@LuckyLioness
8 Years
Jealousy and posessiveness?
Understanding Jealousy and Possessiveness in Leos
Jealousy and possessiveness can be common traits in Leos due to their desire for attention and admiration. These feelings often stem from insecurity but can lessen with self-awareness and growth. It is possible to manage these traits through self-reflection and building self-esteem over time.
Posted by Leo188881
I think you'll grow out of it. Or you'll stop wanting to be with people who makes you feel like that.Find someone loyal and consistent and that stuff won't be an issue.
everyone in my life is loyal and committed. i think it's my virgo moon and other virgo placements that continuously cause me to doubt everyone in my life lol, i consistently think there is no reason for them to associate themselves with me due to my lack of self worth thus im always trying to find new ways to improve myself (most of these efforts are fruitless)
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
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You're not OP 😜
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
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I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
I wonder if my Leo ever gets jealous 🤔 I’m loyal as fuck but we both have tons of friends. He can either tell I’m loyal af cuz I worship him or he doesn’t show it..
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
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6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
May I see your chart?
Does your 7th House also include part of the Virgo sector of the chart?
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Yes. Since Virgo is intercepted, all of Virgo is in my 7th house
And tbh I like Virgo more than Leo. Why is that? 😀
I dont think you should be jealous of anyone, that goes for all signs. No one on earth is perfect, we are all equal. Everyone has problems. jealousy is an illusion.
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
May I see your chart?
Does your 7th House also include part of the Virgo sector of the chart?
Yes. Since Virgo is intercepted, all of Virgo is in my 7th house
And tbh I like Virgo more than Leo. Why is that? 😀
Because I am irritable. ^_^
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I shared my chart and you only come up with that👆
Lame 😒
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
May I see your chart?
Does your 7th House also include part of the Virgo sector of the chart?
Yes. Since Virgo is intercepted, all of Virgo is in my 7th house
And tbh I like Virgo more than Leo. Why is that? 😀
Because I am irritable. ^_^
I shared my chart and you only come up with that👆
Lame 😒
You asked.
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Cold.
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
May I see your chart?
Does your 7th House also include part of the Virgo sector of the chart?
Yes. Since Virgo is intercepted, all of Virgo is in my 7th house
And tbh I like Virgo more than Leo. Why is that? 😀
Your chart is weird. How come everything is squished into half a circle?
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It isn't weird 😂😂😂😂
There's a name for that kind of chart.
Bowl pattern.
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
May I see your chart?
Does your 7th House also include part of the Virgo sector of the chart?
Yes. Since Virgo is intercepted, all of Virgo is in my 7th house
And tbh I like Virgo more than Leo. Why is that? 😀
Your chart is weird. How come everything is squished into half a circle?
It isn't weird 😂😂😂😂
There's a name for that kind of chart.
Bowl pattern.
Aquas are weird and you're weird. Im calling you Bowlio from now on
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Wtf 😂😂😂😂 now I understand why your aqua likes you.
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
May I see your chart?
Does your 7th House also include part of the Virgo sector of the chart?
Yes. Since Virgo is intercepted, all of Virgo is in my 7th house
And tbh I like Virgo more than Leo. Why is that? 😀
Your chart is weird. How come everything is squished into half a circle?
It isn't weird 😂😂😂😂
There's a name for that kind of chart.
Bowl pattern.
Aquas are weird and you're weird. Im calling you Bowlio from now on
Wtf 😂😂😂😂 now I understand why your aqua likes you.
What do you understand? I don't even know why he likes me and I don't know why i like him. It's retarded. I love his stupid ass for no reason. All he does is be annoying and pisses me off.
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I like your sense of humor. You're easily annoyed but not the butthurt type.
He won't pisses you off if he doesn't like you ahahah.
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
May I see your chart?
Does your 7th House also include part of the Virgo sector of the chart?
Yes. Since Virgo is intercepted, all of Virgo is in my 7th house
And tbh I like Virgo more than Leo. Why is that? 😀
Your chart is weird. How come everything is squished into half a circle?
