Leo and Libras.

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Luckyy_Libra
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Now, I've been on this thread reading about a lot of Libras having issues with Leos. I mean, yeah...we are a really good match but I wonder if Leos and Libras are simply fun experiences. What I mean is...I wonder if we just connect on a fun level...with great sex but aren't mean for long term commitments. Think about it, it's an amazing connection....but it hardly lasts, especially when both of the people involved are young. I start to wonder if they are just a match that is just meant to be a passionate, fun, exciting memory. What do you think?

For example, my Leo ex was my first love. Yes, we had great times, and his place in my heart will always remain....but I knew in the bad of my mind it wouldn't work out for a serious long-term relationship where we would build a serious future together. I will always have special memories and thoughts of him that will stay with me forever...but it wasn't meant. He was selfish, rude, and dramatic. Always starting drama and arguements. Now...he has a Taurus girl who he walks all over and hes loving every second of it. Haa...it's funny how things work. You would think a Leo man would want a classy lady with RESPECT for herself but instead he wants a doormat. lol...oh well...

Us Libras shouldn't have to settle. 😉

But what do you guys think? Are Leos and Libras just a good time or did I just have bad luck?
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Posted by Luckyy_Libra
Now, I've been on this thread reading about a lot of Libras having issues with Leos. I mean, yeah...we are a really good match but I wonder if Leos and Libras are simply fun experiences. What I mean is...I wonder if we just connect on a fun level...with great sex but aren't mean for long term commitments. Think about it, it's an amazing connection....but it hardly lasts, especially when both of the people involved are young. I start to wonder if they are just a match that is just meant to be a passionate, fun, exciting memory. What do you think?

For example, my Leo ex was my first love. Yes, we had great times, and his place in my heart will always remain....but I knew in the bad of my mind it wouldn't work out for a serious long-term relationship where we would build a serious future together. I will always have special memories and thoughts of him that will stay with me forever...but it wasn't meant. He was selfish, rude, and dramatic. Always starting drama and arguements. Now...he has a Taurus girl who he walks all over and hes loving every second of it. Haa...it's funny how things work. You would think a Leo man would want a classy lady with RESPECT for herself but instead he wants a doormat. lol...oh well...

Us Libras shouldn't have to settle. 😉

But what do you guys think? Are Leos and Libras just a good time or did I just have bad luck?



I have read everything on this site regarding Leo men. I am an adult Libra woman who has dated a Leo man. They have certain traits they display very early in a relationship that undermines our futures together. First Leo's test potential partners very early on (first few dates). They seem to do this to see what we will do kinda like the a "practice run". Unfortunately, this is a direct attack on a Libra depending on the test. As a Libra we generally are focused on establishing clear and defined boundaries. Thus when they disrespect or hurt us we respond with our backs up. We don't want to be "push over's" or get taken advantage of in a relationship. So we try to be very clear up front with any guy we date what we will and will not accept. Given this was a "test" the Leo is turned off and wary that he is dealing with a "cookiemonster". They also think we may leave them or abandon them in the future. This undermines their trust in the potential of the relationship. With Leo's they see our "bounda
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I have read everything on this site regarding Leo men. I am an adult Libra woman who has dated a Leo man. They have certain traits they display very early in a relationship that undermines our futures together. First Leo's test potential partners very early on (first few dates). They seem to do this to see what we will do kinda like the a "practice run". Unfortunately, this is a direct attack on a Libra. As a Libra we generally are focused on establishing clear and defined boundaries. Thus when they disrespect or hurt us we respond with our backs up. We don't want to be "push over's" or get taken advantage of in a relationship. So we try to be very clear up front with any guy we date what we will and will not accept. Given this was a "test" the Leo is turned off and wary that he is dealing with a "cookiemonster". They also think we may leave them or abandon them in the future. This undermines their trust in the potential of the relationship. With Leo's they see our "boundary setting" as an argument or conflict and don't perceive us as accommodating, loving, giving, supportive, flirty, sexy, gentle women. This puts a bad taste in their mouths for us in the future.

Also, we Libra's don't respond well to the "disappearing act" Leo's frequently display. Libra's perceive unpredictable absence/silence as a sign of imbalance, instability and significant untrustworthiness. A significant problem in the beginning stages of a romantic relationship.


Lastly, Leo's are a bit selfish and self centered. I haven't figured this out just yet. But add me as a favorite and I'll post additional information on this topic.

Libra's just have to get out of the shallows into the deep with Leo's. We have to let things skate and keep showing them affection, don't stalk them, don't over initiate communication and "pass" the tests.

But if we can do some of the following things maybe we can have a strong healthy relationship:
1. Just let their tests run off our backs and go with the flow and
2. Disappear a little bit and
3. Don't challenge their disappearing acts.
4. Don't over analyze their behavior.
5. Focus on ourselves

I am a strong Christian and have found this an accurate study of people's traits and characters.
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The missions in life these souls have are very different. Unless other factors occur, it would not work. Leos, viewed as so egocentric, have the mission to find, discover themselves, to get themselves out of the beast through education of the soul. Why you're so focused on observing yourself is something few signs will understand. Since Libra gets its life experiences by measuring with the equal other, you can see it has no partner in Leo. They are just very different, so maybe try and stop blaming each other, just find who's good for ya
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Besides, Libra is inanimate. Its permanent objective of bringing balance can at times be unjustifiably cruel, not understanding the other living creatures of the zodiac. Usually Libras swing from omg, ppl, how exciting, I'd do everything for them, to the opposite lack of balance. Their need to argue is essential, however to others it can be perceived as need to be troubled and troublemakers
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Twnelson
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Thats funny.

