all i wanna know is what libra women want from men

i dont want non of that astrology bull
cuz sometimes it just hold people back ! srsly
but anyways


any thoughts on what libra women are lokking for from and in a man —

thx

sry my spelling suxx but w.e. i just woke up !:p

money and sex

But pre-dominantly mostly money and sex. In that order...

An equal. Someone who truly understands us and we want to get naked with.

I totally disagree with Libra. As a girl who has walked from three trophy wife offers and is very happily dating an out of work actor/filmmaker, I have a leg to stand on with that claim. 🙂

(I was joking?)

Yes libra, you're TOTALLY RIGHT. You do also want this hoard of attention also and not even be emotionally attached or even LIKE the dude, as long as there's money, sex, and attention they really won't ask for more...my type of women lol

Pretty much what libra is saying, the only reason a libra woman wants a man is whenever he has what she wants. There is no real emotion there, even if you truly think you are in love with this person...no, you're just soo indulged with being spoiled it made you afraid of being without this person.

Libra, doesn't that apply to ALL women?

When you've got a roof over your head, a fridge filled with food and generally your primary needs have been met? Hell yeah, money & sex it is.

Never heard of Maslow's pyramid?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs<BR>

LIbra woman wants an equal. She doesn't want a man who wants a woman to have her back, she wants a man who wants a woman to stand by her side, and his hers. She is just as strong a person as any man can be and therefor sees herself as an equal and the man that gets her love will see her as an equal as well.

She wants someone who is strong both on the inside and the outside. She doesn't care much for machismo or ego, in fact this turns her off. Someone with inward strength, the kind of inward strength that other people see even through the persons best display of humility. She wants someone who thinks big and idealistically like she does, but with the determination and conviction to make it happen. Someone she knows that no matter what life throws your way, it is not stronger than the both of you.

She needs the highest level of "silent understanding". Understanding that is just there naturally between herself and the other person, not an understanding that is built through talks and articulation as she sees herself as someone who's character is obvious and if the other person doesn't just see it for what it is, they are not capable of seeing it the way she wants them too.

its like the molecular stability. If you have two oxygen atoms, it reaches it stable stage. you add any other element, it wont be stable. So we do need someone who will be equal to us.

If you listen to Nicodemus then you're sorted...he's an absolute genius on us 🙂

She needs the highest level of "silent understanding".

This is me. I've said that. "I want a relationship without words."

* She needs the highest level of "silent understanding". Understanding that is just there naturally between herself and the other person, not an understanding that is built through talks and articulation as she sees herself as someone who's character is obvious and if the other person doesn't just see it for what it is, they are not capable of seeing it the way she wants them too.

Brillant.

Thank you for articulating this so well. It should just click in place. I don't think any of us want to *work* at it. Love should be play not work.

* LIbra woman wants an equal. She doesn't want a man who wants a woman to have her back, she wants a man who wants a woman to stand by her side, and his hers. She is just as strong a person as any man can be and therefor sees herself as an equal and the man that gets her love will see her as an equal as well.

Absolutely.

I also want to be soft with my partner. I wan't to be childlike, wonderfilled, and playful which is something the outside world doesn't get to see. If I can trust you enough to be soft, you are in.

I DO NOT want someone prying into my emotions, etc. If you do that, you are out because you obviously don't get me. (I am not articulating that well but hopefully you get what I mean.)

Just love us completely, when we're good and when we're bad..learn to read between the lines, trust us, have fun with us, dont let the romance die.

Its as easy as that.

i don't know about anyone else but I want someone who can be childlike without being childish, someone who's creative and kinda stylish. i want someone who i know is there for me and takes care of me without smothering me. someone who has lots of fresh, original ideas. i wonder what sign has those characteristics.

"Its as easy as that".....clear as mud really LOL

****i don't know about anyone else but I want someone who can be childlike without being childish, someone who's creative and kinda stylish. i want someone who i know is there for me and takes care of me without smothering me. someone who has lots of fresh, original ideas. i wonder what sign has those characteristics.****

then you will have to find another libra. no one else can be like this. not even gemini.

*screws up nose and thinks about replying*

Xsillyrabbit,

It sounds like you want another Libra.

+1 about what you and LS said about being childlike. It is very true, if you get a soft touch and a joyfully playfull disposition from a libra girl you are in.

