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Very much so. But they’re also deeply sensitive and easily bruised because they put so much caring into all they do. Everything is personal because everything comes from the heart.

I do notice that quite a few of them long to Be the one that loves a little bit more. Friends and former lovers alike, they always tend to be most interested when someone else is ambivalent. That is until they get their heart broken very badly, normally for years by said ambivalence, and then they slowly start to come around to being selective and patient with their big hearts. They begin to see the benefit in meeting an equal rather than thinking they have to ‘date up’ in order for there to be passion.


Perfect description!!
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Ive been being pursued by a Leo sun, Leo moon and Leo Venus man for about a year. Whenever we hangout he is the most vocal and romantic. Like in the middle of a conversation saying "Let me stop you right there and tell you how beautiful you look right now." Or being like "I am so intrigued by the way your mind works"... It's like a bit much for me in a good way.... but im like this guy cant be for real right now. He's and artist and seems very deep and philosophical.

I can sense that he has the potential to be quite jealous.... I dont know why but its just little reactions to things that I can tell.
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I had a leo moon, leo venus (leo mercury too, I believe) chase me once, and he did everything short of chasing me down the street lol. Sharing his meals with me, dressing up in uniform for me, complimenting me and talking a lot about how good he would treat me if I gave him a chance, how I would never want to let him go, lol.

And he got very upset, or angry even, when I didn’t reciprocate or accept his gifts etc; ‘Do you know how many girls I share my meals with? NO ONE! I never do that!’. So yea, I agree with what Ellygant said.


I can see this!!!!!
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I apparently do more of the presents thing (but I have to be really into you) then being vocal unless it just slips out.

Example:

my Pisces was broke so he sold his guitar amp..this thing was huge and expensive. I told him not to and that he would regret it .of course he didn't listen. At that time.. I had no money or at least not enough to buy him another one...so during Christmas...I found a mini one. I worked my ass off to get the money to buy it (it was still pretty expensive)...he was so shocked and literally in awe...of course it couldn't put out anything like the grown up amp lol. I have a pic of his reaction ❤️.

More recent thing:

I had a keychain (it's really small) made with the coordinates of where me and the Leo met. Even if nothing ever becomes of it and we end up being really good friends...it was still a special day to me. He loved or pretended to lol
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Posted by nikkistar

IMO, Leo Venus is worse the Scorpio Venus. They are straight cave man style , lovers. They can't or won't tolerate someone coming before them. Talk of any exes, is a complete NO GO in their realm. Having a kid before them, is more than likely a deal breaker. No one comes before them, period. lol


Maybe that is what my intuition is picking up on. Like there is something dark there.... not bad, but def some stipulations on love that I can sense. Once he got noticeably irritated because he text me at 9pm on a Saturday to meet him, I said "I'm two hours invested into reorganizing my closet def not leaving my house."... He was like "Glad to know your closet is priority." haha I just left the message on read. I was like to myself "ohhhhh, okay I see how it is". haha

He has Scorpio Mars.... is this a double whammy?!
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I apparently do more of the presents thing (but I have to be really into you) then being vocal unless it just slips out.

Example:

my Pisces was broke so he sold his guitar amp..this thing was huge and expensive. I told him not to and that he would regret it .of course he didn't listen. At that time.. I had no money or at least not enough to buy him another one...so during Christmas...I found a mini one. I worked my ass off to get the money to buy it (it was still pretty expensive)...he was so shocked and literally in awe...of course it couldn't put out anything like the grown up amp lol. I have a pic of his reaction ❤️.

