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How can I feed my ex Leo's ego and not look like I'm begging to get him back in my life after he broke up with me ?? How can I make him feel like he's my all and is the one and appreciate everything he's done without looking weak? Leo's ! Help me out !!

How do you feel?

What happened to being truthful and trusting him to respond as such?

How did you not make him feel like that in the first place, that's where you looked weak. People rely way too much on being able to feed our ego's, as if we need it...

Posted by pham90
How can I make him feel like he's my all and is the one and appreciate everything he's done without looking weak? Leo's ! Help me out !!

I am a Pisces . And we been together for about 4 years . Our relationship is passionate . Full of ups and downs and we love hard but when we bump heads we really bump . Throughout our 4 years we broke up a few times over petty arguments but always ended back together after a couple days . We never went more than 1 week without being together . Just a couple months ago back in November . He found out I was texting my ex boyfriend and when he asked me about it I lied to him because I didn't want to hurt him which is wrong I know and before he asked me about it I had end all ties with the texting . It was only texting and it never got further than that . He expressed that I hurt him but didn't break up with me at the moment and I told him it will never happened again which it didn't . Everythin seems ok afterward and just a week ago we got into an argument over something small and he told me he doesn't want to be with me no more that this is the last straw and that he loves me and cares for me but he doesn't trust me and he can't do it anymore ..

A lot of how do I get my Leo back threads lol.

I do trust him and since the texting thing there hasn't been a reason that I put him in to make him not trust me again . He knows how I feel for him and all I do for him i guess it's just a matter of trust . And he doesn't trust me and says he can't do it .. I know he still has feelings involved I mean we been together for like 4 years and this is the first time any trust issues came about .. I don't know whether he's hurt and just needs space between us like a break or if my chances of us being together is really over . Mind you we never been apart . The longest we went without being together was a week and that was over just us bumping heads and not seeing eye to eye and things getting heated but this time it's about a real issue and I'm scared I could lose him and I don't want that .. I know we can make it work only if he's willing too ..

Posted by Freetobe007
Leos don't need ego-feeders; we need spirit-feeders. In the process of feeding a Leos ego, you could be starving their spirit or filling it with too much sugary badness. I think one of the main things that pushes Leo away are spiritual-starvers or any action/habit/personality type that's getting in the way of our psychological feast.

So your saying I should give him space and become the best version of me and to get him back I have to be something that would contribute to his life spiritually ?

I understand . I completely get it . Even with all that we been thru this one thing can cause it all to act like nothing ever existed ?

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Posted by pham90
How can I feed my ex Leo's ego and not look like I'm begging to get him back in my life after he broke up with me ?? How can I make him feel like he's my all and is the one and appreciate everything he's done without looking weak? Leo's ! Help me out !!

find him tell him make a big gesture

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Wouldn't that push him away even more ?? To keep announcing my love for him ?

Why were you texting your ex?

Posted by Montgomery
Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

Posted by aquarius_beauty
So first...what's your sign...what happened? why did he break up with you?



All different scenarios that need to be pinpointed to a cause so we can find a resolution.

As far as I know,

her ex texted her something then she lied because she knew her bf would react badly.

So then he found out and it made him angrier.

And after the 4 year relationship, he broke up with her.



Honestly, it sounds real fishy to me and I'm not liking him all that much.

But now I wonder what the text said

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Posted by Montgomery
Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

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...why would your brother give the Ex your number - unless he understood you were okay with it tho...

Not an attack, just a query 🙂

Did your bro ask you first and say 'hey, Ex asked for your deets, mind if I pass on your number...?'

At which point you say 'No, I'm not okay with that actually, my Leo and I are happy, (and I don't need to justify my moving on to someone irrelevant from my past)'

...... right?

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Posted by Montgomery
Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

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The person you want to get back with sounds like he used any excuse to "blow up"...

and then break it off

I know this is painful but..you could try finding a hobby meanwhile you let time pass?

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

...why would your brother give the Ex your number - unless he understood you were okay with it tho...