Don't force her to talk about her feelings and emotions, just like the Libra guys they see their feelings and emotions as THEIR feelings and emotions. It will get worked out, weather it is good or not and the front you get in the mean time is not a front, it is their genuine character. The character of someone who feels that their emotions and feelings are their responsibility and that you should understand you are with someone who has the strength to work it out and take life in stride. If you can't understand this about them and let them be them without trying to pry them open you will only be hurt.

The worst thing you can do to yourself with a Libra, man or woman, is not listen to them when it comes to this. Never tell a libra that they are afraid of their emotions, that they are holding themselves back from you....no matter how true it seems if you succumb to this you are missing the point of our character and it is you who are failing to understand. And were, especially the women aren't going to take the time to explain it. You either get it or you don't.

Wha...? What is this?! "Silent Understanding?" A LIBRA—?

I haven't met a libra yet that just doesn't argue about something, let alone not complain about their relationship in any way! "But...you...but...no!!! Relax libra...that was my sister I was talking to, geez! I thought we had a silent understanding!

little_sparrow: I DO NOT want someone prying into my emotions, etc. If you do that, you are out because you obviously don't get me. (I am not articulating that well but hopefully you get what I mean.)

Yessir. There is no way possible to change a libra and the way they feel, even if you brainwash them. If they come around, they come around because they wanted to.

BigD - you must have been fishing for it at the time.

The childlike quality can also describes Leo and Aries.

* no matter how true it seems if you succumb to this you are missing the point of our character and it is you who are failing to understand. And were, especially the women aren't going to take the time to explain it. You either get it or you don't.

Ding! Ding! Ding!

I fucking hate people who tell me how I feel. Oddly, it is mostly Scorps who do this and USUALLY they are dead wrong. It just serves to piss me off because obviously they haven't been paying attention and don't get me. It is such an insult and they generally don't see it.

I've found that Virgos do that too, LS. They can be SO WRONG!

* I've found that Virgos do that too, LS. They can be SO WRONG!

Interesting Atom. I will pay closer attention. 🙂

Oh, and I didn't mean to make it sound like a Libra, either male or female will never emotionally open up to their partner. They will, we actually do this pretty well, but the amount of people we do it with in our life time is far greater than probably any other sign. We do it when we think/know we have found the one; and the point is WE do it, WE CHOSE when, where, and who with to open up and we will do it unconditionally and with great emotional intensity but it will never come with someone who is trying to force us to do it. Never. Even if it seems like it your just getting what we know you need to hear in order to back the F off of it for a while and feel somewhat fulfilled. It is not a matter of deception, or being afraid of anything, it is a matter of it not being any of your business until we say it is any of your business.

And when we do. We are yours. From that point on. When we know, we know and no external circumstance or even turbulance within the relationship will change the fact that we know you are the one we want to be with. We can be extremely upset at others or outside situations and still soft and affectionate with you, we can compartmentalize. That is what it takes to be a fair person. Even if you get us to the point of being defensive, when we are capable of saying very hurtful things, it won't change the fact your still the one. Once we know, we know. Period.

Agreed but hope you are okay Nic.

"Agreed but hope you are okay Nic."

What do you mean? I made the post a little more pointed so it was clearer.

You just sound a little stressed or something. Could be my imagination. It happens.

🙂

***I ing hate people who tell me how I feel. Oddly, it is mostly Scorps who do this and USUALLY they are dead wrong. It just serves to piss me off because obviously they haven't been paying attention and don't get me. It is such an insult and they generally don't see it.***

Sorry LS, couldn't resist. I think it is a misunderstanding on both parts. When we disagree with something you ar saying and have an opposite opinion, then you (libra women in my experience) seem to take as you don't know what you are saying, however, in reality it is just us disagreeing with what you believe to be right. Right is what an individual theselves beleive to be so.

*** seem to take it as we don't know what you are saying.***

***They will, we actually do this pretty well, but the amount of people we do it with in our life time is far greater than probably any other sign. We do it when we think/know we have found the one; and the point is WE do it, WE CHOSE when, where, and who with to open up and we will do it unconditionally and with great emotional intensity***

This has definitely been my experience with Libras, to the point I am taken aback when people express how unemotional Libras are with them.

***Even if you get us to the point of being defensive, when we are capable of saying very hurtful things, it won't change the fact your still the one. Once we know, we know. Period***

And Libras are capable of doing and saying hurtful things believe it or not. It is true they still love anyway and get over arguments and conflicts quite easy when it is with someone they love. Usually, in my experience, they are the first to say "I am sorry". That gets me (when they really mean it of course)