In my last relationship he (The libra) was the one who lied, cheated, and would constantly gloss over any problem he had, and focused on all of my mistakes. I think he liked thinking he was a couple steps ahead of me, and began to belittle me.


Being that I have a Taurus ascendant, and am very "taurus-like" in general, I can see the appeal in being with a taurus woman.

SO my question is: Whats your point? Whats the point in coming to the leo section, only to bitch about them.

Im not going to call the guy a jerk like someone above, but instead bring up that maybe you are the jerk.

Leo/Libra couples have great long-term potential, but both parties need to be on equal playing fields for anything to last
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rocktressa
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I am a Taurus woman ..and Lucky_Libra..I feel what your saying when it comes to the less evolved leos.I can assure you he has and is in the process of testing his Taurus woman too,the difference is that the Taurus woman has a natural femenine ying that when challenged by his temperments ,stays secure in the knowledge that he is naturally testing the waters to be sure that his love his recipercated. Leo men give you the whole heart when they do find their queen.Taurus women have a subtle persausion that moves mountains. She loves the traditional role of caring for her man as only a woman can do.In the bedroom when you add fire with earth you get hotlava.I beg to differ ,not a doormat but more like a suede leather coat.
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Liberal777Libra
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This accurately sums up my relationship with a Leo woman..
I have survived the "tests" and the relationship is blossoming !!!

Posted by LibraGirl43
I have read everything on this site regarding Leo men. I am an adult Libra woman who has dated a Leo man. They have certain traits they display very early in a relationship that undermines our futures together. First Leo's test potential partners very early on (first few dates). They seem to do this to see what we will do kinda like the a "practice run". Unfortunately, this is a direct attack on a Libra. As a Libra we generally are focused on establishing clear and defined boundaries. Thus when they disrespect or hurt us we respond with our backs up. We don't want to be "push over's" or get taken advantage of in a relationship. So we try to be very clear up front with any guy we date what we will and will not accept. Given this was a "test" the Leo is turned off and wary that he is dealing with a "cookiemonster". They also think we may leave them or abandon them in the future. This undermines their trust in the potential of the relationship. With Leo's they see our "boundary setting" as an argument or conflict and don't perceive us as accommodating, loving, giving, supportive, flirty, sexy, gentle women. This puts a bad taste in their mouths for us in the future.

Also, we Libra's don't respond well to the "disappearing act" Leo's frequently display. Libra's perceive unpredictable absence/silence as a sign of imbalance, instability and significant untrustworthiness. A significant problem in the beginning stages of a romantic relationship.


Lastly, Leo's are a bit selfish and self centered. I haven't figured this out just yet. But add me as a favorite and I'll post additional information on this topic.

Libra's just have to get out of the shallows into the deep with Leo's. We have to let things skate and keep showing them affection, don't stalk them, don't over initiate communication and "pass" the tests.

But if we can do some of the following things maybe we can have a strong healthy relationship:
1. Just let their tests run off our backs and go with the flow and
2. Disappear a little bit and
3. Don't challenge their disappearing acts.
4. Don't over analyze their behavior.
5. Focus on ourselves

I am a strong Christian and have found this an accurate study of people's traits and characters.
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this is why i have problems with a certain leo sun who has his venus and moon in libra which is the same as me too. our behaviour is so similar towards eachother that now everything has become completely stagnant. i see him, we smile and wave and there's an undercurrent but neither side will back down and make the first approach. so fucking push-me, pull-you on the emotions...both sides...exhausting.

i know how long it takes me to make my mind up about virtually everything and so i don't need the chaos of being with someone of a similar nature. i would prefer a leo who takes control and let's me be me...but generally i find something irresistable about leo men. i think it's their alpha maleness which has a sensitive edge....unlike aries who are purely egocentric and sag's who are just plain psycho, lol.
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I doubt where that "testing" initiated from I mean by leo side or libra... And isn't that supposed to be done when you want a serious relationship s? Hell! Libras are known to be a relationship sign, always looking for settling with a mate or least for the sake of "being loved" ... Don't act like your independent counterparts😂 the point is for libran just make up your fuckin minds... If you wanna stay just stay leave it there...
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Posted by johnwilson125

I doubt where that "testing" initiated from I mean by leo side or libra... And isn't that supposed to be done when you want a serious relationship s? Hell! Libras are known to be a relationship sign, always looking for settling with a mate or least for the sake of "being loved" ... Don't act like your independent counterparts😂 the point is for libran just make up your fuckin minds... If you wanna stay just stay leave it there...

This was your words three months ago...

👇🏾

“ I'm talking to this girl who's either a sag moon or Leo moon depending on her birth year.. I have Sagittarius moon ... She's is kinda nerdy. Which is wierd, I'm planning to ask her out someday..”

So you’re obviously looking for love/a relationship yet are here posting this.... and you’re posting this on a Libra woman’s thread who hasn’t posted in 8 years. Let go of that hurt.