It isn't weird 😂😂😂😂
There's a name for that kind of chart.
Bowl pattern.
Aquas are weird and you're weird. Im calling you Bowlio from now on
Wtf 😂😂😂😂 now I understand why your aqua likes you.
What do you understand? I don't even know why he likes me and I don't know why i like him. It's retarded. I love his stupid ass for no reason. All he does is be annoying and pisses me off.
I like your sense of humor. You're easily annoyed but not the butthurt type.
He won't pisses you off if he doesn't like you ahahah.
True. I had a boyfriend when i was 6 that used to do the same thing 😂
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Amazing. I can't remember things when I was 6 😄
Posted by Leo188881
I think you'll grow out of it. Or you'll stop wanting to be with people who makes you feel like that.Find someone loyal and consistent and that stuff won't be an issue.
everyone in my life is loyal and committed. i think it's my virgo moon and other virgo placements that continuously cause me to doubt everyone in my life lol, i consistently think there is no reason for them to associate themselves with me due to my lack of self worth thus im always trying to find new ways to improve myself (most of these efforts are fruitless)
What are your other Virgo placements?
I have venus and mercury virgo. Obviously the venus one sucks the most. Always looking for excuses why it can't work with someone. I'm fighting it now. Aint letting no stupid planet get in my way. I'm a leo, ruled by the sun. I don't take shit from no venus 😂
I have the same Sun, Mercury and Venus placements as you do.
Virgo Venus is terrible. It's nice that I am extremely picky about who I date, but other than that... It's terrible.
What do you have in saturn? And is it conjunct venus?
Saturn in Aries. It doesn't aspect my Venus.
I do have Venus square Pluto, though. It doesn't help me navigate through relationships easily. People are turned off or scared away by my intensity when I am attracted to them. That along with Venus in Virgo = chaotic love life, given how picky I am about who I am attracted to and how intense I am when I am attracted to someone. Aka nobody loves me. 🙂
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I heard Venus in Virgo peeps can only fall in love like once or twice in a lifetime.
I hope you haven't used all of the quota 😂
Posted by Leo188881
I think you'll grow out of it. Or you'll stop wanting to be with people who makes you feel like that.Find someone loyal and consistent and that stuff won't be an issue.
everyone in my life is loyal and committed. i think it's my virgo moon and other virgo placements that continuously cause me to doubt everyone in my life lol, i consistently think there is no reason for them to associate themselves with me due to my lack of self worth thus im always trying to find new ways to improve myself (most of these efforts are fruitless)
What are your other Virgo placements?
I have venus and mercury virgo. Obviously the venus one sucks the most. Always looking for excuses why it can't work with someone. I'm fighting it now. Aint letting no stupid planet get in my way. I'm a leo, ruled by the sun. I don't take shit from no venus 😂
I have the same Sun, Mercury and Venus placements as you do.
Virgo Venus is terrible. It's nice that I am extremely picky about who I date, but other than that... It's terrible.
What do you have in saturn? And is it conjunct venus?
Saturn in Aries. It doesn't aspect my Venus.
I do have Venus square Pluto, though. It doesn't help me navigate through relationships easily. People are turned off or scared away by my intensity when I am attracted to them. That along with Venus in Virgo = chaotic love life, given how picky I am about who I am attracted to and how intense I am when I am attracted to someone. Aka nobody loves me. 🙂
I heard Venus in Virgo peeps can only fall in love like once or twice in a lifetime.
I hope you haven't used all of the quota 😂
I haven't used any of it yet.
... At least not to my knowledge.
I am difficult to be with, which... as I stated earlier... is partially on me to change. But if a man doesn't want to accept me as I am knowing that I am working on that part of myself... I don't want anything to do with him in the romantic sense at the very least. I hate having my time wasted.
