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OP,

From one Sag with a Leo moon to another...you seriously need to get that moon under control.

I'm going to be honest with you. If you're this insecure two months in, you really need to be by yourself for a while. No, simply dating other people will not solve the problem, it never does. As Seraph pointed out, this is an issue with you and you alone. From what you've said, the guy has done nothing wrong and those messages you displayed seem genuine to me. What's sad is you're questioning them and the guy is actually being vulnerable and that's something Leo's aren't with for everybody.

As for Leos in general, what they need is a partner that lets them shine...and not that they'll need permission to. The Sun doesn't and it won't ask and there's nothing wrong with that. But your mentality is going to try to change that in the future which will only spell disaster. They are fire signs like us and we're naturally charismatic and draw others. That's something you're going to have to learn to be comfortable with.

I've met a couple of bad Leo's, but most I've known will give you the shirt off their backs without question. So perhaps instead of trying to sabotage this, you should follow his lead. Good luck.
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I now believe what he says. Most of you are right. He doesn't know how to keep up a conversation when he is busy. Plus all of his stories are consistent so far. He never ignored me or did not reply to my message. I never really double texted because he always replied in an hour or so no matter what (bad mood, day, etc) and was always polite to me. I gave us both space and he grew worried how I didn't text back in a day. He was really happy that I replied and that there we're okay.
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He's in the military. And we're also doing long distance. I understand that trust is the only thing that can fuel and bring hope to a relationship. I am working on it, but I don't know why I feel so insecure about him. Maybe it's because he's perfect. To me, he seems kind. And he's very attractive. We're both virgins too, and to find a good looking military guy at this age that wants to wait til marriage, it's like hitting a lottery. I guess I don't want to lose him, but I am trying to let him go. Let all my worries go, because there is nothing I can do if he finds a closer woman. I have to stop thinking for myself and should be happy for him. I will never control or force him into anything uncomfortable.

By the way, we're not in love with each other. We never exchanged that as of yet.
If he's in the military that means HE'S BUSY. If he's a virgin, he's probably not sleeping around or talking to any other women to any serious degree. As you've already said, you two aren't in love with each other. This all sounds like you're basically overreacting. He sends you a bunch of emoticons. So what? If you think that's an issue, the problem isn'thim. It's your own paranoia stemming from your own personal insecurities. You should probably date around a bit more so you can get an idea of what's really out there.

The real issue is that you're not prepared to be in a long distance relationship. You've only been dating this guy for two months. It takes 3 months of consistent dating for people to start showing their true colors. Obviously an LDR extends this timeframe quite a bit. Meaning you BOTH should be talking to other people until you truly get know one another. At which poin you can look into locking each other down into a committed relationship.

Furthermore Leos are busy people and often career focused. A lot of us also suck at texting, since we prefer more personal forms of communication. That's not to say we don't text, but don't expect a lot of effort from a Leo in this department. I personally prefer phone calls and speaking in person. The only time I text a woman is to arrange a meet up (which really isn't an option in your case).

Regardless no relationships can survive without trust and honest communication. If you can't trust him (for whatever reason), you might as well get out of the relationship. Either that or figure out how not to jump to conclusions.
Who let you out?

Get back to your cage!
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
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He's in the military. And we're also doing long distance. I understand that trust is the only thing that can fuel and bring hope to a relationship. I am working on it, but I don't know why I feel so insecure about him. Maybe it's because he's perfect. To me, he seems kind. And he's very attractive. We're both virgins too, and to find a good looking military guy at this age that wants to wait til marriage, it's like hitting a lottery. I guess I don't want to lose him, but I am trying to let him go. Let all my worries go, because there is nothing I can do if he finds a closer woman. I have to stop thinking for myself and should be happy for him. I will never control or force him into anything uncomfortable.

By the way, we're not in love with each other. We never exchanged that as of yet.
If he's in the military that means HE'S BUSY. If he's a virgin, he's probably not sleeping around or talking to any other women to any serious degree. As you've already said, you two aren't in love with each other. This all sounds like you're basically overreacting. He sends you a bunch of emoticons. So what? If you think that's an issue, the problem isn'thim. It's your own paranoia stemming from your own personal insecurities. You should probably date around a bit more so you can get an idea of what's really out there.