Not an attack, just a query 🙂

Did your bro ask you first and say 'hey, Ex asked for your deets, mind if I pass on your number...?'

At which point you say 'No, I'm not okay with that actually, my Leo and I are happy, (and I don't need to justify my moving on to someone irrelevant from my past)'

...... right?

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I get that but my brother did and that's how my ex got my new number . My brother didn't see it as a big deal

Honestly,

it's time for a new chapter in your Lyfe- minus the Leo.

It's going to be fine, trust meh, just not with him... 🤗

I'm sure the decision is not up to me anyways . He should know how I feel and what we had . If he wants to try than he'll come back if not than ok . But trying to make him come back will probably just make things worst

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

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After FOUR years?

I wouldn't believe that, either.

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

After FOUR years?

I wouldn't believe that, either.

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Wouldn't believe what after 4 years ?

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

After FOUR years?

I wouldn't believe that, either.

Wouldn't believe what after 4 years ?

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What you said.

Hardly a fresh break.

People start families, build houses, businesses,

etc in far less time.

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

After FOUR years?

I wouldn't believe that, either.

Wouldn't believe what after 4 years ?

What you said.

Hardly a fresh break.

People start families, build houses, businesses,

etc in far less time.

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Are you saying how come we hardly had a fresh break after all those years ? Or what ?

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

After FOUR years?

I wouldn't believe that, either.

Wouldn't believe what after 4 years ?

What you said.

Hardly a fresh break.

People start families, build houses, businesses,

etc in far less time.

Are you saying how come we hardly had a fresh break after all those years ? Or what ?

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Im saying I dont believe your exboyfriend called

you after four years because he still hadn't

gotten over the breakup.

I imagine this was just the time you got caught,

and you had been talking for some time, or

you were planning on hooking up.







Did anyone else have trouble understanding

what I meant?

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

After FOUR years?

I wouldn't believe that, either.

Wouldn't believe what after 4 years ?

What you said.

Hardly a fresh break.

People start families, build houses, businesses,

etc in far less time.

Are you saying how come we hardly had a fresh break after all those years ? Or what ?

Im saying I dont believe your exboyfriend called

you after four years because he still hadn't

gotten over the breakup.

I imagine this was just the time you got caught,

and you had been talking for some time, or

you were planning on hooking up.







Did anyone else have trouble understanding

what I meant?

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No I was with my boyfriend for 4 years and my ex has came home 1 year ago and has been trying to get back with me. Is what the case is . It's not that my ex been trying to reach me for 4 years .. He just came home about 1 ish now

Posted by MiZLeo
So you have been texting your ex behind your leos back for a year? No wonder he dumped you.

No I wasn't texting him for over a year .. I'd changed my number and he reached out to me . We was only texting for a week and than I cut it off but he's been home for a year

Yes leos are very jealous, possessive and get hurt easily. Never make him question your loyalty..it might be something simple to you but they take it very personal and they might stay together with you because they don't wanna hurt your feelings but their heart is already somewhere else..until they find a rebound girl.

I'm dating a leo man.

What did the text consist of? Did you cut them off because you found yourself flirting with the possibility?

Has trust been an issue in the past with your ex?

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

After FOUR years?

I wouldn't believe that, either.

Wouldn't believe what after 4 years ?

What you said.

Hardly a fresh break.

People start families, build houses, businesses,

etc in far less time.

Are you saying how come we hardly had a fresh break after all those years ? Or what ?

Im saying I dont believe your exboyfriend called

you after four years because he still hadn't

gotten over the breakup.

I imagine this was just the time you got caught,

and you had been talking for some time, or

you were planning on hooking up.







Did anyone else have trouble understanding

what I meant?

Not me

No I was with my boyfriend for 4 years and my ex has came home 1 year ago and has been trying to get back with me. Is what the case is . It's not that my ex been trying to reach me for 4 years .. He just came home about 1 ish now

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So are you now saying your ex has been trying to get back with you for 1 year, so the text isn't the only contact you've had with your ex in the past year?

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So you have been texting your ex behind your leos back for a year? No wonder he dumped you.