More recent thing:

I had a keychain (it's really small) made with the coordinates of where me and the Leo met. Even if nothing ever becomes of it and we end up being really good friends...it was still a special day to me. He loved or pretended to lol


Waaah, that’s DEEPLY romantic. Like, I would never even get an idea like that (the second example) - and I’m a pisces venus. I’m impressed. No wonder I fall so hard for leo moons, you guys are so warm and sweet!
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Hahaha...thank you! 🙂

I also for his (leo) bday (I knew no one was celebrating it, even he wasn't and it made me sad) so I bought two huge cup cakes (tbh I wasn't sure if he liked chocolate or vanilla..got both just in case), two cards (one was hilarious and I couldn't pass it up and the other was just normal) and a bottle of cologne he mentioned months prior in a rando convo. The big thing is that i bought him a fake crown to wear. Before he walked in I told him to close his eyes, took off his hat (not gonna lie, he was nervous lol) and put the fake crown on his head...he took it off and started laughing but put it back on and wore the whole time. He forgot it was even on his head and almost walked out the door. I debated the whole crown thing and almost ditched it last min but glad I didn't lol
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I apparently do more of the presents thing (but I have to be really into you) then being vocal unless it just slips out.

Example:

my Pisces was broke so he sold his guitar amp..this thing was huge and expensive. I told him not to and that he would regret it .of course he didn't listen. At that time.. I had no money or at least not enough to buy him another one...so during Christmas...I found a mini one. I worked my ass off to get the money to buy it (it was still pretty expensive)...he was so shocked and literally in awe...of course it couldn't put out anything like the grown up amp lol. I have a pic of his reaction ❤️.




That is such a sweet story ❤️
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thank you! 🙂
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IMO, Leo Venus is worse the Scorpio Venus. They are straight cave man style , lovers. They can't or won't tolerate someone coming before them. Talk of any exes, is a complete NO GO in their realm. Having a kid before them, is more than likely a deal breaker. No one comes before them, period. lol


Maybe that is what my intuition is picking up on. Like there is something dark there.... not bad, but def some stipulations on love that I can sense. Once he got noticeably irritated because he text me at 9pm on a Saturday to meet him, I said "I'm two hours invested into reorganizing my closet def not leaving my house."... He was like "Glad to know your closet is priority." haha I just left the message on read. I was like to myself "ohhhhh, okay I see how it is". haha

He has Scorpio Mars.... is this a double whammy?!
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LOL, I am going to pray for you.

NOTHING comes before them. People, things, anything. Not even kids if you guys have them together. LOL
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IMO, Leo Venus is worse the Scorpio Venus. They are straight cave man style , lovers. They can't or won't tolerate someone coming before them. Talk of any exes, is a complete NO GO in their realm. Having a kid before them, is more than likely a deal breaker. No one comes before them, period. lol


Maybe that is what my intuition is picking up on. Like there is something dark there.... not bad, but def some stipulations on love that I can sense. Once he got noticeably irritated because he text me at 9pm on a Saturday to meet him, I said "I'm two hours invested into reorganizing my closet def not leaving my house."... He was like "Glad to know your closet is priority." haha I just left the message on read. I was like to myself "ohhhhh, okay I see how it is". haha

He has Scorpio Mars.... is this a double whammy?!


LOL, I am going to pray for you.

NOTHING comes before them. People, things, anything. Not even kids if you guys have them together. LOL
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Send thoughts and prayers. hahaha
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I apparently do more of the presents thing (but I have to be really into you) then being vocal unless it just slips out.

Example:

my Pisces was broke so he sold his guitar amp..this thing was huge and expensive. I told him not to and that he would regret it .of course he didn't listen. At that time.. I had no money or at least not enough to buy him another one...so during Christmas...I found a mini one. I worked my ass off to get the money to buy it (it was still pretty expensive)...he was so shocked and literally in awe...of course it couldn't put out anything like the grown up amp lol. I have a pic of his reaction ❤️.

More recent thing:

I had a keychain (it's really small) made with the coordinates of where me and the Leo met. Even if nothing ever becomes of it and we end up being really good friends...it was still a special day to me. He loved or pretended to lol


Waaah, that’s DEEPLY romantic. Like, I would never even get an idea like that (the second example) - and I’m a pisces venus. I’m impressed. No wonder I fall so hard for leo moons, you guys are so warm and sweet!