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Posted by Leo188881
I think you'll grow out of it. Or you'll stop wanting to be with people who makes you feel like that.Find someone loyal and consistent and that stuff won't be an issue.
everyone in my life is loyal and committed. i think it's my virgo moon and other virgo placements that continuously cause me to doubt everyone in my life lol, i consistently think there is no reason for them to associate themselves with me due to my lack of self worth thus im always trying to find new ways to improve myself (most of these efforts are fruitless)
What are your other Virgo placements?
I have venus and mercury virgo. Obviously the venus one sucks the most. Always looking for excuses why it can't work with someone. I'm fighting it now. Aint letting no stupid planet get in my way. I'm a leo, ruled by the sun. I don't take shit from no venus 😂
I have the same Sun, Mercury and Venus placements as you do.
Virgo Venus is terrible. It's nice that I am extremely picky about who I date, but other than that... It's terrible.
What do you have in saturn? And is it conjunct venus?
Saturn in Aries. It doesn't aspect my Venus.
I do have Venus square Pluto, though. It doesn't help me navigate through relationships easily. People are turned off or scared away by my intensity when I am attracted to them. That along with Venus in Virgo = chaotic love life, given how picky I am about who I am attracted to and how intense I am when I am attracted to someone. Aka nobody loves me. 🙂
You'll find one, one day that doesn't make you question it.
I am difficult to love, and I realize that that is partially on me to change... so I have been working on that.
What are your Venus aspects and what House is your Venus in?
Venus is in my 6th house
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Sun square Uranus minus -173
That's why sometimes out of nowhere you said that you would like to end a relationship.
Posted by AerialView
Imo jealousy only gets worse by age 😀You're not even a Leo, Aerial. 🙄 Get out!
You're not OP 😜
She posted this thread in the Leo forum. Got nothing to do with you.
I care about OP. Just trying to share some opinion.
I have two houses ruled by Leo, one of them is my descendant 😜
Is the other house your 6th House? Or 8th House?
I saw your charts on your profile... no idea which one is the one everyone posts.
6th house.
In synastry, any Leo placements would surely fall in my 6th house.
Any insight? 😀
May I see your chart?
Does your 7th House also include part of the Virgo sector of the chart?
Yes. Since Virgo is intercepted, all of Virgo is in my 7th house
And tbh I like Virgo more than Leo. Why is that? 😀
Your chart is weird. How come everything is squished into half a circle?
It isn't weird 😂😂😂😂
There's a name for that kind of chart.
Bowl pattern.
Aquas are weird and you're weird. Im calling you Bowlio from now on
Wtf 😂😂😂😂 now I understand why your aqua likes you.
What do you understand? I don't even know why he likes me and I don't know why i like him. It's retarded. I love his stupid ass for no reason. All he does is be annoying and pisses me off.
I like your sense of humor. You're easily annoyed but not the butthurt type.
He won't pisses you off if he doesn't like you ahahah.
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😄😄 you guys love to piss us off 😄 Good that it’s mean that you like us 😘
Posted by Leo188881
I think you'll grow out of it. Or you'll stop wanting to be with people who makes you feel like that.Find someone loyal and consistent and that stuff won't be an issue.
like a boring taurus like myself with a glimpse of air 😛
i just got finished w my capricorn man so i guess i have no reason to be jealous anymore, was a mutual break up on both parts because we couldn't handle the distance - plus i feel as if both of us eventually became frustrated from being away from eachother for so long. for those that dont know it was Long distance that went on for about a year, he was meant to come see me in march but those plans got cancelled due to some unfortunate events and thus the hope in the relationship was kinda lost there too. oh well, learnt alot from him and especially to reduce my jealousy, in the end i had nothing to fear because he confessed to nothing, said he'd always be here for me as a friend - but im doing the wise leo thing and distancing myself. once i'm sure all feelings are gone maybe i'll talk to him again but i dont know, ive never fallen in love with someone like that before and it was scary, dont want to experience it again lol.
venus in virgo surely makes me so hesitant and cautious, i know he still loves me and cares for me alot but i genuinely cannot be with someone i cannot touch and feel since as a leo it literally tears me up inside and i know he felt the same way. but i can guarentee i really haven't had that magnetic connection with any of my previous partners.
