He introduced me to his children! Meanings?If any.

He introduced me to his children! Meanings?If any.

Wasnt this a big moment? I always thought that people dont involve their children with someone who is unimportant or temporary. No?

You took it too far.

lmao. no. no. Do you have any kids?

How long have yall been dating?

Some don't care if you meet the kids .. it'd suggest asking him, that way there are no misunderstandings..🙂. Also, what truecap asked.. how long you been dating?

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
No, but just like there are single parent's who will not introduce their partner to their children until they are sure there is some permanence.

So too are their single parent's who have no such qualms.

youre right. I need to slow down....but mannnnnn I was excited!

Truecap and justagirl, we've been dating for over a year now, but we were just friends/associates for years

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Can't you just go with the flow instead of jumping the gun?

Buahahhaha
1.She's female (we go slow? 😛)

2 she's cancer 🙂

Posted by justagirl

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Can't you just go with the flow instead of jumping the gun?

Buahahhaha
1.She's female (we go slow? 😛)

2 she's cancer 🙂

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hey hey now!

Posted by cancerlady33

Posted by justagirl

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Can't you just go with the flow instead of jumping the gun?

Buahahhaha
1.She's female (we go slow? 😛)

2 she's cancer 🙂

hey hey now!

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Lol! 2 generalizations. Too much feminity!!

what kind of relationship are you looking for? Serious one w/ marriage and the works??

if so, it's nice that you meet his children. So they get a feel of how you and they interact.

If you have been dating for a year and you're just now meeting the kids, then I think it is significant, unless they are hardly around and he rarely has them. What it means to him, who knows. Ask him.

Posted by cancerlady33

Posted by justagirl

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Can't you just go with the flow instead of jumping the gun?

Buahahhaha
1.She's female (we go slow? 😛)

2 she's cancer 🙂

hey hey now!

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Glad you picked up I was joking 😉

It means whatever you make it to mean. But if you want more reassurance you could wait for more hints or maybe ask him directly.

Can we please think about the children!—_.Don't be so caught up in yourself??_.you should already be asking yourself if your ready for motherhood and what you can bring to these children!! unconditional love, thats what! I'm about to get all oprah winfrey up in here!!

I think it's a BIG moment, yes. He obviously took his time to get to know you, I think I read it took over 1 year for you to meet his children. It goes to show what kind of person he is, he's not going to introduce his children to just anyone.

How do you feel about it?

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Posted by cancerlady33

Posted by justagirl

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Can't you just go with the flow instead of jumping the gun?

Buahahhaha
1.She's female (we go slow? 😛)

2 she's cancer 🙂

hey hey now!

Lol! 2 generalizations. Too much feminity!!

what kind of relationship are you looking for? Serious one w/ marriage and the works??

if so, it's nice that you meet his children. So they get a feel of how you and they interact.

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I'm not in a swift rush, but someday I hope to get married etc. Yeah he was eyeballing me down the whole time. And surprisingly, his children welcomed me with open arms!

Posted by truecap
If you have been dating for a year and you're just now meeting the kids, then I think it is significant, unless they are hardly around and he rarely has them. What it means to him, who knows. Ask him.

Right? That's was I was thinking. He's very particular about his children. But I'll ask him. Thanks!

Posted by justagirl

Posted by cancerlady33

Posted by justagirl

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Can't you just go with the flow instead of jumping the gun?

Buahahhaha
1.She's female (we go slow? 😛)

2 she's cancer 🙂

hey hey now!

Glad you picked up I was joking 😉

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Of course, of course. I may be a Cancer, but I'm not THAT kind of sensitive. lol

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Can we please think about the children!—_.Don't be so caught up in yourself??_.you should already be asking yourself if your ready for motherhood and what you can bring to these children!! unconditional love, thats what! I'm about to get all oprah winfrey up in here!!

lol, I can dig it. I havent really given that much thought...but now that I'm thinking about it, I'm getting nervous.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think it's a BIG moment, yes. He obviously took his time to get to know you, I think I read it took over 1 year for you to meet his children. It goes to show what kind of person he is, he's not going to introduce his children to just anyone.

How do you feel about it?

YAYYY! I feel...anxious and excited at the same time. I wish he would give me verbal cues instead of showing me things...Do you think it's just that he needs help/a babysitter to his children?

Posted by Jizzusizjizzin
It means whatever you make it to mean. But if you want more reassurance you could wait for more hints or maybe ask him directly.

+1

Posted by cancerlady33

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think it's a BIG moment, yes. He obviously took his time to get to know you, I think I read it took over 1 year for you to meet his children. It goes to show what kind of person he is, he's not going to introduce his children to just anyone.

How do you feel about it?

YAYYY! I feel...anxious and excited at the same time. I wish he would give me verbal cues instead of showing me things...Do you think it's just that he needs help/a babysitter to his children?

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You are babysitting his children?

I don't know why some answers on here are tinged with bitterness. I totally understand your excitement. It is a landmark of sorts in your relationship. I know, I wouldn't intro my children to any old person, no ma'am. Perhaps, he wanted you to meet those closest to him so he could gauge where you two are going.
Good luck to you, both.
Cheers~