Hahaha...thank you! 🙂

I also for his (leo) bday (I knew no one was celebrating it, even he wasn't and it made me sad) so I bought two huge cup cakes (tbh I wasn't sure if he liked chocolate or vanilla..got both just in case), two cards (one was hilarious and I couldn't pass it up and the other was just normal) and a bottle of cologne he mentioned months prior in a rando convo. The big thing is that i bought him a fake crown to wear. Before he walked in I told him to close his eyes, took off his hat (not gonna lie, he was nervous lol) and put the fake crown on his head...he took it off and started laughing but put it back on and wore the whole time. He forgot it was even on his head and almost walked out the door. I debated the whole crown thing and almost ditched it last min but glad I didn't lol


Hahaha aaaaw. That’s exactly my sense of humor, to overdo it with party hats etc. I actually remember a leo friend of mine gave her bf a pink and girly birthday card that said ‘To the most wonderful girl in the world’ or something like that, lol. I guess leo energy likes this kind of stuff
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I know I like that kind of stuff but I do it with no expectations in return. I just do it to make someone happy. 🙂
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I apparently do more of the presents thing (but I have to be really into you) then being vocal unless it just slips out.

Example:

my Pisces was broke so he sold his guitar amp..this thing was huge and expensive. I told him not to and that he would regret it .of course he didn't listen. At that time.. I had no money or at least not enough to buy him another one...so during Christmas...I found a mini one. I worked my ass off to get the money to buy it (it was still pretty expensive)...he was so shocked and literally in awe...of course it couldn't put out anything like the grown up amp lol. I have a pic of his reaction ❤️.

More recent thing:

I had a keychain (it's really small) made with the coordinates of where me and the Leo met. Even if nothing ever becomes of it and we end up being really good friends...it was still a special day to me. He loved or pretended to lol


Waaah, that’s DEEPLY romantic. Like, I would never even get an idea like that (the second example) - and I’m a pisces venus. I’m impressed. No wonder I fall so hard for leo moons, you guys are so warm and sweet!


Hahaha...thank you! 🙂

I also for his (leo) bday (I knew no one was celebrating it, even he wasn't and it made me sad) so I bought two huge cup cakes (tbh I wasn't sure if he liked chocolate or vanilla..got both just in case), two cards (one was hilarious and I couldn't pass it up and the other was just normal) and a bottle of cologne he mentioned months prior in a rando convo. The big thing is that i bought him a fake crown to wear. Before he walked in I told him to close his eyes, took off his hat (not gonna lie, he was nervous lol) and put the fake crown on his head...he took it off and started laughing but put it back on and wore the whole time. He forgot it was even on his head and almost walked out the door. I debated the whole crown thing and almost ditched it last min but glad I didn't lol


Hahaha aaaaw. That’s exactly my sense of humor, to overdo it with party hats etc. I actually remember a leo friend of mine gave her bf a pink and girly birthday card that said ‘To the most wonderful girl in the world’ or something like that, lol. I guess leo energy likes this kind of stuff


I know I like that kind of stuff but I do it with no expectations in return. I just do it to make someone happy. 🙂


That’s a really good quality to have! I’m generous, but I get low-key sad if someone doesn’t reciprocate, hehe
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I'm not gonna lie and say it wouldn't be nice to get things in return because it def is but my main thought going into something is the other person and if they reciprocate then yayyy lol...if not, it's not the end of the world but again I have to be really into them to even go there...if I'm not, I can be rather selfish 😬
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IMO, Leo Venus is worse the Scorpio Venus. They are straight cave man style , lovers. They can't or won't tolerate someone coming before them. Talk of any exes, is a complete NO GO in their realm. Having a kid before them, is more than likely a deal breaker. No one comes before them, period. lol


