Leo Men

Hello,

I am an Aquarius woman, met a Leo guy and we seemed to hit it off well. He was the one that maintained contact. Now he has stopped texting and making contact.

I'm curious what I could have done to cause that or is it that he probably just got bored with me quicker than I expected?

Thank you!

Possibly. Has he hit?

We kissed and he has been texting and calling ever since. Then poof disappeared.

It could be a lot. But sometimes we go off to ourselves jus bc, so it could be nun.

Jus let him know u thinkin bout him but don't be a bugaboo.

I don't usually like to take the lead with contact. If he is interested i'm sure he would have reached out.

I have already deleted his number, so I have no way too anyway.

I was just curious on how it works. Thank you @ livework

Posted by aquagirllovesu
I don't usually like to take the lead with contact. If he is interested i'm sure he would have reached out.

I have already deleted his number, so I have no way too anyway.

I was just curious on how it works. Thank you @ livework

Yea he will come back if interested for sure

Sometimes guys just lose interest quickly. It's happened to the best of us. Go on a date, it goes well, then poof! You're never really going to know why which is what sucks. When guys vanish sometimes they come back because they were busy and didn't have time to maintain a newly started relationship.

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Possibly. Has he hit?

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Lmao er body kno our lingo now. Ain no sense in hidin it

Posted by libralotus
Sometimes guys just lose interest quickly. It's happened to the best of us. Go on a date, it goes well, then poof! You're never really going to know why which is what sucks. When guys vanish sometimes they come back because they were busy and didn't have time to maintain a newly started relationship.

Yes, I totally agree and when they disappear it's usually a blessing in disguise. So I make sure I am thankful I was save from a disaster.

Never went out with a Leo so I was just curious if it was me, but I'm pretty sure something shiny and new has his attention. :-)

Posted by TheLibraMudra
Text him "hi! Was just thinkin about ya, hope you're doing well" Then don't say shite after if he doesn't respond.

He will be around tons if he's that interested but I think they like a little initiative here and there from a lady.

I wish I had it in me to do that. I can't do it. 😢

And I have deleted his information to ensure that I don't :-) If he was interested he would call.

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Posted by aquagirllovesu

Posted by TheLibraMudra
Text him "hi! Was just thinkin about ya, hope you're doing well" Then don't say shite after if he doesn't respond.

He will be around tons if he's that interested but I think they like a little initiative here and there from a lady.

I wish I had it in me to do that. I can't do it. 😢

And I have deleted his information to ensure that I don't :-) If he was interested he would call.

From what ive read in your posts, id have stopped contacting you also. He probably seen you as too high maintenance, with high expectations.

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No not at all. I am sure he just moved on, I am not bitter or upset. I just don't think it's smart to chase a man.

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Posted by aquagirllovesu
Hello,

He was the one that maintained contact. Now he has stopped texting and making contact.

Its not about chasing men its that you are expectations are too high

I just don't think it's smart to chase a man.

Its a give and take world. If you cant return you will be overlooked. Im a traditional style courtier myself, but if im doing all the work i see it as a red flag that the women im trying to court is just not worth the trouble.

You deleted his number and already gave up on him, so in my opinion he made the right choice.

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I can understand what you are saying. But he is not very serious minded, I think he had a dull week and had time to text. This week he is probably on to the next thing.

But I respect your pov.

Posted by TheLibraMudra

Posted by aquagirllovesu

Posted by TheLibraMudra
Text him "hi! Was just thinkin about ya, hope you're doing well" Then don't say shite after if he doesn't respond.

He will be around tons if he's that interested but I think they like a little initiative here and there from a lady.

I wish I had it in me to do that. I can't do it. 😢

And I have deleted his information to ensure that I don't :-) If he was interested he would call.

You freaking aquas lol. I struggle with this. My moon is in aqua.

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And I am an Aqua that actually learned her lesson, so it's even worse lol lol :-)

Posted by aquagirllovesu
We kissed and he has been texting and calling ever since. Then poof disappeared.

how long has it been since you heard from him?

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by aquagirllovesu
We kissed and he has been texting and calling ever since. Then poof disappeared.

how long has it been since you heard from him?

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Yesterday nothing and nothing today.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by aquagirllovesu
We kissed and he has been texting and calling ever since. Then poof disappeared.

how long has it been since you heard from him?

Yesterday nothing and nothing today.

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Wow a whole 48 hours. Give him some space dude.

You have no idea what might be going on in his life. If your really that bothered send him a cute text, something like 'had so much fun on our date the other night!'

Let him come to you.

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Posted by aquagirllovesu
We kissed and he has been texting and calling ever since. Then poof disappeared.

how long has it been since you heard from him?

