
Vora
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Posted by Confused_
lol, yeah, it's always alllll about them

Posted by Voraah, that is unfortunate..you have to either drop them or to have infinite amounts of patience, I know something about it. my friendship with them is in hibernation now.Posted by Confused_
lol, yeah, it's always alllll about them
This person was my good friend, our friendship ended after we worked together in one project like bye bishhh click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Voraand yes, they are good friends, and we weren't working together but the amount of me me me me me me in our friendship has became unbearable either. lol, I know.Posted by Confused_
lol, yeah, it's always alllll about them
This person was my good friend, our friendship ended after we worked together in one project like bye bishhh click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Confused_not only about that though, she can turn everything into an argument and I hate debating so i will always be the one who end up being quiet which means she is the right queen ughhh it is the "I'm always right" attitude as wellPosted by VoraPosted by Confused_
lol, yeah, it's always alllll about them
This person was my good friend, our friendship ended after we worked together in one project like bye bishhh click to expand
and yes, they are good friends, and we weren't working together but the amount of me me me me me me in our friendship has became unbearable either. lol, I know. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Lioness18881Do you project yourself as Ms.Perfection at work or not? and what if there is someone who has better idea than you, do you listen to their ideas and use it or your pride tell you to say no?
Yep. Sounds about right but I'm aware of it. I ask other people for input and ideas at work but it's a conscious effort i have to make because my natural state is to lead and take over. I also have to let things go and not get so frustrated with slow people or people who make mistakes all the time.
The expectations of us are much higher at work and we often get pushed by our managers to do more and be better and it pisses us off. I have a rebellious streak so if someone tells me what to do, I'll do something crazy to prove they have no power 😂

Posted by VoraI feel yaPosted by Confused_Posted by VoraPosted by Confused_
lol, yeah, it's always alllll about them
This person was my good friend, our friendship ended after we worked together in one project like bye bishhh click to expand
and yes, they are good friends, and we weren't working together but the amount of me me me me me me in our friendship has became unbearable either. lol, I know. click to expand
not only about that though, she can turn everything into an argument and I hate debating so i will always be the one who end up being quiet which means she is the right queen ughhh it is the "I'm always right" attitude as well click to expandclick to expand


Posted by Librasetting777Sorry for your loss 😢
My brother who just passed away in January had this combo, he was the same way all about him, wouldn't listen to anybody's advice. I'm always right attitude. Big mommy's boy lazy and dirty Leo. I think a lot of his cancer placements fucked him in away. They can be great if they actually learn to listen they definitely know how to make money I'll give them that but they seem to waste it too.

Posted by Confused_Posted by Librasetting777
My brother who just passed away in January had this combo, he was the same way all about him, wouldn't listen to anybody's advice. I'm always right attitude. Big mommy's boy lazy and dirty Leo. I think a lot of his cancer placements fucked him in away. They can be great if they actually learn to listen they definitely know how to make money I'll give them that but they seem to waste it too.
Sorry for your loss click to expandclick to expand




Posted by Librasetting777that's sad 😢 some people can never changePosted by Confused_Posted by Librasetting777
My brother who just passed away in January had this combo, he was the same way all about him, wouldn't listen to anybody's advice. I'm always right attitude. Big mommy's boy lazy and dirty Leo. I think a lot of his cancer placements fucked him in away. They can be great if they actually learn to listen they definitely know how to make money I'll give them that but they seem to waste it too.
Sorry for your loss click to expand
thank you. He passed from stage 4 brain cancer of course he didn't listen to me for years about getting a ct scan or MRI. He rebelled and didn't want to get checked out it's just a migraine as he would say 😞 click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Librasetting777Sorry for your loss. I understand this frustration of the stubborness but damn it gets to the point that it took his life
My brother who just passed away in January had this combo, he was the same way all about him, wouldn't listen to anybody's advice. I'm always right attitude. Big mommy's boy lazy and dirty Leo. I think a lot of his cancer placements treetrunked him in away. They can be great if they actually learn to listen they definitely know how to make money I'll give them that but they seem to waste it too.