😂😂😂🙄😌🙃😭😭

This why I'm staying single.. it's not them, it's me!!! Lol

Honestly I felt the most understood with a scorpio venus... strange..
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IMO, Leo Venus is worse the Scorpio Venus. They are straight cave man style , lovers. They can't or won't tolerate someone coming before them. Talk of any exes, is a complete NO GO in their realm. Having a kid before them, is more than likely a deal breaker. No one comes before them, period. lol


😂😂😂🙄😌🙃😭😭

This why I'm staying single.. it's not them, it's me!!! Lol

Honestly I felt the most understood with a scorpio venus... strange..
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LOL!

That's because both of you would be fighting for who comes first, but Leo usually wins that one and the Scorp Venus wouldn't like it. lol
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I apparently do more of the presents thing (but I have to be really into you) then being vocal unless it just slips out.

Example:

my Pisces was broke so he sold his guitar amp..this thing was huge and expensive. I told him not to and that he would regret it .of course he didn't listen. At that time.. I had no money or at least not enough to buy him another one...so during Christmas...I found a mini one. I worked my ass off to get the money to buy it (it was still pretty expensive)...he was so shocked and literally in awe...of course it couldn't put out anything like the grown up amp lol. I have a pic of his reaction ❤️.

More recent thing:

I had a keychain (it's really small) made with the coordinates of where me and the Leo met. Even if nothing ever becomes of it and we end up being really good friends...it was still a special day to me. He loved or pretended to lol


Waaah, that’s DEEPLY romantic. Like, I would never even get an idea like that (the second example) - and I’m a pisces venus. I’m impressed. No wonder I fall so hard for leo moons, you guys are so warm and sweet!


Hahaha...thank you! 🙂

I also for his (leo) bday (I knew no one was celebrating it, even he wasn't and it made me sad) so I bought two huge cup cakes (tbh I wasn't sure if he liked chocolate or vanilla..got both just in case), two cards (one was hilarious and I couldn't pass it up and the other was just normal) and a bottle of cologne he mentioned months prior in a rando convo. The big thing is that i bought him a fake crown to wear. Before he walked in I told him to close his eyes, took off his hat (not gonna lie, he was nervous lol) and put the fake crown on his head...he took it off and started laughing but put it back on and wore the whole time. He forgot it was even on his head and almost walked out the door. I debated the whole crown thing and almost ditched it last min but glad I didn't lol


Hahaha aaaaw. That’s exactly my sense of humor, to overdo it with party hats etc. I actually remember a leo friend of mine gave her bf a pink and girly birthday card that said ‘To the most wonderful girl in the world’ or something like that, lol. I guess leo energy likes this kind of stuff


I know I like that kind of stuff but I do it with no expectations in return. I just do it to make someone happy. 🙂


That’s a really good quality to have! I’m generous, but I get low-key sad if someone doesn’t reciprocate, hehe


I'm not gonna lie and say it wouldn't be nice to get things in return because it def is but my main thought going into something is the other person and if they reciprocate then yayyy lol...if not, it's not the end of the world but again I have to be really into them to even go there...if I'm not, I can be rather selfish 😬


Yea, it has to be give and take for me, at least for the most part. If I’m the only one giving, I will start pulling away after a while, though
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I hear ya on that...after a while I can do the same but it can also depends on my moods lol
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Interesting thread.

Any opinions on how high on the maintenance scale is a person with leo venus, mars and a cancer moon—

On paper she looks a wonderful woman (read as: i want to put 3 babies in her and watch them grow up) but i cant shake the feeling it would devolve into her staying at home, waiting on me, angry, because my absence would be construed as an insult.

I cant deal with panic attacks daily....or doing damage control because she is sulking....and i rly do need alone time, its non negotiable.

So idk lol....😁

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Dated a Leo Venus in 1st house conjunct guy’s Ascendant.