Posted by Brittnie
I wonder if my Leo ever gets jealous 🤔 I’m loyal as fuck but we both have tons of friends. He can either tell I’m loyal af cuz I worship him or he doesn’t show it..Probably not. I'm not jealous or posessive of my Aqua. I trust him 100% and he's never given me any reason to question his loyalty or get insecure in that way. I only get crazy with people who try to ignore or ghost me because i can't handle that. Aqua has never done that to me and even if we're fighting if i message him he always replies. One good thing about our pairing is communication stays open and we both can't hold a grudge against each other
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Aww that’s sweet. I love it
Posted by LuckyLioness
is this something i grow out of with age or is it just a typical leo trait that i will have to deal with my life? i realise that most jealousy stems out of insecurity and lack of self appreciation however in early life it is quite difficult to have self acceptance. i experience this with most people, friends/lovers and maybe it could just be abandonment issues but id like to know another persons take on this.WHats yours ascendant? you look pretty af. Anyways leos just have big egos so they get jealous easily just that simple/
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my ascendant is leo aswell 🙂
Posted by LuckyLioness
is this something i grow out of with age or is it just a typical leo trait that i will have to deal with my life? i realise that most jealousy stems out of insecurity and lack of self appreciation however in early life it is quite difficult to have self acceptance. i experience this with most people, friends/lovers and maybe it could just be abandonment issues but id like to know another persons take on this.WHats yours ascendant? you look pretty af. Anyways leos just have big egos so they get jealous easily just that simple/
my ascendant is leo aswell 🙂
Nice, you have that kind of look which would make me lower all my inhibitions to chat you up in real life lol.
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what is your sun/moon/rising?
Posted by MiZLeo
I don't get jealous that much anymore but I still get possessive. It's an ego thing I think. Part of me doesn't really care but I don't like sharing.
see it only happens for people i really care about, if i dont talk to you much then i have no reason to be posessive usually. i agree it probably is an ego thing, i always liked the thought that if someone implies that they are mine then they belong to me you know?
Posted by LuckyLioness
is this something i grow out of with age or is it just a typical leo trait that i will have to deal with my life? i realise that most jealousy stems out of insecurity and lack of self appreciation however in early life it is quite difficult to have self acceptance. i experience this with most people, friends/lovers and maybe it could just be abandonment issues but id like to know another persons take on this.WHats yours ascendant? you look pretty af. Anyways leos just have big egos so they get jealous easily just that simple/
my ascendant is leo aswell 🙂
Nice, you have that kind of look which would make me lower all my inhibitions to chat you up in real life lol.
what is your sun/moon/rising?
I might be a gemini or taurus for my sun and rising and i have an aries moon. Lol are you an asian living in asia? lolol
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half malaysian living in england lol, how did you guess i was half asian
Possessiveness is hot af. You just need to get with a fixed venus who will appreciate it.
It's all about how you deal with it. Everyone feels jealousy/possessiveness in some form, but understanding the source of those feelings is important. As you've said jealousy/possessiveness comes from insecurity or a sense of lack. As long as you remain self fulfilled you can help yourself remain confident. If you know your value, you'll realize there's no real reason to be jealous.
Posted by Chuckcem
It's all about how you deal with it. Everyone feels jealousy/possessiveness in some form, but understanding the source of those feelings is important. As you've said jealousy/possessiveness comes from insecurity or a sense of lack. As long as you remain self fulfilled you can help yourself remain confident. If you know your value, you'll realize there's no real reason to be jealous.What are your Venus and Mars placements? Signs and Houses.
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Libra Venus in 6th, Mars Cap in 9th.
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is this something i grow out of with age or is it just a typical leo trait that i will have to deal with my life? i realise that most jealousy stems out of insecurity and lack of self appreciation however in early life it is quite difficult to have self acceptance. i experience this with most people, friends/lovers and maybe it could just be abandonment issues but id like to know another persons take on this.