Yesterday nothing and nothing today.

Wow a whole 48 hours. Give him some space dude.

You have no idea what might be going on in his life. If your really that bothered send him a cute text, something like 'had so much fun on our date the other night!'

Let him come to you.

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I totally agree. I have not bothered him or reached out to him at all. Maybe my post didn't read well, I was curious as to why he stopped, not that I am looking for him to text.

I would never send the cute text or any text. Not in my nature.

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by JohnnyRed007

Posted by aquagirllovesu
Hello,

He was the one that maintained contact. Now he has stopped texting and making contact.

Its not about chasing men its that you are expectations are too high

I just don't think it's smart to chase a man.

Its a give and take world. If you cant return you will be overlooked. Im a traditional style courtier myself, but if im doing all the work i see it as a red flag that the women im trying to court is just not worth the trouble.

You deleted his number and already gave up on him, so in my opinion he made the right choice.

All the Leo men I know take the lead. If you don't text they will still text to see what's up.

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I agree with you. He took the lead the entire time, I was surprised he was texting everyday. Then yesterday and today nothing....and we had plans this weekend.

So I am sure he lost interest.

Posted by TheLibraMudra
I'm over here thinking it was a week or two. Only 48 hours though? Lol

Yes, it's not a long time at all. But he was reaching out every single day, so it seems something has changed.

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by aquagirllovesu

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by JohnnyRed007

Posted by aquagirllovesu
Hello,

He was the one that maintained contact. Now he has stopped texting and making contact.

Its not about chasing men its that you are expectations are too high

I just don't think it's smart to chase a man.

Its a give and take world. If you cant return you will be overlooked. Im a traditional style courtier myself, but if im doing all the work i see it as a red flag that the women im trying to court is just not worth the trouble.

You deleted his number and already gave up on him, so in my opinion he made the right choice.

All the Leo men I know take the lead. If you don't text they will still text to see what's up.

I agree with you. He took the lead the entire time, I was surprised he was texting everyday. Then yesterday and today nothing....and we had plans this weekend.

So I am sure he lost interest.

Yes Leo men are not afraid to show interest. They will contact you everyday day, noon and night. Sometimes before you even get up in the morning.

You are doing the right thing. Leo goes after what he wants. Don't contact him...allow him too. Hopefully he is still alive.

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lol lol lol, I don't really care if he is alive or not. It's all good.

If you can't send anything cute then just send a text that says "whats up?". I dated am aqua and her detached nature made me feel that she wasn't interested. Took me a sec to learn that simple texting was how she displayed interest.

Willing to bet he's waiting to hear from you. Leo's sometimes like to be chased.

I know aquas can have that difficulty showing affection but trust me I'm sure he's simply waiting to hear from you.

Leo men ROAM. King of the jungle.

If you have not captured his heart then he's roaming for new territory were the land is plentiful.

There are sometimes so many options they lose sight.

Don't chase him but you can bait him back in with a little bit of attention if you want him. Not too much. Just a friendly gesture can go a long way with a Leo male.

Of course I am not speaking for all Leo's. Is he a July Leo? Or August Leo? Yes it matters.

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Posted by AriesLove

Posted by JohnnyRed007

Posted by aquagirllovesu
Hello,

He was the one that maintained contact. Now he has stopped texting and making contact.

Its not about chasing men its that you are expectations are too high

I just don't think it's smart to chase a man.

Its a give and take world. If you cant return you will be overlooked. Im a traditional style courtier myself, but if im doing all the work i see it as a red flag that the women im trying to court is just not worth the trouble.

You deleted his number and already gave up on him, so in my opinion he made the right choice.

All the Leo men I know take the lead. If you don't text they will still text to see what's up.

I agree with you. He took the lead the entire time, I was surprised he was texting everyday. Then yesterday and today nothing....and we had plans this weekend.

So I am sure he lost interest.

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I think your overreacting.

Throwing away a dudes number because hes not all up your ass every moment? I mean, come on. People have lives, responsibilities, work. Kinda self important of you to make it all about you, especially when only starting to date someone.

communication is a two way street

I'm a bit stunned you deleted his number so quickly, to be honest.
I mean, maybe he got hit by a bus...

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Posted by wagtail
I'm a bit stunned you deleted his number so quickly, to be honest.
I mean, maybe he got hit by a bus...

It wasn't meant to be then. No need for the number anymore.

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True.
Getting sidelined by a 6-tonne vehicle puts a spanner in the works for any relationship...

My Leo 'friend' needs his space but always maintains contact in some way within a couple of days and is really apologetic, explaining why and reassuring me he appreciates my texts and messages. Guys don't put as much importance on texting as us girls do but it doesn't necessarily mean they've lost interest.