Easily bruised ego, emotionally immature, needs to be emotionally coddled, cannot take criticism. Had very undeveloped understanding on how love and relationships work. We dated back when he was 25, and he’s 30 now. Not much has changed in that department at all.

These people NEED to be adored, and have a huge me complex.
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Leo Venus has no limits when it comes to love, but they always lose at the end. Always.

They are picky, and have very good taste in women.


I have real difficulty with these two statements. They make sense only if good taste means solely shallow values.

Good taste in general should include the ability to discern at least approximately with whom you wont "loose".
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Interesting thread.

Any opinions on how high on the maintenance scale is a person with leo venus, mars and a cancer moon—

On paper she looks a wonderful woman (read as: i want to put 3 babies in her and watch them grow up) but i cant shake the feeling it would devolve into her staying at home, waiting on me, angry, because my absence would be construed as an insult.

I cant deal with panic attacks daily....or doing damage control because she is sulking....and i rly do need alone time, its non negotiable.

So idk lol....😁



Dont have children. She wouldnt be into you based on your description of yourself.
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Hmmm i see from where youre coming with that, but the thing is i really dont go out that much anymore, but i want to retain the ability to do so without asking for "permission", because thats just LOL. I cringe when i hear someone he has to check with the missis when something is being planned.

Weve known each other for years, aquaintance level, not friends, the attraction is definitely there and the more i get older the more i tend to value a comfy home with loving arms waiting on me. 😂😂😂

So.... high maintenance then??
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They begin to see the benefit in meeting an equal rather than thinking they have to ‘date up’ in order for there to be passion.


No such thing as: equal or date up. That's a woman thing, especially Scorpio woman thing. Everything else,you got correct. The heart of a Leo Venus is so big, it's always a "date down" 🙂 Unmatchable heart.



Leo Venus has no limits when it comes to love, but they always lose at the end. Always.

They are picky, and have very good taste in women.


If they pursue a person to fulfill these needs though, it normally ends in chasing the person away or sacrificing their own happiness in favor of a detached partner which they feel they’ve earned.
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Def been guilty of this 😒
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They begin to see the benefit in meeting an equal rather than thinking they have to ‘date up’ in order for there to be passion.


No such thing as: equal or date up. That's a woman thing, especially Scorpio woman thing. Everything else,you got correct. The heart of a Leo Venus is so big, it's always a "date down" 🙂 Unmatchable heart.



Leo Venus has no limits when it comes to love, but they always lose at the end. Always.

They are picky, and have very good taste in women.


That’s a very lonely perspective for any Leo energy to have. It leads to the shadow expression of Leo, egotism. Egotism leads to loneliness, for obvious reasons. Loneliness leads to the Leo energy enclosing itself off, cutting off their ability to love from the world. And when a Leo can’t love, it withers, becomes bitter and resentful, instead turning to being worshipped, but even that still leaves a feeling of hollowness. Worship feels good, but it atrophies the soul.

Leo energy is the heart of the zodiac, but to put a premium on their love as unmatchable, is akin to say you can only have good sex with a Scorpio, good communication with a Virgo or a Gemini, etc and we all know that’s not true.

Leo’s are in their highest function, when they pursue their purpose, openness, being on display, sharing of themselves, generating creativity and art. The love they deserve comes as they fulfill this purpose on a greater stage. Normally through career or passion projects.

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This is the leo I deal with.. such a shame too 😒
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Interesting thread.

Any opinions on how high on the maintenance scale is a person with leo venus, mars and a cancer moon—

On paper she looks a wonderful woman (read as: i want to put 3 babies in her and watch them grow up) but i cant shake the feeling it would devolve into her staying at home, waiting on me, angry, because my absence would be construed as an insult.

I cant deal with panic attacks daily....or doing damage control because she is sulking....and i rly do need alone time, its non negotiable.

So idk lol....😁



Dont have children. She wouldnt be into you based on your description of yourself.