The real issue is that you're not prepared to be in a long distance relationship. You've only been dating this guy for two months. It takes 3 months of consistent dating for people to start showing their true colors. Obviously an LDR extends this timeframe quite a bit. Meaning you BOTH should be talking to other people until you truly get know one another. At which poin you can look into locking each other down into a committed relationship.

Furthermore Leos are busy people and often career focused. A lot of us also suck at texting, since we prefer more personal forms of communication. That's not to say we don't text, but don't expect a lot of effort from a Leo in this department. I personally prefer phone calls and speaking in person. The only time I text a woman is to arrange a meet up (which really isn't an option in your case).

Regardless no relationships can survive without trust and honest communication. If you can't trust him (for whatever reason), you might as well get out of the relationship. Either that or figure out how not to jump to conclusions.
Who let you out?

Get back to your cage!
Shush, I'll let you know when you're needed.
Oh isn't that nice. He will LE ME KNOW. My eyes are tearing. You really will let me know? I mean you could even skip that part and just tell that I will never be needed. I mean you have a need for me? I am proud.

To be honest, I am here to know and tell whats needed and whats not. You certainly are not.

Get back to your cage.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
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Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
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It's fun to watch you get bristly.
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Posted by seraph
Creepy Ukrainian dude with a raging hard-on for Leo guys in nearly every Leo thread...



??

And pardon the interruption to your stalking, Igor, but Leo Sun is in DOMICILE; the most important "planet" in the show (and it's a star... yes, a star) is in its natural home in Leo, regardless of the "quality" you've made up in your head. Any opinion isn't worth more than any other when you've got the manual (i.e., they aren't worth sh.it.) For whatever I think Astrology is worth in the first place (not much), basic planetary dignities are first-day material.
I tried explaining that to him a while back in another thread. The domicile thing seemed to be lost on him. That's when I realized he just has one big crush on all of us. Either that or he's infatuated. He'll do anything for our attention.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
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I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
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What my Leo says are overly exaggerated, flowery and fake. I prefer them to be genuine to me, and I want the truth rather than fake promises and compliments..
It's not lying it's being emotionally flamboyant. We like to express our feelings outwards even if those feelings are just a fleeting crush.. just as say Scorpio people never give you the satisfaction of fully expressing theirs.

You just don't understand our style , is all.
In other words, you are incapable of expressing exactly what you feel? You have to come up with exaggerations to alter the perception of people? What is the problem? Lack of ability to construct speech?
No that is exactly how I feel at that moment. Thanks for your half-assed assumptions though. Tell me who hurt you
In other words you do not understand the difference between honesty and exaggeration?
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Are you mentally challanged?

Are you implying my feelings are exaggerated or the way I express my feelings is exaggerated? Romantically I tend to be very expressive mainly through gestures, however whether or not it's love or a fleeting crush one can only tell in retrospect.

So you see how my feelings - or the way I express them - are neither exaggerated or dishonest. It's all true and genuine in that moment. I can't help it if you suck at pursuing or wooing your bae, if you don't shape up you might just find a pair of my jeans in her closet..

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This is what he said:

I'll do anything to make you happy ... you have no idea how much I love to make you smile. Your smile could make even my worst day better. You make me so very happy and I wanna do the same for you.

To me you're absolutely perfect.

Every day I wake up and I wanna wake up with you next to me. So we can go and do things together. Go watch movies or go get food. Just anything. Or spend the whole day in bed cuddling watching tv I'd be so happy because I'd be with you. It wouldn't matter if we were rich or poor all I'd care about is being with you.

I wish I could give you all the money in the world. It still wouldn't be enough tho. If I had every single dollar in the world I'd spend every penny on you. Getting everything you've ever dreamed of. No matter the cost because you're worth it. I hope you know that I just want to make you happy I don't wanna hurt you or ever leave you. Right now you're my everything and I want it to stay that way.