Posted by MoonshineLeoHahaha weird that it sounds cliche to you because all of this is from my observation so far...and no she wasnt the only one who did the work or planning stuff. EVERYBODY was doing it and even another leo cant control her because she wont listen and bossing ppl around.
I have this placement LOL and no no no to all those rediculous questions. Sounds so cliche. The only time I have a problem with a group project is if my teammenmbers are lazy and or all over the place no structure. Also working in a group means ALOT of excuses. Something Leo’s don’t deal with so we just like to get work done that’s all. Quit cookiemonstering he’s probably the one doing all the work, get off of here and go work... sorry not sorry
Posted by Librasetting777Posted by Confused_Posted by Librasetting777
My brother who just passed away in January had this combo, he was the same way all about him, wouldn't listen to anybody's advice. I'm always right attitude. Big mommy's boy lazy and dirty Leo. I think a lot of his cancer placements treetrunked him in away. They can be great if they actually learn to listen they definitely know how to make money I'll give them that but they seem to waste it too.
Sorry for your loss click to expand
thank you. He passed from stage 4 brain cancer of course he didn't listen to me for years about getting a ct scan or MRI. He rebelled and didn't want to get checked out it's just a migraine as he would say 😞 click to expandclick to expand

Posted by VoraPosted by MoonshineLeo
I have this placement LOL and no no no to all those rediculous questions. Sounds so cliche. The only time I have a problem with a group project is if my teammenmbers are lazy and or all over the place no structure. Also working in a group means ALOT of excuses. Something Leo’s don’t deal with so we just like to get work done that’s all. Quit cookiemonstering he’s probably the one doing all the work, get off of here and go work... sorry not sorry
Hahaha weird that it sounds cliche to you because all of this is from my observation so far...and no she wasnt the only one who did the work or planning stuff. EVERYBODY was doing it and even another leo cant control her because she wont listen and bossing ppl around. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by VoraEven though the bossy part she doesn't sound much like me, I can more relate to the "not listening" part even though it's unconscious and I try to be aware of it. I think it's a fixed sign thing especially with the Leo-Aquarius axis. Both signs think they are right all the time. Even if the advice you give them is practical, logical, and something that really needs to be done, a lot of the time Leos have to come up with the idea first for them to actually do it.Posted by MoonshineLeo
I have this placement LOL and no no no to all those rediculous questions. Sounds so cliche. The only time I have a problem with a group project is if my teammenmbers are lazy and or all over the place no structure. Also working in a group means ALOT of excuses. Something Leo’s don’t deal with so we just like to get work done that’s all. Quit cookiemonstering he’s probably the one doing all the work, get off of here and go work... sorry not sorry
Hahaha weird that it sounds cliche to you because all of this is from my observation so far...and no she wasnt the only one who did the work or planning stuff. EVERYBODY was doing it and even another leo cant control her because she wont listen and bossing ppl around. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by MoonshineLeoNo no i dont hate leos or have any personal problem with leos it is just that this person is incredibly bossy that it affected the team so badly and that no one wants to give her feedback (this did not happen in work force it happened when i was in uni and we are all friends so that is why i was shock of how my friend had changed just by working) regarding the change that she showed makes me wonder if other leo with this combination behave the same way or not because it was shocking to me. She is such as sweet person as a friend.Posted by VoraPosted by MoonshineLeo
I have this placement LOL and no no no to all those rediculous questions. Sounds so cliche. The only time I have a problem with a group project is if my teammenmbers are lazy and or all over the place no structure. Also working in a group means ALOT of excuses. Something Leo’s don’t deal with so we just like to get work done that’s all. Quit cookiemonstering he’s probably the one doing all the work, get off of here and go work... sorry not sorry
Hahaha weird that it sounds cliche to you because all of this is from my observation so far...and no she wasnt the only one who did the work or planning stuff. EVERYBODY was doing it and even another leo cant control her because she wont listen and bossing ppl around. click to expand
Okay so is this a leo problem or a personal problem? 🙄 the way you answered makes me think you have a problem with people telling you stuff, in the work force you just have to get over it. I know shocking. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by VoraPosted by Librasetting777
My brother who just passed away in January had this combo, he was the same way all about him, wouldn't listen to anybody's advice. I'm always right attitude. Big mommy's boy lazy and dirty Leo. I think a lot of his cancer placements treetrunked him in away. They can be great if they actually learn to listen they definitely know how to make money I'll give them that but they seem to waste it too.
Sorry for your loss. I understand this frustration of the stubborness but damn it gets to the point that it took his life click to expandclick to expand


Posted by Lioness18881Lmao you crack me up. That sounds like some shit I would do!
Yep. Sounds about right but I'm aware of it. I ask other people for input and ideas at work but it's a conscious effort i have to make because my natural state is to lead and take over. I also have to let things go and not get so frustrated with slow people or people who make mistakes all the time.
The expectations of us are much higher at work and we often get pushed by our managers to do more and be better and it pisses us off. I have a rebellious streak so if someone tells me what to do, I'll do something crazy to prove they have no power 😂
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Do you find it hard to control yourself not to be bossy?
Do people have negative feedback or positive feedback to your behavior?
Any problem so far working with other people?
Sorry i can't just work with this kind of combination, too bossy and too controlling i just can't.....
like..... ugh srsly it's not only about YOU YOU YOU god damn it, there are other group members!! ask for their ideas and comments for god sake!!
PS. you can be a good caring friend but a big NO with working