Hmmm i see from where youre coming with that, but the thing is i really dont go out that much anymore, but i want to retain the ability to do so without asking for "permission", because thats just LOL. I cringe when i hear someone he has to check with the missis when something is being planned.

Weve known each other for years, aquaintance level, not friends, the attraction is definitely there and the more i get older the more i tend to value a comfy home with loving arms waiting on me. 😂😂😂

So.... high maintenance then??

No, you cant expect to have the married with children life with anyone if you want to play single at the same time. You cant just go make plans to do whatever you want after you have kids. Thats why I said dont have children.
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A woman wanting to know where the baby daddy of her three kids is? Super high maintenance. What a nightmare. Totes.
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Interesting thread.

Any opinions on how high on the maintenance scale is a person with leo venus, mars and a cancer moon—

On paper she looks a wonderful woman (read as: i want to put 3 babies in her and watch them grow up) but i cant shake the feeling it would devolve into her staying at home, waiting on me, angry, because my absence would be construed as an insult.

I cant deal with panic attacks daily....or doing damage control because she is sulking....and i rly do need alone time, its non negotiable.

So idk lol....😁



Dont have children. She wouldnt be into you based on your description of yourself.


Hmmm i see from where youre coming with that, but the thing is i really dont go out that much anymore, but i want to retain the ability to do so without asking for "permission", because thats just LOL. I cringe when i hear someone he has to check with the missis when something is being planned.

Weve known each other for years, aquaintance level, not friends, the attraction is definitely there and the more i get older the more i tend to value a comfy home with loving arms waiting on me. 😂😂😂

So.... high maintenance then??

No, you cant expect to have the married with children life with anyone if you want to play single at the same time. You cant just go make plans to do whatever you want after you have kids. Thats why I said dont have children.
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I think youre getting the wrong impression tbh.....its not singles life, home every day at 3 am and if i would have kids they would come first, this is not even a discussion.

I'm worried how much time and effort id have to invest for her to be comfortable, trusting, not seeing the worst scenarios if im 30 mins late because xyz reasons. Its this daily routine of having to prove my love and fidelity thats offputting, nothing else.

All that said these are just my hunches.....but kinda corroborated by this thread.
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They begin to see the benefit in meeting an equal rather than thinking they have to ‘date up’ in order for there to be passion.


No such thing as: equal or date up. That's a woman thing, especially Scorpio woman thing. Everything else,you got correct. The heart of a Leo Venus is so big, it's always a "date down" 🙂 Unmatchable heart.



Leo Venus has no limits when it comes to love, but they always lose at the end. Always.

They are picky, and have very good taste in women.


That’s a very lonely perspective for any Leo energy to have. It leads to the shadow expression of Leo, egotism. Egotism leads to loneliness, for obvious reasons. Loneliness leads to the Leo energy enclosing itself off, cutting off their ability to love from the world. And when a Leo can’t love, it withers, becomes bitter and resentful, instead turning to being worshipped, but even that still leaves a feeling of hollowness. Worship feels good, but it atrophies the soul.

Leo energy is the heart of the zodiac, but to put a premium on their love as unmatchable, is akin to say you can only have good sex with a Scorpio, good communication with a Virgo or a Gemini, etc and we all know that’s not true.

Leo’s are in their highest function, when they pursue their purpose, openness, being on display, sharing of themselves, generating creativity and art. The love they deserve comes as they fulfill this purpose on a greater stage. Normally through career or passion projects.




This is the leo I deal with.. such a shame too 😒


Fixed signs in general, take years to heal when their heart is broken. Leo takes a little bit longer though, because their fire nature is so reluctant to admit they are unhappy, as that’s the most uncomfortable part to their nature. Normally they have to hit rock bottom before they begin to heal. A few don’t. But most do have to hit an intense bottom before they will admit how miserable they are and start the healing process to become great again.
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He told me a while back that the scars on his heart are too thick and he just can't keep putting his all and then just getting his heart broken...so he stopped. I mean I get that but there comes a point where you can't let the past rule your present...easier said then done and I'm guilty of it too.