Seems fake to me?
I know two dudes who have done this. I didn't trust it and I was right not to.

What they are doing is trying to get you to fall in love with them.
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This is what he said:

I'll do anything to make you happy ... you have no idea how much I love to make you smile. Your smile could make even my worst day better. You make me so very happy and I wanna do the same for you.

To me you're absolutely perfect.

Every day I wake up and I wanna wake up with you next to me. So we can go and do things together. Go watch movies or go get food. Just anything. Or spend the whole day in bed cuddling watching tv I'd be so happy because I'd be with you. It wouldn't matter if we were rich or poor all I'd care about is being with you.

I wish I could give you all the money in the world. It still wouldn't be enough tho. If I had every single dollar in the world I'd spend every penny on you. Getting everything you've ever dreamed of. No matter the cost because you're worth it. I hope you know that I just want to make you happy I don't wanna hurt you or ever leave you. Right now you're my everything and I want it to stay that way.

Seems fake to me?
I know two dudes who have done this. I didn't trust it and I was right not to.

What they are doing is trying to get you to fall in love with them.
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Yup he kind of said a lot without really saying anything

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Posted by TheAviator
I feel that they are all fake and I can't trust them. I don't know why, as a Sagittarius, that I seem to attract them. What my Leo says are overly exaggerated, flowery and fake. I prefer them to be genuine to me, and I want the truth rather than fake promises and compliments. I don't know why he would waste his time doing this and I don't trust him at all.
It's strategic interaction because they enjoy the reaction from you.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
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Eh, I don't really see it as an argument, so I'm indifferent to it. As much of a troll as he appears to be, he clearly NEEDS the attention (specifically from the Leos). At the end of the day it seems that he truly wants to be accepted by us, otherwise he wouldn't care to post here so obsessively. He's also the only person who has tried suggesting that he's "more Leo" than a Leo. Not entierly sure what that's about. Add in the weird domination fantasy references (controlling/punishing Leos and putting us in cages) and it all sounds like a twisted cry for help.

Likewise a troll like this has his uses. If he's the loudest critic we have, other critics may think twice before agreeing with him. As a result I see him more as a sounding board/parody for all of the irrational complaints we see on the Leo boards.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Eh, I don't really see it as an argument, so I'm indifferent to it. As much of a troll as he appears to be, he clearly NEEDS the attention (specifically from the Leos). At the end of the day it seems that he truly wants to be accepted by us, otherwise he wouldn't care to post here so obsessively. He's also the only person who has tried suggesting that he's "more Leo" than a Leo. Not entierly sure what that's about. Add in the weird domination fantasy references (controlling/punishing Leos and putting us in cages) and it all sounds like a twisted cry for help.

Likewise a troll like this has his uses. If he's the loudest critic we have, other critics may think twice before agreeing with him. As a result I see him more as a sounding board/parody for all of the irrational complaints we see on the Leo boards.
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He's a Pisces from what I have observed as a sun sign. Egocentric Pisces like him gotta prove something.
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I am getting mixed reactions from this. Do you guys think his message was genuine? I think his shorter ones were more true and to the point. But it was a bit exaggerated. I wrote a huge confession to him before so maybe he felt the need to match it so I wouldn't feel sad.
From what you've said, the real issue is your own insecurities and not anything negative that he's done. For all you know (and for all we know), he's telling you the truth. Unfortunately you've only been dating this guy for two months (and we don't know either of you), so our judgement relies solely on the informaiton you've presented.

That being said, I think you should take things slow and get to know him. It sounds like he communicates with you when he can, but it isn't enough for you. We don't know this guy, but from what you've presented there's no reason to think he's being unfaithful. It's up to you to figure out if you can A) be in an LDR and B) trust that he isn't cheating on you. Not everyone can handle an LDR. If this relationship doesn't work for you, then you need to break things off.

