Leo + Virgo ... Positive experiences?!

I've been all over the Virgo forum, babbling about my frustration over a lady I have liked for over a year now.
A Virgo lady. We used to be like friends, though we never met outside work.

She knew I liked her but she found someone else. So she ignored me until she became single again. She started moving in my social circles again, at work. Pretty good sign, huh? That's what I thought!
I've been trying to break some hard ice for some time now.

I've finally started to talk to her more, even though she has NOT been very inviting.
I even gave her some snacks I know she loves! That's like saying "I love you forever!!" 😉
Really, has any Leo had any positive experience with Virgos?

I think most of us Leos are straightforward when we want someone. Even as a shy guy I have made it
obvious that I like her, she knows it. I think Virgos are less likely to rush into relationships.
Not that it would be a rush, I've waited over a year to get a chance with her!
The Virgo forum has been great, but I'd like to know from my fellow meow-meows too!

Did you ever win a Virgo heart? What made them warm up to you? Sometimes I'm not sure if she's acting shy, or if she's actually ignoring me. One day she'll act interested just to ignore me the next. Of course she might not be interested! But... She might be playing the Myterious Virgo game. So... spill the beans you who know!! 🙂

I don't know what the convention is with that pairing but I'm assuming since the signs are next door neighbors (figuratively speaking) they have a lot more in common than one thing would think. I don't think it would be an easy relationship (technically speaking most relationships are not easy) but it would definitely take work. I'm sorry I'm neither a Leo or a Virgo so I can only speculate :/. I don't think it's a very common pairing though guessing by the lack of postings on this question.

Well one, Virgos aren't as straight-foward with their emotions the way Leos & other signs are. And this is the reason why alot of Virgos are misunderstood when it comes to the "love" category. She might really like you & might display just how MUCH she likes you in all the ways that you might not be paying attention, and b/c you assume that the way you show others you like them is the same way someone else would express their emotions, you might end up analyzing the situation or feeling disappointed, when really you had nothing to worry about the whole time.

From what you've said so far, I think this Virgo does have some interest in you but not as much as you'd like. I think she likes you enough b/c of the "chase" that's going on. You keep pursuing her & oh she's noticed, but she's not necessarily going to throw it up in your face that she notices & that she feels the same way. Virgos like to SHOW people better than they can tell them how they feel. If she's pleasant, warm, comfortable, & talkative in your presence, pay attention to how comfortable in her skin she is when she's around you. If you sit & wait for her to express her emotions the same way you do 1. you might be waiting for a lonnnng time & 2. you'll just keep getting disappointed & convincing yourself that she's sending you mixed signals.

When a Virgo likes you, her presence & her willingness to give you time out of her day will speak for her. And it's not until she's completely committed to you that she'll openly & directly express her emotions to you. Understand the difference between the Leo & the Virgo & you'd be suprised at how big the difference is. It doesn't mean that you two can't work, but then again it does if you can't allow the compatibility to do it's own thing, even if it's not to the same beat of your drums.

Leos and Virgos have alot in common. They are both very observant & picky when it comes to the opposite sex. Virgos can hang out with someone, do alot for them & only see them as just a friend and nothing more (even though most of the time the other person would be sitting & thinking it was MORE than just that). And they don't do this b/c they are cold & like to play games with people. It's just that they are good at adapting to others who are different than them when it comes to friendship & anything less than a relationship. And Leos are this very same way. So when you put both a Leo & a Virgo together, it's common that one person gets mixed signals or will never quite be sure if they are liked or loved with the same passion & love.

A Big difference in Leos & Virgos though is HOW they express their emotions & interest in someone. Leos aren't necessarily the most direct creatures in the world either. They find little ways to show someone that they stand out b/c coming straight-out & forward may turn the other person off. And Virgos are the same. They don't even sit around, wondering how or what they're going to say. They simply let their actions & their willingness to give their time, body, attention & conversation show the person that they are interested.

If this girl keeps giving you mixed signals or keeps giving you the signal that hey, I like you but not on the same level you like me, then you need to either work a little harder to get her to see how much you stand out from others (just like people have to do for you) or relax, stop worrying so much & let her continue to see the little creative ways you've made it known that you like her. If she takes the bait, she'll stick around. If not, she'll only stick around until someone else better comes along. And since she's done that in the past, that means you might need to STEP it up or step it OUT

Thanks guys!! Really appreciated. I'm in a crazy ride with her for sure. There's all the innuendo, the guessing, the show she sometimes puts up with her friends. Her ignoring me a little too much. It has taken so much time of my life this far, trying to figure her out. I think she' worth it for some reason. But her being a Virgo probably adds to certain traits that are hard as hell for me to understand. So once again - Thank You for the insights!!!! 🙂

Well, just to let you know that Virgo's not going to give you the attention you want, they like their alone time. But I think that's what you'll like about her. I've dated a Virguy and I know it's different but that lack of attention drives me wild, in a good way.