But...I think he's getting there little by little just by certain things he does or says but then he pulls back again...like oh shit...I've said too much or done too much lol. He's a trip that's for sure 🤦‍♀️
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IMO, Leo Venus is worse the Scorpio Venus. They are straight cave man style , lovers. They can't or won't tolerate someone coming before them. Talk of any exes, is a complete NO GO in their realm. Having a kid before them, is more than likely a deal breaker. No one comes before them, period. lol


what does that mean having a kid before them?
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Single moms. The thought of any guy having "his woman" before him, is bad.
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Interesting thread.

Any opinions on how high on the maintenance scale is a person with leo venus, mars and a cancer moon—

On paper she looks a wonderful woman (read as: i want to put 3 babies in her and watch them grow up) but i cant shake the feeling it would devolve into her staying at home, waiting on me, angry, because my absence would be construed as an insult.

I cant deal with panic attacks daily....or doing damage control because she is sulking....and i rly do need alone time, its non negotiable.

So idk lol....😁



Dont have children. She wouldnt be into you based on your description of yourself.


Hmmm i see from where youre coming with that, but the thing is i really dont go out that much anymore, but i want to retain the ability to do so without asking for "permission", because thats just LOL. I cringe when i hear someone he has to check with the missis when something is being planned.

Weve known each other for years, aquaintance level, not friends, the attraction is definitely there and the more i get older the more i tend to value a comfy home with loving arms waiting on me. 😂😂😂

So.... high maintenance then??

No, you cant expect to have the married with children life with anyone if you want to play single at the same time. You cant just go make plans to do whatever you want after you have kids. Thats why I said dont have children.


I think youre getting the wrong impression tbh.....its not singles life, home every day at 3 am and if i would have kids they would come first, this is not even a discussion.

I'm worried how much time and effort id have to invest for her to be comfortable, trusting, not seeing the worst scenarios if im 30 mins late because xyz reasons. Its this daily routine of having to prove my love and fidelity thats offputting, nothing else.

All that said these are just my hunches.....but kinda corroborated by this thread.

It depends. Some will try to make it work and nag. They wont be happy. You wont be happy. I'm at the point in my life where if I see these red flags, I'd just dump you, but I only have three of the placements you mentioned. Andalusia has all of them. I'm pretty sure we all know a scorpio sun/scorpio venus guy who is willing to dote on us hand and foot. Where's your venus and mars?
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Sheathe the virgo pessimism pls. What red flags— All im asking for is some trust. She would not be abandoned for friends with whom id go out, thats just not how things are and i wouldnt even respect a woman that put up with that.

Both placements in aqua
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Very much so. But they’re also deeply sensitive and easily bruised because they put so much caring into all they do. Everything is personal because everything comes from the heart.

I do notice that quite a few of them long to Be the one that loves a little bit more. Friends and former lovers alike, they always tend to be most interested when someone else is ambivalent. That is until they get their heart broken very badly, normally for years by said ambivalence, and then they slowly start to come around to being selective and patient with their big hearts. They begin to see the benefit in meeting an equal rather than thinking they have to ‘date up’ in order for there to be passion.

A big fat HELL NO to everything you said. What kind of lame people do you know (rhetorical question).
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Very much so. But they’re also deeply sensitive and easily bruised because they put so much caring into all they do. Everything is personal because everything comes from the heart.

I do notice that quite a few of them long to Be the one that loves a little bit more. Friends and former lovers alike, they always tend to be most interested when someone else is ambivalent. That is until they get their heart broken very badly, normally for years by said ambivalence, and then they slowly start to come around to being selective and patient with their big hearts. They begin to see the benefit in meeting an equal rather than thinking they have to ‘date up’ in order for there to be passion.

A big fat HELL NO to everything you said. What kind of lame people do you know (rhetorical question).

