He'll realize something is up, which will only make the breakup harder.