I'll also restate, ANYONE can be unfaithful. If someone wants to cheat on you, they will. They don't need be in an LDR to do it. The only person you can control at the end of the day is yourself. So start working on your insecuritiy issues first before you assume the worst about other people.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Eh, I don't really see it as an argument, so I'm indifferent to it. As much of a troll as he appears to be, he clearly NEEDS the attention (specifically from the Leos). At the end of the day it seems that he truly wants to be accepted by us, otherwise he wouldn't care to post here so obsessively. He's also the only person who has tried suggesting that he's "more Leo" than a Leo. Not entierly sure what that's about. Add in the weird domination fantasy references (controlling/punishing Leos and putting us in cages) and it all sounds like a twisted cry for help.

Likewise a troll like this has his uses. If he's the loudest critic we have, other critics may think twice before agreeing with him. As a result I see him more as a sounding board/parody for all of the irrational complaints we see on the Leo boards.
He's a Pisces from what I have observed as a sun sign. Egocentric Pisces like him gotta prove something.
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Exactly, let him have his fun. Pretty sure the rest of us are all on the same page anyway.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Eh, I don't really see it as an argument, so I'm indifferent to it. As much of a troll as he appears to be, he clearly NEEDS the attention (specifically from the Leos). At the end of the day it seems that he truly wants to be accepted by us, otherwise he wouldn't care to post here so obsessively. He's also the only person who has tried suggesting that he's "more Leo" than a Leo. Not entierly sure what that's about. Add in the weird domination fantasy references (controlling/punishing Leos and putting us in cages) and it all sounds like a twisted cry for help.

Likewise a troll like this has his uses. If he's the loudest critic we have, other critics may think twice before agreeing with him. As a result I see him more as a sounding board/parody for all of the irrational complaints we see on the Leo boards.
He's a Pisces from what I have observed as a sun sign. Egocentric Pisces like him gotta prove something.
Exactly, let him have his fun. Pretty sure the rest of us are all on the same page anyway.
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Indeed. Op is confused tho.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Eh, I don't really see it as an argument, so I'm indifferent to it. As much of a troll as he appears to be, he clearly NEEDS the attention (specifically from the Leos). At the end of the day it seems that he truly wants to be accepted by us, otherwise he wouldn't care to post here so obsessively. He's also the only person who has tried suggesting that he's "more Leo" than a Leo. Not entierly sure what that's about. Add in the weird domination fantasy references (controlling/punishing Leos and putting us in cages) and it all sounds like a twisted cry for help.

Likewise a troll like this has his uses. If he's the loudest critic we have, other critics may think twice before agreeing with him. As a result I see him more as a sounding board/parody for all of the irrational complaints we see on the Leo boards.
He's a Pisces from what I have observed as a sun sign. Egocentric Pisces like him gotta prove something.
Exactly, let him have his fun. Pretty sure the rest of us are all on the same page anyway.
Indeed. Op is confused tho.
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Fair point. I may just have to ignore him from now on so that topics don't get derailed.
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Ok are we just generalizing Leos or looking deeper into their chart? From what I know, not all Leos are the same. Come on now.
98% of dxp will forever think I'm a water sun.
Why's that?
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98% is an exaggeration, but it happens all the time. I'll get random quotes from people extremely astonished to hear I'm a Leo sun. Not going to lie I don't really fit with most dxp Leo suns. Most of us are pretty chill and give good advice while keeping a good reputation and making sure to never go overboard. At the least 1 of those 4. I'm kind of all over the place at any point on any given day. My Leo energy is extremely watered down, which could be really good or bad.
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Ok are we just generalizing Leos or looking deeper into their chart? From what I know, not all Leos are the same. Come on now.
98% of dxp will forever think I'm a water sun.
Why's that?
98% is an exaggeration, but it happens all the time. I'll get random quotes from people extremely astonished to hear I'm a Leo sun. Not going to lie I don't really fit with most dxp Leo suns. Most of us are pretty chill and give good advice while keeping a good reputation and making sure to never go overboard. At the least 1 of those 4. I'm kind of all over the place at any point on any given day. My Leo energy is extremely watered down, which could be really good or bad.
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Hahah, well if it's any consolation, no one ever pegs me as a Leo until I tell them (after they ask). It's pretty obvious here, but outside of DXP it's always a surprise (that's if they know what it even means).
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Ok are we just generalizing Leos or looking deeper into their chart? From what I know, not all Leos are the same. Come on now.
98% of dxp will forever think I'm a water sun.
Why's that?
98% is an exaggeration, but it happens all the time. I'll get random quotes from people extremely astonished to hear I'm a Leo sun. Not going to lie I don't really fit with most dxp Leo suns. Most of us are pretty chill and give good advice while keeping a good reputation and making sure to never go overboard. At the least 1 of those 4. I'm kind of all over the place at any point on any given day. My Leo energy is extremely watered down, which could be really good or bad.
Hahah, well if it's any consolation, no one ever pegs me as a Leo until I tell them (after they ask). It's pretty obvious here, but outside of DXP it's always a surprise (that's if they know what it even means).
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The odd thing for me is people outside of dxp feel I fit Leo perfectly due to my long hair, and facial hair. It's just the people who see my writing tend to think I'm a water sun. I don't think anyone outside of dxp ever guessed my sign, but once I told a few they said I really look like a lion.