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it rings true for me

i only people who dont like me
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You lame! 😳
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Leo energy is the heart of the zodiac, but to put a premium on their love as unmatchable, is akin to say you can only have good sex with a Scorpio


No. It's not the same thing. Venus in Leo unmatched heart is a fact. Good sex with a Scorpio is a stereotype. It could be great, but it's not given.

Only the bravest of hearts are born with that Venus. Not saying it's the best heart, and sure it has issues, but it does love differently than others.
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His leo venus is in 5th house.

I was looking at him like a friend or maybe fwb, cause younger than me...better looking...didn't have a career. Didn't take him seriously.

Then he came to my place restrung a painting and put it up for me without being prompted. I was like... are you for real.

Started taking him more seriously after that.

Taurus ven just wants our ride or die.
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Very much so. But they’re also deeply sensitive and easily bruised because they put so much caring into all they do. Everything is personal because everything comes from the heart.

I do notice that quite a few of them long to Be the one that loves a little bit more. Friends and former lovers alike, they always tend to be most interested when someone else is ambivalent. That is until they get their heart broken very badly, normally for years by said ambivalence, and then they slowly start to come around to being selective and patient with their big hearts. They begin to see the benefit in meeting an equal rather than thinking they have to ‘date up’ in order for there to be passion.

A big fat HELL NO to everything you said. What kind of lame people do you know (rhetorical question).

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it rings true for me

i only people who dont like me

You lame! 😳


instead of being a lil hater, why dont u share w/ us yr ideas of how venus in leo operates?

give us another perspective
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Since you asked before I volunteered, no.
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Very much so. But they’re also deeply sensitive and easily bruised because they put so much caring into all they do. Everything is personal because everything comes from the heart.

I do notice that quite a few of them long to Be the one that loves a little bit more. Friends and former lovers alike, they always tend to be most interested when someone else is ambivalent. That is until they get their heart broken very badly, normally for years by said ambivalence, and then they slowly start to come around to being selective and patient with their big hearts. They begin to see the benefit in meeting an equal rather than thinking they have to ‘date up’ in order for there to be passion.

A big fat HELL NO to everything you said. What kind of lame people do you know (rhetorical question).

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it rings true for me

i only people who dont like me

You lame! 😳


I don't deny it
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Ok.
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IMO, Leo Venus is worse the Scorpio Venus. They are straight cave man style , lovers. They can't or won't tolerate someone coming before them. Talk of any exes, is a complete NO GO in their realm. Having a kid before them, is more than likely a deal breaker. No one comes before them, period. lol


😂😂😂🙄😌🙃😭😭

This why I'm staying single.. it's not them, it's me!!! Lol

Honestly I felt the most understood with a scorpio venus... strange..


LOL!

That's because both of you would be fighting for who comes first, but Leo usually wins that one and the Scorp Venus wouldn't like it. lol
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Scorpio Venus would submit to Leo Venus. Scorpio isn’t that dominant when someone else is.
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IMO, Leo Venus is worse the Scorpio Venus. They are straight cave man style , lovers. They can't or won't tolerate someone coming before them. Talk of any exes, is a complete NO GO in their realm. Having a kid before them, is more than likely a deal breaker. No one comes before them, period. lol


Maybe that is what my intuition is picking up on. Like there is something dark there.... not bad, but def some stipulations on love that I can sense. Once he got noticeably irritated because he text me at 9pm on a Saturday to meet him, I said "I'm two hours invested into reorganizing my closet def not leaving my house."... He was like "Glad to know your closet is priority." haha I just left the message on read. I was like to myself "ohhhhh, okay I see how it is". haha

He has Scorpio Mars.... is this a double whammy?!


LOL, I am going to pray for you.

NOTHING comes before them. People, things, anything. Not even kids if you guys have them together. LOL
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My bf has a daughter and i love her, so no incorrect lol
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