No I wasn't texting him for over a year .. I'd changed my number and he reached out to me . We was only texting for a week and than I cut it off but he's been home for a year

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A week of texting is a week too long. I've had an ex text me 3 times over the last 5 years telling me he missed me etc., the reason he only texted 3 times in 5 years is because I ignored every. single. one. of. them.

That's what you get from a Leo and what is expected in return. You shouldn't have replied, you should have told your Leo immediately and deleted the initial text in front of him. That is how you could have shown him, while you where still together, how he's your all and the one as you so want to do now.

I was married to a Pisces for almost 20 years, it's a good pairing, but Pisces can take forever love for granted. I wouldn't say all is lost between you and your Leo, so give him space and time and let him decide if he want's to try again - and if he does then this time show him his value while you are with him.

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Why were you texting your ex?

My ex reached out to my brother for my new number and text me . He wants to be with me still and since we broke up he hasn't gotten over me .. But as we text I was just telling him. It's been years since we was together and I just text him back to explain the situation im in

After FOUR years?

I wouldn't believe that, either.

Wouldn't believe what after 4 years ?

What you said.

Hardly a fresh break.

People start families, build houses, businesses,

etc in far less time.

Are you saying how come we hardly had a fresh break after all those years ? Or what ?

Im saying I dont believe your exboyfriend called

you after four years because he still hadn't

gotten over the breakup.

I imagine this was just the time you got caught,

and you had been talking for some time, or

you were planning on hooking up.







Did anyone else have trouble understanding

what I meant?

No I was with my boyfriend for 4 years and my ex has came home 1 year ago and has been trying to get back with me. Is what the case is . It's not that my ex been trying to reach me for 4 years .. He just came home about 1 ish now

....WHAT!!!! A whole YEAR!!?! Yeeeeeahhhh....time to move on from this mess. Best for the both of you from the sounds of it.

Let me tell you the honest truth about Leos based on some Leos I’ve known... You know how lions have bloodlust? Well some Leos have heartbreak lust and they have an uncontrollable desire to maim you internally. This can be done swiftly with precision because we study people discretely in their natural habitat. These Leos will pull out their sharp claws and drag them into your heart until it’s a nonfunctional mess. Some of them go for elaborate, long-term revenge, others settle with one or a few powerful blows that will probably hurt you until you take your last breath. We rule the heart and know how to make matters of the heart linger, including pain. Some of them are players/heartbreakers at the core and some of them only act that way when they’ve been betrayed but either way, they’ll bring you emotional warfare and give conflict a home in your heart. The more that you invite them into your heart, the more rooms and updates they are adding onto this home of conflict and distress. Their ultimate goal, unlike before, is not to make you feel their love, but to make you feel their pain. And their devotion has shifted from you romantically towards that devious goal but they have enough warmth and charisma to distract you or even lure you into the trap repeatedly. That’s apart of where the heartbreaker stereotype comes from. It can border on a form of emotional abuse which is why I recommend not going down that path unless he has initiated it and he is making blatant steps for you both to heal and grow from it.

Personally speaking, I’ve taken note of myself being vicious and uncaring in the moment during anger but I prioritize inner-peace and happiness too much to actually commit to it for more than a short time, but for many Leos, their priority is vengeance. They're horrid assholes, don't make eye contact with it, touch it, talk to it, notta. Just back away and get out while you can !

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Nonsense.

@Freetobe007



Let me tell you the honest truth about Leos based on some Leos I’ve known...

Personally speaking, I’ve taken note of myself being vicious ...

Considering you're the same cowardly, cosigning cunt who tried to bully me and eagerly ganged up on me non-stop, your mouth has zero value. Furthermore, you have no place to decide that what a stranger has observed and seen in their own life is "nonsense" just because you disagree with it or can't relate to it.



You're confusing the "honest truth about LEOs"

with yourself and possibly one of your friends.

The behavior you described is pathological,

characteristic of the mentally ill.

It has little bearing on any sane person

regardless of his or her birthday.