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And do Leos like space? Sometimes I want a week to myself to focus on work and shy away from the intensity.
Yes, though it depends on how dire the situation is. Leos generally don't need THAT much space and can be consistently communicative with our partners without any issues. If a Leo loves you, we can be around you almost 24/7 (almost being the operative word here).

However if our lives become very busy or even hectic, we may disappear for a few days (or even a week) if we care about someone. We will check back in at some point though.
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That is complete true. When he needs space he takes longer to respond. Like several hours. But I give him that space and respect it as people sometimes need space to grow. But even then, we talk several times every single day. I don't know if that is healthy because won't the spark disappear after a while? I do think communicating about space is important. Because he was really worried when I disappeared for a day without telling him.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
Nigga what—
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He's a big, fat attention hoor, crying about LEOs.

He'll say anything apparently to get the spotlight.

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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Don't make me hurt your feelings too. You are jumping on the topic right in the middle without knowing whats going on. Otherwise I will hurt your weak fragile ego too and you will learn the new definition of what "no end to it" means.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Eh, I don't really see it as an argument, so I'm indifferent to it. As much of a troll as he appears to be, he clearly NEEDS the attention (specifically from the Leos). At the end of the day it seems that he truly wants to be accepted by us, otherwise he wouldn't care to post here so obsessively. He's also the only person who has tried suggesting that he's "more Leo" than a Leo. Not entierly sure what that's about. Add in the weird domination fantasy references (controlling/punishing Leos and putting us in cages) and it all sounds like a twisted cry for help.

Likewise a troll like this has his uses. If he's the loudest critic we have, other critics may think twice before agreeing with him. As a result I see him more as a sounding board/parody for all of the irrational complaints we see on the Leo boards.
He's a Pisces from what I have observed as a sun sign. Egocentric Pisces like him gotta prove something.
Yeah something. I hope you have a better insight into what that "something is".
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Eh, I don't really see it as an argument, so I'm indifferent to it. As much of a troll as he appears to be, he clearly NEEDS the attention (specifically from the Leos). At the end of the day it seems that he truly wants to be accepted by us, otherwise he wouldn't care to post here so obsessively. He's also the only person who has tried suggesting that he's "more Leo" than a Leo. Not entierly sure what that's about. Add in the weird domination fantasy references (controlling/punishing Leos and putting us in cages) and it all sounds like a twisted cry for help.