My mother's a Virgo. Business associate same. They are an eclectic bunch those Virgins. I'm a Gemini with a Taurus moon and a Leo rising. One thing's for sure: They can both be Peacocks. For Virgo's it's the secret to their emotional side that you need to know. Believe me...it's a big one. Can't do Virgo's myself. Everyone I've dated, I broke their heart unintentionally. But, we do communicate on an intellectual level quite well. But, Leo's need that damn SPOTLIGHT!

Yeah, the spotlight is a re-assurance thing for me. It's so much easier if someone who likes you actually shows it! But with her I have already given up on a great part of that. I accept less attention, and Xtina I agree that it can drive you crazy in a good way, once you're sure that he/she likes you despite the lack of attention. I've actually uspected that SHE likes it when she ignores me 'cause she might notice that I pay HER more attention that way.

In case you remember me.. I just found out that Virgo girl is seeing someone, and I learned the hard way by actually seeing it with my own eyes. Thanks anyway for your nice advice. I hope it won't be wasted on me. Take care.

Virgos and Leos make good friends however, in relationships... I can't say that it is that easy. Virgos want to feel secure and respected. As long as we feel secure, cared for and respected, we have no problem in giving. We are not very patient when it comes to someone we just met so... You have to move fast. If we feel we are being pushed to the side, we will only get upset or move on. Don't be afraid to gain our attention no matter what. Virgos want relationships. We desire stability and comfort in a relationship. Virgo women like the masculinity of a Leo man. Many Leo men tend to appear very spiritual, articulate and artistic. This turns us on and makes us want to find out more. Virgos, on the other hand, don't like to be controlled, pushed into sex before committed relationships, being forced to wait for long periods of time. Time for Leos is different than time for Virgos lol.

Leo time:

1 week= 3-4 days

Virgo time:

3-4 days= 1 week

Do you see the difference?

When Leos feel backed into the corner or they feel like they are caught doing something wrong, they will actually attack you and Virgos don't tolerate that sitting down. If we feel you are making a smug remark toward us, we make one back.

Posted by MsVirgoSunshine


Leo time:

1 week= 3-4 days

Virgo time:

3-4 days= 1 week

huh? a week feels like 3days to me. and i'm a virgo.

Posted by applemint_fv

Posted by MsVirgoSunshine


Leo time:

1 week= 3-4 days

Virgo time:

3-4 days= 1 week

huh? a week feels like 3days to me. and i'm a virgo.

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Were you born between August 23-28 or September 21 and 22? That is the only way I can explain unless you are a very patient woman. I commend you either way. I don't know many "Virgos" who are that patient when it comes to a attentiveness from a prospect romantic partner.

i'm mostly a leo, but technically a leo-virgo cuspian, and i have this virgo guy chasing me right now. i'm sure it would work out fine... if i wanted it to work. unfortunately i don't reciprocate the same feelings. he's making it pretty obvious that he likes me and didn't have a problem asking me out on a date afer the first night we hung out together. i'd say that maybe she doesn't see u in that light.

Posted by MsVirgoSunshine

Leo time:

1 week= 3-4 days

Virgo time:

3-4 days= 1 week

Sometimes weeks would pass by and I will tell my Virgo friend didn't we watch that movie last week? And She'll responding saying uh... no that was actually two weeks ago. hahaha

nope. september 9th =)

Were you born between August 23-28 or September 21 and 22? That is the only way I can explain unless you are a very patient woman. I commend you either way. I don't know many "Virgos" who are that patient when it comes to a attentiveness from a prospect romantic partner.

If it's one thing a Virgo can teach us Leo's it's patience. The more you push and rush, the more they retreat. Always suggest what you want...Never demand. Subtle hints are always good. They have wonderful memories so they will remember and pick up on the small things, and follow through. As Leo's we can be a little more overbearing and needy at times - this won't fly with Virgo. If you take it down to their level it can be a wonderful pairing. Don't lay on too much mushy stuff either. They like genuine feelings not sugar coated fantasy's. Virgo's are simple in life and in love. If you remember that then you'll be just fine.