Likewise a troll like this has his uses. If he's the loudest critic we have, other critics may think twice before agreeing with him. As a result I see him more as a sounding board/parody for all of the irrational complaints we see on the Leo boards.
He's a Pisces from what I have observed as a sun sign. Egocentric Pisces like him gotta prove something.
Exactly, let him have his fun. Pretty sure the rest of us are all on the same page anyway.
Indeed. Op is confused tho.
Oh look at this. You two found each other agreeing on something useless. Do you hope that will make me feel miserable? I wipe my ass with your opinions and your pages. You are not safe from me. Don't assume it. I will hurt your feelings too. Now that is a certainty. You asked for it.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Don't make me hurt your feelings too. You are jumping on the topic right in the middle without knowing whats going on. Otherwise I will hurt your weak fragile ego too and you will learn the new definition of what "no end to it" means.
I don't give a shit and you won't do shit.
That is exactly what Chuck said too. Now look where it got him. I turned him into my bitch.
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I was planning to date around until he told me straight away that he wanted a committed relationship straight off the bat. He told me he would only be loyal and faithful to me. That I would only receive his love, kisses and kindness. At first, I was freaking out since he talked about marriage and kids. But later, I agreed to be his as well. He said he no longer talks to other girls cause he thinks I am perfect. If no commitment was established, I would never have any fears about this. And I never ask for commitment in the first place in any sort of relationships because I am a commitment phobe. Usually the guys do. I focus too much time on my career and I do have better things to care about.
From what you've said, it doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong. Sounds like you're afraid of getting burned and assuming the worst. If you're a commitmentphobe, then an LDR is the LAST thing you'd want to to do. LDRs are quite difficult on their own. I was in one with a Sag woman years ago that was completely fine and I still ended it due to logistical issues. Regardless, if you can't trust your partner, then you should consider being with someone else. However just know that if you have commitment/trust issues, no relationship can fix that for you.

Yes, Leos can exaggerate at times (actually so do all fire signs), though at other times we actually lead very eventful lives. We like it when things are larger than life. So your Leo may occassionally put on some theatrics. Is that really a big deal? What would you rather have, a guy who sends you flowery emoticons or a guy who ignores you?

Furthermore, you're ALWAYS going to find people who have a something negative to say about any sign. Try going to the Gemini boards and asking this same question about Gemini men. You'll get plenty of people who will to jump on that bandwagon as well. The reality is there are also plenty of faithful Leos in the world. Only time will tell if you've chosen the right one. Remember that all signs lie. All signs have the ability to decive because PEOPLE have the ability to deceive.
Yes it is a big deal. It is a big deal when trust isn't established yet. It is a bad idea to play on people trust (probably unknowingly since he is such a douche bag) through the theatrics because it has a potential to lead to many confusions and misunderstandings.
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
That isn't heat. It's bullshit. I am pretty sure that is what you cook in your kitchen. I hope it stucks in your throat and chokes you to death. Seriously, stop wasting oxygen.
Stop whining, it's unbecoming. If you're going to claim that you're more of a Leo than the rest of us, at least exhibit and iota of dignity.
I see no compromise in dignity while mentally raping you in every unbecoming way. Didn't I say that I place the rules here? Get back to your cage!
It's fun to watch you get bristly.
Every bitch dreams about rape too.
I'm not sure why you keep talking about rape. You need to get a handle on yourself.
Why argue with a troll? You know there is no end to it.
Eh, I don't really see it as an argument, so I'm indifferent to it. As much of a troll as he appears to be, he clearly NEEDS the attention (specifically from the Leos). At the end of the day it seems that he truly wants to be accepted by us, otherwise he wouldn't care to post here so obsessively. He's also the only person who has tried suggesting that he's "more Leo" than a Leo. Not entierly sure what that's about. Add in the weird domination fantasy references (controlling/punishing Leos and putting us in cages) and it all sounds like a twisted cry for help.

Likewise a troll like this has his uses. If he's the loudest critic we have, other critics may think twice before agreeing with him. As a result I see him more as a sounding board/parody for all of the irrational complaints we see on the Leo boards.
He's a Pisces from what I have observed as a sun sign. Egocentric Pisces like him gotta prove something.
Exactly, let him have his fun. Pretty sure the rest of us are all on the same page anyway.
Indeed. Op is confused tho.
Oh look at this. You two found each other agreeing on something useless. Do you hope that will make me feel miserable? I wipe my ass with your opinions and your pages. You are not safe from me. Don't assume it. I will hurt your feelings too. Now that is a certainty. You asked for it.
Eat my shit fish. We both know you won't do shit.
It's crocodile. And crocodiles eat lions.
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